Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table Podcast: A WBQC Production

🎙️ WQBC: Presented by the BQC

Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: Erotica Kink Love & Intimacy Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Podcast is a WBQC Production. 2025 All rights reserved. wbqc.substack.com

  1. MAR 26

    S. 2, Ep. 1: It’s for Black People Anyway (but the Listeners Can be Anyone)

    TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, white supremacy, white fragility, sexism, racism, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! 👩🏾‍🦱 This Episode’s Hotties * Doc Dubs * Wips * The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks (aka The Tizzle) Ep. 1 Summary We’re back, baby! We’re just getting comfortable this episode, but we’ll have more structured shows coming up. Ep. 1 Playlist ✌🏾Be good or be good at it, hotties. Check out all of our past episodes on the following platforms: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

    1h 36m

  2. 12/11/2025

    Ep. 12: Inaugural Season Finale — the WBQC Exit Interview

    TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, white supremacy, white fragility, sexism, racism, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! 👩🏾‍🦱 This Episode’s Hotties * Doc Dubs * Mars (for the first time, and won’t be the last) * Regina Starr * Wips * Summ’ah * The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks (aka The Tizzle) 🧐 Ep. 12 — Summarized When starting this podcast, we had a few objectives: First, we loved the energy of the description. It is vivid, specific, and immediately establishes a “for us, by us” intimacy that is crucial in the erotica and kink space. The phrasing “We’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off” is a fantastic hook; it sets a boundary and an invitation simultaneously. In this episode, we don’t want to call this a “State of the Union,” per se, but as a review of what we’ve learned, enjoyed, hits and misses in our journeys through the fun, yet often turbulent audio erotica community. Speaking of community, that was one reason this podcast started and something The Hotties mention often in this episode. We truly cherish the friendships and connections we’ve made, especially with one another. No one should feel alone unless they want to BE ALONE. We’ve learned a lot about ourselves as individual and confirmed a lot of what we already knew (E.G., the titles of this season’s episodes), and hope that the listeners of this showcast have learned alongside with us. And don’t you worry — we WILL be back in 2026. Have episode ideas for us to add to the queue? Guests you want us to talk to drop us a line here. 🎶 Ep. 12 Playlist We weren’t going to leave y’all without any tunes! 🤬 NSFW Meme to Send You Off With ✌🏾Be good or be good at it, hotties. Check out all of our past episodes on the following platforms: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

