Tails and Tones

Mariska Nell

Helpful tips, heart-warming tales, and honest reviews for the busy dog parent, with our first product launching in Q1 2026! (Elevated food and water station) Be First to See Our First Product, an elevated bowl - Join the wait list here https://tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co/ After struggling to find sustainable, well-designed options for her own pup, and digging deep into the pet industry during her Master’s in Sustainable Design, Mariska realized she was searching for products that simply didn’t exist. She realized that if these products didn’t exist yet, maybe it was her turn to help bring them to life. That mission sparked both the upcoming product line and the creation of Tails & Tones. Being a dog mom is the best, but let’s be real, it can also be confusing, messy, and a little lonely sometimes. That’s why the podcast was born: a warm, practical corner of the internet for intentional, busy dog parents. Every second Friday, host Mariska (fellow dog parent, dog-obsessed human, and sustainability-driven designer) delivers short, soulful episodes filled with dog-care tips, honest product reviews, inspiring stories, and real-life advice you can actually use. And now the next chapter begins: Our very first Tails & Tones product launches May 2026! Thoughtfully designed, sustainability-led, and made for modern dog parents like you. Alongside the elevated food & water station, we currently have three additional products in R&D, all created with the same intentional, sustainable approach. Be the first to know when our first product go live, join the waitlist here https://tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co/ Listen on your favorite podcast app, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, or anywhere you tune in. You can also subscribe directly at https://tailsandtones.com/listen If something in the show speaks to you, or you know a fellow dog parent who’d love it, please share it and leave a review on https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/tails-and-tones-6086657 Got questions or just want to say hi? I’m always around on Instagram @tailsandtones Where every tail tells a story, and every tone speaks from the heart. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tailsandtones/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tailsandtones Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TailsandTones Website: https://www.TailsandTones.com

  1. 31: Senior Dog Care & When Is It Time? Navigating Dog Dementia and Pet Loss With Adam Greenbaum

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    31: Senior Dog Care & When Is It Time? Navigating Dog Dementia and Pet Loss With Adam Greenbaum

    Caring for our pets as they grow older asks something deeper of us, more noticing, more patience, and sometimes the courage to begin preparing for goodbye. In this heartfelt conversation, Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love, Baxter, shares his personal journey through losing his beloved dog Baxter and caring for his 16-year-old Boston Terrier, Sophie, who is living with dementia. Together, we explore anticipatory grief, senior pet care, making end-of-life decisions with clarity, and how to support someone grieving the loss of a pet. This episode is a gentle reminder that loving well includes planning well, and that no pet parent has to walk that road alone. Guest Bio:Adam Greenbaum is the founder of Love, Baxter, the world’s largest pet end-of-life resource and professional directory, created in honor of his late dog Baxter. He previously founded WhiskerCloud, a veterinary technology company that supported over 10,000 veterinary clinics globally before being acquired by PetDesk. Today, Adam partners with veterinary teams and human hospice professionals to remove friction for families, provide practical tools, and raise the standard of care from the first hard conversation through aftercare. He lives in Newport Beach, California with his wife Elizabeth, their senior Boston Terrier Sophie, one-year-old Boston Terrier Cosmo, and their cat Nala. Takeaways:Preparing for end-of-life care does not make it happen sooner, it creates clarity when it matters most.Tracking “good days vs. bad days” can help pet parents make grounded, compassionate decisions.You do not have to agree to euthanasia immediately if your pet is stable, you can pause and reflect.There is no timeline for grief, and pet loss is not “less than” any other form of loss.The most helpful thing you can say to someone grieving a pet is simple: I’m here. Tell me about them.Routines and consistent systems (like feeding and walk schedules) can provide comfort for senior pets.Take more photos and videos, not out of fear, but out of gratitude.Loving our pets fully means honoring both the joyful seasons and the difficult ones. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Love, Baxter: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / YouTube/ WebsiteSenior pet planning quality of life Connect with Adam Greenbaum on LinkedInReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / YouTube / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00] Intro Caring for our pets as they grow older [02:14] Welcome Adam Greenbaum [02:52] Adam introduces himself, Sophie, Cosmo, Nala & WhiskerCloud [04:18] The loss of Baxter & why Love, Baxter was created [06:56] Insurance, access to care & the chaos at end-of-life [08:12] What people are actually searching for in crisis moments [10:20] Senior dogs, dementia & what we don’t talk about enough [12:49] Planning ahead, red lines & tracking good vs. bad days [14:07] You don’t have to euthanize immediately [16:40] Adapting care as dogs age, feeding, routines & daily life [20:30] The power of consistent systems for senior pets [22:19] What to say and not say after someone loses a pet [25:09] “It was just a pet” navigating minimization & grief [29:08] There is no timeline for grief [31:24] Preserving memories, photos, rituals & honoring their life [32:18] Why we replay the final days [35:24] Small rituals that help during grief [37:09] How loving our pets changes how we move through the world [39:17] What Adam hopes grieving pet parents feel [41:15] What makes a founder build something that truly matters [42:22] Closing reflections

