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Ever feel like you’re drowning in the stress of mom life and like your head is going to explode? Are you overwhelmed from juggling work, kids, and a never-ending to-do list—while trying (and failing) to find time for yourself? Sick of scrolling social media for solutions that don’t fit your family? Do you want practical, no-BS expert parenting and home organization strategies that actually make life simpler and bring peace in your day to day? If you’re nodding along, welcome—you’re in the right place. Mom Life Uncomplicated is here to help you break free from burnout, release the guilt, and create a simpler, more peaceful home life. I’ll show you practical ways to lighten your mental load, set guilt-free boundaries, and make time for yourself—without sacrificing your family’s needs. You’ll learn how to reduce daily chaos, manage your energy, and finally enjoy motherhood the way you always imagined. If you’re ready to stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling like yourself again, join me each week for real conversations with experts, actionable strategies, and simple solutions to transform your motherhood journey—one doable step at a time. I’m Natalie McCabe—a certified parent coach, educator, author and mom who’s lived through the stress, the guilt, and the exhaustion of trying to do it all. For 16 years, I navigated single motherhood while building a business, managing a household, and constantly putting myself last. I know exactly what it feels like to be running on empty, stretched too thin, and questioning if I was failing my kids. I was overwhelmed, short on patience, drowning in guilt, and stuck in survival mode. Something had to change. I finally took control—simplifying my routines, organizing my home and life, and prioritizing myself without sacrificing my family’s needs. I dove deep into child development and parenting strategies to gain confidence in my decisions. I made mindset shifts that transformed not just my parenting, but my entire life. If you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm, take back your time, and parent with confidence, this podcast is for you. So grab your water bottle and hydrate! We GOT this Mom Life! Website: www.nataliemccabe.com Free Community - https://community.nataliemccabe.com/invitation?code=5G64A6 https://linktr.ee/nataliemccabe

  1. 4H AGO

    Why Your Teen's Anxiety is Through the Roof and 5 Ways to Actually Help

    🎧 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE Can we just be real for a second? Parenting teenagers is HARD. And if you're feeling completely lost watching your teen struggle with anxiety, constantly glued to their phone, or pulling away from everything they used to love—you're not alone, mama. In Part 1 of this game-changing conversation, I'm sitting down with Keri Cooper, holistic therapist and author of "Mental Health Uncensored." Keri works with teens every single day and she's pulling back the curtain on what's really happening with our kids—and what we're missing as parents. 🎯 IN THIS EPISODE: Why teen anxiety has skyrocketed to 99% of therapy cases (and it's not what you think) [02:00] The devastating impact of social media on teenage mental health and self-worth [06:00] How overscheduling is stealing essential developmental skills from our kids [08:00] Why your teen can't survive independently (and how we accidentally created this) [09:00] The holistic foundations every parent needs to know: sleep, nutrition, exercise, mindfulness, hydration [14:00] The surprising truth about screen time—and why YOU need to change first [16:00] How to build confidence and independence in teenagers (even when it's scary) [11:00] The phone addiction epidemic: what's really happening in real-time social feedback [07:00] 💔 WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU Remember when parenting teens meant dealing with attitude and curfews? Those days are long gone, mama. Today's teenagers are facing challenges we never even imagined—constant social comparison, real-time rejection feedback, sleep deprivation from devices, and an anxiety epidemic that's leaving them paralyzed. Maybe you're watching your previously confident kid become anxious and withdrawn. Maybe they're up until 2am on their phone, exhausted and irritable the next day. Maybe you've tried everything and nothing seems to work. Or maybe you're terrified because you can see them struggling but they won't talk to you. Here's what nobody tells you: the "advice" approach isn't working. And all those organized activities you thought were helping? They might actually be part of the problem. This generation of teens needs something completely different from what we're giving them—and Keri breaks down exactly what that is. ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS Anxiety isn't the enemy—it's miscommunication. When teens understand what's happening in their bodies during anxiety (fight or flight response), it becomes less scary. Education is the first step to managing it. Social media is giving real-time feedback on worth. Your teen literally sees in real-time whether people like them (likes, follows, Snap Map showing exclusion). This constant validation-seeking is exhausting and anxiety-producing. Free play isn't optional—it's developmental. Organized sports took the place of unstructured time where kids learn communication, problem-solving, and interpersonal skills. Without it, they can't function independently. Sleep is the foundation for everything. If your teen isn't sleeping, their physical AND mental health will suffer. But here's the catch—they won't prioritize it unless they see YOU prioritizing it. You can't ask what you won't do. Before telling your teen to get off their phone, put down Candy Crush. Before pushing them to be social, check your own social life. They need to see the behavior modeled, not just hear it preached. Independence = confidence. Teens who can't cook, make appointments, or handle failure lack the confidence to take on the world. We have to let them struggle and fail in small ways now so they can succeed in big ways later. 👩‍⚕️ ABOUT KERI COOPER Keri Cooper is the owner of Keri Cooper Holistic Therapy in Northern New Jersey, where she counsels teens using a whole-person approach. With almost 25 years of experience working exclusively with children and adolescents, Keri has become a trusted voice in teen mental health. She's the author of two powerful books: "Mental Health Uncensored: Ten Foundations Every Parent Needs to Know" and "Mental Health Uncensored: Ten Foundations Every Teen Needs to Know" (a workbook for teens). Keri is also a certified sleep coach who works with adults because she knows—when parents aren't sleeping, they can't show up for their kids. When she's not working with teens or speaking on mental health topics, Keri is busy with her own four children and her flock of chickens. Connect with Keri: 📱 [Instagram handle - to be added] 👥 [Facebook - to be added] 📌 [Pinterest - to be added] 🌐 [Website - to be added] 🚀 READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MOM LIFE? 🎯 Get Your Free Coaching Call Feeling completely overwhelmed by your teen's struggles and not sure where to start? Let's talk. I get it—this parenting stage is brutal. Book your free 30-minute coaching call and let's create a plan that actually works for YOUR family. [Book your free call at nataliemccabe.com] 💜 Join Our Free Community You don't have to figure this out alone. Connect with other moms navigating the teen years, share what's working (and what's not), and find support from women who actually get it. [Join the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community] 📖 Read Natalie's Book: "Sink or Swim Parenting" Real talk about parenting from toddlers to teens—no toxic positivity, just practical strategies that work. [Get your copy] 💬 LET'S CONNECT Did this episode hit home? I'd love to hear what resonated with you! Screenshot your favorite moment, tag me @natalie_mccabe_official on Instagram, and share what Keri said that made you go "YES! THIS!" ⭐ If this episode helped you feel less alone in the teen parenting struggle, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other overwhelmed moms find us!

