Baby Gay: Queer Culture Unfiltered

PJ Brescia
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The BabyGay™ Podcast drops every Thursday...your front-row seat to real, unfiltered queer stories. Hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and recorded at the iconic Black Cat in Silverlake, CA, birthplace of queer resistance.Each week, PJ sits down with incredible guests to talk about coming out, awkward first kisses, career paths, and those big, beautiful “aha” moments that make us who we are. It’s funny, heartfelt, and unapologetically queer.Beyond the mic, BabyGay™ is a community — the team behind the campaign that helped make National Coming Out Day an official Los Angeles city holiday, and creators of the Welcome-Wagon Box initiative, supporting people through their coming out journey.Subscribe, share, and join our chosen family. Whether you’re questioning, newly out, or just love authentic LGBTQ+ stories... you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. And remember: there’s no “right way” to be queer.Welcome to BabyGay. Coming out looks good on you! 🌈

  1. 1D AGO

    Jorge Valencia: Coming Out Later & Uplifting the Next Generation

    Send a text Feeling alone in your coming out journey? This episode is for you. On this week’s BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with Jorge Valencia (he/him), CEO of Point Foundation—the nation’s largest scholarship-granting organization for LGBTQ+ and ally students. Jorge shares his powerful coming out story, growing up in a Mormon Latino family in Texas and coming out at 28. From Brigham Young University (BYU) to Washington, D.C. and the Clinton administration, to leading The Trevor Project during a period of major national growth. We talk about LGBTQ+ identity, queer visibility, and why so many LGBTQ youth still feel alone today...plus how education and mentorship can become the “light at the end of the tunnel.” Through his leadership at Point Foundation, Jorge is helping thousands of LGBTQ students access scholarships, build community, and step into their future as leaders. Point Foundation’s new campaign launches February 26, 2026, with a goal to raise $625,000 in 125 days to support 1,250 LGBTQ+ students by the end of Pride. Links:  🌈 Learn more + support Point Foundation: pointfoundation.org Follow: @pointfoundation Follow: @babygaytv BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    47 min

  2. FEB 19

    Lauren Weedman: HBO's Looking, Pride & Queer History in the Castro

    Send a text What happens when one of the funniest women on television walks into The BabyGay™ Podcast? We almost peed our pants. You’ll see... This week, PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with actress, comedienne, writer, painter, and recent Las Vegas Pride Celebrity Grand Marshal,  Lauren Weedman (she/her). From her scene-stealing turn as Doris on HBO’s Looking to her unforgettable Mayor of Las Vegas on Hacks, Lauren has built a career playing bold, complicated, and wildly funny women. You’ve also seen her in Hung, The Daily Show, Date Night, Arrested Development, Euphoria, and her many acclaimed solo shows. In this episode, Lauren shares behind-the-scenes stories from Looking, reflects on filming in San Francisco’s Castro and realizing she was stepping into living LGBTQ+ history, and talks about growing up around closeted gay men in the ’80s. The conversation swings from dating disasters to Pride parades, from body image to creative obsession. Literally… I almost peed. Get tickets to Lauren’s upcoming show, I Want the Best For You, on March 20 at The Crow at Bergamot Station in Santa Monica. She’ll be auctioning her artwork to benefit CHIRLA (The Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights). Coming out looks good on you! 🌈 Follow Lauren:  IG: @lauren_weedman Art: @thisoneistitled www.LaurenWeedman.com BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    1h 10m

  3. FEB 12

    Ross Alan: Nonbinary Singer-Songwriter Redefining Country with “Country Disco”

    Send a text What would change if you finally let yourself wear the dress — or whatever you’ve been too scared to try? On this week’s BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with Ross Alan (they/them), a nonbinary singer-songwriter blending Midwest country roots with disco energy into their signature “country disco” sound. Growing up in small-town Ohio, Ross struggled with faith, identity, and the pressure to hide their queerness. Now based in Los Angeles, they share their coming out story, what it means to identify as nonbinary, and the therapy breakthrough that helped them finally give themselves permission to live fully and out loud. PJ and Ross talk about deconstructing Christianity, coming out without a dramatic “moment,” embracing gender expression in public for the first time, and why crying isn’t weakness...it’s a superpower. Ross’s latest single “Loveland” is dropping this Valentine’s Day season on Friday, 2/13! Links: Listen to “Loveland”Watch the "Cry Again" official music videoFollow @RossAlanMusicwww.RossAlanMusic.comBabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    56 min

  4. FEB 5

    Nick Davis: From Broadway Performer to Endurance Athlete

    Send a text Ever felt out of place in the fitness community? You’re not alone...and this episode is for you. Nick Davis, a New York City–based performer and endurance athlete, joins The BabyGay™ Podcast to share how a decade in professional musical theater...including the Broadway national tour of Cats...shaped his discipline, resilience, and athletic mindset. Now competing as the only out LGBTQ athlete on Trainer Games (Prime Video), Nick opens up about his coming out journey, navigating hyper-masculine athletic spaces, and why visibility, empathy, and self-trust matter just as much as physical strength. Links & Resources 🎧 Watch Trainer Games on Prime Video 💪 Follow Nick Davis 🌐 Nick Davis Fitness 🎙️ The BabyGay™ Podcast 🏳️‍🌈 BabyGay™ Community & Resources BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    1h 2m

