The DadPod

some dads
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The DadPod is a platform where real dads engage in authentic conversations about the joys, challenges, and amusing moments of fatherhood. Whether you’re a new dad grappling with diapers and sleepless nights or a seasoned father juggling work, kids, and legacy, we hope this podcast reminds you that you are not alone. Each episode features honest stories, practical advice, and unwavering encouragement from fellow dads who are navigating the same struggles. Join us as we build strong families, support each other, and embrace the dad life—because the only thing stronger than our dad jokes is our unwavering commitment to fatherhood.

  1. Sep 21

    30 | Sex, Respect & Peace: What Husbands Actually Want

    In Episode 30 of DadPod, we flip the script. After previously hearing from our wives about sex, service, and salary, this time the husbands talk about what we value most in marriage. We narrow the conversation down to three things: sex, respect, and peace. For the first three guys, peace and respect rise to the top—not because sex isn’t important, but because we believe a healthy sex life often follows downstream from feeling respected and having peace within the relationship. But what does a “peaceful home” actually mean? It definitely doesn’t mean a quiet house or a marriage without disagreement. Kids are loud, life is chaotic, and conflict is sometimes necessary. We’re talking about avoiding unnecessary conflict and creating a home where you don’t constantly feel like you’re walking into another battle. Jon offers a different perspective. For him, peace isn’t about eliminating the noise—it’s about knowing his family can communicate through the noise. He also talks about the importance of affirmation and respect for men, and why feeling valued by your wife can carry so much weight. We also get into a topic plenty of married couples probably think about but may not openly discuss: initiating sex. Does it matter who initiates? Should one spouse be doing it more often? And what does initiation communicate beyond simply wanting sex? It’s a candid conversation about marriage, intimacy, respect, conflict, affirmation, and what husbands may really be asking for when they say they want more connection with their wives. Connect with Jon and Day By Day Renewal: DayByDayRenewal.com DayByDayRenewal@gmail.com Call or text: 323-794-7366

    30 | Sex, Respect & Peace: What Husbands Actually Want

  2. Sep 6

    29 | Lights On, Eyes Open: Rethinking Sex in Marriage

    Jon from Day By Day Renewal joins us again for an honest conversation about masculine sexuality, intimacy, pornography, communication, and marriage. We discuss some of the differences in how men and women often experience connection. Men may feel emotionally connected through sex, while women may be more likely to need emotional connection before they desire sex. That difference can create tension—especially when work, kids, responsibilities, and exhaustion leave very little time for a husband and wife to intentionally connect. Jon talks about how pornography can creep into that gap and distort expectations around sex and intimacy. We discuss Hollywood’s portrayal of sex, the difference between sex with genuine intimacy and sex simply for the sake of sex, and Doug Weiss’s characteristics of healthy marital sex—including “lights on, eyes open, and nurturing conversation.” We also get into the uncomfortable but important question of how men communicate their sexual needs to their wives. It is okay to ask your spouse for what you need, but an ask is not a mandate, and marriage does not create entitlement to sex. Healthy intimacy requires communication, consideration, and effort from both people. Sometimes connection is as simple as texting your spouse during the day, taking time to debrief together, or prioritizing quality time when quantity is limited. We also discuss masculinity and emotions. Men can develop the mindset that their feelings don't matter because the job still has to get done. But our wives often want to know what we're feeling—not necessarily to fix it, but because sharing those parts of ourselves creates intimacy. Marriage isn't 50/50. It's 100/100. Connect with Jon and Day By Day Renewal: DayByDayRenewal.com DayByDayRenewal@gmail.com Call or text: 323-794-7366