    22 min

  2. 2D AGO

    The Guilt-Free Guide to Thrifting with Kids (Without the Shame)

    💰 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE Ever walk out of a store $200 poorer with that sinking pit in your stomach, knowing you just blew your weekly budget? What if I told you there's a way to give your kids what they need, teach them life skills that'll actually matter, connect with them meaningfully, AND save hundreds of dollars—all at the same time? 🎧 In This Episode: • [00:02:00] The pink sparkly dress story—how one $3.99 find changed everything • [00:04:00] Why thrift shopping becomes unexpected bonding time (when other quality time falls flat) • [00:06:00] Teaching critical money skills without lectures—the $60 jeans lesson • [00:08:00] Building empathy and generosity through the donation side • [00:09:00] Practical strategies: How to actually do this without chaos • [00:12:00] Ditching the shame around secondhand stuff • [00:15:00] The environmental impact you didn't know about (this will blow your mind) 🌟 WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU Listen, if you've ever felt that wave of guilt when your kid asks for something and you have to say no because money's tight this month, you're not alone. Society has conditioned us to believe that providing for our kids means buying everything new, and that secondhand is somehow "less than." That shame is costing you money and teaching your kids the wrong values about stuff. Here's the truth: thrifting with your kids isn't about being a supermom or jumping on some minimalist trend. It's about taking something you already need to do (get your kids clothes because they won't stop growing) and turning it into connection time while teaching them values that'll serve them for life. Not to mention saving hundreds—even thousands—of dollars a year. And in this economy? That matters. Whether you're a single mother stretching every dollar until payday or just tired of the constant pressure to keep up with expensive trends, this episode gives you permission to do things differently. You're not depriving your kids by choosing thrift stores. You're actually making the smart, responsible choice for your wallet, your family, and the future of this planet. ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS Remove the pressure. At thrift stores, kids can touch everything, explore, and make silly discoveries. It becomes a treasure hunt instead of "don't touch that, put that back" mode. Everything's cheap enough that if they really love something, you can probably say yes without blowing your budget. Give them a budget. Even $10 teaches powerful decision-making. Let them see price tags and make choices: "You can get two of these or one of those—what matters more to you?" That practice helps them figure out what they value and develops the autonomy and self-awareness we want all our kids to have. Make donation part of the routine. Before you thrift shop for new stuff, have your kids help choose what to donate. Be specific about where it's going: "We're so lucky we have more than we need. Let's share that luck." Over time, generosity becomes a habit. Set expectations before you go. "We're looking for jeans today. You can explore the toys, but we're not buying toys unless you use your own money." Clear expectations mean fewer battles. Make eye contact, have them repeat back what you said so you know they truly understand. Ditch the shame. Your kids are watching how you talk about money and stuff. Model pride, not shame. Next time someone compliments something your kid is wearing, own it: "Thanks! Found it at Value Village for $2!" If you treat thrifting like a smart, value-aligned choice instead of something to hide, your kids will pick up on that. The environmental truth. Every single secondhand purchase keeps textiles out of landfills, saves thousands of liters of water, and reduces carbon emissions. A garbage truck full of clothes goes into landfills every single second. It takes 2,700 liters of water to make one cotton shirt. When society tries to shame you for not buying new, remember: you're making the responsible choice for your wallet, your family, and the planet. 🎯 READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MOM LIFE? 📞 Get Your Free Coaching Call Feeling overwhelmed and not sure where to start? Let's talk. I'll help you create practical strategies that actually fit your real life. Book your free 30-minute coaching call here: https://nataliemccabe.com/ 💜 Join Our Free Community Connect with other moms who get it. Share struggles, celebrate wins, and find support in the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community. You don't have to do this alone. https://community.nataliemccabe.com/ 📖 Read "Sink or Swim Parenting" My book is packed with simple strategies from over 30 years in education and real single mom experience. No judgment, no perfect parenting manual—because that doesn't exist. Grab it on Amazon or at nataliemccabe.com. 🤝 LET'S CONNECT Did this episode hit home? I'd love to hear! Screenshot your favorite moment, tag me @natalie_mccabe_official on Instagram, and share what resonated with you. ⭐ If you loved this episode, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other overwhelmed moms find us! Connect with Natalie: 📱 Instagram: @natalie_mccabe_official 💙 Facebook: Mom Life Uncomplicated 🌐 Website: nataliemccabe.com

