Married with the Mugica’s

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Richard and Hailey Mugica have made it their goal and passion to challenge how the world views and talks about marriage. Their marriage isn’t hard, drudgery that they have to muscle through to the end, and yours doesn’t have to be either. Marriage can be one of life’s greatest blessings. Come and learn how to help your marriage thrive through the exciting and the mundane and everything in between.

  1. 5D AGO

    7 Christian Marriage Struggles Nobody Warned You About (And How To Beat Them)

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz In this episode, Richard & Hailey break down the top 7 struggles Christian marriages face and why faith doesn’t remove conflict, but changes how you fight through it. We talk about unrealistic expectations, emotional disconnect, the pressure to look “perfect,” gender roles, intimacy, faith differences, and why so many couples wait too long to get help. If you’ve ever thought, “Why is this still hard if we love Jesus?” this episode will give you language, perspective, and practical ways to move forward. Podcast: Married with the Mugicas Prayer Challenge: Link below (7 days one prayer a day to do with your spouse) If you want to go deeper in your marriage, grow your marriage, and build a marriage you love coming home to — try Spark Check-In (link below). 0:00 The Hidden Battle Christian Couples Don’t Expect 1:08 Welcome Back + “Your Marriage Should Feel Like Home” 1:48 Real Life: 4AM Dog Chaos + Why We Were Up 3:26 Proud Parent Moment: Our Son’s “Proof It Works” Moment 4:34 Why Homeschooling Changed Everything For Us 5:20 Today’s Topic: The 7 Biggest Struggles in Christian Marriage 5:47 #1 The Myth: “Faith Should Prevent Conflict” 6:55 “God… Why Isn’t This Easier?” (The Hard Truth) 8:04 The Marriage Trap: Judging Your Spouse, Excusing Yourself 8:36 The Real Source of Misery (Unmet Expectations) 11:19 Why Conflict Feels Like a “Spiritual Failure” 11:48 Spiritual Warfare: Why Non-Christian Couples Don’t Notice It 13:09 The Cost of High Expectations (Deep Disappointment) 13:22 #2 The Quiet Killer: Emotional Disconnect 13:51 When “Good Things” Rob the BEST Thing (Your Marriage) 14:34 Busy With Church… But Losing Each Other? 15:57 The Roommate Phase (How It Sneaks Up) 16:59 The Fix: Hyper-Intentional Marriage (What We Do) 17:56 Survival Mode vs Vision (Most Couples Never Talk About This) 19:17 Why Wives Won’t Follow a Directionless Leader 20:02 #3 The Pressure to Look “Perfect” (And Why It’s Dangerous) 20:51 The Fear: “If People Knew… We’d Be Judged” 21:41 The Church Problem Nobody Wants to Say Out Loud 22:32 The “Perfect Marriage” Lie That Destroys Real Marriage 23:15 You Can’t Heal What You Keep Pretending Isn’t Broken 23:52 Why So Many Couples Break Around 19 Years 24:46 The Mistake: Waiting 18 Years to “Man Up” 26:08 Don’t Wait Until Someone Snaps (Start NOW) 26:24 #4 Gender Roles: The Blame Game Couples Keep Playing 27:44 Stop Crossing Lines (Fix YOU First) 28:19 The Question That Changes Everything: Right or Happy? 29:06 “You’ve Been Hard to Lead” (The Hard Mirror) 30:11 You Married the Wrong Person… And That’s the Point 32:18 Culture vs Bible: Why This Topic Triggers Everyone 34:28 The Bible Is the Playbook (Most People Don’t Open It) 35:03 The Part Nobody Likes: Deny Yourself 35:36 #5 Intimacy: The Shame Christian Couples Don’t Talk About 37:08 “Sex Is Only for Kids?” (Why That’s Not Biblical) 38:56 Why Churches Avoid This Topic (And Why They Shouldn’t) 39:42 The Non-Negotiable: Monogamy + Porn = A Third Person 40:07 The Simple Truth: Enjoy Your Marriage 40:26 #6 Faith Differences: What Matters vs What Doesn’t 41:30 Do Animals Go to Heaven? (Our Funniest Argument) 43:36 Couples Who Won’t Even Go to Church Together (Why?) 44:13 #7 The Mistake That Makes Everything Worse: Waiting Too Long 44:40 Why Men Refuse Counseling (The Real Reason) 46:13 Feelings vs Fixing: What Actually Changes a Marriage 48:14 Faith Without Works Is Dead (Same With Counseling) 48:59 Who Are You Becoming? Choose Better Examples 49:57 Final Challenge: Share This + Prayer + Spark Check-In 📌 If this helped you: ✅ Like + Subscribe ✅ Share this with one couple who needs it ✅ Comment: What’s one thing you’ll do this week to bring back playfulness? #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #ChristianCouples #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndFamily #BiblicalMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGrowth #HusbandAndWife #HealthyMarriage #FamilyValues #ChristianPodcast christian marriage, christian couples, biblical marriage, marriage advice, marriage podcast, faith marriage, christian relationship advice, husband and wife, marriage problems, marriage help, marriage communication, emotional intimacy, christian parenting, homeschool family, christian family podcast, spiritual warfare marriage, spark check in, prayer challenge, married with the mugicas If you’ve ever felt like “this shouldn’t be this hard if we love Jesus,” you’re not alone. Podcast + Prayer Challenge links are below. 🙏 ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. We’re thankful you’re here.

