Paradox and Parts

Sarah Failla
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Paradox & Parts is the podcast for women who are tired of pretending they're fine—and starting to hear that quiet (or not-so-quiet) whisper that something needs to shift. If you're in a season where what used to work just… doesn't—you're not broken. You're in a sacred shift. I'm Sarah Failla—Master Life Coach, Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and the friend who will ask what's really going on under the overthinking, people-pleasing, and "I'm fine" smile. Each episode offers honest conversations, practical tools, and powerful perspectives to help you trust yourself more deeply, speak up more clearly, and live more aligned—in every part of your life. Topics include IFS/parts work, nervous system healing, boundaries, inner child work, body image, faith, deconstruction, identity, motherhood, money, sex, self-trust, embodiment, and navigating the in-between seasons of life with courage and compassion. Especially supportive for women who grew up in the church and are ready to let go of the good girl programming.

  1. 09/16/2025

    19| When Growth Feels Like Grief: The Hidden Cost of Becoming

    In this episode of Paradox & Parts, we explore the emotional cost of growth—what it really means to outgrow old roles, relationships, identities, and belief systems that once felt like home. While much of the world celebrates the "becoming," few talk about the grief that often comes with it. In this honest and reflective conversation, I dive into the parts of growth we tend to avoid: the fear, the resistance, the internal pushback from your nervous system, and the ache of letting go—even when it's time. You'll hear why protector parts often rise during seasons of expansion, how to hold grief and gratitude at the same time, and what it looks like to lead yourself with compassion through life's transitions. This episode includes practical tools for checking in with your body, speaking to scared parts of you, and discerning the difference between fear… and a holy, unfamiliar yes. Whether you're shifting careers, redefining your identity, walking away from old patterns, or just sensing a new season ahead—this episode is here to remind you: Growth doesn't mean you're broken. It means you're becoming. And it's okay if that feels like loss before it feels like liberation.   Connect:  CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    25 min

  2. 09/09/2025

    18| The Art of Receiving: Why It's Hard, Why It Matters, and How to Practice

    On the surface, receiving looks simple—someone offers a gift, a compliment, or support and you say "thank you." In real life, it's layered, messy, and vulnerable. In this episode of Paradox & Parts, Sarah Failla unpacks the paradox of receiving: why it feels hard (family, culture, church conditioning), how judgment blocks our openness ("must be nice"), and why receiving isn't weakness or passivity—it's partnership and participation with God, people, and life. You'll hear a vivid $1,000 coffee exercise, a gentle reframing of Acts 20:35, and a personal story about advocating with dignity when plans fell through.  If you've struggled to accept compliments, help, opportunities, or provision without guilt, this conversation will help you create a healthier flow—so your giving comes from overflow, not depletion.   CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    23 min

  3. 08/12/2025

    17| Unscripted: When Growth Feels Slow (and You're Circling the Same Mountain)

    In this unscripted episode of Paradox and Parts, I get real about what it's like to face the same patterns, the same fears, and the same inner roadblocks over and over—and why that doesn't mean you're failing. We talk about: Why change takes longer than we want (and why that's okay) How to stop judging your past self with what you know now The power of one-degree shifts in healing and growth What to do when you're in a funk about being in a funk Why "life will life" and how to give yourself grace in the middle of it Whether you're navigating trauma, self-doubt, big transitions, or just a low-energy season, this conversation is a reminder that you've never been you at this exact moment in your life before. You're allowed to be messy, to pivot, and to still be proud of the fact that you care enough to keep going.   CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    9 min

  4. 08/05/2025 · BONUS

    BONUS: Somatic Dignity Practice

    This is the guided practice companion to the previous episode on Somatic Dignity—designed to help you experience the length we talked about. In that episode, Sarah Failla introduced the framework of somatic dignity through the lens of length, width, and depth. This practice takes it deeper by focusing specifically on length—your rootedness, your alignment, and your energetic presence. You'll be guided to source from Divine consciousness and the magnetic energy of Mother Earth, amplifying your somatic length and anchoring your nervous system into truth and power. Whether you're feeling scattered, disconnected, or stretched thin, this episode will help you come back home to your body and your inner resourcefulness. ✨ Best paired with the teaching episode on Somatic Dignity for full context. 🎧 Optional (and recommended) Spotify playlist for background music: Click here. CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    11 min