    21 min

  3. FEB 12

    Struggling with Perfect Gentle Parenting? Try Hybrid Parenting Instead

    💡 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE Are you exhausted from trying to be the perfect gentle parent while secretly wondering why your kid is losing it over wearing socks? Tired of validating every single feeling while your boundaries get trampled? Listen, you don't have to choose between being warm and being boundaried. Today we're diving into hybrid parenting—how to blend warmth with firmness, empathy with boundaries, and love with limits. 🎧 In This Episode: What hybrid parenting is and why it works better than strict gentle parenting (5:00) The Connect, Clarify, Close framework for setting boundaries with love (7:00) Word-for-word scripts that actually work when you're done negotiating (12:00) Why consistency matters more than perfection (and how to stay consistent) (14:00) How clarity is actually kindness—and why your firmness is a gift (16:00) ❤️ WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU If you're a mom who feels guilty every time you say no, this episode is for you. If you've been overexplaining, apologizing for limits, or negotiating for 30 minutes while your own needs get completely ignored, you're not alone. The truth is, fewer than 40% of Gen Z parents are using strict gentle parenting anymore—most are creating personalized blends because real kids don't read the parenting books. Here's what nobody's telling you: Good enough parenting that works for your specific family is better than perfect parenting that leaves you depleted and resentful. Your kid doesn't need you to perfectly execute every parenting philosophy from Instagram. They need you to be a confident, consistent parent who loves them enough to give them both warmth and structure. This episode gives you permission to stop feeling guilty about not following one specific parenting philosophy perfectly. You're allowed to take what works and leave what doesn't—for your family, your values, and your specific sanity level. ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS Gentle parenting was never meant to be permissive parenting. It wasn't supposed to mean no boundaries, and it definitely wasn't supposed to mean sacrificing your wellbeing to avoid ever upsetting your child. The 4 C's of Hybrid Parenting: Connect with their feelings, Clarify your boundary, Close with a choice or consequence, and be Consistent. These four steps help you hold both empathy and limits. Use these exact scripts when you're done negotiating: "I hear you. And the answer is still no." / "You're allowed to be upset about this, and the rule doesn't change." / "I've given you my answer. This conversation is closed." Consistency is the secret sauce. If you're not consistent with boundaries, you teach your child that if they keep pushing, you'll give in. This behavior—this consequence—every single time. It's exhausting for the first week, but you'll see changes. Clarity is kindness. When our kids know exactly where the boundaries are, they feel safer. When we waffle, overexplain, or apologize for our limits, we create anxiety in them because they don't know what to expect. 🎯 READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MOM LIFE? Get Your Free Coaching Call Feeling overwhelmed and not sure where to start? Let's talk. Book your free 30-minute coaching call at nataliemccabe.com Join Our Free Community Connect with other moms who get it. Share struggles, celebrate wins, and find support in the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community. Read Natalie's Book: "Sink or Swim Parenting" From surviving to thriving with toddlers to teens. Packed with practical, no-BS strategies for real-world families—not just perfect philosophies that fall apart at 5 o'clock on a Tuesday. 💬 LET'S CONNECT Did this episode resonate with you? I'd love to hear! Screenshot your favorite moment, tag me @nataliemccabe.coach on Instagram, and share what hit home. ⭐ If you loved this episode, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other overwhelmed moms find us!