    51 min

  2. FEB 5

    You Married the Wrong Person (And That’s the Point) | Christian Marriage Advice

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected and aligned. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast For couples who want to thrive and build an incredible life together: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast Take the Marriage Quiz: https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz Get the free weekly marriage game plan: https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm You married the wrong person… and that’s the point. If you’ve ever felt disappointed, drained, or like your spouse isn’t meeting your needs this episode will flip the script. In today’s conversation, Richard and Hailey break down why marriage feels heavy when your spouse becomes your source of joy, peace, identity, and purpose… and how everything changes when God becomes your source instead.   We talk about: Why “the wrong person” isn’t the real problem The mindset shift that makes marriage lighter How to stop keeping score and start leading with grace The difference between spiritual laws and physical laws (and why that matters) Practical action steps to rebuild joy, peace, and connection 👇 Want to build a marriage you love coming home to? Start here. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – When your spouse “ruins your day” (keeping score starts here) 01:13 – Welcome + who we are (Richard & Hailey, marriage/family/homestead) 01:58 – The “bald head in the room” story (why Richard shaved it) 04:31 – Week recap: cheer nationals + pressure/emotions 05:39 – Homestead update: chicken coop + chicks + horse dream 06:43 – Last week recap: “Does Christian marriage mean boring?” 07:33 – Today’s topic: “You married the wrong person… and that’s the point” 08:19 – Soulmates + why marriage is God-ordained (institution vs “right person”) 09:47 – Defining “the wrong person” (it’s the mentality) 10:42 – Richard’s sales story + how moods swing like “feast or famine” 12:48 – The big shift: God as your source (cup analogy) 14:56 – “But God won’t pick up the clothes…” (day-to-day needs + expectations) 15:34 – Ultimate needs vs lower needs (joy/peace can’t come from spouse) 16:51 – Provider perspective: grace changes how you approach problems 18:01 – “This sounds Christian-easy…” (how to make it practical) 19:41 – How to build faith: look back at God’s track record 21:10 – Pray like it depends on God, act like it depends on you 21:31 – Island story: boat/plane/submarine (God sends help—take it) 22:36 – Stop feeding discontentment (comparison, romance media, etc.) 23:19 – Culture vs Bible expectations (why movies set you up to fail) 24:54 – First action step: daily Bible + doctrine over “milk” 26:21 – Needs vs wants (Birkin bag vs real needs) 27:59 – Quote: “Not wanting is the same as having” 28:20 – Why spouses disappoint (human vs God) + shifting expectations 28:51 – When did you stop expecting your spouse to be everything? (Hailey’s faith stories) 32:16 – Panic attacks + “know where to run” (spouse vs God) 33:30 – Spiritual laws vs physical laws (you can’t pray away responsibility) 35:54 – Story: envelope money → Bible study (God provides in details) 37:30 – Unexpected checks + being used to bless others 38:05 – Let your spouse be human (stop being shocked they’re human) 39:17 – “You don’t understand my situation…” + safety caveat 39:59 – God doesn’t change His law (not called to divorce because unhappy) 40:24 – Caveats: infidelity/abuse/neglect (discernment needed) 40:46 – Questions to ask God in hard seasons + refining/holy perspective 41:16 – For singles/dating: choosing wisely matters (human decision factor) 42:12 – Testing → testimony (hard seasons can shape generations) 44:07 – For husbands: when your wife is constantly disappointed (model + reflect) 46:51 – How to talk about unmet expectations (low volatility convo + action steps) 47:56 – If you want marriage to feel lighter: where to start 48:06 – “When God gets bigger, marriage gets lighter” + make marriage fun again 49:04 – Start with Word + prayer (then action) 49:22 – Modeling Bible habits for the kids 49:40 – Wrap-up: live Thursdays + 7-day prayer challenge + DMs 🙏 If this episode encouraged you, please like, subscribe, and share it with another couple. 💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode helped you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (it helps more couples find this) ✅ Share it with a friend or couple who needs it 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas (or your exact handle) 🎧 Listen on Podbean + all major platforms #MarriedWithTheMugicas #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageMindset #MarriageCommunication #FaithAndFamily #HealthyMarriage #HusbandAndWife #MarriageGrowth #MarriageHelp #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianCouples #MarriageLeadership

