Father X: How Fathers Can Win Child Custody

Father X

If you're a father fighting for custody of your kids in family court, you've come to the right place. I created this educational series to help dads prepare for family court. I went through it myself. But it took extraordinary effort. So I'm teaching you the strategies I used in my case and what I learned, to help other dads. ***Prefer my content via downloadable PDF eBooks? Get them here: https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com/ ***Donate/Support This Channel: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74 https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022

  1. FEB 10

    Ep13B: Dads - Defend Yourself Against Judge's & Lawyer's Tactics in Family Court

    👉🏼Go to https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com : Check out my family court playbooks and strategies for dads, as PDF eBooks, with my scripts, charts, slides, and more. Go to my eBook website at Lemon Squeezy. You Got This!! 👉🏼Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 👉🏼In This Episode: Prepare to defend yourself from the shots and arrows heading your way from various family court actors. You need to build Your Defensive Fortress. I teach you how. We discuss strategies on how to expose when the opposing lawyer is deceiving a judge, or when a judge is intentionally looking at convenient parts of the story...instead of the whole story. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kidsin Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to gothrough that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. 👉🏼Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Ordersof Protection, Restraining Orders Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; InterviewQuestions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The OverallTrial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Divorce Court Judge isIncompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreementsoutside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it'sachievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony,Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing withhopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself fromfalse allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the DomesticViolence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing andPreparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order against you, the SilverBullet can be deadly. But if restraining orders are based on false allegations, you can turn that around to your advantage. I did. And you have to navigate the forensic evaluation, CPS/children's services investigations. I'm sorry you're in divorce/family court. But if you thinkit’s in the best interests of your child for YOU to have equal or primary custody, I'm laying out what I learned into this educational series, to give you a fighting chance. #fatherx #familycourt #custodybattle #dad #divorcelawyer #parentalrights #parentalalienation #coparenting #silverbullet #divorcio #fathers #familylaw #highconflict

    18 min
  2. JAN 27

    Ep13A: Building Your Defensive Fortress in Family Court - Defending Yourself

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In This Epsiode: I hope you can avoid war in family court. But if you’re in a war, this is how you war. Prepare to defend yourself from the shots and arrows heading your way. You need to build Your Defensive Fortress. I teach you how. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection, Restraining Orders Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order against you, the Silver Bullet can be deadly. But if restraining orders are based on false allegations, you can turn that around to your advantage. I did. And you have to navigate the forensic evaluation, CPS/children's services investigations. I'm sorry you're in divorce/family court. But if you think it’s in the best interests of your child for YOU to have equal or primary custody, I'm laying out what I learned into this educational series, to give you a fighting chance. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #fatherx #familycourt #custodybattle #dad #divorcelawyer #parentalrights #parentalalienation #coparenting #silverbullet #divorcio #fathers #familylaw #highconflict

    19 min
  3. JAN 20

    Ep 12B: Becoming Superhuman: 10 Key Tips for Dads Battling in Family Court

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In This Episode: I hope you can avoid a war in family court. But if you’re in a war, you’re in a war. And this is how you war. We discuss your mental and emotional preparation. I found inspiration by learning from others who overcame adversity: Rocky Balboa, Aragon from Lord of The Rings, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Denzel Washington, and Admiral McRaven. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection, Restraining Orders Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order against you, the Silver Bullet can be deadly. But if restraining orders are based on false allegations, you can turn that around to your advantage. I did. And you have to navigate the forensic evaluation, CPS/children's services investigations. Sorry you're in divorce/family court. But if you think it’s in the best interests of your child for YOU to have equal or primary custody, I'm laying out what I learned into this educational series, to give you a fighting chance. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #rocky #rockybalboa #custodybattle #Fathers #custodybattle #divorce #custody #familylaw #aragon #lordoftherings #divorcio #dad #highconflictdivorce

    19 min
  4. JAN 13

    Ep 12A: A Father’s Mental Preparation for Family Court – What Would Rocky Balboa Do?

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In This Episode: Custody trials can be a war. You need your head in the right place. We discuss your mental and emotional preparation. I took an emotional beating in family court month after month, year after year. Rocky Balboa was my inspiration to keep punching. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders) Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order based on false allegations, the Silver Bullet, you can turn that around to your advantage. Sorry you're in divorce/family court. But if you think it’s in the best interests of your child for YOU to have equal or primary custody, I'm laying out what I learned into this educational series, to give you a fighting chance. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #rocky #rockybalboa #fathers #custodybattle #divorce #custody #familylaw #dads #highconflictdivorce #familycourt #dad #fathers #childcustody

    17 min
  5. JAN 6

    Ep 11M: How To Introduce Evidence in Family Court - Lay Foundation & Authenticate Evidence