    26 min

  4. FEB 10

    Why Your Mom Guilt is Always Present as a Busy Mom and 3 Easy Ways to Trust Your Parenting Instincts

    🎯 What's Inside This Episode Join Natalie McCabe as she sits down with Monica Browning, intuitive parenting expert with over 20 years of experience in early childhood education. Discover how to tap into your parenting intuition, create deeper connections with your kids (at ANY age), and finally stop living in your head so you can be present with your family. Monica shares the game-changing "connection before correction" approach and practical ways to pause, observe, and respond instead of react—even when you're drowning in your to-do list.   💔 Why You Need This Right Now Do you constantly feel like you're failing because you're always running through mental checklists instead of actually connecting with your kids? Are you exhausted from trying to be "super mom" while feeling guilty every time you need a break? You're not alone if you come home from a long day and immediately start rattling off demands instead of actually seeing your child. Monica and Natalie get real about how we weren't taught these connection skills—and why that disconnection is stealing your peace and your relationship with your kids. ✨ How This Episode Will Transform Your Motherhood After listening, you'll be able to: Practice the OWL Method (Observe, Wait, Listen) to tune into your kids' actual needs instead of reacting from stress Reconnect with your intuition through simple daily practices like observing nature—even from your backyard Use "connection before correction" to reduce power struggles and get cooperation without the battle Take guilt-free pauses before responding to your kids, even teenagers going through mood swings Model self-compassion so your children learn healthy emotional regulation from watching YOU 🌿 The Power of Slowing Down Monica reveals why our "hustle culture" parenting is backfiring and shares her personal story of ending up in the hospital from exhaustion. Learn how simply stepping outside and noticing a bee on a flower can rewire your brain to be more present—and why this tiny habit creates massive shifts in your parenting and your kids' behavior. 🔄 Connection Before Correction (Game-Changer!) Discover why coming home and immediately listing demands destroys trust, and how Monica caught herself in this pattern with her own teenager. She breaks down exactly how to reconnect first—even when you have a million things that need to get done—and why this approach actually makes kids MORE cooperative, not less. 💡 It's Never Too Late to Repair Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers (or in their 20s!), Monica and Natalie share why apologizing and owning your mistakes is one of the most powerful parenting tools you have. Learn how vulnerability and authenticity create the safe space your kids need to open up to you—especially during those critical teenage years. 🎯 Parenting is a Practice, Not Perfection Both Natalie and Monica get vulnerable about their own parenting struggles and mistakes. You'll hear real stories about waiting for kids to do laundry instead of nagging, catching yourself before disconnecting, and why comparing yourself to "perfect parents" is stealing your joy. This is your permission slip to stop trying to be perfect and start being present. GUEST INFO: Monica Browning Intuitive Parenting Expert & Coach | Early Childhood Education Specialist Connect with Monica: Instagram: @homeandharmonyparenting Website: homeandharmonyparenting.com 🎁 Ready to Feel More Connected and Less Overwhelmed? Join the FREE Mom Life Uncomplicated Community where you'll find support from other moms and expert parent coaches who get it. No judgment, just practical strategies and real talk. 👉 Join Here: nataliemccabe.com/community 📞 Want Personalized Support? Book a FREE 30-minute coaching discovery call with Natalie. Let's identify your biggest stress triggers and create a simple action plan to reduce your mental load. 👉 Book Your Call: nataliemccabe.com 📖 Get Chapter One FREE! Want to dive deeper? Get the first chapter of "Sink or Swim Parenting" absolutely FREE—Natalie's guide to surviving to thriving with toddlers to teens. 👉 Download Free Chapter: nataliemccabe.com/book 📚 Pre-Order the Book Pre-order "Sink or Swim Parenting: From Surviving to Thriving with Toddlers to Teens" and get exclusive bonuses! 👉 Pre-order Now: nataliemccabe.com/book

    28 min

  5. FEB 5

    Struggling with Connection? 5 Tips to Pause Your Mental Load and Be Present as a Overwhelmed Mom

