Free From P*rn

Richard Young
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This isn’t another “try harder” purity podcast.It’s not about white-knuckling your way to freedom or stacking up shame-fueled accountability check-ins.This is about transformation.Real, lasting, gospel-centered freedom from pornography—not someday, but today.Hosted by former addicts turned freedom coaches, Richard Young and Justin Khoe, Free from Porn is a no-shame, no-fluff conversation rooted in one bold truth: If Jesus has set you free from sin, then porn doesn’t get to define you. Each episode exposes the lies keeping you stuck, renews your mind with truth from God’s Word, and helps you walk out the freedom you already have in Christ. Expect raw honesty, biblical clarity, practical strategy, and stories from people who’ve actually broken free—not because they got stronger, but because they started believing what Jesus already said was true.

  1. DEC 17

    #37 The Practice That Changes Everything

    The holidays have a way of stirring up old thoughts, old emotions, and old coping patterns. Family gatherings, financial pressure, grief, loneliness, and anxiety can all collide at once—and when anxiety rises, the mind often reaches for the same “solution” it always has. Porn isn’t the problem. It’s the relief valve we’ve learned to pull when tension feels unbearable. In this episode of the Free From Porn podcast, Richard Young teaches a simple but powerful practice that changes everything: learning to observe your thoughts instead of fighting them—and relaxing around the feelings they trigger. You’ll discover why resisting or suppressing anxious thoughts actually makes them stronger, how to step out of the mental “roller coaster,” and what it looks like to take thoughts captive by staying present, relaxed, and grounded in Christ. As you head into the busy Christmas season, this episode will help you: Understand why anxiety—not desire—is the real driver behind porn useLearn how to observe thoughts without identifying with themPractice relaxing your body and nervous system when triggers ariseExperience how peace replaces compulsion when tension is releasedWalk through the holidays conscious, free, and no longer medicating stressThis isn’t about trying harder or fighting your mind. It’s about learning how to live from peace—where thoughts lose their power, urges pass, and freedom becomes your new normal.

    12 min

  2. DEC 10

    #36 The Day I Almost Joined a Cult (and What It Taught Me About Temptation)

    Justin shares two hilarious stories of almost joining a cult—and we use them to unpack why old thoughts, temptations, and guilt still show up even when you’re walking in freedom. Learn how to “unsubscribe” from old mental patterns, retrain your mind’s algorithm, and stop taking every thought personally so you can keep walking in the freedom Christ already gave you.

    16 min

  3. DEC 3

    #36 When Holiday Triggers Become Your Path to Freedom

    n this episode of the Free From Porn podcast, host Richard Young dives into one of the most overlooked pressure-cookers of the year: the holiday season. For many, Thanksgiving and Christmas bring joy… but they also bring stress, old triggers, family dynamics, and emotional weight that can feel overwhelming. But what if those very triggers were invitations—not setbacks? Richard unpacks why moments of pressure are often the same moments that used to drive you to medicate with porn… and how this season can become a sacred opportunity to renew your mind, release old patterns, and walk in the peace that’s already yours in Christ. From Paul’s words in Philippians 4 to the practice of getting alone with God in the “secret place,” this episode shows you how to turn holiday anxiety into holy ground. You'll learn how to: Bring your anxieties to God instead of numbing themRecognize triggers as opportunities for transformationLet the peace of God guard your heart and mindBuild new habits of freedom in the moments that used to break youStep back into family settings with calm, clarity, and Christ’s life flowing through youWhether you're listening before Thanksgiving or weeks afterward, this conversation will help you walk into any environment—family gatherings, stressful moments, old memories—with peace, gratitude, and unshakeable identity. This holiday season, your buttons aren’t setbacks.  They’re invitations to freedom.

    7 min

  4. NOV 19

    #35 The Day Richard Almost Drowned (and What It Teaches About Anxiety)

    In this episode of the Free From Porn Podcast, Justin and Richard kick things off with a hilarious question: “What’s the manliest thing you’ve ever done?” What starts as jokes about peeing standing up and awkward gym compliments quickly turns into a story that nearly ends in disaster—Richard almost drowning at a Hawaiian beach because he fought the waves instead of letting himself float. But that moment becomes the doorway into a much deeper conversation about white-knuckling, rumination, anxiety, and why so many men exhaust themselves trying to “fight the waves” of life, urges, or stress. Justin breaks down the real meaning of Philippians 4:13 (hint: it’s not about doing backflips for Jesus), and together they unpack why: Most people aren’t sinning because they’re evil—they’re medicating because they’re overwhelmed.Trying to out-think your anxieties only drags you deeper into the rip current.Freedom isn’t found in controlling the waves—it’s found in learning to float.If you’ve ever felt like life is “lifeing,” like you're trying to fix circumstances you can’t fix, or like your urges spike the moment stress rises, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. You don’t need more force.  You don’t need more self-hatred.  You don’t need to swim harder. You need to learn the art of endurance, peace, and floating with Jesus in the middle of the waves. This episode will show you how. Tune in now.