    43 min
  2. 30: How to Run With Your Dog: Distances, Gear & Ultra Training with Meghan Gould of She Runs Ultras

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    30: How to Run With Your Dog: Distances, Gear & Ultra Training with Meghan Gould of She Runs Ultras

    In this episode, Mariska and ultra running coach Meghan Gould discuss the intricacies of sharing an active lifestyle with dogs. They explore the balance between training for ultra marathons and caring for dogs, the importance of choosing the right breed for running, and the essential gear needed for safe and enjoyable runs. Meghan shares her personal journey into ultra running, the lessons learned from training with dogs, and the significance of flexibility and consistency in achieving running goals. The conversation emphasizes the joy of running with dogs and the importance of making it a fun experience for both. Guest Bio:Meghan Gould is an ultrarunning coach and the founder of She Runs Ultras, a podcast and online coaching community that supports women, especially those in midlife, as they train for their first or farthest ultramarathon in a way that actually fits real life. Meghan has run distances from 50K to 200 miles, giving her firsthand experience with the physical, mental, and logistical demands of ultra running. Through coaching, community, and honest conversations about what training really requires, she helps runners stop second-guessing themselves, build confidence, and make smarter decisions, so they can cross the finish line feeling strong, healthy, and proud. Takeaways:Care for ourselves and our dogs is built in small, consistent choices made over time.Training for ultras requires thoughtful planning and balancing work, recovery, and dog care.A short daily mobility routine like the daily shakedown can help prevent injury and support long-term consistency.Dogs need gradual build up just like humans to protect joints and avoid overuse injuries.Choosing the right dog breed and matching it to your lifestyle is essential for safe and enjoyable running.Pay attention to your dog’s cues such as distraction, excessive panting, or soreness rather than focusing only on mileage.Proper gear including a well fitted harness and hydration plan supports safer runs.Flexibility in your training schedule is more important than rigid perfection.Focusing on the process of training leads to greater confidence and fulfillment than chasing race day results.Keeping runs fun and varied helps both dogs and owners stay engaged and motivated. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Meghan Gould, She Runs Ultra's, Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok, YouTube, PodcastDaily ShakedownEpisode 29: Your Dog Isn’t “Just Getting Older.” This Is What’s Actually Happening with Dr. Laurie McCauleyReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Some dog breeds that might be great if you need a training buddy: Border CollieTypical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12 miles Efficient movers; mental engagement required. VizslaTypical: 5–9 miles, Upper: 10–12 miles Smooth stride, thrives on steady pacing. Rhodesian RidgebackTypical: 4–8 miles, Upper: 10 miles Steady, heat tolerant, large-frame considerations. German Shorthaired PointerTypical: 6–12 miles, Upper: 15 miles Built for endurance; needs humans to enforce limits. DalmatianTypical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12 miles Historically bred to run long distances. Belgian SheepdogTypical: 5–9 miles, Upper: 10–12 miles High-drive, mentally intense endurance dogs. WeimaranerTypical: 5–10 miles, Upper: 12–14 miles Strong aerobic engine; benefits from structure. Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]-Intro [00:00]- How to Share an Active Life With Your Dog Safely [02:16]- Introducing Meghan Gould of She Runs Ultras [03:00]- What Is an Ultramarathon [03:39]- How Meghan Got Into Running [05:05]- Discovering Trail Running and Ultras [06:00]- Balancing Ultra Training and Dog Mom Life [07:23]- What Ultra Training Actually Looks Like Behind the Scenes [08:52]- How Wyatt Started Running With Meghan [10:32]- Why Some Breeds Aren’t Built for Distance Running [12:39]- Choosing the Right Dog Breed for Your Lifestyle [14:24]- How Far Can Dogs Really Run [14:56]- Appropriate Distances for Running With a Dog [17:15]- Why Gradual Build Up Is Critical for Dogs [18:11]- Essential Gear for Running With Your Dog [21:38]- Heat, Hydration and Safety Rules for Dogs [25:24]- What Meghan Wishes She Knew Earlier About Running With Dogs [27:55]- Flexibility vs Perfection in Ultra Training [32:37]- Staying Connected to Big Running Goals Without Pressure [35:31]- What Is the Daily Shakedown [39:15]- The Biggest Advice for Running Safely With Your Dog [40:46]- Upcoming Ultra Races and Travel Plans