    🎯 What's Inside This Episode Join Natalie McCabe as she sits down with Monica Browning, intuitive parenting expert with over 20 years of experience in early childhood education. Discover how to tap into your parenting intuition, create deeper connections with your kids (at ANY age), and finally stop living in your head so you can be present with your family. Monica shares the game-changing "connection before correction" approach and practical ways to pause, observe, and respond instead of react—even when you're drowning in your to-do list. 💔 Why You Need This Right Now Do you constantly feel like you're failing because you're always running through mental checklists instead of actually connecting with your kids? Are you exhausted from trying to be "super mom" while feeling guilty every time you need a break? You're not alone if you come home from a long day and immediately start rattling off demands instead of actually seeing your child. Monica and Natalie get real about how we weren't taught these connection skills—and why that disconnection is stealing your peace and your relationship with your kids. ✨ How This Episode Will Transform Your Motherhood After listening, you'll be able to: Practice the OWL Method (Observe, Wait, Listen) to tune into your kids' actual needs instead of reacting from stress Reconnect with your intuition through simple daily practices like observing nature—even from your backyard Use "connection before correction" to reduce power struggles and get cooperation without the battle Take guilt-free pauses before responding to your kids, even teenagers going through mood swings Model self-compassion so your children learn healthy emotional regulation from watching YOU 🌿 The Power of Slowing Down Monica reveals why our "hustle culture" parenting is backfiring and shares her personal story of ending up in the hospital from exhaustion. Learn how simply stepping outside and noticing a bee on a flower can rewire your brain to be more present—and why this tiny habit creates massive shifts in your parenting and your kids' behavior. 🔄 Connection Before Correction (Game-Changer!) Discover why coming home and immediately listing demands destroys trust, and how Monica caught herself in this pattern with her own teenager. She breaks down exactly how to reconnect first—even when you have a million things that need to get done—and why this approach actually makes kids MORE cooperative, not less. 💡 It's Never Too Late to Repair Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers (or in their 20s!), Monica and Natalie share why apologizing and owning your mistakes is one of the most powerful parenting tools you have. Learn how vulnerability and authenticity create the safe space your kids need to open up to you—especially during those critical teenage years. 🎯 Parenting is a Practice, Not Perfection Both Natalie and Monica get vulnerable about their own parenting struggles and mistakes. You'll hear real stories about waiting for kids to do laundry instead of nagging, catching yourself before disconnecting, and why comparing yourself to "perfect parents" is stealing your joy. This is your permission slip to stop trying to be perfect and start being present. CALLS-TO-ACTION: 🎁 Ready to Feel More Connected and Less Overwhelmed? Join the FREE Mom Life Uncomplicated Community where you'll find support from other moms and expert parent coaches who get it. No judgment, just practical strategies and real talk. 👉 [Join Here: nataliemccabe.com/community] 📞 Want Personalized Support? Book a FREE 30-minute coaching discovery call with Natalie. Let's identify your biggest stress triggers and create a simple action plan to reduce your mental load. 👉 [Book Your Call: nataliemccabe.com] 📖 Get Chapter One FREE! Want to dive deeper? Get the first chapter of "Sink or Swim Parenting" absolutely FREE—Natalie's guide to surviving to thriving with toddlers to teens. 👉 [Download Free Chapter: nataliemccabe.com/book] 📚 Pre-Order the Book Pre-order "Sink or Swim Parenting: From Surviving to Thriving with Toddlers to Teens" and get exclusive bonuses! 👉 [Pre-order Now: nataliemccabe.com/book] GUEST INFO: Monica Browning Intuitive Parenting Expert & Coach | Early Childhood Education Specialist Connect with Monica: Instagram: @homeandharmonyparenting Website: homeandharmonyparenting.com

    28 min

  6. FEB 3

    Understanding Your Child's Love Language: The Secret to Easier Days

    🎧 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE Stuck inside with your kids this winter and feeling like you're constantly butting heads? What if the problem isn't your parenting—it's that you're trying to connect with all your kids in the exact same way? In this episode, I'm breaking down the 5 love languages as they apply to children, and sharing the exact moment I realized my two kids needed completely different things from me to feel loved and secure. This awareness changed everything—and it took the pressure off trying to parent them identically. 🎧 In This Episode: • The bedtime routine revelation that showed me my kids receive love differently [3:00] • How to spot your child's primary love language (detective work required!) [5:00] • Practical strategies for each of the 5 love languages—with winter-specific activities [7:00] • Why 15 minutes of focused connection beats a half-day at the park [11:00] • The mistake I made as an "acts of service" person (and how to avoid resentment) [13:00] • Simple homework to identify what makes each of your kids feel truly seen [17:00] 💡 WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU If you've been feeling exhausted trying to connect with your kids and nothing seems to land, you're not failing—you might just be speaking the wrong language. Here's what nobody tells you: each of your kids is wired differently. One might light up when you verbally praise them, while another feels most loved through a head rub at bedtime. When you understand how each child receives love best, you stop spinning your wheels and start working smarter, not harder. Winter is actually the perfect time for this work. You're stuck inside together more. The days are long. And these cozy evenings give you the opportunity to really see your kids—not just look at them, but truly understand what makes them tick. ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS Your kids aren't all the same. Even with the same routine and same parent, what fills each child's emotional cup is completely different. My daughter needed verbal connection while my son needed physical touch and quiet presence. Watch what they request. Kids tell you their love language through what they ask for repeatedly. Do they want help with tasks? Gifts they made? Physical play? Your words? Your undivided attention? Pay attention to the pattern. Use all 5 languages, but prioritize their primary. You don't stop hugging your words-of-affirmation kid or talking to your physical-touch kid. But understanding their primary language helps you meet them where they are most effectively. Winter = connection opportunity. Candlelight dinners, hide-and-seek in the dark, 15-minute one-on-one time, bedtime snuggles—winter gives you built-in opportunities to practice speaking each child's love language. Work smarter, not harder. When you understand what makes each child feel loved, the days get easier. The challenges decrease. You stop feeling like you're constantly missing the mark. 📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED: "The 5 Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman (adapted for children) • Character strengths vocabulary PDF (available in the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community) • Previous podcast: "Connection Instead of Correction" (two-part series) 🎯 READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MOM LIFE? 📞 Get Your Free Coaching Call Feeling overwhelmed and not sure where to start with your kids? Let's talk about your specific challenges and create a personalized plan. Book your free 30-minute coaching call 💜 Join Our Free Community Connect with other moms who get it. Share struggles, celebrate wins, and access exclusive resources like the character strengths PDF mentioned in this episode. Join the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community 📖 Read "Sink or Swim Parenting" From surviving to thriving with toddlers to teens—discover the practical strategies that helped me navigate single motherhood and now help thousands of moms find their footing. Get your copy on Amazon 💬 LET'S CONNECT Did this episode resonate with you? I'd love to hear which love language you discovered for each of your kids! Screenshot your favorite moment, tag me @natalie_mccabe_official on Instagram, and share your biggest aha. ⭐ If you loved this episode, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other overwhelmed moms find us!

