Mom Life Unfiltered by THE CÆP

Mom Life Unfiltered by The CÆP

"Mom Life Unfiltered" is a refreshing and honest podcast for modern moms who embrace the chaos, beauty, and realness of motherhood. Hosted by Corinna Emery & Malliha Ahmad, we dive into the unspoken truths, challenges, and joys that come with being a mom today. From candid conversations to inspiring stories, we provide a supportive space for moms to connect, share, and feel seen—because motherhood isn’t always picture-perfect, and that’s okay. Join us as we strip away the filters and keep it real, one episode at a time.

  1. May 18

    The Balance Myth: A Video Editing Mompreneur on Why You'll Never 'Have It Together' — And Why That's Actually Okay

    Kalee Isbell started her video editing company in 2019 with no business plan, two kids under two, and a single Instagram DM she almost didn't send. Seven years later she runs a team of nine editors all moms and has built a business around one simple idea: the videos sitting on your phone deserve to actually be watched. But this conversation goes way deeper than the business origin story. Kalee gets honest about what it actually looked like to build something in the margins of motherhood editing videos from the hallway while her kids took a bath, trying to work through COVID with zero childcare, and the year her revenue dipped and she told her husband it was all over. She talks about the moment she stopped measuring success by growth and started measuring it by whether she still enjoyed what she was doing. And she talks about surrender not as giving up, but as the quiet practice that made her a better mom and a steadier business owner. She also gets into something that doesn't come up enough: the question of whether we're over-documenting childhood, who gets to decide, and why asking your kids for permission before you press record matters more than you think. This one is for every mom who's tired of chasing balance and just needs someone to tell her that building something messy and imperfect is still building something. Topics covered: Starting a business from a DM with no plan — and what year 7 actually looks likeWhy every editor on her team is a mom and why it makes all the differenceThe balance myth and why chasing it is making us feel worseWorking through COVID with two kids and no childcareSurrender as practice and what those hard moments are building in youWhat kids teach us about forgiveness and starting overOver-documenting vs under-documenting childhood — where's the line?The mom she thought she'd be vs who she actually becameHow to start when your creative idea scares youAbout Kalee: @kaleeisbell | @isbellfamilyfilms — video editing entrepreneur, former teacher, mom of 2 (soon 3), and founder of a company built entirely in the in-between moments of motherhood.

    44 min
  2. Apr 15

    Mom Guilt, the Village & Why Women Wait to Be Ready (When Men Just Do It)

    Pumping in a Courthouse Bathroom: A Lawyer, Mom of 2 & Firm Owner Gets Real About Ambition, Mom Guilt & Refusing to Choose Mona Tash is an employment lawyer, co-founder of her own firm, and mom of two boys under seven. Four months after having her first son, she had a trial. She pumped in the bathroom between sessions. She brought him to an arbitration in Palm Springs when she had no other option. She didn't get maternity leave — because there was no one to pass her cases to. And she kept going. In this episode, Corinna, Malliha, and Mona get into the conversations most working moms are having in their heads but rarely say out loud — the guilt that shows up even when you know you're doing the right thing, the mental load that follows you on vacation, and the moment Mona's six-year-old told her she needed a break and she realized he actually gets it. They also talk about what it looks like to hold onto yourself through motherhood — the board seat Mona has kept for nine years, the 8am Saturday workout class she doesn't apologize for, and why she's actively trying to let her kids fail a little more so they can actually grow. And for any mom sitting on a dream right now? Mona's closing advice is the push you didn't know you needed. Topics covered: The real cost of having no maternity leave when you own your firmMom guilt — where it actually comes from and what to do with itBuilding your village and why the support system isn't optionalLetting kids fail as an act of loveSelf-care that goes deeper than a spa dayHolding onto your pre-mom identity on purposeWhy women wait to be ready — and men just startTaking the first step even when you don't have all the answersAbout Mona: @monatash — lawyer, firm co-founder, mom of two, and someone who has built her life around helping others fight for what they deserve.

