Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.

Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy
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Finding love after 50 isn't just possible—it can be the most exciting chapter of your life. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and her husband Tony, Saying Yes Again shares real conversations, personal stories, and practical advice for navigating dating, relationships, and self-discovery after divorce. From rebuilding confidence and embracing vulnerability to trying dating apps for the first time and blending families, we explore what it means to love—and live—fearlessly in midlife. Whether you're reentering the dating world, searching for companionship, or redefining what you want from love, this show gives you the insight, encouragement, and inspiration you need. Get ready for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and a few laughs along the way. Because saying "yes" again isn't just about finding the right partner—it's about saying yes to yourself, your joy, and your second chance at love.

  1. Secure Your Second Chance: Estate Planning and Legacy Building

    FEB 3

    Secure Your Second Chance: Estate Planning and Legacy Building

    In this episode, attorney Laurie Thomas Williams shares vital insights on protecting your wealth and legacy no matter where you are in life but especially after rebuilding your life following divorce or a second marriage. Learn practical steps, common pitfalls, and how to plan intentionally for peace of mind and financial security. Timestamps:  00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Protecting what you've rebuilt 03:42 - Starting over: The importance of legal and financial planning 05:24 - Challenges faced by midlife remarriages and blended families 08:13 - The risks of neglecting beneficiary updates and legal documents 09:54 - Essential documents to review after divorce 11:04 - Why every adult should have a will, regardless of circumstances 12:23 - Updating power of attorney and health directives 14:20 - Protecting your business interests and succession plans 17:34 - Sharing real cases to demystify estate planning 18:22 - Building legacy without perfection: Control, clarity, protection 19:44 - Why estate planning isn't just about death—it's about your life now 20:44 - The trust myth: It's for everyone, not just the rich 23:21 - Lessons learned from blended family conflicts and what you wish you'd known earlier 26:38 - Details about the upcoming "Mindset to Millions" event on February 7th 31:11 - Planning for death, disability, and future control of your assets 32:41 - Protecting your family and business in everyday life and emergencies 34:04 - The importance of intentional wealth building and legacy planning 35:12 - The risks of doing nothing and saying yes to clarity and protection 36:12 - Final remarks: Register now, bring your spouse, and plan with purpose You can contact Attorney Thomas Williams here You can register for the Mindset to Millions Building Legacy event on Feb 7th here

    40 min
  2. Unlocking Emotional Freedom: April Nowlin's Guide To Love

    JAN 27

    Unlocking Emotional Freedom: April Nowlin's Guide To Love

    In this episode of the Saying Yes Again podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony welcome April Nowlin, a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. The conversation delves into April's personal journey through heartbreak and divorce, which ultimately led her to help others navigate their own relationship challenges. You can connect with April here  and on all social media ‪@aprilnowlin

    34 min
  3. It's Not Too Late: You're Right On Time

    JAN 13

    It's Not Too Late: You're Right On Time

    This conversation explores the journey of finding love after 40, emphasizing that it's never too late to seek meaningful relationships. Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the mindset shifts necessary for those over 40, the historical context of relationships, and the advantages of maturity in dating. Key themes include emotional availability, the importance of knowing oneself, and the transition from chasing to choosing relationships. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace their experiences and wisdom as they navigate the dating landscape. Chapters 00:00 Embracing Love After 40 03:29 Historical Perspectives on Relationships 06:39 The Sweet Spot of Maturity 09:28 Choosing Relationships Over Chasing 12:43 Emotional Availability and Self-Discovery 19:04 Saying Yes Again Ending Youtube Video.mp4   Don't forget to join us in our private Facebook Community for behind the scenes, deeper conversations and first look at upcoming events.

    18 min
  4. Saying Yes Again: Our 2025 Journey & Our Outlook on Love and Midlife

    12/30/2025

    Saying Yes Again: Our 2025 Journey & Our Outlook on Love and Midlife

    In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on the journey of the podcast throughout 2025, expressing gratitude for the growth and community engagement. The conversation explores key themes such as healing from emotional baggage, defining non-negotiables in relationships, and the importance of flexibility in love. They celebrate the impact of their podcast on listeners and emphasize the need to spread hope and redefine love as they look forward to 2026, with aspirations for deeper conversations and guest appearances.

    27 min
  5. Career Woman or Love Life: The Myth You Been Sold

    12/23/2025

    Career Woman or Love Life: The Myth You Been Sold

    In this conversation, Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony discuss the myth that women must choose between a successful career and a fulfilling love life. They explore societal expectations, the double standards faced by women, and the real conflict of energy and availability in relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of making intentional choices, cultivating emotional maturity, and forming supportive partnerships in achieving both career success and love. The episode encourages women to pursue their ambitions without guilt and emphasizes the importance of open communication in relationships.