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In This Episode: Dads complain the judge isn't looking at their evidence. That can be because A) The judge is incompetent or biased against dads, or B) The father doesn't submit evidence correctly, based on Rules of Evidence. I show you how to present evidence the right way, so we can take the 2nd excuse off the table. It's not as complicated as it sounds. How did I get primary custody of our son at trial? I testified about each Best Interest Factor, one-at-a-time, to show I should have primary custody, based on reality. I took away any wiggle room the judge had to blindly rubberstamp the mom for primary custody…as the judge had been doing during pre-trial conferences. I called my strategy “The Pincer Movement” and now I’m teaching it to you. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders) Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order based on false allegations, the Silver Bullet, you can turn that around to your advantage. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #fathers #familycourt #custodybattle #divorcelawyer #parentalrights #parentalalienation #familylaw #divorcio #dad #divorceresources

    17 min
  6. 12/30/2025

    Ep 11L: Lying in Family Court - How To Expose It...and 4 More Best Interest Factors

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In Episodes 11, we covered 20 best interest factors:In This Episode, we review our Final Four factors, which can make or break your child custody case 1. Parent's Observable Behavior in Court 2. Lying & Manipulating the Court process 3. Religion 4. Guardian Ad Litem & Forensic Evaluator Psychologist How did I get primary custody of my son in our child custody trial? I testified about each Best Interest Factor, one-at-a-time, methodically, to show I should have primary custody, based on reality. I took away any wiggle room the judge had to thoughtlessly rubberstamp the mother for primary custody…as the judge had been doing during pre-trial conferences. I called my strategy “The Pincer Movement” and now I’m teaching it to you. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders) Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. If you have a Restraining Order based on false allegations, the Silver Bullet, you can turn that around to your advantage. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #fatherx #familycourt #custodybattle #dadsmatter #divorcelawyer #parentalrights #parentalalienation #coparenting #silverbullet #mentoo #dad #fathers

    18 min
  7. 12/23/2025

    Ep 11K:Parental Alienation - How To Identify It & Testify About it in Family Court

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. ***In This Episode: We review Parental Alienation, based on 2 Best Interest Factors:1. Fostering a Relationship between the Child & Other Parent2. Child Abduction or Kidnapping It's best for a child to feel safe loving and living with either parent & to have each parent support the child’s relationship with the other parent. If a parent isn't doing this, for NO legitimate reason, they should have less than 50% parenting time. How did I get primary custody of our son? I testified about each Best Interest Factor, one-at-a-time, methodically, to show I should have primary custody, based on reality. I took away my judge's ability to rubberstamp the mother for primary custody…as the judge had been doing during pre-trial conferences. I called my strategy “The Pincer Movement” and now I’m teaching it to you. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders) Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of Domestic Violence Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. And you may have to navigate the forensic evaluation. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #fathers #familycourt #custodybattle #dad #divorcelawyer #parentalrights #parentalalienation #coparenting #highconflict #divorcio #dads

    18 min
  8. 12/16/2025

    Ep 11J: Which Parent Was Your Kid’s Primary Caretaker? Testifying To Win in Family Court

    https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : For those who prefer my content as downloadable PDF eBooks, with text, scripts, charts, slides - go to my eBook site. With these PDF eBooks, you’ll have access to the information you need - anytime, anywhere. You can copy/paste key questions, arguments, and text into your own preparation files. **In This Episode: We dive into 3 more Best Interest factors: 1.Maintaining Stability of Prior Court Orders 2.Existing Parenting Agreements between the Parents 3.The Primary Caretaker How do judges think about these 3 best interest factors? Get inside their head. Once you know how judges think incorrectly, then you can create your testimony to show them the correct way to evaluate the facts. How did I get primary custody of our son? I focused on the Best Interest Factors, which judges are required to evaluate when deciding custody. I took away my judge's ability to blindly rubberstamp the mother for primary custody…as the judge had been doing during pre-trial conferences. I called my strategy “The Pincer Movement” and now I’m teaching it to you. **If you're a Dad fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this educational series to help dads get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court. I got primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should've had primary custody on Day 1, but it took over 3 years. Dads shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. I'll teach you strategies I used to win custody. Learn how to navigate the system ASAP. Subscribe to get updates as I post more videos. Topics I cover to get you ready: Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders) Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret Hidden costs of family court Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court & The Overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court Episodes 9: False Allegations of DV Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law – it's achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence & gender bias of family court judges Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case – Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy - Best Interests of The Child Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation – dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress – protect yourself from false allegations & things that can tank your custody case Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling other players in family court Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers **Dads should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or getting a divorce. You may want temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You're getting a divorce from your ex, not your kids. Win by focusing on the best interests of the child. And you have to navigate the forensic evaluation, plus any Guardian Ad Litem or CPS/Children's Services investigations. Donate/Support: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #fathers #familycourt #custodybattle #familylawyer #dad #divorcelawyer #divorcetipsfordads #parentalrights #crossexamination #divorceresources

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If you're a father fighting for custody of your kids in family court, you've come to the right place. I created this educational series to help dads prepare for family court. I went through it myself. But it took extraordinary effort. So I'm teaching you the strategies I used in my case and what I learned, to help other dads. ***Prefer my content via downloadable PDF eBooks? Get them here: https://FatherX.LemonSqueezy.com/ ***Donate/Support This Channel: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6CMANW674KT74 https://account.venmo.com/u/FatherX2022

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