Thursday Tea with Sami

Samia Estrada, PsyD, DipABLM

 "Thursday Tea with Sami" offers insightful conversations on living well, blending practical tips and inspiring stories to help you nurture your mind, body, and spirit. Each episode dives into everyday habits that can lead to a healthier, more balanced life. 

  1. 3d ago

    From Rock Bottom to Resilience: Colin Potts on Faith, Loss, and Learning to Walk Again

    Send us Fan Mail From Rock Bottom to Resilience: Colin Potts on Faith, Loss, and Learning to Walk Again In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, I sit down with Colin Potts, COO at Regenerative Orthopedics and Sports Medicine, whose life has been shaped by extraordinary loss and an equally extraordinary will to keep living fully. By age 33, Colin had lost both parents, two siblings, and all of his grandparents. After 21 surgeries over 17 years, he ultimately lost his leg — and had to learn to walk, swim, and run all over again. What struck me most in this conversation wasn't just what Colin has survived, but how deliberately he's chosen to rebuild after each loss. We talk about the six years he spent caring for his mother during her illness, and the reframe they built together during that time: focus on what you have, not what you don't; focus on what you can do, not what you can't. We also talk about grief, the "void" that follows losing someone you've cared for, the vulnerability of sharing hard stories publicly, and the mantra that carried him through learning to walk again: just one more step. This is a conversation about resilience as something practiced daily — not a personality trait, but a series of small, deliberate choices. In this episode, we cover: → How Colin and his mother restructured her days around her strengths after her cancer diagnosis → The concept of the "void" that follows caregiving and loss, and how to begin rebuilding after it → Why vulnerability and honest storytelling build trust and connection → The emotional and physical process of learning to walk again after amputation → Colin's "negativity vortex" concept — and how to avoid getting pulled in → The power of finding one positive thing each day, even on the hardest days → Why believing in yourself is often the first and most essential step toward rebuilding → A strengths-based approach to facing any major life challenge Connect with Colin at ColinQPotts.com or on Instagram and Facebook @ColinQPotts — and be on the lookout for his new book, coming out this fall. This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or psychological care. Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  2. 4d ago

    Why We're Afraid to Talk About Death (And How to Change That)

    Send us Fan Mail Grief, Loss, and the Power of Connection with Laura J. Cramer In this episode, I sit down with Laura J. Cramer, founder of Waiting Room Publishing, a Seattle-based indie publishing company creating thoughtful magazines for hospice care, funeral homes, and palliative care settings. Laura's path from professional ballet dancer to journalist to publisher was shaped by profound personal loss — in 2021, she lost both her father and her brother to suicide within the same year. Out of that grief, she created Candlelight Magazine, a publication designed to meet people wherever they are in their grief journey. We talk candidly about the language we use around death and suicide, the isolation that often follows loss, and why so many of us were never taught how to sit with grief — our own or someone else's. Laura also shares the story of the Wind Telephone, a moving art installation that's inspired similar tributes around the world, and we explore practical, compassionate ways to support someone who is grieving without adding to their emotional load. In this episode, we cover: How Laura's background in ballet and journalism shaped her approach to storytelling around griefThe origin story of Candlelight Magazine and Waiting Room PublishingWhy "died by suicide" matters more than "committed suicide" — and how language shapes stigmaThe cultural and religious differences in how we're taught to grieveWhy saying "no response needed" can be one of the kindest things you offer someone in griefThe Wind Telephone project and how it helps people speak to those they've lost — find a phone near you or read more at mywindphone.comHow to support someone without needing a "neat and tidy" ending or closureTreating your grief like a detective — observing without judgmentFree and low-cost resources for grief support, including hotlines and virtual grief groupsConnect with Laura J. Cramer & Waiting Room Publishing: Website: waitingroompublishing.comInstagram/Social: @waitingroompublishingRead Candlelight Magazine free online, or reach out via the contributor page if you'd like to submit a story ideaSupport the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  3. Jul 23

    The Connection Prescription: How Relationships Shape Your Health, Sleep, and Longevity

    Send us Fan Mail Loneliness has been compared to smoking 15 cigarettes a day in terms of its health impact — and yet we rarely think of our relationships as part of our health routine. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Lauren Messina, couple and family therapist and co-owner of Evergrow Therapy and Wellness Collective, to explore why connection is one of the six pillars of lifestyle medicine and how it shapes everything from our physical health to our sense of purpose. Lauren shares her journey from family science research to working with military service members on "social fitness," and how that experience shaped her current work supporting new parents through the relational side of the transition to parenthood. In this conversation, we cover: Why the quality of your relationships at 50 can predict your long-term health better than your cholesterol levelsHow sleep deprivation impacts empathy and communication in relationships (and what to do about it)The biggest relational challenges new parents face — and why we were never meant to parent in isolationPractical communication shifts, including "making the covert overt" and the power of simply saying "I love you"Why 15 minutes of child-led play a day can transform your parent-child connectionThe difference between spirituality and religion, and how social connection fuels our spiritual coreHow connection intersects with the other pillars of lifestyle medicine — nutrition, movement, sleep, and stress managementSimple, realistic ways busy parents can build community and ask for supportGrab your tea and settle in for a conversation full of both heart and science. Connect with Dr. Lauren Messina: Website: evergrowtherapycollective.comPersonal site: laurenmessina.comInstagram: @evergrow_collectiveMilitary/HPRC resources: hprc-online.orgSupport the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  4. Jul 23