    51 min

  3. JAN 30

    Is a Christian Marriage Supposed to Be Boring? (How to Keep the Spark Alive) | EP.38

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz Is a Christian Marriage Supposed to Be Boring? (How to Keep the Spark Alive) Most people assume “Christian marriage” means life gets quieter, tamer, and… boring. But what if it’s the opposite? In this episode, Richard & Hailey break down why biblical boundaries don’t kill passion — they create freedom, and how many couples accidentally drift into a “boring” culture without realizing it. You’ll hear practical ways to bring back: Playfulness and fun Dating after kids Energy and connection A healthy view of intimacy without shame A marriage culture that rewards what you actually want 🔗 Links (put yours here at the top): ✅ Spark Check-In: [PASTE LINK] ✅ Free Weekly Marriage Game Plan: [PASTE LINK] ✅ Marriage Quiz: [PASTE LINK] ✅ 7-Day Prayer Challenge: [PASTE LINK] ⏱️ Chapters (based on your transcript): 00:00 Life update + homestead projects (compost + chicken coop) 03:40 The listener question: “Does Christian marriage = boring?” 05:20 Discipline = freedom (boundaries are liberating) 07:10 Intimacy in marriage: freedom, guardrails, no shame 16:36 Non-negotiable boundaries (consent, no third parties, honor) 19:25 Covenant = freedom to grow, age, and still be loved 26:40 Marriage culture: what gets rewarded vs punished 28:13 “What the world calls exciting is often exhausting” 33:13 Five reasons marriages go stale + how to fix it 40:01 Covenant confidence is underrated 42:34 Outro + prayer challenge CTA 📌 If this helped you: ✅ Like + Subscribe ✅ Share this with one couple who needs it ✅ Comment: What’s one thing you’ll do this week to bring back playfulness? Hashtags: #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #FaithAndFamily #MarriedWithTheMugicas #MarriageCommunication #HealthyMarriage #IntentionalMarriage #CovenantMarriage SEO Keywords/Tags (for YouTube backend): christian marriage, biblical marriage, marriage advice, marriage podcast, keep the spark alive, marriage after kids, intimacy in marriage, covenant marriage, christian relationships, marriage boundaries, playful marriage, faith and family ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. We’re thankful you’re here.

