Shrink Wrapped

Michelle O'Neil
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Shrink Wrapped dives into the real, messy, sometimes hilarious side of mental health- no toxic positivity, no sugarcoating, and zero judgment. Hosted by Michelle, a counselor’s daughter with a mic and a low tolerance for BS, the show breaks down mental health (think anxiety, trauma, burnout, relationships, neurodivergence, addiction, and more) in a way that actually makes sense. Expect honest conversations, guided journaling, DSM dives, and dark humor for people who’ve cried in their car, side-eyed self-help books, or stress-ate pizza in the name of self-care.

  1. 5d ago

    Episode 73: The Maintenance Episode (The One Where Michelle Talks About Acts of Self Care)

    Self-care is more than bubble baths, scented candles, and pretending mozzarella sticks are a coping strategy. In this episode of Shrink Wrapped, we're breaking down what self-care actually looks like and why it matters for your mental health. From managing stress and preventing burnout to setting boundaries, improving relationships, making time for creativity, and finding joy again, we're exploring realistic ways to care for yourself without turning wellness into another exhausting to-do list. Because taking care of yourself isn't selfish, and you shouldn't have to completely fall apart before you finally decide you deserve some attention, too. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

  2. Sep 24

    Episode 72: Guided Journal Entry #18

    We all love the idea of building better habits. Wake up earlier. Drink more water. Exercise regularly. Read more books. Meditate. Meal prep. Floss every night. Become one of those suspiciously functional human beings who owns matching food-storage containers and actually knows where all the lids are. And then real life happens. In this Guided Journal episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re exploring how positive habits are actually built, and why waiting for motivation to magically transform you into a brand-new person usually ends with an abandoned planner, an expensive water bottle, and another promise to “start fresh on Monday.” Today’s journal prompt is: “What is a positive habit that you would really like to cultivate? Why? How could you get started?” Together, we’ll explore the psychology of habit formation, why small and consistent changes often matter more than dramatic overhauls, and how to choose a habit that genuinely supports the life you want to create. We’ll also talk about realistic ways to get started, making new behaviors easier to repeat, working with your existing routines instead of completely reinventing your life, and what to do when your motivation inevitably decides it has other plans. Whether you want to improve your sleep, exercise more consistently, start journaling, practice mindfulness, drink more water, create better boundaries, spend less time scrolling, reconnect with a hobby, or simply build a healthier daily routine, this guided journaling exercise is an opportunity to think beyond what you think you should be doing and identify a change that would actually feel meaningful to you. Because personal growth usually doesn’t happen through one enormous, life-changing decision. It happens through tiny choices repeated often enough that eventually they become part of who you are. So grab your journal, your favorite pen, and maybe that emotional-support water bottle you keep carrying around without actually drinking from. Let’s figure out which positive habit future-you might be incredibly grateful you started today. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

  3. Sep 17

    Episode 71: Paying Emotional Rent in Fictional Cities (DSM Dive- Maladaptive Daydreaming)

    Have you ever disappeared into a daydream so elaborate that forty-five minutes later, you’ve won an imaginary argument, fallen in love with someone who doesn’t exist, survived the apocalypse, and somehow launched a wildly successful music career despite having absolutely no qualifications? Same. Daydreaming is a normal part of being human. But what happens when those imaginary worlds become so vivid, immersive, and time-consuming that they start interfering with real life? In this DSM Dive, we’re exploring maladaptive daydreaming- a fascinating and still-developing area of psychology involving excessive, immersive daydreaming that can become difficult to control. We’ll break down the difference between normal daydreaming and maladaptive daydreaming, common signs and experiences, why music, pacing, and repetitive movements can become connected to elaborate fantasy worlds, and how someone can spend hours inside an imagined reality while still knowing that none of it is actually real. We’ll also dig into one of the biggest questions surrounding the topic: Is maladaptive daydreaming in the DSM-5?We’ll look at why it currently isn’t recognized as an official mental health diagnosis, the proposed diagnostic criteria researchers have developed, how it may overlap with conditions like ADHD, OCD, dissociation, anxiety, depression, and trauma-related symptoms, and what researchers still don’t know. And because the internet has had plenty to say about this one, we’re separating actual maladaptive daydreaming research from TikTok psychology, misconceptions, and the occasional confidently incorrect infographic. So, can you become addicted to your own imagination? When does a rich inner world cross the line from harmless escape into something that disrupts your relationships, responsibilities, sleep, work, or daily life? And could maladaptive daydreaming eventually become an officially recognized diagnosis? Grab your imaginary Oscar, tell the fictional people living rent-free in your head that you’ll be back later, and join us as we dive into the strange, complicated, and surprisingly relatable psychology of maladaptive daydreaming. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