  5. JAN 29

    Jeff Consoletti: Building Pride Beyond June

    Send a text Want to celebrate Pride all year long? You can...thanks to Jeff Consoletti. On this week’s The BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with Jeff Consoletti (he/him), Founder & CEO of JJLA and creator of OUTLOUD. Jeff shares how OUTLOUD was built, why Pride can’t be limited to one month, and what it takes to create queer stages and music festivals that exist year-round. He also opens up about coming out, the pressure to constantly overachieve, and how learning to slow down, set boundaries, and take care of himself has made him a stronger leader...and a more grounded human. 🎶 Happening This Sunday (2/1): Jeff & OUTLOUD are hosting an OUTLOUD Grammy Watch Party at The Abbey in West Hollywood! ✨ Coming out looks good on you! Links: OUTLOUD Grammy Watch Party (2/1)Jeff Consoletti IGJJLA IGOUTLOUD Music FestivalOUTLOUD InstagramBabyGay™ IGBabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    56 min

  6. JAN 21

    Dana Goldberg: The Power of Comedy & Coming Out

    Send a text Ever felt the pressure to hide your true self just to protect your career...or your sense of safety? On this week’s The BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with comedian, activist, and podcast host Dana Goldberg, a fellow Out100 Honoree from the 2025 class, for a powerful conversation about coming out, creativity, and choosing authenticity when the stakes feel high. Dana shares the moment she had to decide whether to be out on stage, after watching other comedians’ careers suffer for that choice...and how comedy ultimately became the thing that helped save her life. From finding queer community and chosen family, to raising over $70 million for LGBTQ+ causes, to co-hosting The Daily Beans, Dana reflects on how humor, honesty, and courage can change lives. We talk about the real fear behind coming out, why authenticity matters more than perfection, and the advice Dana would give her “baby self”...and anyone still learning to trust who they are. Links: 🎙️ Follow Dana Goldberg: @DGComedy 🌐 Dana’s website: danagoldberg.com 🎟️ Get tickets to Dana’s OUTRAGEOUS Tour at danagoldberg.com 🎧 Listen to The Daily Beans 🌈 Learn more about BabyGay™ BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    1h 10m

  7. JAN 14

    Jay Valle: How Queer Storytelling Saves Lives

    Send a text Ever wondered how journalism can actually save lives? On this week’s The BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with Jay Valle, a GLAAD Media Award–winning journalist with NBC News, whose investigative reporting helped expose and stop a deadly pattern targeting gay men in New York City. Recorded at the historic Black Cat in Silver Lake, this episode shows how storytelling can create real, life-saving change. Jay shares how following one overlooked case led to uncovering drugging, robbery, and murder rings preying on queer men—reporting that contributed to arrests, indictments, and new safety awareness across LGBTQ+ nightlife spaces. Beyond the headlines, Jay opens up about his coming-out journey, chosen family, and what it means to feel truly seen and heard. If you’ve ever felt alone or unsure of your path, this conversation is for you. Links:  📰 Follow Jay Valle: @theofficialjayvalle 🎧 Listen to The BabyGay™ Podcast 🌈 Learn more about BabyGay™ Coming out looks good on you! BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    1h 2m

  8. JAN 7

    Love Bailey: Queer Art Is Your Resistance

    Send a text Feeling stuck, unseen, or navigating your queer or trans identity? You’re not alone. On this week’s BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with cultural visionary, musician, and activist Love Bailey for a bold conversation about gender identity, self-expression, and queer resistance. Love shares her journey as a trans woman raised by a showgirl grandmother and a retired Air Force veteran grandfather, and how art, fashion, and music became tools for survival and liberation. We talk unlearning shame, embracing gender fluidity, chosen family, and using creativity to push back against rising anti-LGBTQ+ legislation. The episode also highlights DollHaus LA — an LGBTQ+ safe space, community center, photo + video studio, and in-Haus production hub — and why creating space for queer joy and expression is more important than ever. Coming out looks good on you! Links: Love Bailey — music (stream on all platforms) Follow Love Bailey: Instagram / YouTube: @loveisbailey Follow BabyGay™: @babygaytv BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity. Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat. Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytv www.baby.gay

    45 min
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The BabyGay™ Podcast drops every Thursday...your front-row seat to real, unfiltered queer stories. Hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and recorded at the iconic Black Cat in Silverlake, CA, birthplace of queer resistance.Each week, PJ sits down with incredible guests to talk about coming out, awkward first kisses, career paths, and those big, beautiful “aha” moments that make us who we are. It’s funny, heartfelt, and unapologetically queer.Beyond the mic, BabyGay™ is a community — the team behind the campaign that helped make National Coming Out Day an official Los Angeles city holiday, and creators of the Welcome-Wagon Box initiative, supporting people through their coming out journey.Subscribe, share, and join our chosen family. Whether you’re questioning, newly out, or just love authentic LGBTQ+ stories... you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. And remember: there’s no “right way” to be queer.Welcome to BabyGay. Coming out looks good on you! 🌈

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