    46 min
  3. 29: Your Dog Isn’t “Just Getting Older.” This Is What’s Actually Happening with Dr. Laurie McCauley

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    29: Your Dog Isn’t “Just Getting Older.” This Is What’s Actually Happening with Dr. Laurie McCauley

    In this episode of Tails & Tones, host Mariska Nell sits down with Dr. Laurie McCauley, a pioneer in veterinary rehabilitation, to explore what’s really happening when dogs start slowing down. Together, they unpack why stiffness and changes in movement aren’t always “just age,” and how fascia, trigger points, posture, nutrition, and everyday habits quietly shape a dog’s long-term comfort and mobility. Dr. Laurie shares practical, empowering insights for pet parents, from simple movement and stretching exercises, to weight management, joint supplements, laser therapy, and how feeding posture, including elevated eating setups for certain dogs, can reduce strain on the neck, spine, and joints during daily meals. This thoughtful conversation encourages pet parents to notice sooner, support intentionally, and rethink what’s possible when movement truly becomes medicine, helping dogs live not just longer lives, but happier, more comfortable ones. Guest Bio:Dr. Laurie McCauley is a pioneer in veterinary rehabilitation with a lifelong passion for helping dogs move better, feel better, and live fuller lives. After graduating from Colorado State University’s School of Veterinary Medicine, she opened the first veterinary rehabilitation clinic in the U.S. and designed the first underwater treadmill for dogs, long before the field had a formal name. Board certified in canine sports medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Laurie is the founder of Optimum Pet Vitality and has spent decades educating both professionals and pet parents on how movement, awareness, and thoughtful support can transform a dog’s quality of life. Takeaways:Aging is not a disease, slowing down is often a sign of discomfort, not “just age.”Subtle changes in movement, posture, or behavior often appear long before pain becomes obvious.Early awareness and proactive support can significantly improve a dog’s long-term comfort and mobility.Fascia plays a critical role in movement, flexibility, pain perception, and recovery.Fascial restriction and trigger points can quietly alter posture and movement over time.Trigger points often persist after injury or surgery due to compensation, even when healing appears complete.Movement truly is medicine, regular, appropriate exercise supports joints, muscles, and overall well-being.Controlled strengthening and stretching are just as important as walks or free play.Consistency in daily habits matters more than occasional big interventions.Weight management has a major impact on joint health, inflammation, and longevity.Nutrition and joint supplements can support mobility when used thoughtfully as part of a broader care approach.Tools like laser therapy can help reduce inflammation, support healing, and improve comfort.Feeding posture matters, how a dog eats can influence strain on the neck, spine, and joints.Elevated feeding setups may benefit dogs with neck pain, arthritis, spinal issues, or mobility challenges, but should always be individualized.Empowered, observant pet parents play one of the most important roles in supporting their dog’s quality of life. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Dr Laurie McCauley, Optimum Pet Vitality, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube Top 5 Exercises for Geriatric Dogs (Free eBook)Core & More: Foundational Exercises for Your DogAt Home! Laser Therapy for Pet ParentsReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]- Intro [02:55]- Meet Dr. Laurie McCauley & Her Path into Veterinary Rehabilitation [05:14]- Why Rehab Matters More Than We Realize [06:18]- Aging vs. Discomfort: Early Signs Dog Parents Often Miss [08:34]- Piper’s Story: Laser Therapy, Joint Supplements & Zoomies [10:21]- Longevity, Exercise & Why Movement Is Medicine [10:58]- What Fascia Is and Why It’s So Important [12:45]- Fascia, Immunity & Why “Sticky” Tissue Causes Problems [13:57]- How Movement, Stretching & Breathing Support Fascia [14:55]- Doggy Yoga & Cookie Stretches Explained [15:15]- How Often to Stretch: Daily vs. Throughout the Day [16:27]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Core Strength, Balance & Ball Exercises [17:10]- When to Start Mobility Work (Puppies to Seniors) [19:26]- What Trigger Points Are and Why They Matter [20:22]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Finding & Releasing a Trigger Point [20:58]- Dr. Laurie Demo: Breathing & Movement to Release Tension [21:30]- Breathing, the Vagus Nerve & Calming Your Dog [23:00]- Why Trigger Points Persist After Injury or Surgery [23:36]- Tuning Forks, Vibration Therapy & Fascial Release [25:34]- Laser Therapy: What It Actually Does in the Body [26:15]- Dr. Laurie Demo: How to Laser a Knee Properly [27:40]- Positioning Matters: Cartilage, Ligaments & Arthritis Prevention [28:41]- How Often to Use Laser (Acute vs. Chronic Issues) [30:20]- At-Home Lasers vs. Clinic Visits [31:45]- Why This Is NOT Just a Senior-Dog Issue [32:17]- Arthritis Stats: 20% by Age 1, 80% by Age 7 [32:55]- When to Start Supplements, Exercise & Prevention [33:12]- Exercise, Obesity & Why Weight Matters So Much [33:56]- Range-of-Motion Checks Every Dog Parent Can Do [35:31]- Body Condition Scores & Keeping Dogs Lean [38:10]- Why How Dogs Eat Matters [38:29]- Elevated Bowls: When They Help & When They Don’t [39:57]- Neck, Spine & Pain-Free Eating [40:52]- Piper’s Feeding Changes & Picky Eating [41:02]- Where to Safely Start Supporting Mobility at Home [41:26]- Core & More Program & Simple At-Home Exercises [42:10]- Touch, Awareness & Knowing What’s “Normal” [43:23]- The One Thing Pet Parents Should Pay Attention To [43:34]- Daily Living Functions: Stairs, Jumping & Greeting You [45:28]- What Changes When Dogs Start Feeling Better [46:08]- Final Movement Reminders [47:06]- Free Resource: Top 5 Exercises for...

