Nothing Happens for a Reason

Claire Andrus
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Nothing Happens For A Reason is a podcast offering an unfiltered look at grief, loss, and navigating life after profound heartbreak. Host Claire Andrus, a griever as well as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), creates a space free from empty f*cking platitudes, acknowledging the messy reality of grief and fostering connection through shared experiences. Join Claire as she challenges the societal discomfort around discussing grief through interviews with amazing guests to explore the often-lonely journey of grief. 

  1. 12/18/2025

    S2 E10- The Final Act of Love: Why Our Pets Deserve a Dignified Goodbye

    Season 2 Finale!  We’re often told "it was just an animal," yet for many of us, the loss of a pet is one of the most shattering heartbreaks we will ever experience. In this deeply compassionate season finale of Nothing Happens for a Reason, we confront the silence around pet loss and the unique pain that comes with saying goodbye to our beloved companions. Claire welcomes Kristen, an end-of-life pet doula and retired veterinary technician, who shares her own soul-stirring journey through loss, love, and advocacy. Together, we explore why the bond with our animals is so profound, the agonizing challenge of knowing when to let go, and how we can honor a pet’s dignity through their final moments. This episode offers a raw look at: Anticipatory Grief: Navigating the "long goodbye" before the end arrives.No Hierarchy in Loss: Validating why pet grief is just as real as any other.Hard Conversations: How to support children through pet loss using Kristen’s new children’s book (Magnum's Final Goodbye) as a guide to normalizing death.Whether you’ve already said goodbye, are facing that moment now, or have felt unseen in your grief, this episode holds space for you. It’s a gentle reminder that every kind of love deserves to be honored and every animal deserves a dignified goodbye. Official Book Instagram Account Official Book Facebook Account Kristen's Email: magnumsbridge1@gmail.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    57 min

  2. 12/11/2025

    S2 E9- Breaking the Silence: Fathers, Grief, and Healing After Child Loss

    In the newest episode of Nothing Happens for a Reason, host Claire welcomes author Jeff Loving to share his family's courageous journey through grief and healing after losing two sons to premature birth. Jeff opens up about the emotional challenges of being a father of loss, the lack of resources and support for grieving dads, and how these experiences inspired him to write his book, "Holding On to the Light: A Father's Journey Through Loss and Healing." Jeff explores the complexities of grieving as a couple, the impact of trauma on marriage and faith, and the power of finding community in unexpected places. The conversation also highlights the importance of acknowledging and honoring grief- no matter the circumstances- and the beauty of creative rituals for remembrance. Jeff reads a powerful passage from his book, offering listeners a raw and authentic glimpse into what it means to parent and heal after loss. Whether you've experienced loss yourself or want to better support someone who has, this episode is an emotional, honest, and compassionate testament to resilience, vulnerability, and love. For anyone seeking hope, understanding, or simply a safe space to witness grief and healing, this conversation is not one to miss. Buy Jeff's Book Here Jeff's SubStack Jeff's Instagram Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    1 hr

  3. 12/04/2025

    S2 E8- "I Can’t Remember If I Cried": Badass Warriors, Grief, and the Realities of Rock Widowhood

    In this episode of Nothing Happens for a Reason, Claire welcomes writer and educator, Lori Tucker-Sullivan, whose book I Can’t Remember if I Cried: Rock Widows on Life, Love and Legacy (link below) explores the hidden stories of women whose partners were legends of the music industry. Together, they dive deep into the realities of grief: what it means to be called “strong,” the discomfort of society’s narratives around conquering illness and loss, and the burdens and gifts of carrying someone’s legacy. Lori shares personal reflections on losing her husband to cancer, what it was like to grieve privately compared to the public eye of rock widows, and the journey of returning to writing as a tool for healing. The conversation covers the challenges of codependency, the unique strength born out of survival, and how purpose can emerge even in the wake of devastation. The episode closes with themes of transformation, honoring legacy, and the life-saving power of community and storytelling. Whether you’re curious about rock history, seeking compassion in your own grief, or wanting to better understand the nuances behind “being strong,” this episode offers solace, validation, and wisdom for anyone who’s ever navigated significant loss. Purchase Lori's Book HERE (supporting independent bookstores)  Lori's Instagram Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    57 min

  4. 11/27/2025 · BONUS

    S2 E7- Beyond Differences: The Vulnerable Work of Seeing Ourselves in Others Grief

    In this special Thanksgiving bonus mini-episode of Nothing Happens for a Reason, Claire dives into one of the core pillars of healing work: the courage to seek out similarities, not differences. Drawing from over a decade as a therapist, Claire explores the common tendency to focus on what sets us apart from others- especially in moments of loss- and gently challenges listeners to lean into the vulnerable, connective work of finding shared ground. Whether you’ve lost a loved one, a relationship, a job, or a vision of your future, etc.- Claire highlights the universal emotions that underpin grief (despair, sadness, isolation) and encourages us to notice these threads even in stories that look nothing like our own. With honesty and compassion, the episode invites the grieving community (and anyone longing for connection) to listen beyond the differences, and in doing so, become a little less lonely. If you’ve ever found yourself cherry-picking episodes or support groups that “fit” your specific loss, this is your invitation to open your lens, stretch a new muscle of empathy, and discover the unexpected resonance in someone else’s story. However you’re spending the holidays, tune in for a gentle reminder: the foundation for true human connection is often found in the vulnerable work of seeing ourselves in others’ grief. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    12 min

