Free in Love

Kaylan Rha

Welcome to Free in Love – the podcast where love gets undressed, desire gets real, and freedom gets felt. This isn’t just talk. It’s a sensual, soulful experience—a space where we strip back the layers and speak from the heart, the hips, and the holy fire of intimacy. Hosted by the radiant, raw, and unfiltered Kaylan Rha, Free in Love dives deep into the delicious mess and magic of relationships. With her signature blend of playfulness and depth, Kaylan explores the real questions: Can we be wild and held? Can we claim our desires without losing ourselves—or each other? Sometimes solo, sometimes joined by her husband and long-time lover Cairo Rha, and often in conversation with other courageous guests, Kaylan leads intimate explorations of what it means to love more freely, f**k more consciously, and live more fully. Expect thoughtful interviews, vulnerable shares, and hot juicy topics that awaken your inner YES. Every episode is more than just a listen—it’s a felt experience. We’ll stir your body with sensual poetry. Slow your breath with visualizations and meditations. Fire up your truth with provocative prompts, courageous challenges, and take-it-to-the-bedroom (or boardroom) practices. Whether you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy, deepening your connection inside a long-term love, or just want to feel more alive in your body and your bonds, Free in Love is your playground. Tune in, drop in, and get turned on—by your truth, your tenderness, and the infinite ways we can be Free in Love. No shame. Just soul, sex, and the sacred art of showing up.

Episodes

  1. Episode 8: "Eros, Devotion & The ART of Awakening" with Luna Agneya

    06/26/2025

    Episode 8: "Eros, Devotion & The ART of Awakening" with Luna Agneya

    🎙️ Episode 8 — Free in Love: “Eros, Devotion & the Art of Awakening” with Luna Agneya In this raw and radiant episode of Free in Love, Kaylan is joined by the eloquent and embodied Luna Agneya for a poetic and profound exploration of love, discernment, and the many pathways home to self. The episode opens with a spoken word poem that touches the essence of Eros—not just as erotic aliveness, but as a nuanced form of love and devotion. Luna speaks into the qualitative nature of Eros as a guide for inner knowing and sacred discernment. Together, we journey into: ✨ The art of navigating a world saturated by sensory overwhelm ✨ Returning to simplicity, stillness, and inner listening ✨ Reclaiming presence, embodied truth, and devotional clarity ✨ The transformation of trauma into trust—within self, with others, and with the universe This episode is for anyone seeking to reawaken their sacred senses, reclaim the wisdom of their body, and rebuild the bridge between intimacy and inner authority. From tantra to somatics, from silence to poetry, this is a conversation that dances between the mystical and the practical—anchoring the sacred into the everyday. About : Luna Agneya (She/ They) www.sensualartistry.com & www.sensualarts.school About: Luna is the Headmistress of the Sensual Arts School, Evolving Eros and the Liberating love Collective, a seasoned Tantrika, Sensualist, Ritualist, and Creatrix with over a decade of experience in the realms of conscious sexuality. As a global facilitator of retreats and workshops, Luna is dedicated to creating trauma-informed, sacred spaces for exploring the erotic and fostering connection with a Queer and Kink friendly lens. Her expertise spans Somatic embodiment, Tantric Yoga, Relationship Transformation and Sacred Sexuality, crafting liberating, healing, and empowering experiences for participants worldwide. Luna's diverse certifications and trainings include VITA Tantric Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching, yoga instruction, breathwork, and Transformational Facilitation and Somatic Shadow Work facilitation. Committed to continuous growth, Luna has immersed herself in the study of NonDual Shaiva Tantra since 2019. As both a teacher and practitioner, she embodies the principles of Embodied Liberation, living as a devotee of Love and Sensuality. Connect with Luna - https://www.sensualarts.school/freebies-and-resources Connect with Kaylan - https://self-craft.mykajabi.com/kaylan-free-in-love-?preview_theme_id=2160355085

    1h 2m
  2. Episode 7: Safety & Freedom - With Guest Maya Lila Di Vento

    06/16/2025

    Episode 7: Safety & Freedom - With Guest Maya Lila Di Vento

    What does it really mean to feel safe—inside your body, your relationships, and your truth? In this powerful and nuanced conversation with somatic guide Maya Lila Di Vento, we explore how cultivating safety is the foundation for authentic freedom. Together, we unpack how safety isn’t just a concept, but a felt sense—one that allows us to shed shame, speak clearly, and live from a place of embodied knowing. We speak to how we can build safe internal containers and create relational spaces where our nervous systems can settle, our truths can be spoken, and our patterns can be witnessed without judgment. Whether you’re just beginning to explore your inner landscape or deepening a path of embodied self-inquiry, this episode is an invitation to reclaim sovereignty over your choices, your voice, and your experience. We touch on how practices like breathwork, somatic movement, inner dialogue, and trauma-informed communication can help dissolve inherited beliefs and support you in living more freely—from your own truth, not someone else’s script. Come home to the knowing that safety and freedom are not opposites. They’re co-creations. And it all begins with the courage to listen within. Maya's - Contactshttps://mayaliladivento.com/https://www.instagram.com/mayaliladivento/Kaylan's - Contactshttps://self-craft.mykajabi.com/kaylan-free-in-love-?preview_theme_id=2160355085Whatsapp- wa.me/66620230938

