A child trafficked for a cheeseburger?! Once you hear it, you can’t unhear it & you start seeing why prevention has to be specific, honest & urgent. We’re joined by Tammy Bitanga, Director of Community Engagement at Ho’ola Na Pua, a Hawaii nonprofit working to prevent child sex trafficking and care for youth who’ve been exploited. Tammy breaks down the real legal definition: when anything of value is exchanged for a commercial sex act with anyone under 18, that child is a victim of sex trafficking. No loopholes, no “they chose it,” no confusion about consent. Tammy also shares her personal story with courage and clarity: early childhood sexual abuse, foster care, grooming, and being “turned out” as a teen, followed by the long road of sobriety, faith, and rebuilding a life. We talk about why trauma changes the brain, how Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) shape survival behaviors, and what actually helps kids stay safer: one trusted adult, meaningful activities, and a community that refuses to shame them into silence. You’ll also hear what Ho’ola Na Pua does across Oahu and the neighbor islands, including prevention education in schools and the healing environment of Pearl Haven. If you’re a parent, educator, coach, auntie, uncle, or simply someone who wants to protect kids, this conversation gives you language, insight, and next steps. Subscribe for more, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these stories and this work. IG @DawnOBrienHI FB Dawn O'Brien HI www.ChooseAloha.org IG @alohaalivepodcast youtube.com/@AlohaAlivePodcast