    46 min
  3. Mar 14

    Dr. Lisa vs. Lisa: An Acupuncturist Mompreneur on Yin Energy, Softness & Building a Business That Actually Fits Your Life

    You know how some guests just say the thing you didn't know you needed to hear? This is that episode. Dr. Lisa Upshaw is an acupuncturist, holistic wellness practitioner, and mom of a 14-year-old — and she's been running her own practice since 2006. She's also someone who figured out early on that you have to become two different people to survive this whole mompreneur life. Not fake. Not split. Just intentional about who you're being and when. In this conversation, Malliha and Dr. Lisa get into the real stuff: Yin and Yang energy in business (and why mompreneurs are almost always stuck in Yang), what it actually means to listen to your body, and why so many of us stopped playing long before we had a reason to. They also talk about the "car moment" that five minutes in the driveway before you walk into the house as the unofficial therapy session most moms don't realize they're already having. Dr. Lisa doesn't believe in perfectionism. She doesn't believe in hitting a ceiling someone else set for her. And she's finally, at this point in her life, starting to define what success actually feels like, not what it looks like. Topics covered: The two-names trick for separating work-you from home-youYin vs. Yang energy and where mompreneurs get stuckListening to your body's actual cues (not the caffeine or the sugar)What softness looks like when you're always "on"The car moment and why it counts as spacePlay: what it was, where it went, and how to find it againEntrepreneurship as liberationDefining success without anyone else's blueprintAbout Dr. Lisa: @drlisaupshaw — acupuncturist, TCM practitioner, holistic wellness expert, dancer, astrology student, and mom doing it all on her own terms since 2006.

    50 min
  4. Feb 14

    I Lost Myself After Becoming a Mom: How to Find Your Identity Again (+ The One Question That Changes Everything for Your Daughter)

    Who Am I Now That I'm a Mom? Finding Yourself After Motherhood + Teaching Your Daughter Beauty Is Felt, Not Seen Have you ever stood in front of your closet feeling like nothing fits—not just your body, but your life? Do you look in the mirror and wonder where "you" went? You're not alone. In this powerful 56-minute conversation, @wearingyourworth founder Sarah Gale (30 years in fashion, Project Runway Australia judge, and personal development expert) reveals why so many moms experience identity loss—and how your wardrobe is actually a metaphor for your life. What you'll discover: ✨ Why moms lose themselves at specific pivot points (ages 9-11, teen years, empty nest—and sometimes as early as ages 2-5)✨ The comfort addiction trap: Why always reaching for oversized clothes might mean you're stuck in a comfort zone in your business, relationships, and parenting✨ How your clothing patterns mirror your life patterns: Hiding, playing small, seeking external validation✨ The 3 Style Essences you were born with (and why your third essence is the one you're most resistant to—but need most)✨ The ONE question that will change how your daughter sees herself forever: "How do you feel in that outfit?" (not "how do you look?")✨ Why postpartum body recovery takes 18+ months (not the "fourth trimester" myth)✨ How to teach your daughter that beauty is something she feels before it's something she sees This episode is for you if: You feel lost in motherhood and don't know who you are anymoreNothing in your closet feels like "you"You're addicted to comfort clothes and can't remember the last time you felt alive in what you're wearingYou have a daughter and want to raise her differently—teaching her to trust how she feels instead of seeking external validationYou've hit a glass ceiling in your business or life and can't figure out whyYou're tired of the broken beauty industry profiting off your insecurityGuest: Sarah Gale (@wearingyourworth)Sarah Gale is the founder of Wearing Your Worth, a business that explores the psychological relationship we have with clothes. With 30 years in the Australian fashion industry (including senior executive roles and judging Project Runway Australia) and 25 years in personal development, Sarah helps women break free from unconscious programming and discover their true style essences—the key to feeling congruent from the inside out. 💜 Subscribe so you don't miss Episode 3💬 Comment below: What's the dialogue you tell yourself when you get dressed?📲 Share this with a mom who needs to hear it