    29 | Lights On, Eyes Open: Rethinking Sex in Marriage

  3. Aug 23

    28 | High Love, High Boundaries: What Gentle Parenting Really Means

    In Episode 28, we talk about how marriage and parenting change over time—and whether couples are able to adapt together as the person they married evolves. We also discuss how difficult it can be to balance the roles of spouse and parent when there isn’t much energy or emotion left at the end of the day. Then we dive into gentle parenting and admit that several of us had the wrong idea about what the term actually means. True gentle parenting isn’t avoiding discipline or letting kids do whatever they want. It means treating children with empathy and respect while still maintaining firm boundaries, expectations, and consequences. We compare that approach with the way many of us were raised: “Do what I say because I said so,” often with little explanation. We discuss why different children may respond to different consequences, the importance of teaching resilience, embracing discomfort, and preparing kids for the reality that life isn’t always fair. The conversation eventually turns to one of the more controversial parenting topics: spanking. We debate whether an immediate physical consequence can help reinforce boundaries or whether it can damage trust and teach children to hide their mistakes. Meagan pushes back on spanking for that reason, while others discuss the role of consequences, respect, and even the idea of a healthy form of fear. We also talk about the different ways mothers and fathers may approach discipline, why children may benefit from both nurturing and accountability, and why boundaries only work when parents actually follow through. Ultimately, we agree on one important point: whatever consequence a parent chooses, the conversation afterward matters. Kids should understand why the boundary exists, know that they are loved, and still feel safe coming to their parents when they make mistakes.

    28 | High Love, High Boundaries: What Gentle Parenting Really Means

  4. Aug 9

    27 | The Mental Load: What Husbands Don’t Always See

    In this episode of the DadPod, the wives are back—and this time we put some numbers on who actually keeps the household running. We play a game where each wife estimates what percentage of the household management she handles compared with her husband, while the husbands make their own estimates separately. Meagan puts herself at 85% and Aaron at 15%—and, surprisingly, Aaron gives himself the exact same 15% without knowing her answer. Most of the couples land somewhere in a similar range, although a few husbands may be giving themselves a little too much—or too little—credit. Daniel and Kim have the biggest debate over exactly where their percentages should land. From there, we get into who actually does what around the house, whether the wives are satisfied with the current division of labor, and why simply dividing up chores doesn't tell the whole story. We talk about the mental load many women carry: thinking about the kids, schedules, appointments, meals, school, and everything that needs to happen at home—even while they're at work. At the same time, we discuss the different pressures men often carry, including getting up early to work out or prepare for the day, the desire to decompress after work, and the challenge of transitioning immediately from work responsibilities into family responsibilities. One of the biggest realizations is that both husbands and wives are tired—they're often just carrying different kinds of burdens. The wives don't necessarily want to dramatically change the percentages. What they would appreciate is husbands noticing what needs to be done and helping without always having to be asked, along with more acknowledgment and appreciation for everything they do day after day. Ultimately, it comes back to communication: making sure both spouses feel seen, appreciated, and able to get the breaks they need while still functioning as a team.

    27 | The Mental Load: What Husbands Don’t Always See

  5. Jul 26

    26 | Are Men Only Loved If They Provide? | The Truth About Unconditional Love & Marriage

    Episode 26: Are Men Only Loved If They Provide? A single Chris Rock quote sparks one of our deepest conversations yet: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." Joined again by our wives, we wrestle with whether this statement reflects reality or simply how many men experience life. We discuss the unique responsibility many men feel to provide, whether that pressure comes from society, faith, or ourselves, and why many men willingly embrace that role without resentment. The conversation naturally turns toward a bigger question: Does unconditional love actually exist? We explore God's unconditional love, the way parents love their children, and whether marriage itself can truly be unconditional or if healthy relationships inevitably involve expectations and responsibilities. In the second half of the episode, we dive into the fascinating concept of "bids for connection" (also known as Bird Theory). These small everyday moments—sharing a random observation, telling a quick story, asking a simple question—are actually opportunities to strengthen your relationship. Research suggests that couples who consistently respond to these bids with interest and engagement enjoy stronger marriages and significantly lower divorce rates. We also discuss why many men unintentionally miss these moments, how stay-at-home parents often seek connection differently, and why marriage can sometimes leave us feeling more evaluated than celebrated. Ultimately, we argue that this isn't necessarily a flaw in marriage—it's one of the ways marriage exposes our weaknesses so we can continue growing into better husbands, wives, and people. Whether you agree or disagree with the Chris Rock quote, this episode is a thoughtful conversation about responsibility, love, connection, and what it really takes to build a lasting marriage.

