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Donald Boston Jr

How to make a difference in a divided America

  1. Aug 20

    The Story You Tell Yourself: When Assumptions Become Reality

    Have you ever been absolutely convinced you understood a situation—or someone’s motives—only to get the facts later and realize, “Man... I had that completely wrong”? We all make assumptions. But the real danger begins when an assumption becomes a belief, and we start interpreting everything through the lens of a story we created ourselves. In this episode of Let’s Get It Together, Donald Boston Jr. shares a personal leadership experience that taught him a lasting lesson about the danger of judging a new situation through the lens of old experiences. What appeared to be an open-and-shut case turned out to be something entirely different—and the person at the center of that story would eventually become one of his closest companions. Along the way, we explore the psychology behind schemas and confirmation bias, the wisdom found in John 7:24, and three practical ways to challenge the assumptions we make before they damage our relationships: Separate facts from stories. Replace certainty with curiosity. Choose investigation over imagination. Because sometimes the facts haven't changed... the lens did. And before you allow your imagination to finish someone else's story, maybe it's worth giving them the opportunity to tell it themselves. 🎙️ Listen, reflect, and ask yourself: What facts do I actually know—and what story have I created? Subscribe, share the episode, and join us as we keep growing, keep learning, keep listening—and keep getting it together.

    The Story You Tell Yourself: When Assumptions Become Reality
  2. Jul 20

    The Illusion of connection

    The Illusion of Connection | Let's Get It Together with Donald Boston Jr. We live in the most connected generation in history. We can reach people across the world in seconds, share our lives with hundreds of others, and stay in constant communication. Yet despite all of our technology, many people have never felt more alone. How did we get here? In this episode of Let's Get It Together, Donald Boston Jr. explores the difference between communication and genuine connection. Together, we'll examine how distractions quietly compete for our attention, how our relationships are affected when presence is replaced by convenience, and why so many people long to feel truly seen, heard, and valued. This isn't an episode about blaming technology. It's an invitation to take an honest look at ourselves. Who has our attention? What have we stopped seeing because we've been looking somewhere else? And what would happen if we intentionally chose to reconnect with the people who matter most? If you've ever felt disconnected in a world that's constantly connected... if you've ever wondered why genuine relationships seem harder to find... or if you're simply ready to become more present in your own life... this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss: The difference between communication and genuine connection Why attention is one of the greatest expressions of love How distractions quietly shape our relationships The power of being fully present Practical ways to reconnect with the people who matter most If this episode encouraged or challenged you, share it with someone you care about. Better yet, don't just send them the episode—call them, spend time with them, and remind them that they matter. Because the world doesn't just need more communication. It needs more genuine connection. Let's Get It Together with Donald Boston Jr.—where we challenge ourselves, grow together, and learn how to live with greater purpose, stronger relationships, and deeper faith.

    The Illusion of connection

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