Healing Space

HS Connect

Where chronic illness meets mental health advocacy. Join Cara Nethery (HS activist, social media influencer, and lived-experience advocate) for raw, unfiltered conversations about life with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS).  As a host who navigates HS themselves, Cara bridges the gap between medical expertise and real-world resilience.  Each episode dives into:🔥 Mental health struggles and triumphs🔥 Unspoken realities of flares, stigma, and self-advocacy🔥 Expert interviews with dermatologists, therapists, and HS warriors🔥 Practical tips for emotional wellness and community connection This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a lifeline for the 4% living with HS.  Subscribe for stories that validate, resources that empower, and a space where isolation turns into solidarity.  Hosted by HSConnect | Follow @HSConnectOrg on socials

  1. DEC 16

    Grieving Your Diagnosis

    Grief doesn’t only come after loss—it can begin the moment you receive a diagnosis that changes the future you imagined for yourself. In this deeply compassionate episode of Healing Space, host Cara explores what it means to grieve after a chronic illness diagnosis. From dismantling the myth that grief only applies to death, to walking through the emotional stages many experience after life-altering health news, Cara creates space for listeners to feel seen, validated, and understood. Using the well-known framework of the five stages of grief, Cara gently explains how denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance may show up—not as a checklist, but as a fluid, personal experience. Through a powerful real-life scenario and her own story, she illustrates how grief can look like mourning the body you once had, the career or dreams you envisioned, or the version of life you expected. This episode also covers: Different forms of grief, including anticipatory and delayed griefThe emotional and physical symptoms that often accompany griefWhy timelines don’t define strength or resiliencePractical, compassionate coping tools for moving through grief with careAbove all, this episode is a reminder that grief is not failure—it’s change. And even in the midst of loss, it’s possible to find meaning, support, and a life that is still full and beautiful. A companion worksheet is available to help listeners process and reflect alongside the episode. Find it and other resources at hsconnect.org/healingspace.  This podcast was made possible by UCB.

    14 min
  2. NOV 18

    Depression and HS: Tools for Healing the Mind and Body

    In this heartfelt episode of Healing Space, host Cara opens up an honest, compassionate discussion about depression — what it really is, how it affects those living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS), and most importantly, how to begin finding light again even on the hardest days  Cara explains how depression goes far beyond sadness — it touches how you think, act, and feel. With HS, that emotional weight can grow heavier, as flares, pain, and isolation all feed into one another She explores the connection between inflammation and mental health, sharing research showing that HS patients are nearly twice as likely to experience depression compared to the general population.  But this episode isn’t just about awareness — it’s about action. Cara gently walks listeners through four practical tools for managing low moods and breaking the “domino effect” of pain, loneliness, and self-criticism: 🌿 Behavioral Activation: small, intentional activities that lift your mood — even when you can’t do everything you planned.💭 Thought Reframing: catching and challenging harsh self-talk (“I’m ugly because of my scars”) with self-compassion (“These scars show I’m strong”).🎶 Mood-Boosting Playlist: using music to shift your energy and emotions — from High Hopes to Shake It Off.🤝 Connection and Support: reaching out to friends, family, or online support groups — especially those who genuinely understand living with HS Cara reminds listeners that depression doesn’t mean weakness — it’s a signal your mind and body need care. Through awareness, connection, and small daily steps, healing becomes possible. ✨ “You are not alone in this. Your scars tell a story of resilience, not defeat.” For more mental health resources visit hsconnect.org/healingspace Thank you to UCB for making the Healing Space possible.  This podcast was made possible by UCB.

    11 min

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Where chronic illness meets mental health advocacy. Join Cara Nethery (HS activist, social media influencer, and lived-experience advocate) for raw, unfiltered conversations about life with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS).  As a host who navigates HS themselves, Cara bridges the gap between medical expertise and real-world resilience.  Each episode dives into:🔥 Mental health struggles and triumphs🔥 Unspoken realities of flares, stigma, and self-advocacy🔥 Expert interviews with dermatologists, therapists, and HS warriors🔥 Practical tips for emotional wellness and community connection This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a lifeline for the 4% living with HS.  Subscribe for stories that validate, resources that empower, and a space where isolation turns into solidarity.  Hosted by HSConnect | Follow @HSConnectOrg on socials