Closing Time with David Monsour

Disco Dave

This podcast is only as good as my attention span.  I don't want to mislead you into thinking there is an actual topic :) 

  1. 5d ago

    The Invisible Backpack: Is my child the bully?

    Send us Fan Mail  Imagine every student walks into school carrying an invisible backpack. What might be inside it that their classmates cannot see?   Michelle Steiner is a writer, speaker, photographer, and paraeducator who uses her personal experience with a hidden disability to encourage, empower, and educate others. Through Michelle’s Mission, she shares her story to help people better understand disability, inclusion, perseverance, and the importance of seeing beyond what is visible.  Most people meet Michelle Steiner's story through the headline moments — the professors who doubted her, the degree she wasn't supposed to get. In this episode, we go smaller and more useful. We sit down with Michelle to yes, discuss overcoming, and also advocating and believing in others.  And today we talked about recognizing disabilities in the people around us and supporting them, the impact of bullying.   Michelle’s story reminds us that inclusion is not built through grand speeches. It is built in classrooms, churches, workplaces, crowded stadiums, and ordinary conversations. It begins when we stop assuming, start listening, and make room for the parts of a person we cannot immediately see.  The “Am I Doing It?” checklist  Parents can ask their children:  Is there someone your friends regularly joke about?  Does that person laugh too, or are they laughing because they feel trapped?  Do you use a nickname they never chose?  Have you excluded someone because they act, speak, learn, dress, or move differently?  Do you treat someone’s accommodation as an unfair advantage?  Have you shared a photo, video, screenshot, or private message to embarrass someone?  Have you ever said, “We’re just joking,” after someone looked uncomfortable?  Do you behave differently toward someone when your friends are watching?  Have you stayed silent because you were afraid the group would turn on you?  Is there someone who becomes the automatic punchline in your group?  Would you say the same thing if their parent, teacher, or your own parent were standing there?  How would the story sound if the other child told it?   Avoid asking only: “Were you bullied today?”A child may automatically say no. Try:  Who did you sit with?  Did anyone seem left out?  What made people laugh today?  Did anyone get embarrassed?  Was anyone treated differently?  Did you see something that felt wrong?  Did you do anything today that you wish you could redo?  Who made school easier for you today?  Whose day did you make easier? These questions turn on the lights in rooms children often forget to describe. https://www.michellesmission.com/ You can find me as David Monsour a.k.a. Disco Davo on most social media applications as well as my contact  davidmonsour.com.

  2. Jun 12

    Renegotiating the parent-child relationship as the kids become the adults.

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when children become adults, parents become grandparents, and everyone has different expectations about family? Julie is a licensed marriage and family therapist who owns her own practice, Juniper Counseling, here in Peachtree City, Georgia.  She works with adult individuals and couples and specializes in life transitions, sexuality/identity, and relationships.  In this episode, David sits down with family counselor Julie Johnston to explore the evolving relationship between adult children and their parents. They discuss why some grandparents are deeply involved in their grandchildren's lives while others take a more hands-off approach, how family expectations change over time, and why even healthy families can struggle to navigate this new season of life. Whether you're raising children, caring for aging parents, or trying to balance both, this conversation offers valuable insight into boundaries, communication, family obligations, and maintaining meaningful relationships across generations. You'll learn: Why parent-child relationships often need to be renegotiated in adulthood How expectations can create conflict between adult children and parents The changing role of grandparents in modern families How to establish healthy boundaries without damaging relationships Practical ways families can stay connected through every stage of life. Recommended books:  https://www.audible.com/ep/mytitle?asin=B01F2M2GDO&language=en_US&source_code=GO1PP30DTRIAL54702202491G8&ds_cid=21383977191&ds_agid=167499000670&ds_kids=299193458326&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21383977191&gclid=Cj0KCQjw3K7RBhDJARIsAKRtP5QXEzZaOJ6Sluv6xUWSSS_T34DhyopmXUI5kNYhWY9_7P0xXVgCIuwaAs4OEALw_wcB https://www.amazon.com/Set-Boundaries-Find-Peace-Reclaiming/dp/0593192095 You can find me as David Monsour a.k.a. Disco Davo on most social media applications as well as my contact  davidmonsour.com.

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