    2h 20m

  3. 11/18/2025

    Ep. 11 Taylor Swift is not Every Woman

    TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, white supremacy, white fragility, sexism, racism, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! 👩🏾‍🦱 This Episode’s Hotties * Doc Dubs * Regina Starr * Wips * Summ’ah * The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks (aka The Tizzle) 📚Ep. 11 in Words * Key Takeaways * Summarize the main points: The history of chart segregation is the blueprint for today’s market. Taylor Swift’s dominance is enabled by systemic White gatekeeping. Pop is protected; R&B must innovate. * The Hotties’ Final Word * What is the solution? Is it to create our own systems, or to force integration? Why must we always fight for our place at a table built for someone else? The Hotties’ Final Word: What is the solution? Is it to create our own systems, or to force integration? Why must we always fight for our place at a table built for someone else? * The Set-Up: Start with the latest bland offering from the pop culture billionaire (Taylor Swift’s recent moves/news cycle) and pivot to the larger discussion. * The Thesis: This episode is about the systemic protections afforded to White women in pop culture, specifically in music, but also books and audio erotica/porn. * The Question: Why does Taylor Swift get to be every woman and occupy the cultural center, while Black artists who are her true competitors are marginalized? It’s about more than just personal taste; it’s about the mechanics of genre, charting, and White cultural gatekeeping. ✨ICYMI — Check out Ep. 9 for more on this topic ✨ The Cultural Key & Blue-Eyed Soul * The Central Argument: Taylor Swift, Justin Bieber, Justin Timberlake, and Sam Smith cannot make R&B music because key cultural components of the genre are missing. * Discuss the difference between technical musical proficiency and cultural lineage and experience. R&B is rooted in Black American social history, church music, and vocal traditions — it’s a cultural language. * Define/Discuss “Blue-Eyed Soul”: It’s a term of convenience that allows non-Black artists to profit from Black musical forms with and without appreciation (cite specific examples if desired, briefly). Chart Dominance vs. Pigeonholing * The Systemic Advantage: Taylor Swift gets to dominate the all-encompassing “Pop” chart because her true Black competitors are systematically relegated to the “R&B” or “Hip-Hop” charts. * The Hotties’ Take: Discuss how Pop is often a “White default” genre, while R&B is a “Black default” genre, regardless of the music’s actual sound. * Data Insight (Use Concrete Numbers): Briefly mention the racial disparity in the Hot 100 vs. R&B/Hip-Hop Airplay charts. Example (Hypothetical but based on trends): While Black artists consistently dominate R&B/Hip-Hop charts, they often account for less than $10 of the top $10 positions on the mainstream Hot 100 chart in certain periods, showing a clear ceiling for crossover success unless it’s a massive, undeniable hit. * The Growth Requirement * The Double Standard: Discuss the observation: “No growth is required for pop, but growth is required for R&B.” * Pop’s Goal (Taylor): To maintain mass appeal, often by adhering to a familiar, accessible formula. Success is measured by sameness and scale. * R&B’s Standard (Black Artists): The genre is often held to a standard of innovation, vocal agility, and deep emotional resonance. Growth is required just to exist at a high level. If Black artists simply make “Pop,” they are still called “R&B” or “Urban Pop,” further restricting their market reach. ⚪️ White Fragility and the Cult of Taylor * The Narrative Protection * Discuss how the media creates a protective narrative around Taylor Swift. She is always framed as the underdog, the victim, or the “girl next door” despite being one of the most powerful people in the industry. * The Fragility: Any criticism of Taylor Swift is met with a fervent, often aggressive defense from her (primarily White) fan base and media allies. This is an example of White fragility manifesting in pop culture — the inability to accept criticism about a White cultural icon because it challenges the comfortable status quo. * The “Everywoman” Myth * She is branded as relatable, but only within a very narrow, affluent, White, and heteronormative scope. * The Hotties’ Take: Break down why Taylor Swift is not “every woman” (e.g., her access to generational wealth, her systemic protection, her specific experiences do not translate to the experiences of Black women or other marginalized groups). * Discuss how the relentless push to frame her as “every woman” actively erases the experiences of non-White women whose lives are far more complex and politically charged. * The Cultural Vacuum in Audio/Visual Media * Expanding the Theme: Briefly connect this systemic protection to books, audio erotica, and porn. * Discuss how White women often dominate these spaces (especially in high-profile publishing or major platforms) even when the themes or genres are derivative or lack true depth, similar to the dominance of Taylor’s “bland offering.” * Question for the Table: Who are the Black women who are pushed out of or ghettoized in these spaces (e.g., in Romance, Sci-Fi, Erotica)? 🎶 Ep. 11 Playlist Here’s a list of tasty jams that have better songwriting chops: 📚 Resources for: Taylor Swift is Not Every Woman I. The History of Chart Segregation & The Genre Cage These articles provide essential context on the “Race Records” era and the systemic boxing of Black artists. * Article: “For Coloreds Only: Blackface and Segregation in the Billboard Charts and the GRAMMY Awards” * Why it’s useful: This academic-level piece directly connects the formation of racial categories in music (Rock/Country for White, R&B for Black) to the legacy of minstrelsy and Jim Crow, demonstrating that the charts were never “separate but equal.” * Link: (Search for the title on Google, as it’s an academic paper often hosted by university libraries.) * Article: “Race record” (Wikipedia) * Why it’s useful: A concise historical overview that confirms the timeline and terminology: “Harlem Hit Parade” $\rightarrow$ “Race Records” (1945) $\rightarrow$ “Rhythm & Blues Records” (1949, coined by Jerry Wexler). It verifies the name Ralph Peer as an influential white executive/DJ in early “Race Records” marketing. * Article: “The Development of National Record Charts” * Why it’s useful: Provides granular details on how Billboard separated its charts, confirming that the initial “Hit Parade” was a “mainstream (that is, white)” list, and the segregated charts were only a secondary measure of popularity. 📚 Taylor, Cultural Appropriation, and Chart Dominance These resources provide a modern critique of Taylor Swift’s “neutrality” and the ongoing issue of white artists co-opting Black genres. * Article: Taylor Swift and the Death of White Feminism * Why it’s useful: This article’s title directly addresses your theme of Taylor Swift not being “every woman” by framing her as the ultimate symbol of White Feminism. It argues that her brand of activism is selective, self-serving, and centers her personal interests (like the master’s dispute) above systemic issues. This directly relates to segments on White Fragility and the “Everywoman” Myth, suggesting that her overwhelming success has led to a cultural moment where a more intersectional or critical feminism dies under the weight of her highly protected, commercially successful, but ultimately narrow, white narrative. * Article: “I’ve Never Heard Silence Quite this Loud”: The Complexity of Taylor Swift’s Neutral Star Text * Why it’s useful: This paper argues that Swift’s dominance is partly achieved through a “neutral star image” that is widely palatable and allows disparate, even antithetical, fanbases (e.g., alt-right/queer women) to claim her. This supports your point that she is a blank slate onto which “every woman” can project, actively making her more marketable than complex Black peers. * Article: “FADE TO WHITE: Black Music, White Artists=Big Money” (EBONY Magazine) * Why it’s useful: Discusses the history of “blue-eyed soul” and cultural smudging, referencing Justin Timberlake and Justin Bieber being “co-signed” by Black producers (Timbaland, Usher), creating “complications for the Black community.” This perfectly backs your “Cultural Key” and R&B discussion. * Article: “When victimhood becomes a brand: Dissecting the racial undertones in Taylor Swift’s...” (Missing Perspectives) * Why it’s useful: Directly critiques Swift’s use of racialized language (e.g., “bad bitches,” “savage”) and her tendency to “play the underdog” despite her immense power, supporting your argument about the “Victimhood Brand” and White Protection. * Article: “Some white artists, like Elvis, exploit Black culture. So celebrate Bobby Caldwell, who enriched it” (The Guardian) * Why it’s useful: This contrasts an “exploiter” (Elvis) with an “