  5. 11/20/2025

    S2 E6- The Case That Broke Us: The Complex Grief of Foster Parenting

    Claire sits down with Kirby, a nurse practitioner and former foster parent, for a heartfelt and honest conversation about the realities of foster care (also known as "resource parenting"), attachment, and grief. Kirby opens up about her and her wife’s journey into fostering and the critical importance of secure attachment for young children. Together, we delve into the hopes and heartbreaks that come with fostering, including the emotional toll of loving and saying goodbye, the complexities of identifying grief, and the challenges of navigating a deeply flawed system with limited resources. Kirby shares her personal experiences with one child in particular, whose comings and goings from their home shaped her understanding of loss, guilt, shame, and deep grief.  Claire and Kirby also explore how grief in foster care is often overlooked or minimized, both within the foster care community and outside of it, and the ripple effects it can have on families, partnerships, and children. This episode is a candid, compassionate look at bearing witness to grief and reminding ourselves that all grief is worthy of being seen, heard, and felt.  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    1h 1m

  6. 11/13/2025

    S2 E5- Numbing Grief: Addiction, Relapse, and Learning to Feel Again

    In this episode, I sit down with Justin, whose life has been shaped by loss, addiction, and the messy aftermath of trauma. As both a person in long-term recovery and a drug and alcohol counselor, our guest brings a unique perspective- having lived on both sides of substance use and support. Justin walks us through the early roots of grief in his life, from being abandoned by a mother struggling with addiction to navigating childhood being raised by grandparents. We dive into how unprocessed emotions, especially around family fractures and abandonment, can fuel a desperate turn towards drugs, criminality, and risky behaviors. He pulls back the curtain on how numbness becomes a survival strategy, and how the consequences of crime and incarceration can act as both punishment and (unexpectedly) turning points. But this is not just a story of human loss and the numbing that follows- it’s also a story of the power of relationships. Justin describes the gut-wrenching pain of losing his beloved dog who helped teach him to trust and love again, and how her death challenged his sobriety in ways even his deepest family traumas did not. This episode pulls no punches about the realities of relapse, codependency, and the nonlinear journey of trying to stay clean in a world where, sometimes, nothing makes sense. If you’ve ever wondered how addiction, crime, recovery, and grief are tangled together or how something as pure as the love of a dog can help someone finally feel- this conversation promises hard truths, honest laughs, and, ultimately, hope.  Listen to hear why, for Justin, the path out of numbness began with finally allowing himself to grieve. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    59 min

  7. 11/06/2025

    S2 E4- Parenting in the Trenches: Grief, Neurodiversity, and Finding Grace

    In this honest and illuminating episode, Claire sits down with Gail- a mother, wife, substance use counselor, and fierce advocate to talk about what it’s really like to parent neurodivergent children while navigating layers of grief, trauma, and intense personal growth. Gail shares her story, from a childhood marked by abuse and addiction to her ongoing journey of sobriety, spiritual healing, and finding healthy ways to cope. Together, they dig into the unique, often unspoken grief parents experience as they confront diagnoses and face the chronic challenges of raising children with autism and other complexities. Through raw anecdotes, Gail opens up about her daily life: the exhaustion, the sense of isolation, the struggle for understanding from family and society—and the bittersweet reality of loving her kids fiercely while mourning the expectations lost. She reflects on finding meaningful community, learning to set boundaries, and gives candid advice to parents who feel alone in their battles. Woven throughout is a message of grace: for yourself, for your children, and for other families walking a similar path. This episode is a must-listen for anyone wanting to learn more or for those who are touched by neurodiversity, grief, or the messy, beautiful work of showing up for the people you love—especially when life doesn’t go as planned. Tune in for validation, practical insights, and gentle hope in the midst of chaos. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    1h 10m

  8. 10/30/2025

    S2 E3- The Loud Silence of Grief: Navigating Terminal Illness, Caretaking, and Estrangement

    Host Claire sits down with guest Emily to explore the messy, complicated realities of loss, family, and the painful quiet that grief brings. Emily shares the intimate story of losing her father to cancer during her teenage years, reflecting on the challenges of caretaking as a young person, handling overwhelming responsibilities, and the isolating silence that often surrounds grief. Together, Claire and Emily unpack the difficulty of finding support, and how people’s discomfort can make loss feel even lonelier. The conversation doesn't stop at death; it expands to the grief of estrangement, as Emily describes her decision to cut ties with her mother, the unresolved pain that comes with surviving toxic family dynamics, and the additional heartbreak of losing her half-brother to alcoholism. Throughout, the episode digs into themes of hyper-independence, milestones lived without loved ones, and the hidden struggles behind choosing to go no-contact with family- even when it is the right decision. Subscribe and share if you or someone you care about needs to hear that, in grief, you are not alone. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nothing_happens_for_a_reason/?hl=en Website + Merch + Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://nothinghappensforareason.com/

    56 min
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Nothing Happens For A Reason is a podcast offering an unfiltered look at grief, loss, and navigating life after profound heartbreak. Host Claire Andrus, a griever as well as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), creates a space free from empty f*cking platitudes, acknowledging the messy reality of grief and fostering connection through shared experiences. Join Claire as she challenges the societal discomfort around discussing grief through interviews with amazing guests to explore the often-lonely journey of grief. 

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  • Creator
    Claire Andrus
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  • Episodes
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