Your Favorite Expats

Your Favorite Exes

Welcome to Your Favorite Exes, a podcast where two best friends from America navigate life abroad. We’re Hope and Victoria, two 30-somethings who met in college in Boston and bonded over red velvet cupcakes, terrible weather, and nonstop talking. After over a decade of friendship, we’re both in Barcelona, figuring out life abroad—one tapa at a time. We’ll share what it really means to start over in a new country—beyond the Pinterest board. Whether you're here for the stories, a travel lover, or trying to get the hell out of where you are, grab a glass of cava and meet your new favorite exes.

Episodes

  1. 06/10/2025

    Diagnosis: Confused (But Covered?)

    Say Ahhh...broad! American healthcare: expensive, complicated, familiar. European healthcare: affordable, efficient, confusing. Is there no co-pay, or did I just doctor-and-dash? Should I stock up on children’s Tylenol on my next trip back to the US? From kids’ checkups in a foreign language to adult-sized confusion at the pharmacy, we’re sharing what it’s like to be sick (or just slightly concerned) in a brand-new system. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: ⁠https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexes⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    47 min

  2. 06/03/2025

    Passport, Suitcase, Identity Crisis

    Are you still you if your zip code, friend group, language, and grocery store snacks have all changed? In this episode, we dive into the complicated question of identity abroad. From subtle shifts in how we speak or dress to major parenting pivots—we're figuring out whether moving abroad rewrites your personality—or just edits it in a different font. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexes Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    58 min

  3. 05/30/2025

    Lost in Translation

    Moving abroad sounds exciting—until you’re at the doctor’s office or a parent-teacher meeting with zero clue what’s going on. In this episode, we get real about what it’s actually like to learn a new language while building a life in a new country. From awkward conversations and unexpected wins to feeling guilty about not being fluent “yet,” we talk about what helps, what doesn’t, and why asking for support isn’t a weakness—it’s survival. Whether you’re mixing up verbs or just trying to make a friend, this one’s for you. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: ⁠https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes⁠

    55 min

  4. 05/22/2025

    Interview Series Part 2 - Expat Mom Life, Unpacked

    Hope is Google Translating her way through parenting abroad. In Part 2 of our interview series, Victoria’s asking all the questions about being a mom in a foreign country. How do you choose a school from halfway across the world? And is that toddler babble—or a Spanish word we just haven’t learned yet?We dig into what it’s like to sort through unfamiliar parenting norms—deciding which ones to embrace, and which to toss out with the stale breadsticks.It’s an honest look at raising kids far from home: new challenges, new snacks, and the weirdly wonderful ways discomfort builds resilience (for both you *and* your tiny humans).If you’re thinking about parenting in a place where you don’t even know the word for “diaper,” this one’s for you.Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    57 min

  5. 05/13/2025

    Interview Series Part 1 - Clocking In, Abroad

    Welcome to part one of our two-part interview series! This week, Hope channels her inner journalist and puts Victoria in the hot seat to talk all things working abroad. From Corporate America to Café Culture, we unpack what it’s really like to live and work in Spain—and how it shapes everything from career goals to daily routines. Spoiler: slower doesn’t mean slacking. Next week, we flip the mic. Victoria will interview Hope about parenting abroad (yes, we’re talking navigating the school system in a second language). If you've ever wondered what it’s like to quit the grind and take your laptop to Europe—this one’s for you. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    34 min

  6. 05/06/2025

    What Do You Mean My Apartment Doesn’t Have a Fridge?

    Moving to Barcelona and realizing unfurnished means literally four walls and a prayer. In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our chaotic journeys to find apartments abroad—complete with mystery rental contracts and miscommunication. We navigate second-hand shopping like it’s a scavenger hunt, debate whether a couch is a luxury or a necessity, and slowly unravel the complicated and beautiful world of European rental life. It’s part travel diary and part therapy session. Spain/European Home Store options for furnishing an unfurnished apartment Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    36 min

  7. 04/29/2025

    Where to Next?