    45 min

  4. JAN 23

    Marriage Isn’t 50/50: Why Covenant Beats Culture | EP.37

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz Marriage isn’t 50/50… and that mindset is quietly creating scorekeeping, resentment, and distance. In this episode of Married with the Mugicas, we break down why covenant marriage isn’t a contract—and what it looks like to build unity, leadership, and love that lasts. If this hits home, comment Podcast and we’ll send you the full episode + next steps. In This Episode Why “my 50 / your 50” turns marriage into a scoreboard Covenant vs contract (and why culture keeps getting it backwards) How to stop fighting symptoms and start addressing the root Practical ways to serve each other without martyrdom How Spark Check-In helps you stay aligned every week ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Intro + New Year check-in 03:07 – Why Christian marriage must look different than culture 04:25 – Marriage: Contract vs Covenant 07:10 – Gender roles: blurred vs biblical headship 10:00 – Wives’ intuition + avoiding manipulation 17:07 – Self-fulfillment vs self-sacrifice 20:28 – Culture praises busyness, Bible prioritizes the home 22:24 – Family dinner + building priorities intentionally 27:02 – Sex is sacred, not transactional 34:29 – Extreme ownership + personal responsibility 40:19 – Your life might be the only Bible people read 44:57 – Spark Check-In + closing ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to — not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. We’re thankful you’re here.

    49 min

  5. JAN 15

    Christian Marriage vs Modern Culture: Covenant Over Contract (Biblical Marriage Truths) | EP.36

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz In today’s culture, marriage gets treated like a contract — “as long as I’m happy, I’m in.” But the Bible calls marriage something completely different: a covenant. In Episode 36 of Married with the Mugicas, Richard & Hailey break down how a Christian marriage should look different in modern culture — because God’s standard doesn’t change with trends, politics, or ideology. We cover: Why marriage is covenant (not contract) Biblical roles: complementary, not competitive Why self-fulfillment destroys marriage (and self-sacrifice rebuilds it) How busyness steals your home — and what to prioritize instead Why sex is sacred and should never be used as leverage The power of personal responsibility and “extreme ownership” in marriage Why your marriage should be steadier, gentler, stronger, and more hopeful than the world If you’re trying to build a marriage that lasts — this one will challenge you in the best way. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Intro + New Year check-in 03:07 – Why Christian marriage must look different than culture 04:25 – Marriage: Contract vs Covenant 07:10 – Gender roles: blurred vs biblical headship 10:00 – Wives’ intuition + avoiding manipulation 17:07 – Self-fulfillment vs self-sacrifice 20:28 – Culture praises busyness, Bible prioritizes the home 22:24 – Family dinner + building priorities intentionally 27:02 – Sex is sacred, not transactional 34:29 – Extreme ownership + personal responsibility 40:19 – Your life might be the only Bible people read 44:57 – Spark Check-In + closing ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to — not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. Thanks for listening to Episode 30 – Mental Toughness in Marriage. We’re thankful you’re here.

    46 min

  6. JAN 9

    10 Ways To Ruin Your Marriage (So You Can Do The Opposite) | EP35

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz Episode Summary (replace your middle paragraph with this): In this episode, Richard & Hailey flip marriage advice on its head using inversion thinking: Instead of asking “How do we build a great marriage?” they ask, “What would guarantee a miserable one?” They walk through 10 marriage-killers—from making God optional, to scorekeeping, to comparison—and then show how to reverse engineer those habits into a stronger, calmer, more connected marriage. If you’ve ever felt stuck in tension, criticism, distance, or “roommate mode”… this one will give you a clean framework to reset. 💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode encouraged you, please: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (it really helps more couples find this) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. We’re thankful you’re here.

    46 min

  7. JAN 2

    Stop Living Like Everyone Else: Do Marriage Your Way (EP 34)