    2h 7m

  4. 10/29/2025

    Ep. 10: Hypersexuality, Black Women, and Neurodivergency

    A note from the editor: Hey, y’all — this is The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks. I want to start off by apologizing to the homies at WBQC for the delay in this upload. I got into my head about editing when I woke up today and said “f**k! I can edit the thing IN Substack. I am such a loon.” Anyway, this topic is right on time, apparently. We talk about ADHD and navigating the world as a neurodivergent Black woman with our neurotypical friends. Thank the Black Jesus that I already prepped this blog. Enjoy. — The Tizzle TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We’re not here to compromise our truths — we’re here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! 🤵🏾‍♀️This Episode’s Hotties * Doc Dubs * Regina Starr * The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks (aka The Tizzle) 📖 Definitions and Key Words Hypersexuality is generally defined as a pattern of excessive, persistent, or distressing sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviors that interfere with daily life, relationships, or overall well-being. Social Links: * Hypersexuality vs. Hyposexuality in Austim * What do Autistic Meltdowns Look Like in Black Women * Black Women Are the Only Women Who Are Intersectional * Tips for Neurodivergent Black Women Here are some nuances from different sources: * Psychiatric/Psychological Lens: The American Psychiatric Association does not officially recognize “hypersexual disorder” in the DSM-5, but it has been described in clinical research as: * “Recurrent and intense sexual fantasies, urges, and behaviors that are time-consuming and difficult to control, often continuing despite negative consequences.” * Medical Lens: In neurology and psychiatry, hypersexuality can also appear as a symptom of certain conditions (e.g., bipolar disorder, frontotemporal dementia) or as a side effect of some medications. * “An unusually increased or inappropriate preoccupation with sexual thoughts or behaviors.” (Cleveland Clinic) * Everyday / Cultural Lens: Outside the medical setting, “hypersexual” is often used, sometimes problematically, to describe people (especially women and marginalized folks) who are perceived as having higher-than-average sexual desire or activity, even if it’s not clinically excessive. So in short:👉 Clinically, hypersexuality = compulsive, disruptive sexual behaviors. 👉 Culturally, hypersexuality = being labeled “too sexual,” often unfairly and based on stereotypes. 🔍 Studies & Articles 1. A Systematic Review of the Relationship Between Neurodiversity and Psychosexual Functioning in Individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) (Young, Cocallis et al., 2023) (PMC) What it covers:Look at how neurodivergent people, specifically with ASD or ADHD, experience psychosexual functioning — i.e., orientation, behaviors, experiences — including risk, sexual selfhood, etc. Good source for connecting neurodivergency + sexual behavior/hypersexuality risk. Pull quotes: * “The scientific literature on psychosexual functioning shows a range of outcomes for individuals with neurodiversity.” (PMC) * “...to prioritize further research and identify interventions to reduce risk.” (PMC) Relevance:Helps with understanding how ADHD/ASD might correlate with hypersexual behavior, or how sexual desire, regulation, and risk differ among neurodivergent people. Might be missing race/demographic breakdowns (i.e., fewer studies specific to Black women). 2. Association of ADHD and Hypersexuality and Paraphilias (Systematic Review) (PubMed) What it covers:Explores whether ADHD is associated with hypersexuality and paraphilic behaviors. Reviews multiple studies comparing ADHD individuals with non-ADHD individuals, etc. Pull quotes: * “Subjects with ADHD suffer from inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. Clinicians often assume that specific symptoms of ADHD are bound to affect sexual desire by increasing the frequency of hypersexuality.” (PubMed) * “Some individuals who suffer from ADHD report hypersexuality and paraphilias, but no clear data emerged supporting the idea that hypersexuality and paraphilias are more frequent in an ADHD population.” (PubMed) Relevance:Helps bring nuance: ADHD can correlate with hypersexuality / unusual sexual urges, but causation isn’t well established. This is relevant especially in considering neurodivergent identities and how hypersexuality might be over-pathologized or misunderstood. 