    From Exhausted to Empowered: Environmental Medicine & Nervous System Regulation

    Send us Fan Mail Hi everyone, and welcome back to Thursday Tea with Sami! ☕ This week I'm sitting down with Dr. Hilary Claire — clinical psychologist, holistic parenting mentor, and host of the Wild and Well podcast — for a conversation that goes way beyond burnout. We're talking about depletion, emotional regulation, environmental medicine, and why picky eating is so much more than a "difficult phase." Dr. Claire specializes in nutritional and environmental medicine, and her holistic lens on mental health completely reframes how we think about exhaustion, mothering, and even mealtime struggles. Whether you're a parent or just someone running on empty, this episode is full of practical, doable shifts. In this episode, we cover: → Why burnout has become so normalized — and why that's a problem → How to identify the beliefs about "busyness" and productivity that are secretly running your life → The real signs of depletion (physical, emotional, and cognitive) that are easy to miss → Why high achievers often struggle most to recognize their own burnout → How sleep, nutrition, and gut health directly shape our mood and anxiety → Environmental medicine 101: reducing toxins in your home, cleaning products, clothing, and lighting → The surprising link between screen time, blue light, and nervous system stress → The root causes behind picky eating — including nutrient deficiencies, airway/jaw development, and nervous system dysregulation → Simple "micro shifts" (gratitude, long exhales, movement, true breaks) to calm your nervous system in under two minutes Dr. Claire's honesty and holistic approach make this such a validating listen — you'll walk away with real tools, not just more things to feel guilty about. Connect with Dr. Hilary Claire: 🌐 Website: drhilaryclaire.com 📸 Instagram & Facebook: @drhilaryclaire 🎙️ Podcast: Wild and Well (available wherever you listen to podcasts) Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and isn't a replacement for medical or mental health care. Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  5. Jul 2

    Nervous System Regulation 101: Healing Chronic Illness from the Inside Out

    Send us Fan Mail Chronic Illness & the Nervous System: Healing the Mind-Body Connection with Christina Kantzavelos What if chronic illness isn't just something happening to your body, but a signal that your whole system — mind, body, and nervous system — needs attention? In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, Dr. Samia Estrada sits down with Christina Kantzavelos, a trauma-informed therapist and holistic practitioner who specializes in chronic illness, nervous system regulation, and mind-body healing. Christina's path into this work began far from where she expected — doing humanitarian and disaster response work internationally. After contracting Lyme disease, co-infections, and mold-related illness while working abroad, she went from a hyper-independent "Mother Teresa" type to needing help with basic daily care. That experience became the foundation for the integrative, somatic, trauma-informed approach she now offers her own clients. In this conversation, Samia and Christina explore: Why nervous system regulation is foundational to physical healing, and what happens in the body when we're stuck in chronic fight-or-flightThe deep, often-overlooked connection between unresolved trauma, chronic stress, and chronic illnessHow the post-traumatic growth that can come from chronic illness — and why most people who've been through it wouldn't change their journeyThe grief and identity loss that often accompanies a chronic illness diagnosis, and why "going back to who you were before" isn't always the goalWhat's missing from traditional, fragmented models of healthcare, and why treating symptoms isn't the same as treating root causesHow isolation shows up for people with chronic illness, and practical ways to rebuild genuine connection and communitySimple, accessible nervous system tools listeners can start using today — including breathwork, tapping (EFT), visualization, and somatic movementWhether you're navigating a chronic illness yourself, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand the powerful link between nervous system health and physical wellbeing, this episode offers both validation and practical, gentle next steps. 🔗 Connect with Christina Kantzavelos at Begin Within Today (@beginwithintoday on social media) or beginwithintoday.com 💛 Learn more about Dr. Samia Estrada and Dignus Wellness at DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care. Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  6. Jun 25

    What Your Skin Is Trying to Tell You: Nutrition, Genetics & Emotional Health with Dr. Sharad Paul