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz EP 34 — Exceptional Marriages Choose to Be the Exception Happy New Year, friends 🎉 In this episode, Richard & Hailey unpack one of the most overlooked truths in marriage: Everybody wants an exceptional marriage — but very few couples are willing to be the exception. This conversation challenges the cultural scripts, family expectations, and unspoken rules that quietly shape marriages without couples ever choosing them on purpose. You’ll hear why most couples aren’t afraid of doing marriage wrong — they’re afraid of being judged for doing it differently — and how clarity, conviction, and faster decision-making can radically change the trajectory of your home. If you’ve ever felt like: “We’re doing what’s expected… but not what we actually want” “We know something needs to change, but we’re stuck” “I want a better marriage — I just don’t want the criticism that comes with it” This episode will help you reframe what’s possible and give you permission to build a marriage that actually fits you. Chapters 00:00 Cold open — choosing to be the exception 00:36 Welcome + New Year reflections 02:13 The seasons of parenting and savoring time 04:40 Last episode recap: identity over behavior 05:00 Why going against the grain matters 07:50 Exceptional marriages require being the exception 08:46 Fear of judgment vs fear of doing marriage wrong 09:10 The first step: intentionality 10:22 Challenging inherited beliefs 11:04 Giving others permission through leadership 12:00 Real examples of doing life differently 13:34 Cultural beliefs vs biblical convictions 15:10 Respecting thought-through convictions 17:02 Scripture gives principles, not templates 18:47 If people don’t understand your marriage 21:10 Leadership means going first 23:27 Rejecting the “marriage is hard” narrative 26:11 Beliefs that aren’t true 100% of the time 28:10 Don’t seek applause for your marriage 29:30 Choosing the right voices for advice 33:03 Mentorship as a marriage cheat code 36:41 Explaining vs deciding 37:28 Hats, haircuts, and tattoos (decision framework) 39:16 Don’t make tattoos out of hats 41:05 How Spark Check-In helps couples decide together 43:10 Final encouragement + Happy New Year ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to — not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection.

    42 min

  8. 12/26/2025

    Why Most Marriages Drift And How to Stop It Before It’s Too Late | EP. 033

    Get the free weekly marriage game plan: 👉 https://bit.ly/plan-mwtm For couples who want to thrive and build a strong, connected marriage: ❤️ https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 🔥 Check out Spark Check-In — the marriage app we built to help couples stay connected, aligned, and intentional week after week. 📲 Link: https://bit.ly/sparkcheckin-podcast 📝 Marriage Quiz: 👉 https://bit.ly/mwtm-quiz EP 33 Drift Is Automatic. Vision Is Intentional. Merry Christmas + Happy New Year, fam. 🎄 In today’s episode, Richard & Hailey break down why most couples drift into frustration, resentment, and “roommate mode”… not because they don’t love each other, but because they never built a clear vision together. You’ll hear why New Year’s resolutions fail in days, why identity beats behavior, and how a shared vision creates leadership, safety, and intimacy inside your home. If you’ve ever felt like: “We’re busy… but not moving forward” “We’re married… but not aligned” “I wish my spouse would step up and lead” This episode gives you the framework to start the conversation today. Chapters 00:00 Intro + Christmas / New Year 01:18 Quick recap on victim mentality + “the rope” 03:17 Why couples must build goals together 04:26 Why resolutions fail (identity > behavior) 05:47 “I am” statements that change everything 10:10 You don’t unintentionally build a strong marriage 11:49 Presiding: decide before life decides 12:59 Leadership is clarity 14:15 Directionless leaders don’t get followed 16:20 Vision must be a continuous conversation 19:07 Visions are scary — and that’s marriage 21:37 Choose your hard 23:06 Cultural lies about marriage + truth bombs 26:13 Identities you speak over your kids 29:33 Address issues, not character 37:31 How to actually start (Spark Check-In) 43:14 Drift is automatic. Vision is intentional. 💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode encouraged you, please: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (it really helps more couples find this) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas (add your exact handle) ___________________________________________ 💬 LET’S STAY CONNECTED If this episode encouraged you: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast ✅ Leave a rating & review (this helps more couples find it) ✅ Share this episode with a friend or couple who needs hope and practical tools 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @marriedwiththemugicas Daily encouragement on marriage, family, faith, and intentional living. 🧡 OUR HEART We’re Richard and Hailey Mugica. 12 years married. 4 kids. Homeschooling. Home-based business. Baby homesteaders. Our mission with Married with the Mugicas is simple: To help you build a marriage you love coming home to — not a perfect marriage, but a real, strong, joy-filled one, rooted in faith, commitment, and intentional connection. We’re thankful you’re here.

    45 min
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Richard and Hailey Mugica have made it their goal and passion to challenge how the world views and talks about marriage. Their marriage isn’t hard, drudgery that they have to muscle through to the end, and yours doesn’t have to be either. Marriage can be one of life’s greatest blessings. Come and learn how to help your marriage thrive through the exciting and the mundane and everything in between.

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  • Creator
    Married with the Mugica’s
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
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    Clean
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    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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