  4. Sep 10

    Episode 70: Stop Decorating The Drought (The One Where Michelle Talks About Refusing To Settle)

    Why do we get so comfortable with things that are making us miserable? Human beings are remarkably good at adapting- even to situations we never should have had to tolerate in the first place. Toxic jobs become “just how work is.” Emotionally unavailable relationships become something we learn to work around. Chronic stress becomes normal. Exhaustion becomes a personality trait. And somewhere along the way, surviving with less can start to feel suspiciously like being satisfied. In this episode of Shrink Wrapped, Michelle explores the powerful reminder: “Being acclimated to the drought doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the ocean.” We’re talking about what it means to stop settling- for relationships, careers, friendships, circumstances, and versions of your life that require you to constantly shrink your needs just to make them fit. We’ll unpack how lowered expectations slowly become our new normal, why familiarity can be mistaken for happiness, and how fear, insecurity, and past experiences can convince us that wanting more means asking for too much. This isn’t about expecting a perfect life or abandoning everything the second it becomes uncomfortable. It’s about learning the difference between accepting reality and accepting less than you deserve. It’s about self-worth, boundaries, personal growth, recognizing unhealthy patterns, and giving yourself permission to want something better- even when you’ve gotten very good at surviving without it. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re genuinely content or simply accustomed to the drought, this episode is your reminder: getting used to less doesn’t mean less is all you deserve. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

  5. Sep 3

    Episode 69: Nice. Be Nicer To Yourself. (The One Where Michelle Talks About Self Love)

    Episode 69. Nice. This week on Shrink Wrapped, we’re talking about self-love-and no, not the Instagram version involving bubble baths, crystals, and pretending an affirmation can make your unresolved childhood trauma politely pack its bags and leave. We’re digging into what self-love actually looks like: building self-compassion, challenging negative self-talk, quieting your inner critic, developing healthier self-esteem, and learning to extend yourself the same kindness you so freely give everyone else. Because somehow we can hype our friends like they’re headlining Madison Square Garden, then make one tiny mistake ourselves and immediately launch an internal investigation into whether we’re fundamentally defective. Self-love isn’t believing you’re perfect. It’s learning that your worth doesn’t disappear when you fail, struggle, feel insecure, or have absolutely no idea what you’re doing. It’s messy, awkward, uncomfortable work—and it can have a huge impact on your confidence, relationships, personal growth, and overall mental health. So grab your emotional support beverage and whatever fragile shred of self-esteem has survived the internet, capitalism, and your own inner critic. We’re asking one deeply inconvenient question: What if you’ve deserved your own compassion this entire time?

  6. Aug 27

    Episode 68: Guided Journal Entry #17

    What would you do if you could stop time for two months, and the rest of the world stayed frozen while you kept living? In this guided journal episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re exploring what your answer might reveal about your priorities, desires, and the parts of your life you’ve been putting off for “when you have more time.” Would you travel? Rest? Learn something new? Create something? Focus on your physical or mental health? Reconnect with the people you love? Or would you finally give yourself permission to do absolutely nothing productive for once? Because maybe “I don’t have enough time” isn’t always about time. Sometimes it’s about what we’ve been craving, what we’ve been avoiding, and what keeps getting pushed to the bottom of the list while everyday life demands our attention. Grab your journal, temporarily evict perfectionism, and explore what you would actually choose if schedules, deadlines, responsibilities, and obligations disappeared for two months. Your answer might tell you more about the life you want than you expect. In this episode, we explore: guided journaling, self-reflection, personal growth, work-life balance, rest and burnout, creativity, physical and mental wellness, relationships, travel, priorities, and making intentional use of your time. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, burned out, or constantly telling yourself you’ll do the things that matter “someday,” this guided journal prompt is your chance to imagine what life could look like if time were no longer the thing standing in your way.