3. ADHD prevalence in patients with hypersexuality and paraphilic disorders: a systematic review and meta‐analysis (PubMed) What it covers:Estimated how common ADHD is among people with hypersexuality or paraphilic disorders. Pull quotes: * “The overall estimate of the prevalence of ADHD in patients with hypersexuality or paraphilic disorders was 22.6% (95% interval: 17-29.4) with high heterogeneity (I² = 63%).” (PubMed) * “No significant difference in ADHD prevalence between the following subgroups: hypersexuality vs. paraphilic disorders, studies exploring the history of childhood ADHD vs. adult ADHD, US studies vs. others.” (PubMed) Relevance:Shows that ADHD is relatively common among people with hypersexuality/paraphilias, though “common” doesn’t mean universal, and designs/methods vary. Helpful in exploring the neurodivergent context for hypersexuality. 4. Investigating the Associations Of Adult ADHD Symptoms, Hypersexuality, and Problematic Pornography Use Among Men and Women on a Large-scale, Non-Clinical Sample (PubMed) What it covers:Looks at how ADHD symptoms relate to hypersexuality and problematic pornography use (PPU), comparing men and women in a large, non-clinical sample (~14,000 people). Pull quotes: * “Results indicated that hypersexuality had a positive and moderate association with problematic pornography use among women … and a positive and strong association among men.” (PubMed) * “ADHD symptoms had positive and moderate associations with hypersexuality in both men and women …” (PubMed) Relevance:Shows gendered differences: while ADHD correlates with hypersexuality in both sexes, the relationship with PPU is weaker for women. Could be useful when talking about Black women + neurodivergent + hypersexuality: perhaps women face additional layers (stigma, underreporting, fewer resources) that impact risk expression. 5. Hypersexuality in neurological disorders: A systematic review (PubMed) What it covers: Examines hypersexuality in the context of neurological disorders (e.g., Parkinson’s, dementia, etc.) rather than developmental neurodivergence, but informative for how brain/neurology impacts sexual behavior when regulation, impulse control, etc., are affected. Pull quotes: * “Hypersexuality (HS) accompanying neurological conditions remains poorly characterized despite profound psychosocial impacts.” (PubMed) * “HS was defined as a condition characterized by excessive and persistent preoccupation with sexual thoughts, urges, and behaviors that cause significant distress or impairment in personal, social, or occupational functioning.” (PubMed) Relevance:While not specific to Black women, this helps with understanding definitions, criteria, and what “hypersexuality” means in clinical/research settings (distress, impairment). 6. An investigation of Jezebel stereotype awareness, gendered racial identity, and sexual beliefs and behaviours among Black adult women (Taylor & Francis Online) What it covers:Looks at how awareness of the “Jezebel” stereotype (a hypersexual stereotype applied to Black women) interacts with gendered racial identity beliefs and influences sexual beliefs/behaviors (sexual assertiveness, satisfaction, guilt, relational attachment). Good for the intersection of Black women + stereotype/hypersexual narratives. Pull quotes: * “Black women who felt more positively connected to their Black woman identity reported greater sexual assertiveness and satisfaction.” (Taylor & Francis Online) * “More awareness of the Jezebel stereotype was associated with higher sexual guilt and attachment avoidance.” (Taylor & Francis Online) Relevance:Very directly relevant. Helps ground discussion about how societal stereotypes contribute to sexual self-image, shame, and behavior among Black women. Connect this to neurodivergency by considering whether neurodivergent Black women might have heightened vulnerability or different responses to these stereotypes. 7. Race-Based Sexual Stereotypes, Gendered Racism, and Sexual Decision Making Among Young Black Cisgender Women (PMC) What it covers:Focuses on young Black women (18-25), exploring how racialized sexual stereotypes and experiences of gendered racism shape sexual decision-making: safer sex, partner selection, empowerment, etc. Pull quotes: * “Due to their intersecting racial identity and gender identity, Black women are characterized by stigmatizing race-based sexual stereotypes (RBSS) that may contribute to persistent, disproportionately high rates of adverse sexual and reproductive health outcomes.” (PMC) * “Participants reported that RBSS may lead Black women to be resistant to learning new information about safer sex practices, feeli