    54 min
  4. 28: Your Dog Isn’t “Bad”, They’re Overwhelmed (A Dog Trainer Explains Why) with Phoebe Peppiatt from Double Woof Dog Training

    JAN 23

    28: Your Dog Isn’t “Bad”, They’re Overwhelmed (A Dog Trainer Explains Why) with Phoebe Peppiatt from Double Woof Dog Training

    In this thoughtful and engaging conversation, Phoebe Peppiatt, a Dubai-based dog trainer, shares her journey from corporate life to ethical, relationship-led dog training. Together with Mariska, she explores why reactivity is so common, especially in busy urban environments like the UAE, and how confidence, early socialisation, and environment shape behaviour over time. They discuss practical, compassionate approaches to common challenges such as separation anxiety, potty training, and overstimulation, while also highlighting the importance of daily routines, feeding setups, and learning to read canine body language. The episode closes with an important reminder: caring for yourself as a pet parent is not optional, it’s part of caring well for your dog. Guest Bio:Phoebe Peppiatt is a Dubai-based dog trainer and the founder of Double Woof Dog Training. Originally from the UK, Phoebe has spent over a decade in the Middle East and more than five years working professionally with dogs and their humans around the world. Her approach is rooted in positive, ethical, and judgment-free training, with a strong focus on confidence, communication, and understanding behaviour beneath the surface. Having fostered many rescue dogs herself, Phoebe is deeply passionate about helping dogs stay out of shelters by supporting the human–dog relationship before challenges escalate. Takeaways:Patience and empathy are foundational to effective dog training.Dogs communicate stress and unmet needs through behaviour, not misbehaviour.A calm, low-stimulation environment supports emotional regulation.Early socialisation plays a key role in building confidence.Daily routines help dogs feel safe and settled.Separation anxiety improves through gradual trust-building, not force.Feeding setups and environment can affect comfort and stress.Potty training succeeds with consistency, not punishment.Many challenges stem from misunderstandings between humans and dogs.Supporting your own wellbeing helps you show up better for your dog. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Double Woof Website, Facebook, Instagram and TikTokReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]- Intro [03:05] – Phoebe’s journey into dog training [06:10] – Ethical training and lived experience vs qualifications [09:26] – Reactivity: what sits beneath the behaviour [11:40] – Creating a calmer home environment [14:41] – Building confidence in reactive dogs [18:04] – Early socialisation and the UAE context [21:46] – Compassion, pressure, and empathy for dog parents [22:57] – Quiet signs a dog is gaining confidence [24:47] – Separation anxiety in apartment living [28:45] – Buttons, enrichment, and managing overstimulation [36:53] – Misunderstandings and canine body language [39:10] – Why humans change first [40:16] – Daily routines and emotional regulation [43:10] – Feeding setup, posture, and comfort [45:40] – Potty training for puppies and adopted dogs [49:06] – Final reflections on self-care [50:51] – Outro