    1h 4m
  3. 05/30/2025

    Episode 6: Discovery Is My Dance

    In this episode of Free in Love, I take you on a personal journey of reclaiming inner authority, embodied desire, and the bold, beautiful act of naming what I want. Discovery Is My Dance is about what happens when we stop waiting to be chosen—and start choosing ourselves. Through real, raw stories from my own life, I share moments when I felt the intuitive pull of connection, followed it, and spoke my wants, needs, and desires out loud—without apology. Some encounters led to sensual connection, others to deep clarity, and all of them brought me home to myself in a new way. This episode explores: •⁠ ⁠How to move from silence to self-expression •⁠ ⁠Why desire isn’t something to hide, but something to follow •⁠ ⁠The power of taking bold, honest steps toward what you want •⁠ ⁠The sacred space where curiosity meets courage •⁠ ⁠Why rejection doesn’t mean failure—it means clarity. Not everyone is meant for you. This is a game of refining your discernment. And sometimes, you don’t know what’s true for you until you’ve met what isn’t. Whether it’s through a glance, a question, or a clear yes—I share how I’ve learned to trust myself, speak directly, and embrace the full-body yes that leads to deep discovery and freedom. This is an invitation to stop sitting on the sidelines of your own life. To get in the game. To feel. To ask. To claim. Because every moment of courageous curiosity reshapes who you are becoming. Listen now to Discovery Is My Dance and step into the power of your own unfolding. Be In Touch 👇🏽 https://www.selfcraft.com/kaylan-link-page

    40 min
  4. Episode 4 - "I am Every Woman, and Every Woman is Me.

    05/09/2025

    Episode 4 - "I am Every Woman, and Every Woman is Me.

    Podcast Free in Love: Episode 4 “I’m Every Woman, and Every Woman is Me: Elemental Forces, Erotic Archetypes & Co-Creating Intimacy” This episode was born from a moment of unexpected clarity. Years ago, during an intimate moment with my husband, I had a sudden, embodied realization: I could be any woman. The seductress. The dominatrix. The innocent girl. The queen. And in that moment, I saw it—not just in the bedroom, but in life: I’m not who I think I am. I’m who I choose to be. I am shapeshifter. Archetype. Element. Expression. And every woman lives within me. That experience became the inspiration for this episode. It’s an exploration of archetypal and elemental embodiment—the wild, the erotic, the sacred, the sovereign—and how relating (especially in our open relationship) can be a mirror for discovering parts of ourselves we didn’t know were waiting to rise. Cairo and I dive into how different partners, different dynamics, and different invitations have called forth different versions of me—and how learning to be present, curious, and playful has opened the doorway to so much joy, erotic freedom, and relational depth. We also share a few personal stories (some funny, some awkward, all real) and touch on how foundational principles like clear context, co-creation, honest dialogue and exploring desires can help us build the kinds of connections that feel expansive and true. This conversation is spontaneous, raw, and unfiltered—not polished, but alive none the less. So tune in with a sense of play. This one’s for the women who long to remember: You are not just one version of yourself. You are many. And every force of nature lives in you. You just need to be brave enough to tap in, turn on, and show up.

    46 min
  5. Episode 3: "The Skin I’m I"n – Reclaiming the Wild Woman

    04/27/2025

    Episode 3: "The Skin I’m I"n – Reclaiming the Wild Woman

    This one is for the women daring to love the mirror again. The ones remembering who they are. The ones remapping the story of their bodies—it's time to rise and shine ladies. In this soul-stirring solo episode, Kaylan Rha invites you into an intimate reflection on womanhood, erotic reclamation, and the radical choice to love the body you’re in. Through personal storytelling and the spoken-word poem The Skin I’m In, she traces the sacred transitions from Maiden to Mother to Wild Woman—not just as archetypes, but as lived experiences. This is an episode for anyone who’s ever looked in the mirror and wondered, Who am I now? Who do I choose to be? Kaylan explores the many “hats” women wear—lover, mother, wife, practitioner, daughter, community member—and what it means to shed the ones that no longer fit while reclaiming those that awaken truth, power, and pleasure. She shares candidly about leaving behind old stories, embracing her sensuality after 16 years of marriage, and how redefining her relationship with her body became a gateway to deeper embodiment, vitality, and love. This podcast is about rising without shame, and remembering that your reflection isn’t something to fix. It’s something to witness. To worship. To restory. Connect with Kaylan Rha @ www.selfcraft.com If this episode moves something in you—share your thoughts, questions, or reflections directly with Kaylan via WhatsApp: +66 62 023 0938

    1h 15m
  6. Episode 2: How We Chose to Be Free in Love - The Real Story of Awakening, Sensual Healing, & Expanding Together.