    1h 52m

  5. 09/17/2025

    Ep. 9: I’m Grown and I Do What I Want: Policing Black Bodies and Sexualities and How We Fight Back

    TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! Ep. 9: I’m Grown and I Do What I Want: Policing Black Bodies and Sexualities and How We Fight Back 🤵🏾‍♀️This Episode’s Hotties * ✨Special Guest: Theo * Morticia Black * Wips * Super Sexy Spy * Doc Dubs * Summ’ah * The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks (aka The Tizzle) 📝 Show Segments * Policing Black Bodies and Sexualities and How We Fight Back * 🆕 The Sports Report * Here Me Out 📣 Shout out to: Ellie The Elephant ➡️ Following the Leaders Theo advices to come correct when you’re following their socials (check this out first): * Instagram * Patreon 🍛 The Menu Black people's sexualities are policed by state media and online norms. And so we wanted to talk about how we navigate that, especially people like us who are probably just now getting really comfortable exploring our sexualities and our bodies and our willingness to put our desires and thoughts out there, particularly as creators of erotica or writers and things like that. The Hotties have pulled recent scholarship, essays, and policy briefs that help explain how the policing of Black femmes has operated across history, law, digital culture, and policy. Below are concise citations you can paste into your episode notes. * Dorothy Roberts — Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty (classic foundational text on reproductive and sexual policing of Black women). PenguinRandomhouse.com * Brill / recent article — “Policing Black Femininity Through Unsolicited Digital Advice” — study on how unsolicited advice in digital spaces operates as a form of gendered racial policing (2025). Useful for the social-media policing angle. Brill * SAGE journal article — “How Policing Black Women's Bodies Built the Modern City” — recent scholarship connecting sexual policing to institutional policing and urban governance. Good for historical → institutional framing. SAGE Journals * AAIHS / essay — “The Sexual Criminalization of Black Women” — overview of criminalization patterns and their historical roots; helpful for the law & policy discussion. AAIHS * Policy brief — “PROJECT 2025: The Impact on Black Women” (Black RJ / 2024) — short brief analyzing how certain policy proposals threaten bodily autonomy and gender/sexuality rights; useful for discussing present-day legislative threats. blackrj.org 🎶 Ep. 9 Spotify Playlist Suggestions? Tell us in the comments below ⬇️ Like what you’ve heard on this and previous episodes? Follow and subscribe to “Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table” podcast below: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

    2h 29m

  6. 08/28/2025

    Ep. 8: A Quote From Jill Scott: “If You Can Tell Me What To Do, You Can Tell Me What To Do.”

    “If you can tell me what to do, then you can tell me what to do. But if you can’t tell me what to do… then you can’t tell me what to do.” — Jill Scott (Source: Albumism.com/Google) You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! Ep. 8: A Quote From Jill Scott: “If You Can Tell Me What To Do, You Can Tell Me What To Do.” Episode 8’s hotties: * Morticia Black * Wips * The Infamous Trisha Cheeks Alright y’all, today we’re kicking this thing off with some gospel from Miss Jill Scott herself. You ready? Listen close: “The biggest pointer for a man dealing with me is — you have to treat me like a person, number one. And number two, you have to treat me like a lady. But here’s the twist: we’ve also got to be friends. I’ve got to be your lady, but I’ve also got to be your boy. We need to watch football together and hang out. The hardest thing? Just be a man’s friend. Don’t be scared of me. And here’s the rule I live by: if you can tell me what to do, then you can tell me what to do. But if you can’t tell me what to do, you can’t tell me what to do.” Whew! The accuracy? The precision? The boundaries just jumped out! And she didn’t stop there. Scott said, “Treat me like a person, treat me like a lady… but also be my boy. Watch football with me. Hang out with me. Don’t be scared of me. If you’re scared, this ain’t gonna work.” And the best part? She said this after a man tried to holla at her in the fruit aisle at Whole Foods — unbothered, confident, and respectful. That’s the vibe. In this episode, we’re unpacking all of it: friendship in romance, confidence, and what real submission in intimate relationships looks like — especially for women who know exactly who they are. Plus, you know we’ve got Hear Me Out, Tenderoni of the Week, and our WBQC Book Club. It’s gonna be a ride. Let’s get into it. 🎶 Ep. 8 Spotify Playlist We’re back to music that will get anyone in the mood.😈 Suggestions? Tell us in the comments below ⬇️ Like what you’ve heard on this and previous episodes? Follow and subscribe to “Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table” podcast below: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