    52 min
  5. 27: Dog Feeding Posture Explained: Elevated Bowls, Brachycephalic Dogs & What Vets Really Say

    JAN 9

    27: Dog Feeding Posture Explained: Elevated Bowls, Brachycephalic Dogs & What Vets Really Say

    Feeding posture is something most of us never question, yet it’s something our dogs do every single day. In this episode of Tails & Tones, Mariska explores the often-overlooked role of feeding posture in canine health, and why elevated bowls can be supportive for some dogs, but harmful for others. Drawing on veterinary literature, canine physiotherapy guidance, and her lived experience with Piper, Mariska breaks down: how feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders, and spinewhy brachycephalic dogs (like French Bulldogs and Pugs) often struggle morewhat the research really says about elevated bowls and bloat (GDV)subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often missand how to think about feeding as a system, not just a bowl This episode isn’t blanket advice, and it’s not about telling you what to buy. It’s about helping you notice what your dog’s body might be asking for. If you’ve ever wondered whether feeding could feel a little easier for your dog, this conversation is for you. Takeaways:Feeding posture is crucial for a dog's health.Not all dogs should use elevated bowls; individual needs vary.Feeding setups can impact a dog's comfort and well-being.Signs of discomfort in dogs can be subtle but important to notice.Brachycephalic dogs are particularly at risk for feeding-related issues.Elevated bowls can help with posture but are not a one-size-fits-all solution.Daily feeding habits can shape a dog's body over time.Consulting with a vet or canine physio is essential for tailored advice.Creating a supportive feeding environment can improve a dog's quality of life.Pet parents should be proactive in addressing their dog's feeding needs. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Review the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]- Why no one talks about dog feeding posture [01:05]- Important context: this isn’t advice for every dog [03:20]- Piper’s physio moment & the unexpected question [06:10]- Why feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders & spine [09:20]- The emotional impact of chronic discomfort in dogs [10:45]- Subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often miss [13:40]- Treating stiffness: why it’s never just one solution [15:10]- Elevated bowls, digestion & GDV, a balanced view [17:55]- Why brachycephalic dogs are different [19:30]- What “elevated” actually means (ideal feeding height) [21:25]- Why physios start with everyday systems like feeding [22:45]- Rethinking feeding: systems, not products [23:30]- Final reflections, waitlist & how to follow along

    24 min
  6. 26: The Last Best Day: Loving a Senior Dog Through Dementia and Goodbye with Coeli Fortun

    12/26/2025

    26: The Last Best Day: Loving a Senior Dog Through Dementia and Goodbye with Coeli Fortun

