Closing Time with David Monsour

Disco Dave

This podcast is only as good as my attention span.  I don't want to mislead you into thinking there is an actual topic :) 

  1. Aug 4

    Part 2. Loving Without Fixing: Chris Patton on Parenting Adult Children

    Send us Fan Mail Loving Without Fixing: Chris Patton on Adult Children, Grace, and Who Pastors the Pastor In part two of my conversation with Chris Patton, senior pastor of Southside Church, we explore what happens when parenting enters a season the church does not always talk about. The church offers plenty of guidance for raising children, but what happens when those children become adults and begin making decisions we would not choose for them? Chris and I discuss how parents can remain loving, supportive, and present without trying to control or continually change their adult children. We also examine why love can so easily become an effort to fix someone. What does it look like to maintain a meaningful relationship with a child, family member, or friend whose beliefs, lifestyle, or choices differ from our own? And what does it look like when the church handles those relationships with genuine grace rather than judgment? Finally, we turn the conversation toward Chris himself. Pastors are often contacted during the most painful and desperate moments of people’s lives. They hear the difficult stories, carry the emotional weight, and are frequently expected to have answers that no human being could possibly have. So who encourages the pastor? Who listens when the pastor is hurting? Who fills his bucket when so much of his life is spent pouring into everyone else? In this episode: Parenting after children become adultsLoving someone without trying to control themWhy love often turns into an attempt to change peopleStaying connected when someone chooses a different pathWhat grace looks like in real relationshipsWhat the church gets right and wrong about loving peopleThe emotional weight carried by pastorsWho pastors, encourages, and supports the pastorThis is part two of my conversation with Chris Patton. You can find me as David Monsour a.k.a. Disco Davo on most social media applications as well as my contact  davidmonsour.com.

  2. Aug 3

    For the Southside: Chris Patton talks Southside churching and being known for what we are FOR.

    Send us Fan Mail Known for What We’re For: Chris Patton on the Mission of Southside Church In part one of my conversation with Chris Patton, senior pastor of Southside Church, we explore the experiences that first led him into ministry and the path that eventually brought him to Southside. Chris explains Southside’s unique leadership structure, including how the local church operates and how its relationship with Andy Stanley and North Point Ministries works. We also spend time discussing the mission of Southside Church and the idea that Christians should be known more for what they are for than for what they are against. Chris shares what that philosophy looks like in practice and how the church hopes to serve and influence the surrounding community. Finally, we discuss one of the simplest but most important messages the church often fails to communicate clearly, especially to people who are skeptical of Christianity, disconnected from church, or unsure where they belong. In this episode: How Chris Patton got his start in ministryHow Southside Church’s leadership structure worksThe relationship between Southside and North Point MinistriesSouthside’s mission and directionBeing known for what the church supports rather than opposesWhat the church often fails to communicateCreating a church where people feel welcomed, valued, and understoodThis is part one of a two-part conversation with Chris Patton. You can find me as David Monsour a.k.a. Disco Davo on most social media applications as well as my contact  davidmonsour.com.

  3. Jul 28

    The Invisible Backpack: Is my child the bully?

    Send us Fan Mail  Imagine every student walks into school carrying an invisible backpack. What might be inside it that their classmates cannot see?   Michelle Steiner is a writer, speaker, photographer, and paraeducator who uses her personal experience with a hidden disability to encourage, empower, and educate others. Through Michelle’s Mission, she shares her story to help people better understand disability, inclusion, perseverance, and the importance of seeing beyond what is visible.  Most people meet Michelle Steiner's story through the headline moments — the professors who doubted her, the degree she wasn't supposed to get. In this episode, we go smaller and more useful. We sit down with Michelle to yes, discuss overcoming, and also advocating and believing in others.  And today we talked about recognizing disabilities in the people around us and supporting them, the impact of bullying.   Michelle’s story reminds us that inclusion is not built through grand speeches. It is built in classrooms, churches, workplaces, crowded stadiums, and ordinary conversations. It begins when we stop assuming, start listening, and make room for the parts of a person we cannot immediately see.  The “Am I Doing It?” checklist  Parents can ask their children:  Is there someone your friends regularly joke about?  Does that person laugh too, or are they laughing because they feel trapped?  Do you use a nickname they never chose?  Have you excluded someone because they act, speak, learn, dress, or move differently?  Do you treat someone’s accommodation as an unfair advantage?  Have you shared a photo, video, screenshot, or private message to embarrass someone?  Have you ever said, “We’re just joking,” after someone looked uncomfortable?  Do you behave differently toward someone when your friends are watching?  Have you stayed silent because you were afraid the group would turn on you?  Is there someone who becomes the automatic punchline in your group?  Would you say the same thing if their parent, teacher, or your own parent were standing there?  How would the story sound if the other child told it?   Avoid asking only: “Were you bullied today?”A child may automatically say no. Try:  Who did you sit with?  Did anyone seem left out?  What made people laugh today?  Did anyone get embarrassed?  Was anyone treated differently?  Did you see something that felt wrong?  Did you do anything today that you wish you could redo?  Who made school easier for you today?  Whose day did you make easier? These questions turn on the lights in rooms children often forget to describe. https://www.michellesmission.com/ You can find me as David Monsour a.k.a. Disco Davo on most social media applications as well as my contact  davidmonsour.com.

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This podcast is only as good as my attention span.  I don't want to mislead you into thinking there is an actual topic :)