    1h 14m

  7. 08/05/2025

    Ep. 7:"Sinners" Roundtable

    You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! Ep. 7: The “Sinners” Round Table Unless you’ve been living under a rock or just don’t like culture and good movies, Sinners, directed by Ryan Coogler and starring Michael B. Jordan and a terrific ensamble, follows a set of twins who had left the their home in the Mississippi Delta to Chicago, and return home a few year later, with money to spend in their pocket and dreams of their own juke joint. The brothers reunite with friends and past lovers, and meet the wrong end of a vampiric insurgence. The film, now streaming on HBO Max, is a must-watch, but it brings about more than the gauzy, sexy gaze that we often find when encountering bloodsuckers. Coogler’s film depicts the history and the richness of southern Mississippi, and how people of different races interact, and how Black people had to hold their own in 1930s Deep South. And by the end of this episode, you’ll learn all of the reasons Morticia Black is asking everyone to not be “a problematic bitch.” 🤗 🎶 Ep. 7 Spotify Playlist If you wanted sultry vibes, we have them for you right here. Suggestions? Tell us in the comments below ⬇️ 😈 Don’t Meme Us… We’re just here to share Doc Dubs’ latest meme-worthy post from our Instagram. Here’s a sampling: Which is your fave? Share and tag @wbqc_ & @blackqueengressionalcaucus in your Instagram stories. 🤳🏾 😈 NSFW Meme of the Week Oh, come on, we were all thinking it. 😉 Aaaaaaand one more for the road 💋 And shout out to the almighty Outkast for these bars: Like what you’ve heard on this and previous episodes? Follow and subscribe to “Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table” podcast below: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #sinners #sinnersmovie #michaelbjordan #ryancoogler #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

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  8. 07/22/2025

    Ep. 6, Pt. 2: The WBQC Audio Erotica Scriptwriters & Voice Actor Round Table Post Show

    You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! DISCLAIMER: If you haven’t listened to part 1, click here now! Ep. 6, Pt. 2: The WBQC Audio Erotica Scriptwriters & Voice Actor Round Table Post Show This episode’s Hotties: * Rainbow Brite (debut episode!) * Madame Camille Cocoa * Wips * Summ’ah * The Infamous Trisha Cheeks Dr. Dubs, who could not join us this week, was so jealous after listening to the edited version of the show, she made memes for your pleasure and hers (her pleasure is always first). 🎶 Ep. 6 Spotify Playlist We’re back to music that will get anyone in the mood.😈 Suggestions? Tell us in the comments below ⬇️ 🧐 Tenderoni FAQ If you’re new to the program, we want to help bring words you may not know that The Hotties will use so you’re not lost in the sauce: Per Urban Dictionary: Tenderoni, n., a younger love interest (not illegal, OBVIOUSLY, but younger than you; E.G., FMC is 37, MMC is 34, technically, he’s a tenderoni, in comparison. Source is from African American Vernacular English (AAVE) and was popularized in pop culture during the 1980’s thanks to songs by Bobby Brown and Michael Jackson. Like what you’ve heard on this and previous episodes? Follow and subscribe to “Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table” podcast below: * Substack * Instagram * Bluesky * YouTube * Spotify * Apple Podcasts #health #intimacy #relationships #love #couples #BlackWomen #podcast #podcasts #kinks #audios #audioerotica #parasocialrelationships #onlineculture #stanculture #fandom #fanatics #celebrity #fame This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wbqc.substack.com

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Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: Erotica Kink Love & Intimacy Romance We're not here to compromise our truths — we're here to get off. So, turn us on. Lunch is served! Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Podcast is a WBQC Production. 2025 All rights reserved. wbqc.substack.com

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