    04/18/2025

    Episode 2: How We Chose to Be Free in Love - The Real Story of Awakening, Sensual Healing, & Expanding Together.

    What if the love of your life also became the person you dared to expand with, heal with, and awaken your deepest sensual truths alongside? In this intimate, raw, and revelatory episode, Kaylan and Cairo Rha open the door to their inner world—and invite you in. Together for nearly two decades, Kaylan and Cairo share the untold backstory of their marriage: one rooted in deep trust, growth-oriented love, and a shared commitment to inner and relational work. From early foundations of self-development, couples practices, and group work, their bond was forged not just in romance, but in resilience. But even the strongest roots can face a drought. Over time, they realized their sensuality had gone quiet, their sexual connection stalled—not from a lack of love, but from unspoken needs and unexplored desires. What followed was a courageous journey into healing, beginning with tantric and somatic therapies and eventually opening into a much deeper question: Could we open our marriage—not to lose each other, but to find more of ourselves? In this episode, they explore: The early dynamics of their attachment styles—Kaylan’s secure-avoidant leaning vs. Cairo’s anxious-preoccupied edge How years of personal and shared work laid the groundwork for profound honesty Their decision to move from conceptual curiosity into embodied exploration The fears, edges, and awakenings that came as they slowly invited open relating into their marriage The role of their signature ARC framework: Awakened Awareness, Radical Regulation, and Conscious Creation How trust, somatic wisdom, and communication became the pillars of navigating this new terrain Whether you’re curious about open relationships, navigating desire in long-term love, or seeking a story of conscious partnership, this episode offers a candid, compassionate, and deeply human lens on what it really means to be Free in Love. Come for the love story. Stay for the awakening.

    53 min
  7. Episode 1: The Call - To Awaken the Wild Woman Within

    04/11/2025

    Episode 1: The Call - To Awaken the Wild Woman Within

    Welcome to Free in Love: Unfiltered and Raw with me, Kaylan Rha. This is where love strips down and gets real. Where freedom, sex, attachment, and communication meet in bold, beautiful conversation. Where the sacred and the sensual intertwine. In this space, we explore the wild paradox of it all—how we long to feel secure and free… how we ache for intimacy while craving sovereignty. Whether you’re dancing inside a long-term love, opening to non-traditional relationship dynamics, rolling solo, or deepening your connection to yourself, this podcast is here to stir something deep within you. Each episode is a journey. You’ll hear personal stories, raw reflections, and lived wisdom—straight from my own heart and body to yours. You’ll be invited to pause at any moment, to Stop, Drop, and Feel—through mindful moments, provocative prompts, or soul-awakening questions. We’ll breathe together. Reflect together. You might be turned on. You might be cracked open. You’ll definitely be invited to get honest—with yourself and with the ones you love. Expect visceral content—erotic poetry, courageous conversations, guided practices, and spicy truths. Expect to be moved—from the inside out. So, Tune in. Turn on. & Step up. This is your permission slip to be bold, unfiltered, and unapologetically YOU—in your sex, your love, your truth, and your freedom. And hey—if you’ve got something to share, a reflection, a desire, or even some juicy erotic poetry you’d love me to read on air… I want to hear from you. Let’s co-create this space together. Thanks for tuning in, beautiful being. Live boldly. Love deliciously. Be unapologetically YOU.

    41 min

About

Welcome to Free in Love – the podcast where love gets undressed, desire gets real, and freedom gets felt. This isn’t just talk. It’s a sensual, soulful experience—a space where we strip back the layers and speak from the heart, the hips, and the holy fire of intimacy. Hosted by the radiant, raw, and unfiltered Kaylan Rha, Free in Love dives deep into the delicious mess and magic of relationships. With her signature blend of playfulness and depth, Kaylan explores the real questions: Can we be wild and held? Can we claim our desires without losing ourselves—or each other? Sometimes solo, sometimes joined by her husband and long-time lover Cairo Rha, and often in conversation with other courageous guests, Kaylan leads intimate explorations of what it means to love more freely, f**k more consciously, and live more fully. Expect thoughtful interviews, vulnerable shares, and hot juicy topics that awaken your inner YES. Every episode is more than just a listen—it’s a felt experience. We’ll stir your body with sensual poetry. Slow your breath with visualizations and meditations. Fire up your truth with provocative prompts, courageous challenges, and take-it-to-the-bedroom (or boardroom) practices. Whether you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy, deepening your connection inside a long-term love, or just want to feel more alive in your body and your bonds, Free in Love is your playground. Tune in, drop in, and get turned on—by your truth, your tenderness, and the infinite ways we can be Free in Love. No shame. Just soul, sex, and the sacred art of showing up.