Chronicles Of A Black Lesbian Mom

Guided by Jasmine

This podcast is my open diary — where I speak from my soul about motherhood, queerness, purpose, burnout, breakthroughs, balancing ancestral healing with building a legacy, and what it means to lead with love in a world that expects you to grind. So if you’ve ever hidden in the bathroom just to breathe, whispered affirmations between meetings, or saged your laptop before a launch... If you’re a high-achieving Black mom entrepreneur who’s tired of doing the most while feeling the least seen, You’re one of us and this space was made for you.

  1. I Stopped Taking the Blame for Her Pain (In Honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month)

    10/22/2025

    I Stopped Taking the Blame for Her Pain (In Honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month)

    Send us a text (In Honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month) What happens when love turns into blame? When “I love you” starts sounding more like “you made me do this”? In this honest and vulnerable entry, Jasmine opens up about how emotional abuse and gaslighting can quietly unfold in queer relationships — and how easy it is to start carrying someone else’s pain as your own. She shares what it looked like to lose herself trying to save someone who didn’t want healing, the role therapy played in helping her see the truth, and what it really means to stop apologizing for someone else’s behavior. This episode isn’t just about surviving emotional abuse — it’s about reclaiming your voice, your power, and your peace. 🧘🏾‍♀️ Guided Meditation: “Forgiving Myself for What I Didn’t Know” A grounded and empowering meditation designed to help you release blame, reclaim your peace, and return to your own energy.  Through rhythmic affirmations like “I forgive myself for what I didn’t know” and “I am my own healing,” Jasmine guides you to soften your heart, silence shame, and remember that forgiveness is freedom. 📜 Lessons & Reflections: Silence is not peace — it’s survival disguised as stillness.Therapy can’t fix what someone refuses to face.Apologies lose meaning when they become payment for peace.Boundaries are acts of self-love, not punishment.Healing begins when you stop internalizing someone else’s pain and start honoring your own.💫 Call to Action If this episode spoke to your spirit, please:  🌿 Follow, comment, like, and share Healing Like a Motha with someone who needs to hear it. 📖 Grab your copy of the Healing Like a Motha Journal to keep writing, reflecting, and rebuilding your peace — one page at a time. Because healing doesn’t end when the episode fades out…  it continues every time you choose yourself again. 📞 If you or someone you love is experiencing abuse, you are not alone. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 | thehotline.org 🎧 Listen. Reflect. Share. And keep healing like a motha.

    13 min
  2. When Love Hurts: Healing from Emotional Abuse in Queer Relationships (In Honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month)

    10/14/2025

    When Love Hurts: Healing from Emotional Abuse in Queer Relationships (In Honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month)

    Send us a text What happens when love feels like safety, but silence becomes the price? In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jasmine Peters opens up about surviving emotional and psychological abuse in a queer relationship that looked “perfect” on the outside but left her questioning her own truth. In this deeply personal, diary-style episode of The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha, Jasmine shares what it’s like to lose yourself in someone else’s pain—and the powerful journey of finding your voice again. 🎧 Story Focus: Jasmine reflects on how empathy can turn into self-abandonment when love becomes survival. Through raw honesty and vulnerability, she walks listeners through how she mistook silence for peace, compassion for caretaking, and control for connection—until she chose herself again. 🧘🏾‍♀️ Guided Meditation: “Reclaiming the Voice Within” — a grounding meditation to help survivors and empathic hearts reconnect to their truth, release guilt, and reclaim their power after emotional or psychological abuse. 📜 Lessons & Reflections: Silence isn’t peace; it’s a sign your truth needs space.Your intuition isn’t paranoia—it’s divine discernment.Healing isn’t about moving on; it’s about moving home to yourself.❤️ Call to Action: If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who’s finding their voice again. Follow, comment, and review The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha wherever you listen.

    13 min
  3. Dating Reflections: What Dating Taught Me About Me

    10/07/2025

    Dating Reflections: What Dating Taught Me About Me

    Send us a text What happens when you’re no longer healing from heartbreak — you’re healing into alignment?  When you finally stop running from love and start recognizing yourself in it? In this deeply personal, diary-style episode, Jasmine returns with fresh perspective and soft power. She opens up about stepping back into the dating pool after a season of stillness — not to find someone else, but to meet herself again through connection. From laughter and deep conversations to surprising mirrors in love, Jasmine explores how every woman she’s dated has revealed a different piece of her own evolution. This episode is a sacred reflection for anyone learning how to date consciously — from a healed, grounded, and self-aware space. 🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation “Falling in Love With Yourself Again” This 4-minute guided meditation invites you to pause, breathe, and come home to your heart. Jasmine gently leads you through breathwork and affirmations to help you reconnect with your worth, your tenderness, and your truth. Whether you’re in love, in limbo, or just rediscovering your rhythm, this meditation reminds you that love starts within — and radiates outward. No pressure. No performance. Just stillness. Just self. 📜 Lessons Learned After reentering the dating world with intention, Jasmine shares the insights that only experience can teach: ✨ Not every connection is meant to last — but every one can teach you.  ✨ Self-love gets tested in real-time, not theory.  ✨ You don’t lose yourself when you move slower — you find yourself there.  ✨ Falling in love with you first changes how you let others love you. This isn’t about collecting partners — it’s about collecting peace.  These aren’t just lessons; they’re love notes to your future self — reminders that growth can be gentle and still be powerful. 💌 Call to Action If this episode spoke to your spirit, don’t keep it to yourself.  🎧 Share it with someone who’s learning to love with more awareness.  💬 Tag @guidedbyjasmine and tell me what reflection resonated most with you. ⭐ And if you feel led, leave a review — your words help this healing reach more hearts. 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more diary-style storytelling, sacred humor, and soulful self-reflection from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly — every Tuesday @ 10am MST. Find me on Instagram @guidedbyjasmine for upcoming offerings, journals, and events.