    19 min

  7. JAN 29

    Self-Care vs Self-Love and Why Your Bubble Baths Aren't Working | EP 81

    🎧 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE Are you checking all the self-care boxes—bubble baths, yoga classes, face masks—but still feeling completely exhausted and empty? What if the problem isn't that you need MORE self-care, but that you're missing the deeper work of self-love? Today we're breaking down the crucial difference between self-care and self-love, and why one without the other keeps you trapped in the burnout cycle. In This Episode: • The critical difference between self-care (what you DO) and self-love (how you FEEL about yourself)  • Why self-care without self-love actually makes burnout worse • The three practical steps to build self-love: awareness, reconnection, and real-time compassion • How to use winter as a cocoon period for self-discovery instead of another season to hustle • What happens when you lose yourself in motherhood (and how to find yourself again before your kids leave home)  💙 WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU If you're like most overwhelmed moms, you've been told that self-care is the answer to your exhaustion. Take a bath. Get your nails done. Have a coffee date. And you've tried—you really have. But here's what nobody tells you: all the bubble baths in the world won't fill the void if you don't actually believe you're worthy of that care. This episode is for the mom who's lost herself completely in motherhood. The one who can't remember the last time she did something just because she wanted to—not because her kids needed it, not because work required it, not because the house was falling apart. You're checking the self-care boxes but still feeling depleted, guilty, and empty. The truth? You're treating self-care like another to-do list item instead of addressing the root cause: you've fundamentally stopped believing you matter. This episode will show you how to practice self-love—the internal work that makes all those external self-care activities actually meaningful. It's about reclaiming who you are underneath all those roles you play, and building a relationship with yourself that sustains you long after the kids grow up. 🔑 KEY TAKEAWAYS Self-care is external action; self-love is internal relationship. Think of self-care as washing your car and self-love as maintaining the engine. You can have the shiniest car on the block, but if the engine's broken, you're not going anywhere. Both matter, but without self-love, self-care becomes just another way to feel guilty and inadequate. The brutal self-talk trap. Most overwhelmed moms say things to themselves they would never say to their children or best friends. For one week, catch yourself in negative self-talk and ask: "Would I say this to my daughter?" If the answer is no, you don't get to say it to yourself either. Your thoughts literally create your reality—start paying attention to what's happening in your mind. Five minutes of reconnection changes everything. You don't need a complete identity overhaul or a week-long retreat. Start with just five minutes a day doing ONE thing that makes you feel like yourself—not mom, not employee, not partner. Just you. Maybe it's a song from high school, journaling one page, or sitting in your car before going inside. What matters is building the relationship with yourself, because when your kids eventually need you less, you need to know who you are. Winter is your cocoon, not your starting line. Stop treating January like a time to hustle harder, set new goals, or transform yourself. Winter is nature's rest period. Instead of resolutions and productivity, use this season to be still and figure out who you're becoming. Treat yourself like someone who's been through something hard—because you have—not like a problem to be fixed. Self-compassion in real time is the deep work. When you're yelling at your kids and the mom guilt hits, that's your moment. Instead of spiraling into "I'm a terrible mother," flip the script: "I'm having a hard moment. I'm overwhelmed. I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now." Say it out loud so your kids hear you modeling how to handle big emotions. This isn't making excuses—it's treating yourself with the same emotional regulation you're trying to teach your children. 🎁 RESOURCES MENTIONED Free Coaching Call: Ready to dig into what's specifically keeping you stuck? Book a free 30-minute coaching call at nataliemccabe.com Join the Community: Connect with other overwhelmed moms working through this journey in Natalie's free community at nataliemccabe.com/community Related Episodes: Episode on Childhood Sensory Experiences (referenced in this episode) Post-Holiday Burnout Recovery Mom Rage Regulation Techniques 📲 CONNECT WITH NATALIE Instagram: @natalie_mccabe_official Facebook: Natalie McCabe Website: nataliemccabe.com 💬 WHAT RESONATED WITH YOU? Drop a comment and let me know—which takeaway hit home for you? Are you practicing self-care without self-love? What's one tiny thing you're going to do this week to reconnect with yourself? If this episode helped you, share it with another overwhelmed mom who needs to hear this. And if you're loving the podcast, leaving a review means the world and helps other moms find us.

