That's Not What That Means

Aaron and Olyvia Welintukonis
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Welcome to That’s Not What That Means—a podcast where miscommunication meets marriage, faith, and everything in between. Hosted by Aaron and Olyvia, married over 20 years, each episode features funny stories, honest conversations, and awkward moments as they explore misunderstandings in relationships, the Bible, and life. Inspired by Aaron’s knack for using the wrong words and song lyrics (and Olyvia’s refusal to let it go), they’re not experts—just two people who love Jesus, love each other, and are figuring it out one talk at a time. Listen, follow and share. New episodes out weekly!

  1. Feb 18

    You Won

    In this episode, we dive into our story. From our awkward first encounters to the first time we said “I love you"... sort of. We talk about friendship before romance, the time Olyvia ghosted Aaron when things got weird, and how he somehow remembers everything wrong. Plus, we celebrate the little wins in our family life, like Aaron taking the girls on their own daddy-daughter dates. Get ready for laughs, honesty, and a few “Wait… that’s not how it happened!” moments.

    38 min

  2. Feb 11

    Eugene Young

    Olyvia and Aaron unpack what it’s like being married with wildly different TV taste. Olyvia’s world of reality TV and cult documentaries versus Aaron’s “boy shows” full of crime, spies, and serious soundtracks. They talk about the shows they obsess over together, the nights they stay up way too late because “just one more episode,” and how those shared shows slowly turn into a whole language. Inside jokes, borrowed personalities, and quotes that make zero sense to anyone else. If you and your people communicate primarily in TV references, this one’s for you.

    34 min

  3. Jan 14

    In To W

    We’re back! Season Two of That’s Not What That Means kicks off with chaos, confessions, and a teenager behind the wheel. As our oldest starts learning how to drive, we take a hilarious look back at how we learned. Olyvia admits she’s still not exactly a good driver, while Aaron realizes he might be… slightly distracted behind the wheel. Buckle up, Season Two is officially rolling.

    33 min

  4. 07/16/2025

    Chicka-Flay

    Are they best friends? Do they switch places? Can we tell them apart? In this episode, we sit down with our identical twin daughters to talk about what actually comes with twin life — from the weird questions strangers ask to the reality of sharing everything (including the spotlight). We also get real about what it’s like being twin parents — the good, the hard, the hilarious — and why “two-for-one” isn’t exactly the deal people think it is. If you’ve ever said, “I’ve always wanted twins!” … this one’s for you.

    27 min

  5. 07/11/2025

    The Thing

    Four kids, one dog, and a multi-state move — what could go wrong? In this episode, our friends Luke and Kimber join us to talk about what it’s like to follow God with open hands… and a packed SUV. From Phoenix to Mississippi, they drove through chaos, car snacks, and crazy roadside attractions — all while chasing a call to something new. We talk about obedience, flexibility, and how many bathroom stops are too many. Whether you’re in a season of transition or just trying to survive a road trip with your family, this one’s for you.

    27 min

  6. 07/02/2025

    Aristocrats

    Vacation You is not the same as Regular You — and when you’re married, both versions show up. In this episode, we talk about our very different travel styles: Olyvia packs like she’s moving out and plans to watch the world from an air-conditioned window, while Aaron packs light and wants to explore everything. From packing fails to vacation alter egos, we’re breaking down what happens when you try to relax together… and discover your spouse packed one pair of socks “on purpose.”

    28 min

  7. 06/25/2025

    Florida Man

    Some topics are heavier — and this one might stir something in you. We’re joined by our friend Bis-Kit, a social justice advocate with a heart for youth and the marginalized, for a conversation about what it really means to be “valuable” in a world that too often measures worth by productivity or status. We talk about ICE policies, cultural bias, and how the phrase “if they can contribute to society” reveals more about us than we think. It’s honest, sometimes uncomfortable, but full of love, and truth. If it challenges you — good. That might be where change begins.

    38 min

  8. 06/18/2025

    Sports on mute

    In this episode, we’re talking therapy—why it terrified one of us, why the other thought it didn’t work, and how it ended up being more helpful (and weirder) than expected. Olyvia opens up about memory gaps and the fear of finding out too much, while Aaron shares what it was like feeling unheard in past counseling experiences. Plus, we cover important side topics like gagging over pills and the emotional chaos of watching sports on mute. Because obviously, this is a safe space for all kinds of dysfunction.

    25 min
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Welcome to That’s Not What That Means—a podcast where miscommunication meets marriage, faith, and everything in between. Hosted by Aaron and Olyvia, married over 20 years, each episode features funny stories, honest conversations, and awkward moments as they explore misunderstandings in relationships, the Bible, and life. Inspired by Aaron’s knack for using the wrong words and song lyrics (and Olyvia’s refusal to let it go), they’re not experts—just two people who love Jesus, love each other, and are figuring it out one talk at a time. Listen, follow and share. New episodes out weekly!

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  • Creator
    Aaron and Olyvia Welintukonis
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Aaron and Olyvia Welintukonis
  • Show Website
    That's Not What That Means