    18 min
  4. When Depression Sneaks Back In (Even After Therapy & Growth)

    08/05/2025

    When Depression Sneaks Back In (Even After Therapy & Growth)

    Send us a text ✨ Episode Description: What happens when depression creeps in after the comeback? After the growth? After therapy? In this soul-baring diary-style episode, Jasmine opens up about what it looked like to crash emotionally after doing “all the right things.” From grief and job loss to illness, injustice, and intimate heartbreak, Jasmine shares how everything finally caught up with her—and how she chose to show up anyway. This episode is a sacred space for anyone who’s ever felt ashamed for needing rest after rising. 🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation “Return to Your Enoughness” This 4-minute guided meditation is a soft reset for the soul. Jasmine gently leads you through grounding breathwork and intuitive affirmation, helping you reconnect with your body, your breath, and your worth — especially when you don’t feel like “enough.” Whether you’ve hit a wall, relapsed into old patterns, or just need a quiet moment to remember who you are… this meditation was made for you. No fluff. No fixing. Just presence. Just love. 📜 Lessons Learned After crashing post-comeback — despite therapy, growth, and all the “right steps” — Jasmine shares what healing actually looks like behind the scenes: Your body knows when it’s time to pause.  Your breakdown doesn’t cancel your breakthrough.  Your softness is still sacred.  And joy can be as small as a sticker… and still holy. This isn’t about bouncing back.  It’s about being honest about the fall—  and choosing yourself in the dark anyway. These aren’t just lessons.  They’re reminders for anyone navigating the shadows while still holding a vision for their light. 💌 Call to Action If this episode spoke to your spirit, don’t keep it to yourself.  🎧 Share it with a friend who’s in a crash season.  💬 Tag @guidedbyjasmine and tell me what part landed in your heart. ⭐ And if you feel called, leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and more hearts. 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more raw reflections, sacred storytelling, and diary-style healing from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly — every Tuesday @ 10am MST. You can also find me on Instagram at @guidedbyjasmine future offerings, journals, and upcoming events.

    13 min
  5. Healing Got Ghetto Real Quick (Birthday Edition)

    07/22/2025

    Healing Got Ghetto Real Quick (Birthday Edition)

    Send us a text ✨ Episode Description: What happens when healing doesn’t come wrapped in candles, crystals, and calm? When it looks more like job loss, hospital visits, emotional chaos, and pulling yourself off the bathroom floor? In this raw and sovereign birthday reflection, Jasmine shares how her healing journey this past year got ghetto real quick — and how it also delivered her back to her divine assignment. From a misdiagnosed cancer scare to a toxic relationship, the death of her father, and the birth of this very podcast, Jasmine reveals how grief, grief, and sacred reclamation led her back to herself. 🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation “I Am Ready for My Next Level” This 3–4 minute guided meditation is a soul-centered reset — short enough to meet you in the chaos, powerful enough to shift your energy. Jasmine guides you through grounding breathwork, self-affirmation, and intuitive alignment to help you release what no longer fits and walk boldly into your next level. Perfect for birthdays, new chapters, or any moment you need to come home to yourself. 📜 Lessons Learned  After a year of sacred disruption — marked by grief, toxic love, job loss, and spiritual awakening — Jasmine reflects on what she now knows for sure: Your intuition is holy.  Your peace is sacred.  Your healing doesn’t have to look good to be real.  And you’re not here to be palatable — you’re here to be powerful.These aren’t just affirmations — they’re soul codes for anyone reclaiming their voice, their body, and their birthright to become. 💌 Call to Action: If this episode spoke to your spirit, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.  Tag @guidedbyjasmine and let her know what part landed in your heart.  And don’t forget to leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and hearts. 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected: Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more real-talk reflections, diary-style healing, and sacred storytelling from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly (every Tuesday @ 10am MST)