  5. 08/05/2025

    16| Somatic Dignity: Reclaiming the Power, Presence, and Worth in Your Body

    You've done the mindset work. You've read the books. You've coached yourself through the spirals. But you still find yourself shrinking, stuck, or spun out. What if the missing piece isn't in your head—but in your body? In this powerful episode, Sarah introduces the life-changing concept of somatic dignity—the embodied experience of your worth, presence, and self-respect. She breaks down what it really means to live in your body with alignment, courage, and sacred authority—and why your nervous system, spiritual resourcing, and capacity to feel are key to reclaiming your full expression. You'll explore: The true meaning of somatics and dignity (and why they belong together) How your length, width, and depth shape how you carry yourself and move through the world Why Source, Mother Earth, and your nervous system all matter in reclaiming your power Reflection questions to deepen your connection to your body, boundaries, and presence This is more than a conversation—it's a call to come back to yourself, fully and unapologetically. And it's only the beginning. 🎧 Listen now—and don't miss the bonus episode that walks you through the guided embodiment practice step by step.   CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    19 min

  6. 07/29/2025

    15| You're a Human, Not a Machine: Rethinking Consistency and Self-Discipline

    What does consistency really look like when life is full, your energy shifts, and your nervous system is begging for a break? In this episode of Paradox & Parts, Sarah shares how to redefine consistency so it doesn't burn you out—or become a weapon you use to judge yourself. She talks about: Why we attach moral meaning to consistency (and how to release the shame) How to create Plan A and Plan B rhythms for workouts, food, and routines Why women's cycles change what productivity and discipline look like How to know if your 'go, go, go' drive is true devotion—or a dysregulated nervous system Plus, four reflection questions to help you build rhythms that honor your humanity—so you can show up without grinding yourself down. CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    17 min

  7. 07/08/2025

    14| You're Not Broken: How to Practice Self-Compassion and Quiet Your Inner Critic

    In this episode of Paradox & Parts, Sarah Failla unpacks the powerful truth that you are not broken—and you never were. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, harsh inner dialogue, or body image shame, this episode invites you into a gentler way of seeing yourself. Sarah shares how to recognize when your inner critic isn't actually your voice, how to practice self-compassion even when it feels unnatural, and why embracing all parts of you is the real path to personal growth and emotional healing. You'll walk away with: A new understanding of where your inner critic comes from Healing is about integrating and embracing all parts of yourself Everyone is doing their best, including yourself. 3 powerful journal prompts to deepen self-awareness Permission to be messy, evolving, and fully human And the reminder that your true voice is kind, grounded, and wise This episode blends mindset, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and real-life examples to help you reclaim your voice, rewrite your inner story, and move forward with grace.   CONNECT:  I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    22 min

  8. 07/01/2025

    13| Born Good: Letting Go of Sin Nature and Learning to Trust Yourself Again

    In this episode of Paradox & Parts, if you were raised in the church and taught that you were born sinful, this conversation is for you. We explore how inherited theology—especially the belief in sin nature—can shape our ability to trust ourselves, listen to our inner voice, and feel safe with our own power, desires, and questions. Inside this episode: Discover why "goodness" doesn't have to come from disappearing yourself. Understand what happens when the version of God you were handed no longer fits the life you're living. Learn how to trust your spiritual evolution without shame. Find out why disorientation isn't a sign you're lost—it's often the signal that you're expanding. Whether you're in the midst of deconstructing your faith, supporting someone who is, or wrestling with deep-rooted beliefs that still impact your life today, this episode offers a balm, a reframe, and a heartfelt reminder: You were never bad. You were born good. And as you grow, your relationship with God can evolve right along with you. 🎧 Listen now, and share with a friend who's navigating the same shift.   CONNECT:  If everything's fine—but something feels off. Let's talk. I offer 1:1 coaching for women navigating the in-between—those who are done pretending they're fine and ready to live with more alignment, trust, and presence. Follow me on Instagram @coachsarahfailla for grounded truth, coaching takeaways, and life behind the scenes. And if you'd rather stay in the loop quietly, join my email list for podcast updates and future offerings: Sign Up.

    22 min
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Paradox & Parts is the podcast for women who are tired of pretending they're fine—and starting to hear that quiet (or not-so-quiet) whisper that something needs to shift. If you're in a season where what used to work just… doesn't—you're not broken. You're in a sacred shift. I'm Sarah Failla—Master Life Coach, Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and the friend who will ask what's really going on under the overthinking, people-pleasing, and "I'm fine" smile. Each episode offers honest conversations, practical tools, and powerful perspectives to help you trust yourself more deeply, speak up more clearly, and live more aligned—in every part of your life. Topics include IFS/parts work, nervous system healing, boundaries, inner child work, body image, faith, deconstruction, identity, motherhood, money, sex, self-trust, embodiment, and navigating the in-between seasons of life with courage and compassion. Especially supportive for women who grew up in the church and are ready to let go of the good girl programming.

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  • Creator
    Sarah Failla
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
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