    Ever wonder how to choose the right country to live in? It’s not just about picking somewhere "cool" — there’s a lot more to consider when making a big move abroad! In this episode, we dive into the how-to of picking the perfect place, from finances and language barriers to figuring out how often you’ll want to fly back home. We’ll chat about the realities of travel vs. living somewhere long-term, and why some cities (even if they’re dreamy) just might not be worth the price tag. We also discuss important things to consider, like whether you want to live in the suburbs, a city, or rural areas, and how to test out the vibe of a place—from public transport to language barriers and getting lost in a new neighborhood. Ready to start your own adventure? Tune in to get all the advice you need before you pack your bags! Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: ⁠https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    39 min

  8. 04/22/2025

    What do I come back for?

    Going back home after moving abroad isn’t always as simple as booking a flight. From juggling family expectations to squeezing in time with friends (all while trying to enjoy your trip), visiting home can be an emotional, financial, and logistical challenge. In this episode, we unpack the pressures of returning home—who gets priority, what events you feel obligated to attend, and whether you “owe” more visits because you left. We also dive into the trade-offs of using vacation time to go home versus exploring new places and how to set boundaries to make visits more enjoyable and less exhausting. If you’ve ever struggled with homecoming guilt or felt torn between two places, this one’s for you. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    55 min

  9. 04/15/2025

    The International Friendship Playbook

    Making friends as an expat? It’s like speed dating - except instead of romance, you’re desperately searching for someone who knows where to buy a decent couch. Some friendships fizzle after a quick coffee, while others take you all the way to a wedding dance floor. Let’s be real: keeping long-distance friendships alive across time zones is an extreme sport. Good communication is essential, but way harder than it sounds. And inter-continental girls’ trips can’t fully ease the heartbreak of constantly saying goodbye. The upside? You build a global crew that spans cultures and continents, and create group chats that never sleep. Bonus? You’ll have a couch to crash on wherever you land. 🌍✨ Book mentioned - ⁠Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends  ⁠ Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    42 min

  10. 04/08/2025

    My Sh*t Needs To Get There

    Packing up your life and moving abroad is equal parts exciting and overwhelming. In this episode, we unravel the brain-melting chaos of deciding what to take, sell, or leave behind. Google Sheets Girlies - grab your laptop and a glass of wine. From shipping vs. storage to must-know packing hacks, we’ve got you covered. Moving is a team sport. We’ll dive into how friends can make the process smoother and how social media can help you set up life in a new country - without ever boarding the plane. Oh, and if you're bringing a pet along? We’ve got some stories (and tips) for you too. Link to Vacuum sealed bags for packing/traveling - For more must have items click here. Join the conversation—DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    46 min

  11. 04/03/2025

    So You Think You Want To Move?

    Thinking about moving abroad? Whether it's for adventure, career opportunities, or the growing urge to get the hell out of where you are, making the leap is a huge decision. In this episode, we break down the emotional and practical sides of relocating - why people do it, what challenges to expect, and how to know if it's the right move for you. We share our experiences of moving abroad at different stages of life (kids versus DINKs), the misconceptions we had, and the realities that met us at the Barcelona airport. Plus, we dive into the emotional weight of leaving behind your community and the challenges (and joys!) of building a new one. If you've been daydreaming (or catastrophe planning) about packing up and starting fresh in a new country, this episode is for you. Stay tuned for the next episode, where we get into the nitty-gritty of moving logistics - yes, including how to bring your pets along! 🐾 Join the conversation - DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    44 min

  12. 03/26/2025

    Meet Your Favorite Exes (Expats)

    Welcome to our first episode! We’re best friends from the US who met in college 13 years ago. Victoria hopped on a plane from Boston to Barcelona in 2020, and Hope followed 4 years later. In this episode, we share a little about ourselves, the different paths that brought us abroad, and why we started a podcast about what it really means to start over in a new country. Join the conversation - DM us your expat stories & questions! Website: https://www.yourfavoriteexes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfavoriteexpats/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfavoriteexespodcast?_t=ZT-8wJxwJENG4k&_r=1 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourFavoriteExes

    23 min
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Welcome to Your Favorite Exes, a podcast where two best friends from America navigate life abroad. We’re Hope and Victoria, two 30-somethings who met in college in Boston and bonded over red velvet cupcakes, terrible weather, and nonstop talking. After over a decade of friendship, we’re both in Barcelona, figuring out life abroad—one tapa at a time. We’ll share what it really means to start over in a new country—beyond the Pinterest board. Whether you're here for the stories, a travel lover, or trying to get the hell out of where you are, grab a glass of cava and meet your new favorite exes.

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