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  8. JAN 27

    The Hidden Beliefs Keeping You Broke (And How to Fix Them) | EP 80

    💰 WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE What if the reason you can't get ahead financially has nothing to do with your income—and everything to do with a belief you absorbed before age 10? What if you're unconsciously sabotaging your own success because deep down, you feel guilty about becoming "one of those people"? 🎧 In This Episode: Why money is deeply emotional (not logical) and how this affects every financial decision you make (01:30) The real reason Julia avoided money for years—and how it created a controlling dynamic in her marriage (02:00) Gino's powerful concept: "Money doesn't corrupt you, it reveals who you really are" (09:00) How Julia self-sabotaged her own success because of tribal guilt and unworthiness (11:00) The dangerous money myths we tell our kids without realizing it (05:30) Why "we don't have enough right now" creates lifelong scarcity patterns (06:00) How a simple comment about pajamas affected their daughter's relationship with money into adulthood (06:30) The critical difference between earning "happy money" vs. "unhappy money" (03:00) Why values-based financial decisions change everything (04:30) How to actually talk about money with your spouse without starting World War III (18:00) 💭 WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU Here's what most people don't realize: money isn't about math. It's about emotion. It's about the beliefs you absorbed watching your parents stress over bills, hearing "we can't afford that right now" on repeat, or witnessing how wealthy people were discussed in your home. Julia grew up in an Irish Catholic family where people worked incredibly hard but never had a savings plan. Money came in, money went out, and there was constant scarcity. When she met Gino (who grew up with an Italian family focused on saving and planning), she was so uncomfortable with money that she literally handed over all control to him—which created a toxic dynamic in their marriage where he became controlling with finances and she became controlling with the kids. Here's the gut-punch truth they share: when Gino made an offhand frustrated comment about their daughter wanting pajamas at the store, that little girl internalized the belief that she was a burden. Now, as an adult, she struggles with feeling like she doesn't deserve things she wants to buy. One moment. One comment. Decades of impact. This episode goes deep into the emotional underbelly of money—the self-sabotage patterns, the tribal guilt about "leaving people behind" when you succeed, the scarcity mindset that keeps you stuck even when you're making money, and the dangerous myths we pass to our children without even knowing it. Gino shares his powerful distinction between "happy money" (money earned doing work that brings fulfillment, energy, and soul purpose) versus "unhappy money" (money earned in jobs that drain you). Julia reveals how she sabotaged herself for years because she unconsciously believed that making money would make her "evil" like the wealthy people her family criticized. But here's the most important part: they give you the roadmap to break these patterns. It starts with understanding your money beliefs, having open conversations with your spouse about where those beliefs came from, and making values-based financial decisions as a family. Whether you're constantly stressed about money, avoiding financial conversations with your partner, or worried about what money beliefs you're passing to your kids, this conversation will change how you see everything. ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS Money is a symptom, not the root cause. Most couples think they're fighting about spending or saving, but the real issue is the emotional patterns and beliefs underneath. Julia was uncomfortable with money from childhood, so she gave Gino all control—which made him controlling with finances and her controlling with the kids. The money problem was actually a beliefs problem. Money doesn't corrupt you—it reveals who you are. As Gino's mentor taught him, money simply amplifies who you already are. If you're generous, you become more generous. If you're fearful, you become more fearful. This reframe is critical because many people sabotage their own success believing that wealth will corrupt them. The words you use create lifelong patterns in your kids. When Julia's daughter heard Gino's frustrated comment about pajamas, she internalized: "I'm a burden. I don't deserve things." Now as an adult, she struggles with feeling unworthy when buying things she wants. Your offhand comments about money are creating your children's adult money stories. "We don't have enough right now" creates permanent scarcity. Julia grew up hearing this phrase constantly—and "right now" never ended. It created a belief that there would never be enough, which she carried into her marriage and almost passed to her own children. Pay attention to the language you use around money. Tribal guilt keeps you stuck. When Julia started experiencing financial success with Gino, she felt guilty "leaving her tribe behind." She worried people would think she was saying "I'm successful now and you're not," even though nobody was actually saying that. Self-sabotage often comes from feeling disloyal to where you came from. Values-based financial decisions eliminate guilt and stress. Once you're clear on your family values (health, education, experiences, etc.), financial decisions become simple. Gino and Julia value health, so organic food isn't a frivolous expense—it's aligned with their values. When decisions align with values, there's no guilt or second-guessing. Seek first to understand, then to be understood. (Stephen Covey) Before having money conversations with your spouse, seek to understand their money story first. Listen to where they came from, what they heard growing up, and what fears they carry. Then share yours. This creates empathy instead of defensiveness. 👫 ABOUT GINO & JULIA BARBARO Gino and Julia Barbaro are certified life and marriage coaches, money coaches, and hosts of The Julia and Gino Show. As homeschooling parents of six children (ages 8-26), they deeply understand the daily challenges of balancing marriage, parenting, and financial stress. Julia empowers couples to strengthen their communication and create deeper connections so moms feel supported and valued. Gino is a successful real estate investor (1900+ units) and bestselling author of Happy Money, Happy Family, Happy Legacy. He helps families achieve financial freedom while reducing stress and building peaceful homes. Together through Barbaro 360, they provide practical, faith-based strategies for uncovering money beliefs, healing financial trauma, and making values-based decisions that bring peace to your family. Connect with Gino & Julia: 🎙️ Podcast: The Julia and Gino Show 🌐 Website: Barbaro360.com (take their free money quiz!) 📱 Instagram: [Natalie to provide handles] 💥 Facebook: [Natalie to provide handles] 📌 Pinterest: [Natalie to provide handles] 🎯 READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MOM LIFE? 🎯 Get Your Free Coaching Call Struggling with money stress, self-sabotage, or limiting beliefs that keep you stuck? Let's talk. I'll help you identify what's really going on beneath the surface. [Book your free 30-minute coaching call here - nataliemccabe.com] 💜 Join Our Free Community Connect with other moms navigating money stress, marriage challenges, and parenting overwhelm. No judgment, just support from women who get it. [Join the Mom Life Uncomplicated Community - nataliemccabe.com] 📖 Read Natalie's Book: "Sink or Swim Parenting" Learn how to break generational patterns, reduce your mental load, and create the peaceful family life you deserve. [Get your copy -nataliemccabe.com/sinkorswim ] 💬 LET'S CONNECT Did this episode make you realize something about your own money story? Screenshot your biggest aha moment, tag me @nataliemccabe.coach and Gino & Julia, and share what clicked! ⭐ If this episode helped you understand your relationship with money differently, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other overwhelmed moms find the financial healing they need!