    15 min

  5. NOV 12

    #34 Why Trying Harder Keeps You Stuck

    In this episode of the Free From Porn Podcast, Richard Young unpacks one of the most counterintuitive truths about freedom — that trying harder often makes things worse. Drawing from psychology and Scripture, Richard explains the “law of reversed effort,” showing how willpower alone can reinforce the very habits you’re trying to break. You’ll learn why striving, white-knuckling, and obsessing over sin only deepen the struggle — and how true transformation happens when you relax into grace. If you’ve ever felt frustrated that your best efforts still lead to failure, this episode will help you understand why. You’ll see that freedom isn’t found in more effort — it’s found in changing the picture you hold of yourself. Key themes: Why trying harder reinforces bad habitsThe law of reversed effort and imagination vs. willHow identity in Christ rewires your behavior from the inside outThe power of relaxing into grace instead of striving for freedomListen now to discover how to stop fighting for freedom and start living from it.

    8 min

  6. NOV 7

    #33 When Grace Becomes a Ditch

    What happens when freedom turns into permission? In this raw and hilarious episode, Richard and Justin unpack how a single conversation years ago threw Richard off course and why it’s so easy to swing between guilt and license when you’re learning to live free from p*rn. From a wild story about a dad discovering his son’s “Free From P*rn” charge on the family bank statement to a deep dive into Galatians 5 and 2 Peter 1, the guys reveal how comparison, immaturity, and misplaced focus can subtly sabotage real freedom. This episode is for anyone who’s tried to escape shame, only to drift into apathy. You’ll discover the middle ground where grace empowers growth, not excuses, and learn why your freedom is secure even as you practice self-control. Listen if you’ve ever thought: “If I’m free, why do I still fall?” “Is grace just letting me off the hook?” “How do I stay out of guilt and complacency?”

    14 min

  7. OCT 29

    #32 Why You Feel Urges Every Time Life Gets Hard

    Have you ever noticed that the moment you start doing something new, stressful, or outside your comfort zone, the urges to look at prn suddenly show up again? In this honest and vulnerable episode, Richard opens up about why launching the Free From Prn coaching program actually increased his urges. Joined by Justin Khoe, they unpack why stress often becomes a hidden trigger and how to process it without escaping. Together they explore:  • Why p*rn isn’t the problem, it’s the solution you’ve been using  • How stress and new challenges can surface old habits  • The biblical path to regulating emotions without shame  • What Philippians 4 teaches about anxiety, prayer, and peace  • A simple, powerful breathing practice that calms your body and centers your heart in Christ This episode will remind you that stress isn’t your enemy—it’s an invitation to slow down, breathe, and experience the peace of God that guards your heart and mind. Listen now to discover how freedom looks even in moments of pressure.

    16 min

  8. OCT 22

    #31 From Embarrassment to Empowerment: Talking Openly About P*rn Addiction

    Most people would rather hide than admit they’re struggling with porn—but what if talking about it is the very thing that breaks its power? In this episode of the Free From Porn Podcast, Justin and Richard get real about embarrassment—why we feel it, how it keeps us stuck, and what happens when we finally stop pretending. Joined by their friend David Hunte, who battled porn for over 40 years, they unpack the role of shame, identity, and community in finding lasting freedom. David shares how understanding who he is in Christ—and learning to take thoughts captive—transformed decades of secrecy into a testimony of freedom. From “trying harder” to “standing fast in liberty,” this conversation will help you see that your struggle doesn’t define you, and you don’t have to hide anymore. 🎧 In this episode you’ll hear: Why talking about your porn struggle isn’t embarrassing—it’s freeingHow guilt, shame, and condemnation keep you silent (and stuck)The identity shift that ends the cycle for goodWhy community and confession are crucial to walking in victoryHow to renew your mind when temptation hitsIf you’ve ever thought, “I can’t talk about this”—this episode is your permission to stop hiding. Freedom starts with honesty.

    27 min
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This isn’t another “try harder” purity podcast.It’s not about white-knuckling your way to freedom or stacking up shame-fueled accountability check-ins.This is about transformation.Real, lasting, gospel-centered freedom from pornography—not someday, but today.Hosted by former addicts turned freedom coaches, Richard Young and Justin Khoe, Free from Porn is a no-shame, no-fluff conversation rooted in one bold truth: If Jesus has set you free from sin, then porn doesn’t get to define you. Each episode exposes the lies keeping you stuck, renews your mind with truth from God’s Word, and helps you walk out the freedom you already have in Christ. Expect raw honesty, biblical clarity, practical strategy, and stories from people who’ve actually broken free—not because they got stronger, but because they started believing what Jesus already said was true.

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  • Creator
    Richard Young
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Free From P*rn
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