    In this episode, we sit down for a gentle and deeply honest conversation with Coeli Fortun, a pet photographer and certified pet nutrition coach, as she shares what it was like to care for her senior dog, Manolo, through decline, and what it meant to give him his last best day. Together, we talk about the bond we build with our pets over a lifetime, the role nutrition and supportive care can play as they age, and the long, emotional road that leads to end-of-life decisions. Chelly opens up about grief, judgment, and the quiet relief that can coexist with loss, and why community matters so much during these moments. This episode is for anyone loving a senior pet, grieving one they’ve lost, or navigating the question no one prepares you for. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to go through it without compassion or support. Guest Bio:Coeli (Chelly) Fortun is a Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach whose work centers on documenting the deep bond between pets and their humans. After caring for her Shih Tzu, Manolo (15 y.o), through three years of senior decline (including canine dementia, degenerative myelopathy, and arthritis) and her cat Snuffles (20y.o), through cancer, she began sharing their stories openly and found comfort in the community that formed around them. Takeaways:Chelly's journey into pet photography began with her own pets.The emotional bond between pets and their humans is profound.Nutrition plays a crucial role in the health of senior pets.Creating lasting memories with pets is essential for pet parents.Euthanasia is a compassionate choice, not a sign of giving up.Grief is a complex and non-linear process for pet parents.Community support is vital during the grieving process.It's important to seek out others who understand your experience.Documenting both good and bad days can be therapeutic.Cherishing the last moments with pets can bring peace. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Coeli Fortun, Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTokManolo last best day videoReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]- Intro [03:45]- Meet Chelly: Photographer, pet nutrition coach & senior pet advocate [05:22]- How photographing her own pets changed everything [07:27]- Why nutrition played a major role in extending her pets’ quality of life [09:15]- “It’s not about fixing aging, it’s about supporting good days” [12:24]- The story behind Manolo’s last-day video [15:11]- Why the park, the sign, and strangers mattered so much [16:06]- Turning grief into connection: sharing to help even one person feel less alone [17:10]- Why end-of-life decisions are never “overnight” [18:21]- Understanding canine dementia (and why no one talks about it) [20:24]- The Quality of Life checklist that changed everything [21:05]- “If they can’t do the dog things they love anymore…” [23:37]- Sensory loss, fear, and what senior decline really looks like [26:03]- How vets and specialists helped confirm it wasn’t “giving up” [27:40]- Holding grief and relief at the same time [29:25]- How to hold space for grief when the world doesn’t understand [32:13]- Why community is everything during senior pet care [35:16]- What to say to yourself when you feel exhausted, judged, or overwhelmed [38:03]- “Euthanasia isn’t giving up, it’s compassion” [42:04]- The moment Manolo showed them he was ready

    53 min
  7. 25: French Bulldog 101: The Ultimate Health Guide, BOAS, Breathing, IVDD, Diet & Puppy Care with Dr. Sarah Ramsey

    12/12/2025

    25: French Bulldog 101: The Ultimate Health Guide, BOAS, Breathing, IVDD, Diet & Puppy Care with Dr. Sarah Ramsey