    14 min
  6. Noone Is Coming To Save Me

    07/15/2025

    Noone Is Coming To Save Me

    Send us a text 📝 Episode Description: In this deeply personal episode, Jasmine shares the moment that shattered her illusions — and sparked her awakening. After a terrifying encounter with police involving her son in the midst of a mental health crisis, Jasmine found herself face-to-face with a truth many Black mothers know all too well: No one is coming to save us. What followed was not just a breakdown, but a spiritual breakthrough — one that forced her to stop waiting for a rescue and start choosing herself. With raw honesty and unfiltered emotion, Jasmine unpacks what it means to shift from martyrdom to sovereignty, from surviving for everyone else to living for herself. This episode is for the mothers, the caretakers, the healers, and the strong ones who’ve ever felt like they were drowning in silence. It’s a love letter to those doing the most with the least — and learning to become their own safe place. 💬 Guided Meditation: A short, grounding meditation titled “Coming Home to Myself” follows this episode, helping you reconnect to your own power, peace, and self-trust. 💭 Lessons Learned: No one is coming to save you — but you don’t need saving. You need you.Children can be a part of your purpose, but not your entire reason for existingSetting boundaries doesn’t mean you don’t love people — it means you’re finally loving yourselfEven in the wreckage, you can still rebuild something sacred💌 Call to Action: If this episode spoke to your spirit, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.  Tag @guidedbyjasmine and let her know what part landed in your heart.  And don’t forget to leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and hearts. 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected: Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more real-talk reflections, diary-style healing, and sacred storytelling from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly.

    15 min
  7. They Said I Couldn't Be Both - A Lesbian & A Mom

    07/10/2025

    They Said I Couldn't Be Both - A Lesbian & A Mom

    Send us a text 📘 Episode Description: In this powerful episode of The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha, host Guided by Jasmine tackles a question she's been asked time and time again: “How can you be a lesbian and a mother at the same time?” With honesty, humor, and spiritual depth, Jasmine opens up about the judgment she’s faced from both inside and outside the LGBTQ+ community, the rejection she experienced within the church, and the complexity of raising children in a world that often refuses to make space for the fullness of her identity. She shares how her queerness shaped her motherhood, how religion tried to silence her calling, and how she fought — and continues to fight — to reclaim every part of herself. This episode is a love letter to anyone who's ever been told they couldn’t be both. Jasmine is here to say: you already are. ✨ Guided Meditation (Starts around [insert timestamp]): A 4-minute practice to help listeners release shame, reclaim their wholeness, and affirm the sacredness of being “both.” “I am enough. I am whole. I am both.” 📚 Lessons Learned: Being queer and being a mother are not in conflict — they are in communion.Rejection doesn’t define you; it redirects you back to your truth.You don’t have to choose between the parts of you.A calling doesn’t need church walls to be holy.Acceptance starts from within — and radiates outward.🎧 Listen if you’re ready to: Challenge the stereotypes around queer parentingReclaim your truth outside the walls of religionBreak generational cycles with love and honestyBe reminded that you are already enough💌 Call to Action: If this episode blessed you, please: ✔️ Share it with someone navigating identity, motherhood, or spiritual healing ✔️ Leave a review to help this podcast reach more hearts ✔️ Tag @healinglikeamotha on IG or Threads and share your favorite takeaway 🎙 Subscribe for more Dear Diary episodes every week — where truth, tenderness, and transformation live side by side.

    14 min
  8. Where Am I Now? - FINAL MiniSeries Part6

    07/05/2025

    Where Am I Now? - FINAL MiniSeries Part6

    Send us a text 📌 Episode Summary: In the final installment of Buried Truths: My Father, His Death, and My Healing, I sit with the raw aftermath of my father’s funeral—and the waves of pain that kept crashing long after the casket closed. From facing one of my childhood perpetrators again… to being hit with a possible cancer diagnosis… to watching the dysfunction in my family reemerge right after laying my father to rest—this wasn’t closure. It was confrontation. This diary entry is messy. Vulnerable. Raging. And sacred.  It’s a mirror for anyone who’s ever tried to grieve while surviving. ✨ Guided Meditation: “I Am the Medicine” I also include a gentle, 3-minute meditation to ground yourself after listening. It’s a reminder that you’re not broken—you’re becoming. Access is inside the episode. 💎 Lessons Learned: Perpetrators thrive in silence—I won't be silent anymore.Apologies aren’t the same as accountability.Boundaries are sacred, especially in grief.Sometimes healing means walking away—even from family.Protect your peace like your life depends on it. Because sometimes, it does.🖤 If this episode moved you: Please share it with someone who’s healing from layered grief, betrayal, or family trauma. You never know whose healing you might spark. 📝 Join My Newsletter: Get updates, healing prompts, and future offerings: 🎧 New Episodes Drop Every Tuesday And don’t forget—you are the medicine. Thank you for holding space for this series.

    12 min

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This podcast is my open diary — where I speak from my soul about motherhood, queerness, purpose, burnout, breakthroughs, balancing ancestral healing with building a legacy, and what it means to lead with love in a world that expects you to grind. So if you’ve ever hidden in the bathroom just to breathe, whispered affirmations between meetings, or saged your laptop before a launch... If you’re a high-achieving Black mom entrepreneur who’s tired of doing the most while feeling the least seen, You’re one of us and this space was made for you.