  7. Aug 20

    Episode 67: It's Not You... It's Your Mouth (DSM Dive- Misophonia)

    Ever hear someone chewing, clicking a pen, slurping coffee, or breathing just a little too enthusiastically and suddenly your nervous system decides this is a personal attack? In this DSM Dive episode of Shrink Wrapped, we're talking about misophonia- a condition involving intense emotional and physiological reactions to specific trigger sounds. But is misophonia just extreme sound sensitivity? Is it the same as being annoyed by loud chewing? And is misophonia actually recognized in the DSM-5-TR? We're digging into what current research says about misophonia symptoms, common triggers like chewing, breathing, sniffing, tapping, and repetitive noises, and why seemingly harmless sounds can provoke reactions like anger, anxiety, disgust, panic, or an overwhelming urge to escape. We'll also explore proposed diagnostic criteria, potential co-occurring conditions, management and treatment approaches, and the difference between misophonia and other forms of sound sensitivity. Then we're heading into the wonderfully chaotic world of misophonia in pop culture and social media, including ASMR, internet self-diagnosis, viral memes, media misconceptions, and why TikTok has apparently decided that being annoyed by someone's potato chips is sufficient grounds for a diagnosis. And because no DSM Dive would be complete without a little myth-busting, we're tackling some of the biggest misconceptions about misophonia- including whether people are "just overreacting," whether they can simply calm down, and whether there's actually scientific evidence behind the condition. So grab your headphones and join us as we separate internet memes from actual mental health research and unpack what happens when your rational brain says, "They're literally just eating," while your nervous system screams, "WE ARE UNDER ATTACK."

  8. Aug 13

    Episode 66: Language: Humanity's Most Dangerous Hobby (The One Where Michelle Talks About The Importance Of The Words We Choose)

    Words are just tiny mouth noises we collectively agreed mean things… so why do they have the power to absolutely wreck our entire day? In this episode of Shrink Wrapped, Michelle dives into the importance of the words we choose—the language we use when talking to ourselves, the words we use with other people, and the stories we unknowingly create when we repeat the same labels over and over again. Because there’s a big difference between saying “I made a mistake” and “I am a mistake.” There’s a difference between calling yourself lazy and recognizing that you’re exhausted. Between believing you’re failing and acknowledging that you’re still learning. The situation might not have changed, but the language surrounding it can completely change how we experience it. We’re unpacking how language affects mental health, self-esteem, relationships, emotional regulation, and the way we perceive ourselves and others. We’ll talk about negative self-talk, labels, reframing, communication, and why some of us narrate our own lives like an aggressively judgmental nature documentary: “Here we observe the subject making yet another questionable decision.” We’ll also explore how the words we repeatedly use can quietly become beliefs—and how choosing more accurate, compassionate language doesn’t mean slapping toxic positivity over everything and pretending life is sunshine and decorative pumpkins. Sometimes it simply means describing what’s happening without emotionally drop-kicking yourself in the process. Because language isn’t just communication. It’s architecture. And if the words we choose are helping build the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and our lives, maybe it’s worth checking whether we’re building something supportive… or an emotional haunted house with terrible insulation. Grab your emotional support beverage and join us as we unpack the psychology of language, negative self-talk, self-compassion, reframing, communication, and the power our words have over our mental health. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

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Shrink Wrapped dives into the real, messy, sometimes hilarious side of mental health- no toxic positivity, no sugarcoating, and zero judgment. Hosted by Michelle, a counselor’s daughter with a mic and a low tolerance for BS, the show breaks down mental health (think anxiety, trauma, burnout, relationships, neurodivergence, addiction, and more) in a way that actually makes sense. Expect honest conversations, guided journaling, DSM dives, and dark humor for people who’ve cried in their car, side-eyed self-help books, or stress-ate pizza in the name of self-care.

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  • Creator
    Michelle O'Neil
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    90
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Michelle O'Neil
  • Show Website
    Shrink Wrapped