    23 min

  6. 12/16/2025

    Strong Woman, Soft Life: How High-Achievers Can Finally Choose Peace in Love

    In this episode of 'Saying Yes Again,' Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the challenges faced by strong women in love and relationships. They discuss the concept of the 'soft life' as a counter to hustle culture, emphasizing the importance of emotional ease, vulnerability, and choosing peace. The conversation delves into practical steps for embracing a softer life, the significance of connection in modern dating, and the upcoming event aimed at fostering meaningful relationships among singles over 40. Takeaways Strong women often feel the burden of carrying everything in relationships. The 'soft life' represents a shift from hustle culture to emotional ease. Choosing peace in relationships is a powerful decision. Peace in love means mutual effort and feeling safe. Conflict resolution is essential for healthy relationships. Women are allowed to rest and receive support from partners. Softness in women makes them more approachable, not less powerful. Emotional maturity and boundaries are crucial for a soft life. Real connections are built through intentional conversations. Dating should focus on emotional honesty and stability.

    22 min
  7. Boss In The Boardroom… Lonely at Home? Let's Talk About That!

    12/02/2025

    Boss In The Boardroom… Lonely at Home? Let's Talk About That!

    In this episode of Saying Yes Again, we explore the challenges high-achieving women face in the dating world, discussing loneliness, emotional safety, and the invisible load they carry. We delve deep into the identity conflicts that arise when transitioning from professional success to personal relationships, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and communication. Also, highlighting the importance of building supportive partnerships that allow women to thrive without compromising their accomplishments. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Success and Loneliness 03:20 The Choice of Solitude 06:19 Men's Perspectives on High Achieving Women 08:57 The Invisible Load of Professional Women 11:59 Identity Conflict in Relationships 14:37 Thriving in Love Without Shrinking 20:09 Building Safe and Supportive Relationships 26:00 Creating a Community for Love Join our private Saying Yes Again Facebook Community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/sayingyesagaincommunity

    28 min

  8. 11/06/2025

    Real Talk: The Unfiltered Truth About Dating

    In episode 18 of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony record their first uncut, unscripted conversation about dating and relationships in midlife. They discuss the challenges of a small dating pool for women, ways people meet potential partners, and the importance of honesty about intentions. Sharing their own journey from divorce to love, they emphasize the importance of healing, growth, and staying open to second chances. The episode also encouraging listeners to embrace new opportunities for connection and reminding everyone that it's never too late to say yes again. Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction and Episode Format (00:00:01) Hosts introduce themselves, the podcast, and announce this will be an uncut, raw episode. Episode Milestone and Uncut Decision (00:00:42) Celebrating the 18th episode and discussing the decision to record an uncut, spontaneous session. Topics Overview (00:02:35) Preview of main topics: dating pool for women, reasons people avoid relationships in midlife, and why most don't remarry. The Midlife Dating Pool (00:03:28) Discussion about the challenges women face in the midlife dating pool and why it feels small and difficult. Ways People Meet Partners (00:04:29) Exploring traditional and modern ways people meet: friends, events, weddings, professional functions, clubs, and online dating. Online Dating Experiences (00:07:14) Personal stories about online dating, including how the hosts met and advice for not giving up on dating apps. Commitment and Biological Clocks (00:08:22) How age, life stage, and biological factors influence relationship decisions for men and women in midlife. Commitment Hesitancy in Midlife (00:09:34) Why some men in midlife are hesitant to commit, and how personal experiences and age impact their choices. Honesty and Transparency in Dating (00:10:54) Importance of being upfront about intentions in relationships to avoid leading others on. Personal Growth and Readiness (00:13:29) How healing and personal growth after divorce affect openness to new relationships and marriage. Why Most Don't Remarry (00:14:10) Exploring reasons people avoid a second marriage, including fear of repeating past pain and emotional bruises. Life Partner vs. Marriage (00:16:20) Discussion about preferring a life partner over marriage and how openness can evolve. Advice for Men: Earning Commitment (00:17:58) Advice for men to be consistent and show quality to move from "life partner" to "I do." Personal Transformation and Hope (00:18:36) How personal transformation after divorce led to a happier, more fulfilling relationship. Are People Really Looking for Love in Midlife? (00:21:40) Hosts discuss whether people in midlife are truly seeking love and the importance of openness and healing. Encouragement to Try Online Dating (00:22:00) Tony shares how encouragement from a friend led him to try online dating, resulting in meeting Lisa.

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Finding love after 50 isn't just possible—it can be the most exciting chapter of your life. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and her husband Tony, Saying Yes Again shares real conversations, personal stories, and practical advice for navigating dating, relationships, and self-discovery after divorce. From rebuilding confidence and embracing vulnerability to trying dating apps for the first time and blending families, we explore what it means to love—and live—fearlessly in midlife. Whether you're reentering the dating world, searching for companionship, or redefining what you want from love, this show gives you the insight, encouragement, and inspiration you need. Get ready for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and a few laughs along the way. Because saying "yes" again isn't just about finding the right partner—it's about saying yes to yourself, your joy, and your second chance at love.

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