    Send us Fan Mail What if your skin could tell you something your doctor hasn't figured out yet? In this rich and wide-ranging conversation, Dr. Samia Estrada sits down with Dr. Sharad Paul — physician, professor, and author of Biohacking Your Genes — to explore the surprising connections between skin health, nutrition, genetics, and emotional well-being. Dr. Paul opens with a guiding principle that shapes his entire practice: you can't have good skin and bad health. From there, the conversation unfolds into a fascinating exploration of how the food we eat, the stress we carry, the relationships we're in, and even the communities we belong to all show up — literally — on our skin. Together, Dr. Samia and Dr. Paul discuss the link between processed foods and skin conditions like acne, rosacea, and eczema, unpacking why anything designed to sit on a shelf for months may be doing the opposite for your longevity. They explore what our intuition (or lack of it) actually tells us about our own health, and why gene testing is helping people solve lifelong health mysteries — from chronic migraines to skin rashes — that diet alone can unlock. The conversation also touches on sun exposure and the sunscreen controversy: how much is too much, what mineral vs. chemical sunscreens actually do, and why short bursts of morning sunlight may be one of the most underrated wellness habits you can adopt. And in a beautiful tangent rooted in shared travel experiences — from rural Vietnam to the Serengeti — Dr. Samia and Dr. Paul reflect on what it means to live more organically and humanly, and why the communities that seem to have "less" often demonstrate more genuine joy and connection. Dr. Paul closes with his VIGOUR framework for cultivating happiness — a practical, science-backed approach to positivity that reminds us that well-being is something we can actively learn. This episode is equal parts science, storytelling, and soul. What You'll Learn: Why skin is the body's most honest messenger — and what common skin conditions may be signaling beneath the surfaceThe foods most likely to trigger inflammatory skin conditions (and the ones that support healing)How to safely approach sun exposure, and what to actually look for in a sunscreenWhy our genetic blueprint is not our destiny — and how lifestyle choices can rewrite the storyThe VIGOUR framework for building a more positive, grounded daily mindsetWhat living more "organically and humanistically" looks like in practiceAbout Dr. Sharad Paul: Dr. Sharad Paul is a skin cancer surgeon, professor, and internationally recognized expert in skin health, nutrition, and personalized medicine. He is the author of Skin: A Biography, The Genetics of Health, and Biohacking Your Genes: 25 Laws for a Smarter, Healthier, and Longer Life. Learn more at DrSharadPaul.com and HealthySkinLab.com. Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  7. Jun 18

    From the Playing Field to Everyday Life: The Psychology of Thriving

    Send us Fan Mail High performance isn't reserved for professional athletes. In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, I sit down with Dr. Jonathan "JJ" Jenkins, clinical and sport psychologist, educator, and co-author of Mentality Wins, to explore how the same mental skills used by elite athletes can help all of us navigate pressure, build resilience, and thrive in everyday life. Together, we discuss what it means to perform under pressure without burning out, the difference between confidence and competence, and how small, intentional habits can transform the way we approach work, relationships, and personal growth. In this episode, we explore: Lifestyle medicine and mental performanceThe power of micro-habits and "self-care snacks"Building resilience through intentional discomfortSelf-compassion instead of self-criticismWhy play may be one of the best defenses against anxietyWhy rest is a performance strategy—not a rewardWhether you're leading a team, raising a family, growing your career, or simply looking for practical ways to improve your wellbeing without adding more to your plate, this conversation is full of actionable strategies you can start using today. Connect with Dr. Jonathan "JJ" Jenkins: 🌐 Website: www.mentalitywins.com 📖 Mentality Wins is available on Amazon. 📱 Instagram: @dr.jonathanjenkins Dr. Jonathan Jenkins also welcomes your questions—feel free to connect with him on Instagram to learn more about his work and the ideas we discussed in this episode. Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

  8. Jun 11

    Ditch "No Pain, No Gain": The Smarter Way to Move for Energy, Mood, and Mental Clarity

    Send us Fan Mail What if the key to better energy, focus, and mental clarity wasn't a 60-minute workout — but a few minutes of movement sprinkled throughout your day? In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, Dr. Sami Estrada sits down with Lois Manzella Marchitto, health and fitness expert with over 20 years of experience and founder of Fitness Knocking, to talk about one of the most accessible wellness tools out there: movement snacks. Lois shares how small, consistent bursts of movement — what scientists call non-exercise activity thermogenesis (NEAT) — can have a powerful impact on both physical and mental health, even for the busiest people, those with chronic conditions, or anyone who's never loved the gym. In this episode, you'll hear: What movement snacks are and why our bodies were never designed to sit as much as we doThe science behind NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) and why it counts more than you thinkHow to bust the "all or nothing" mindset around exerciseWhy "no pain, no gain" might actually be keeping you from showing up tomorrowThe surprising connection between movement, oxygen, and brain claritySimple go-to movement snacks for fatigue, brain fog, stiffness, and chronic painWhy stress might not be what you think it is — and what Lois recommends insteadHow movement fits into the bigger picture of sleep, nutrition, connection, and emotional wellbeingWhether you're chained to a desk, juggling a packed schedule, or just starting your wellness journey, this episode will give you practical, no-excuses strategies to move more — starting today. Connect with Lois: 🌐 fitnessknocking.com 📱 @fitnessknocking on Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok Support the show Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

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 "Thursday Tea with Sami" offers insightful conversations on living well, blending practical tips and inspiring stories to help you nurture your mind, body, and spirit. Each episode dives into everyday habits that can lead to a healthier, more balanced life.