Heart First, Head Later: Love Hard. Lust Harder.

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Welcome to Heart First, Head Later your unfiltered guide to the messy, funny, and real sides of modern love. Whether you’re dating, divorced, or just figuring it all out, we’re diving into relationships, sex, breakups, and everything in between. From swiping disasters to emotional breakthroughs, nothing is off-limits. Expect honest convos, a little sass, and zero shame. Because love isn’t always pretty but it’s always worth talking about.

  1. Mar 8

    Episode 52: Want vs. Need

    I asked Steve a simple question on TikTok: Would you rather be wanted or needed in a relationship? And the comments exploded. This question taps into something deeper than people realize. It’s not just about love. It’s about identity, security, and the role we believe we’re supposed to play in someone else’s life.

    13 min

  2. Feb 18

    Episode 51: Curiosity Changes Everything

    What if the problem isn’t dating it’s how quickly we decide who someone is? In this episode, we explore the complexities of modern dating, from the pressure of instant chemistry to the expectations placed on timelines and outcomes. We talk about the power of communication, trust, and honesty, the limitations of dating apps, and why staying curious rather than critical can lead to deeper, more authentic connections.

    31 min

  3. Feb 9

    Episode 50: Valentine’s Day: A Stress Test For Dating

    Honestly, we hate how commercialized it feels, candies, flowers, and expectations. But what if the little things mattered more? Like leaving a note, a surprise visit, or just a genuine compliments those are the real sparks. We forget love isn’t about grand gestures or once-a-year obligations. It’s about making each day count, even in the simple moments.

    14 min

  4. Jan 18

    Episode 49: Dating Apps Are the Hunger Games

    One day you’re vibing, the next day you’re being ghosted. We’re talking about the chaos of dating apps, why they feel exhausting, how to stay confident, and what to do when you start spiraling from too many options and not enough emotional maturity.

    27 min

  5. Jan 4

    Episode 48 (A Short): Cat Blocked

    When your cat decides now is the moment for attention. Romance? Interrupted. #couplegoals #podcast #shorts #funnymoments #cats #relatable #fyp

    29 sec

  6. Jan 4

    Episode 47: There Is No Universal Timeline for Love

    We talk about timing in relationships like it’s a rulebook as if everyone should want the same things at the same pace, in the same order. But real connection doesn’t work that way. In this episode, we're unpacking why timing isn’t one-size-fits-all and why forcing someone (or yourself) into a timeline that doesn’t feel aligned can quietly sabotage something good.

    32 min

  7. 12/29/2025

    Episode 46: Is Talking About Your Ex Actually Healthy?

    Talking about your ex isn’t “living in the past.” It’s honoring the experiences that shaped you. In this episode, Steve and I talk about why your past relationships aren’t a threat they’re context. When your partner can hold space for your history without insecurity, that’s emotional safety. Healing means you don’t erase your story. You understand it.

    25 min

  8. 12/14/2025

    Episode 45: Real Love, Real Talk

    This episode is a little different in the best way. For the first time, I’m inviting my boyfriend, Steve, into the Heart First, Head Later space to talk about what it actually looks like to build a healthy relationship in real time not after everything is “figured out,” but while you’re still learning each other.

    27 min
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Welcome to Heart First, Head Later your unfiltered guide to the messy, funny, and real sides of modern love. Whether you’re dating, divorced, or just figuring it all out, we’re diving into relationships, sex, breakups, and everything in between. From swiping disasters to emotional breakthroughs, nothing is off-limits. Expect honest convos, a little sass, and zero shame. Because love isn’t always pretty but it’s always worth talking about.

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