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Ever feel like you’re drowning in the stress of mom life and like your head is going to explode? Are you overwhelmed from juggling work, kids, and a never-ending to-do list—while trying (and failing) to find time for yourself? Sick of scrolling social media for solutions that don’t fit your family? Do you want practical, no-BS expert parenting and home organization strategies that actually make life simpler and bring peace in your day to day? If you’re nodding along, welcome—you’re in the right place. Mom Life Uncomplicated is here to help you break free from burnout, release the guilt, and create a simpler, more peaceful home life. I’ll show you practical ways to lighten your mental load, set guilt-free boundaries, and make time for yourself—without sacrificing your family’s needs. You’ll learn how to reduce daily chaos, manage your energy, and finally enjoy motherhood the way you always imagined. If you’re ready to stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling like yourself again, join me each week for real conversations with experts, actionable strategies, and simple solutions to transform your motherhood journey—one doable step at a time. I’m Natalie McCabe—a certified parent coach, educator, author and mom who’s lived through the stress, the guilt, and the exhaustion of trying to do it all. For 16 years, I navigated single motherhood while building a business, managing a household, and constantly putting myself last. I know exactly what it feels like to be running on empty, stretched too thin, and questioning if I was failing my kids. I was overwhelmed, short on patience, drowning in guilt, and stuck in survival mode. Something had to change. I finally took control—simplifying my routines, organizing my home and life, and prioritizing myself without sacrificing my family’s needs. I dove deep into child development and parenting strategies to gain confidence in my decisions. I made mindset shifts that transformed not just my parenting, but my entire life. If you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm, take back your time, and parent with confidence, this podcast is for you. So grab your water bottle and hydrate! We GOT this Mom Life! Website: www.nataliemccabe.com Free Community - https://community.nataliemccabe.com/invitation?code=5G64A6 https://linktr.ee/nataliemccabe

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