    This episode dives deep into the essential care and health considerations for French Bulldogs, exploring their rising popularity, common medical issues, and the importance of responsible breeding. Dr. Sarah Ramsey shares her expertise on early care, recognizing health problems, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle for these beloved pets. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the unique needs of French Bulldogs, from nutrition to veterinary care, ensuring a happy and healthy life for their furry companions. Guest Bio:Dr. Sarah Ramsey, originally from West Sussex in the UK, graduated from The Royal (Dick) School of Veterinary Studies in Edinburgh in 2006 and also holds a degree in Parasitology from Glasgow University. She has practiced acupuncture since 2007, is a member of the ABVA, and earned her Certificate in Small Animal Medicine from the University of Liverpool in 2016, later achieving Advanced Veterinary Practitioner status in 2022. With a special interest in feline medicine, oncology, pain management, and end-of-life care, Dr. Sarah has held senior roles including Clinical Director of a two-site practice in the UK and Head of Medicine at a London small animal hospital. She relocated to the UAE in 2021 with her husband, two children, and a growing rescue family of cats, alongside her Bedlington Whippet, Snowy, and a tortoise named Taco. Beyond veterinary medicine, she is a passionate runner, ultramarathon finisher, yoga practitioner, and stand-up paddleboarder, with recent adventures in aerial gymnastics and a goal of completing a triathlon within the next year. Takeaways:French Bulldogs require special care due to their unique health issues.Research is crucial before bringing a French Bulldog home.Regular vet check-ups can help catch health issues early.Brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs often need BOAS surgery.Maintaining a healthy body condition is vital for their well-being.Feeding practices should be tailored to the individual dog's needs.Using an elevated feeding set up can really help this breed.Early socialization and training are important for French Bulldogs.Recognizing signs of pain or discomfort can lead to better health outcomes.Ethical breeding practices are essential to reduce health risks.French Bulldogs can live happier lives with proper care and attention. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:World Small Animal Veterinary Association (WSAVA) Body Condition Score CardDr Well Website, InstagramReview the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00]-Introduction to French Bulldog Care [05:15]- The Popularity of French Bulldogs [06:39]- Understanding French Bulldog Health Risks [10:18]- Choosing the Right French Bulldog [11:32]- Early Care for Your French Bulldog [14:55]- Recognizing Breathing Issues in French Bulldogs [16:34]- Understanding Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome (BOAS) [19:06]- The Importance of Early Intervention for French Bulldogs [21:36]- Assessing Surgical Needs in French Bulldogs [22:28]- Neutering and Its Timing for French Bulldogs [26:21]- Setting Up French Bulldogs for Success [30:26]- Understanding IVDD in French Bulldogs [34:13]- Emergency Responses to Proprioceptive Deficits [35:08]- The Importance of Imaging for Spinal Health [36:54]- Feeding Posture and the Benefits of an elevated feeding system for French Bulldogs [38:45]- Choosing the Right Puppy: Health Considerations [39:38]- The Impact of Breed Characteristics on Health [40:57]- Grooming and Maintenance for French Bulldogs [43:28]- Dietary Needs and Feeding Frequency for French Bulldogs [48:58]- Veterinary Care and Blood Work for French Bulldogs [49:14]- Importance of Baseline Health Checks [50:01]- Proactive vs Reactive Health Management [51:47]- Comprehensive Veterinary Checkups [53:09]- Recognizing Subtle Signs of Discomfort [55:49]- The Role of Research in Pet Ownership [57:44]- Ethical Breeding Practices [58:59]- Health Considerations for French Bulldogs [01:01:51]- Final Thoughts on French Bulldog Care Bonus: Frenchie Nose-to-Tail Health Checklist 👃 Nose & Breathing☐ Nostrils open and symmetrical ☐ Breathing is quiet (no excessive snorting, wheezing, or rasping) ☐ No panting at rest ☐ No blue/pale gums ☐ Able to exercise/play without stopping quickly 👀 Eyes☐ No redness ☐ No excessive tearing or staining ☐ No squinting or blinking more than normal ☐ Corneas look smooth & clear (no cloudy patches or scratches) ☐ Check corners of eyes for any discharge 🐶 Skin & Face Folds☐ Clean between facial folds ☐ No redness or moisture ☐ No smell from folds ☐ No crusting or irritation ☐ Chin and lip folds clean and dry 👂 Ears☐ No redness ☐ No odor ☐ No waxy buildup ☐ Dog is comfortable when ears are touched 🦷 Mouth & Teeth☐ Gums pink and healthy ☐ No broken or loose teeth ☐ Breath smells normal ☐ No difficulty chewing 🧴 Body & Skin☐ No redness, dry patches, or hotspots ☐ No new lumps or bumps (if found, note location + size) ☐ Coat looks healthy & shiny ☐ No excessive itching or licking 🦴 Spine, Posture & Mobility☐ Walks normally (no stiffness, limping, or hopping) ☐ Able to jump up/down as usual ☐ No hesitation on stairs ☐ When running/playing, no signs of pain ☐ No sensitivity when gently feeling along the spine 🐾 Paws & Feet☐ Between toes clean ☐ No interdigital cysts or swelling ☐ Nails an appropriate length ☐ Paw pads clean and free of cracks 💩 Tummy & Toileting☐ Stool normal (note soft, loose, mucus, blood, or changes) ☐ No vomiting/regurgitation ☐ Eating normally ☐ Drinking normal amounts ⚖️ Weight & Body Condition☐ Rib check: Can feel ribs without pressing hard ☐ Waist visible from above ☐ Belly tuck visible from side ☐ Compare with WSAVA Body Condition Score chart 🛁 Grooming Reminders☐ Quick rinse after beach or sand ☐ Weekly brush-out ☐ Bath only as needed (mild dog-specific wash) ☐ Clean folds, underarms, groin if needed ☐ Check nails weekly ❤️ Behavior & Mood☐ Normal energy levels ☐ No sudden clinginess or hiding ☐ No unusual aggression or irritability ☐ Sleeping and playing normally