    26 | Are Men Only Loved If They Provide? | The Truth About Unconditional Love & Marriage

  6. Jul 12

    25 | Our Wives Finally Set Us Straight

    Episode 25: Joined by Our Wives For the first time, the wives join the DadPod—and they don't hold back. We tackle one of the most confusing questions husbands face: Why ask for our opinion on an outfit if you've already decided what you're going to wear? The conversation uncovers something many husbands miss: women often aren't just looking for a fashion critique—they're looking for reassurance, encouragement, and to feel seen. While confidence ultimately drives the final decision, genuine validation from a spouse still matters. The wives also explain how many women have experienced years of passive-aggressive or backhanded comments about appearance, giving context that most husbands never considered. As men, we typically mean exactly what we say, making it easy to underestimate how much those past experiences shape these conversations. We discuss the importance of assuming the best in our spouses, complimenting each other more often, and remembering a simple truth: your husband married you because he thinks you're beautiful. To wrap up the episode, everyone plays a marriage game ranking three priorities—Salary, Sex, and Service—leading to some surprising differences between couples. The discussion highlights how family dynamics, income, stress, and love languages all influence what each spouse values most. Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with honest laughs, practical insights, and reminders that strong marriages are built on trust, communication, and assuming good intentions. Key Takeaways Why validation matters more than being "right." What husbands often misunderstand about the outfit question. Why assuming good intentions changes marriage. The importance of frequent, genuine compliments. How different couples prioritize Salary, Sex, and Service—and why there's no one-size-fits-all answer. Practical ways to better understand your spouse and strengthen your relationship.

    25 | Our Wives Finally Set Us Straight

  7. May 31

    24 | Let Them Fall: Teaching Kids Hard Things | Are You Pushing Them—or Yourself?

    In Episode 24, we dive into one of the hardest parts of parenting: teaching our kids to do difficult things. Using the challenge of teaching a child to ride a bike as a starting point, we discuss the balance between encouraging growth and managing our own frustrations when progress comes slower than we'd like. We explore how every child learns differently and why the same approach won't work for every kid. Sometimes a child needs more encouragement, sometimes they need more independence, and sometimes they're simply not ready yet—and that's okay. We also tackle an uncomfortable but important question: when we're pushing our children to try something new, are we doing it because it's best for them, or because it satisfies something in us? As parents, examining our own motivations can help us better support our kids instead of unintentionally adding pressure. The conversation also covers the importance of letting children experience appropriate risk. Confidence isn't built by keeping kids safe from every challenge—it's built by allowing them to struggle, fail, adapt, and eventually succeed. We discuss why kids should be allowed to do dangerous things carefully, and how that balance of freedom and guidance helps create capable, resilient adults. Finally, we talk about commitment. While it's important not to force children into activities they're not ready for, once they've made a commitment, there is tremendous value in teaching them to follow through, persevere through discomfort, and finish what they started. This episode is about raising kids who are brave enough to try, resilient enough to fail, and confident enough to keep going.

    24 | Let Them Fall: Teaching Kids Hard Things | Are You Pushing Them—or Yourself?

  8. May 24

    23 | The Aftermath of Loss | Being Present Instead of Fixing | A Father’s Love Doesn’t Compete

    Episode 23 dives into grief, fatherhood, and the difficult realities that often come with growing older and raising a family. The conversation explores the powerful “grief box” analogy — how grief never truly disappears, but over time life grows around it. The pain button gets hit less often, yet when it does, it can feel just as intense as the day the loss occurred. The episode also challenges the instinct to “fix” grief. Instead of searching for the perfect words, the discussion focuses on the importance of simply sitting with someone in their pain and being present. Sometimes support is less about advice and more about companionship through suffering. The conversation shifts into the unique role of a father and the unmatched nature of a father’s love — a man who is not competing with you, but genuinely wants you to succeed beyond him. The guys also discuss practical but often avoided topics like wills, trusts, and preparing your family for the unexpected. Finally, the episode reflects on the isolating aftermath of grief and life experience. Much like becoming a parent, there are certain emotional realities that are impossible to fully understand until you’ve personally walked through them.

    23 | The Aftermath of Loss | Being Present Instead of Fixing | A Father’s Love Doesn’t Compete
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The DadPod is a platform where real dads engage in authentic conversations about the joys, challenges, and amusing moments of fatherhood. Whether you’re a new dad grappling with diapers and sleepless nights or a seasoned father juggling work, kids, and legacy, we hope this podcast reminds you that you are not alone. Each episode features honest stories, practical advice, and unwavering encouragement from fellow dads who are navigating the same struggles. Join us as we build strong families, support each other, and embrace the dad life—because the only thing stronger than our dad jokes is our unwavering commitment to fatherhood.

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  • Creator
    some dads
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Clean
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