    56 min
  5. 07/21/2025

    From Hating Breastfeeding to Finding Flow: One Mom's Raw Recovery Story

    Join hosts Malliha Ahmad and Corinna Emery for one of our most raw and honest conversations yet with Makeba Lindsay (IG @ynotkeeb), a single mom who’s breaking down every myth about “natural” motherhood. From the brutal reality of hating breastfeeding to literally feeling her brain shrink and return, Makeba shares the unfiltered truth about postpartum recovery, single motherhood, and why your partner can make or break your entire experience. Key Topics Covered: The Breastfeeding Reality Check • Why “the best nutrients on the planet” can still feel impossible • Hating something you’re “supposed” to love and what that means • The commitment that carried her through: “just do it like a zombie” • Finding flow at 6 months when everything finally clicked Your Brain is Literally Different • The science behind mom brain: why your brain actually shrinks during pregnancy • What it feels like when your brain “comes back” after 2 years • Why you can’t handle challenges the same way you used to • The “stuckness” that isn’t your fault - it’s biology C-Section Recovery Reality • Feeling “everything” while choosing no medication during breastfeeding • The 12-week clearance myth: “I was in no place to be working out” • Creating a home gym with baby as “little coach” • Why movement looks completely different after becoming a mom Postpartum and Partnership • The direct correlation between your partner and your postpartum experience • Why abusive relationships make postpartum depression “10 times worse” • How partners can literally help bring you out of that space • The myth that postpartum is something that happens TO partners, not WITH them Single Mom Doubt and Determination • “I don’t know if I can do this” - the honest internal dialogue • Recovering from damage while trying to be present • The belief that children need two-parent households vs. single mom reality • Changing your mindset to change everything else The Celebration We’re Missing • “Two things can exist” - loving your kids while hating tantrums • Why we need to celebrate showing up despite feeling unqualified • The reality: nobody wants to deal with tantrums, and that’s okay • Recognizing people who abandon their parenting roles vs. those who keep showing up Connect with Makeba: Instagram: @ynotkeeb Join Our Mama Village: • Instagram: @momlifeunfiltered_by_thecaep • Website: thecaep.com

    59 min
  6. 06/25/2025

    Chaotic but Fun: Building a Travel Business While Raising Tiny Explorers

    Join hosts Malliha Ahmad and Corinna Emery for an inspiring conversation with Amanda Emmerling (@toddling_traveler), the former banking COO turned travel advisor who’s proving that family adventures can start at 7 weeks old. From her daughter screaming in the Louvre to her son taking notes on geography, Amanda shares the real, unfiltered truth about traveling with kids and building a business around your passion.Key Topics Covered:From Banking to Travel Dreams        •       How Amanda left her COO position when her son was 18 months old        •       The transition from corporate life to travel advisor and blogger        •       Why she knew travel would remain central to their family lifePhilosophy        •       First flight at 7 weeks, first road trip at 6 weeks        •       How early travel exposure shaped her son’s love for geography        •       The moment in the Louvre when everything “came full circle”Real Talk: Travel Challenges        •       Managing meltdowns in museums and restaurants        •       The difference between her anxious 7-year-old and people-watching 4-year-old        •       Solo parenting moments during family tripsScreen-Free Restaurant Strategy        •       Why their family chooses no screens at dinner (with zero judgment for others)        •       Activity backpacks and engagement games that actually work        •       The ABC game and I Spy as lifesaversThe Evolution of Travel        •       Why bad experiences can become amazing ones years later        •       How our capacity and perspective changes as we growMom Life Reality Check        •       Life in one word: “Chaotic but fun”        •       The corner stuffing and weekend planning reality        •       Finding balance (or accepting there might not be such a thing)Connect with Amanda:Instagram: @toddling_travelerJoin Our Mama Village:        •       Instagram: @momlifeunfiltered_by_thecaep        •       Website: thecaep.com

    41 min

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"Mom Life Unfiltered" is a refreshing and honest podcast for modern moms who embrace the chaos, beauty, and realness of motherhood. Hosted by Corinna Emery & Malliha Ahmad, we dive into the unspoken truths, challenges, and joys that come with being a mom today. From candid conversations to inspiring stories, we provide a supportive space for moms to connect, share, and feel seen—because motherhood isn’t always picture-perfect, and that’s okay. Join us as we strip away the filters and keep it real, one episode at a time.