    1h 5m
  8. 24: Making the Holidays Magical for Your Dog

    12/05/2025

    24: Making the Holidays Magical for Your Dog

    In this episode of Tails and Tones, Mariska discusses how to make the holiday season magical for dogs. She shares the Alfie for Dogs tradition, holiday enrichment ideas, safety tips, and ways to create special memories with pets. The episode emphasizes the importance of connection and presence during the festive season, reminding pet parents to prioritize their dogs' needs and joy. Takeaways:Make the holidays magical for your dog.The Alfie for Dogs tradition adds fun and creativity.Enrichment activities help dogs cope with holiday stress.Safety is crucial during the festive season.Create special traditions to bond with your dog.Dogs thrive on connection and presence during holidays.Use everyday items for holiday enrichment activities.Be mindful of food hazards for dogs during gatherings.Set up a cozy retreat for your dog during busy times.Gifts should support your dog's well-being and happiness. Relevant links mentioned in the episode:Tails and Tones Elfie Experience for Dogs Episode 19: From Bored to Brilliant: How Daily Enrichment Builds Your Dog’s Confidence with Tori MistickEpisode 6: Toxic Foods + Printable GuideDIY Advent Calendar VideoAlex Cearns FurchildWhere Tails meet hearts: Tika @tikatheiggy (Dad's Tribute)Paw-lebrity of the Week: Frederick & Royston @frederickandroyston (Christmas photoshoot and video)Review the podcast on PodchaserSign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter hereSign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) hereFind Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:[00:00] — Intro [00:40] — The Elevated Feeding System Story & Founding Pack [02:18] — Welcome to the Episode [04:10] — What Is Elfie for Dogs? [05:20] — The 25-Day Printable Elfie Pack [06:15] — My Favourite Elfie Setups (Pancakes, Binoculars, Naughty/Nice) [07:30] — Holiday Enrichment Ideas [09:00] — Christmas “Snafari” Walk [10:40] — Wrapping Paper Treasure Hunt [11:20] — Festive Lick Mats [12:15] — Advent Calendars (Store-Bought & DIY) [13:05] — Christmas Eve Treat Puzzle & Cozy Den Setup [13:32] — Holiday Safety for Dogs [15:15] — Toxic Foods & Guest Safety [17:40] — Decoration Hazards [18:40] — Guests, Stress & Decompression Spaces [19:30] — Traveling With Your Dog During the Holidays [20:25] — Special Holiday Traditions With Your Dog [21:45] — Paw-Print Ornaments & Christmas Eve Walks [22:15] — Matching PJs, Pup Stockings & Family Photos [22:55] — Gift Ideas That Support Wellbeing [24:45] — Enrichment Gifts, Treats & Acts of Kindness [25:06] — Where Tails Meet Hearts: Tika the Iggy Tribute [27:28] — Paw-lebrity of the Week: Fredrick and Royston [28:40] — Final Message: Presence Over Perfection

    29 min

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Helpful tips, heart-warming tales, and honest reviews for the busy dog parent, with our first product launching in Q1 2026! (Elevated food and water station) Be First to See Our First Product, an elevated bowl - Join the wait list here https://tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co/ After struggling to find sustainable, well-designed options for her own pup, and digging deep into the pet industry during her Master’s in Sustainable Design, Mariska realized she was searching for products that simply didn’t exist. She realized that if these products didn’t exist yet, maybe it was her turn to help bring them to life. That mission sparked both the upcoming product line and the creation of Tails & Tones. Being a dog mom is the best, but let’s be real, it can also be confusing, messy, and a little lonely sometimes. That’s why the podcast was born: a warm, practical corner of the internet for intentional, busy dog parents. Every second Friday, host Mariska (fellow dog parent, dog-obsessed human, and sustainability-driven designer) delivers short, soulful episodes filled with dog-care tips, honest product reviews, inspiring stories, and real-life advice you can actually use. And now the next chapter begins: Our very first Tails & Tones product launches May 2026! Thoughtfully designed, sustainability-led, and made for modern dog parents like you. Alongside the elevated food & water station, we currently have three additional products in R&D, all created with the same intentional, sustainable approach. Be the first to know when our first product go live, join the waitlist here https://tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co/ Listen on your favorite podcast app, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, or anywhere you tune in. You can also subscribe directly at https://tailsandtones.com/listen If something in the show speaks to you, or you know a fellow dog parent who’d love it, please share it and leave a review on https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/tails-and-tones-6086657 Got questions or just want to say hi? I’m always around on Instagram @tailsandtones Where every tail tells a story, and every tone speaks from the heart. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tailsandtones/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tailsandtones Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TailsandTones Website: https://www.TailsandTones.com