Collective Thoughts Podcast

Amy

Collective Thoughts is a podcast rooted in community, care, and connection—where we explore the full spectrum of doula work, from preconception to end-of-life. Hosted by Amy, Christina, and Delanie, each episode invites you into collective conversations that center healing, shared wisdom, and the power of showing up together through life’s biggest transitions. 

Episodes

  1. Doula by Design: How the Enneagram shapes our support style

    JUL 1

    Doula by Design: How the Enneagram shapes our support style

    What if the key to understanding your doula strengths (and stress points) lies in your personality? This week, we're exploring the Enneagram—a powerful self-awareness tool that helps uncover why we do what we do, and how that plays out in doula support. In this episode, Delanie takes the lead as our resident Enneagram guide, walking Amy and Christina through their newly-discovered Enneagram results and what those types reveal about their doula identities. In this episode, we cover: What the Enneagram is—and why it’s helpful for doulasAmy’s Type 8w7: The Fierce, Protective, No-Nonsense AdvocateChristina’s Type 2w3: The Warm, Accomplished, Go-the-Extra-Mile NurturerDelanie’s Type 6w5: The Loyal, Thoughtful, Steady AnchorHow our types show up in client relationships, boundary setting, emotional labour, and advocacyWhat triggers us under stress—and how we grow through itHow understanding your type can help you find better client compatibility (and avoid burnout) Whether you’re deep into the Enneagram world or just Ennea-curious, this episode offers honest reflection, real doula talk, and some big “aha” moments.  Tune in to learn how knowing yourself better can lead to more aligned, authentic doula work. Take the Enneagram test we took here Follow us on Social Media Collective Thoughts IG - https://www.instagram.com/collective_thoughts_podcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Collective Website- https://www.thecollaborativedoulacollective.ca/ The Collaborative Doula Collective IG  - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulacollective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Amy Silva's IG - https://www.instagram.com/auntie_amy_the_doula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Christina King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/christinathedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Delanie King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/delaniethedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Conference IG - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulaconference?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

    45 min
  2. Real over Ideal: Why compatibility beats the dream client myth

    JUN 23

    Real over Ideal: Why compatibility beats the dream client myth

    In this episode, we’re busting one of the biggest myths in the doula world—the idea of the “dream client.”  Amy, Christina, and Delanie dive deep into the truth that real compatibility matters more than a picture-perfect vision of the ideal client. We talk about why chasing the “dream” can lead to burnout, mismatched expectations, and missed connections—and how finding clients who are aligned with who you actually are makes for more meaningful, sustainable support. In this episode, we explore: What the “dream client” myth really looks like—and why it’s not realisticThe power of compatibility and emotional alignment in client relationshipsHow our quiz results helped us reflect on our doula identities and client matchesRed flags & green flags during consultsWhy it’s okay to refer out when the fit isn’t thereHow to market yourself to attract clients who actually vibe with youReal-life stories of unexpected client matches that turned out beautifullyWhether you’re a new doula figuring out your client style, or a seasoned pro who’s ready to drop the pressure of being everyone’s doula—this one’s for you. Tune in and join the convo on choosing real over ideal. Want to take our quizzes? Check them out here!  Follow us on Social Media Collective Thoughts IG - https://www.instagram.com/collective_thoughts_podcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Collective Website- https://www.thecollaborativedoulacollective.ca/ The Collaborative Doula Collective IG  - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulacollective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Amy Silva's IG - https://www.instagram.com/auntie_amy_the_doula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Christina King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/christinathedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Delanie King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/delaniethedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Conference IG - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulaconference?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

    49 min
  3. Big Dreams & Big Conversations: Let's talk about The Collaborative Doula Conference

    MAY 1

    Big Dreams & Big Conversations: Let's talk about The Collaborative Doula Conference

    Big Dreams & Big Conversations This week, we’re talking all about the Collaborative Doula Conference — where the heart of our community comes to life. We’re sharing the why behind the gathering, the vision that brought it to life, and what you can expect from this year’s event. From powerful panels and hands-on workshops to joy-filled moments of connection, this conference is for all of us — doulas, deathworkers, birthworkers, caregivers, and community builders. You’ll hear about some of the incredible speakers, workshops, and events we’re most excited for, plus... our BIG announcement: virtual tickets are now available! Whether you’re joining in person or from wherever you are in the world, we can’t wait to grow, learn, and dream together. Tune in and let’s keep building something beautiful — one collective thought at a time. Follow us on Social Media Collective Thoughts IG - https://www.instagram.com/collective_thoughts_podcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Collective Website- https://www.thecollaborativedoulacollective.ca/ The Collaborative Doula Collective IG  - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulacollective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Amy Silva's IG - https://www.instagram.com/auntie_amy_the_doula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Christina King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/christinathedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Delanie King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/delaniethedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Conference IG - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulaconference?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

    40 min
  4. Meet your hosts & the heart behind the  Collective Thoughts Podcast

    APR 30

    Meet your hosts & the heart behind the Collective Thoughts Podcast

    Meet Your Hosts & The Heart Behind Collective Thoughts We’re kicking things off with a cozy, heart-filled intro episode to welcome you into our world.  In this episode, you’ll meet your hosts — Amy, Christina, and Delanie — three doulas with big hearts, big laughs, and a shared love for community care. We’re sharing our journeys into doula work, how the Collaborative Doula Collective came to life, and the magic that sparked this podcast. You’ll hear why we believe in Collective Thoughts — a space where doulas, birthworkers, deathworkers, healers, and anyone holding space for others can come together to learn, share, reflect, and grow. Plus, get a sneak peek at what’s coming up — deep convos, special guests, and real talk on the beauty and the burnout of care work. So grab a tea, take a breath, and come hang with us. You belong here.  Follow us on Social Media Collective Thoughts IG - https://www.instagram.com/collective_thoughts_podcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Collective Website- https://www.thecollaborativedoulacollective.ca/ The Collaborative Doula Collective IG  - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulacollective?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Amy Silva's IG - https://www.instagram.com/auntie_amy_the_doula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Christina King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/christinathedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Delanie King's IG - https://www.instagram.com/delaniethedoula?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== The Collaborative Doula Conference IG - https://www.instagram.com/collaborativedoulaconference?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

    37 min

About

Collective Thoughts is a podcast rooted in community, care, and connection—where we explore the full spectrum of doula work, from preconception to end-of-life. Hosted by Amy, Christina, and Delanie, each episode invites you into collective conversations that center healing, shared wisdom, and the power of showing up together through life’s biggest transitions.