How To Become A...

Grace Stevens

You don’t have to be rich or famous to be successful and we’re here to prove it. ‘How To Become A…’ gives insights into everyday success stories. Each episode, Grace Stevens chats to real people about how they actually got to where they are today. From their first steps and “what am I doing?” moments, to big decisions and what’s next. It’s honest, unfiltered, and (hopefully) makes figuring out your own path feel a little less overwhelming. Follow us on Instagram (@howtobecomea__) and TikTok (@howtobecomea__) for more stories 🎙️ Want to be on the show? Email hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com

  1. 2d ago

    How To Become A… Founder of a Sexual Wellness & Erotic Pleasure Platform

    *Explicit Content* What does it take to build a successful business in one of the world's most misunderstood industries? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace speaks with Anna, founder of FrolicMe, an award-winning erotic platform dedicated to female pleasure, healthy sexuality and beautifully produced erotic content. Leaving behind a successful career in branding and marketing, Anna spotted a huge gap in the market: women weren't being catered for in the world of erotic entertainment. So she decided to change it. She explains: Why she founded FrolicMeThe difference between pornography and female-focused eroticaHow she built an independent subscription business from scratchWhy creating a trusted brand in the adult industry was her biggest challenge Anna also shares: Her background in marketing and advertisingFunding the business herself to maintain complete creative controlGrowing FrolicMe into a global platform with millions of visitorsLicensing content to Playboy while staying true to her original vision Plus, we discuss: Female pleasure and why it's still overlookedBreaking down stigma around sex and intimacyCensorship, payment restrictions and the challenges of running an adult businessWhy communication and understanding your own pleasure are key to healthy relationshipsHow entrepreneurship can be driven by purpose as much as profit If you're interested in: EntrepreneurshipFemale foundersSexual wellnessBranding and marketingBuilding an online subscription businessWomen's health and intimacyStart-up journeysBusiness innovation This episode is an honest and eye-opening conversation about building a business that challenges outdated ideas, empowers women, and encourages healthier conversations around sex. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  2. Jul 21

    How To Become A... Counter Terrorism Bomb Disposal Expert

    What does it really take to become a Counter Terrorism Bomb Disposal Expert? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace sits down with Matt, Head of the Metropolitan Police's Counter Terrorism Bomb Disposal Unit, to uncover one of the most specialised and high-pressure careers in the UK. From World War II munitions to suspected terrorist devices, Matt explains what his team really does, how they prepare for the unimaginable, and why teamwork, discipline and humility are far more important than Hollywood would have you believe. We discuss: What a Counter Terrorism Bomb Disposal Expert actually doesThe difference between military and police bomb disposalHow London's specialist unit operates 24/7The training, skills and mindset required for the role Matt also shares: Why he originally wanted to join the ArmyNearly avoiding bomb disposal altogether before discovering he loved itThe intensive training required to qualifyHis experiences serving in Northern Ireland, Iraq and AfghanistanThe journey from military bomb disposal officer to leading London's specialist police unit Plus, we explore: Why no to explosive devices are ever the sameThe importance of remaining calm under pressureHow teams prepare for major incidents and public eventsSupporting mental wellbeing in one of the world's most demanding professionsWhy asking for help is a strength, not a weakness If you're interested in: Counter terrorismBomb disposalMilitary careersPolice careersLeadershipEmergency servicesPublic serviceHigh-pressure decision making This episode offers a fascinating behind-the-scenes insight into a profession most of us never see—but one that quietly helps keep millions of people safe every day. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  3. Jul 14

    How To Become A... Life Design Coach

    What is a life design coach and how do you redesign your life from the inside out? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace speaks to Michelle about combining two completely different worlds: interior design and holistic health coaching. After spending 17 years in the high-pressure world of workplace design, working on huge projects including Spotify’s London headquarters, Michelle experienced severe burnout during COVID, working 100-hour weeks until her body began physically shutting down. That moment changed everything. Michelle shares how she rebuilt her health, retrained as a health coach, and created Interior Self, a unique framework helping women redesign their lives through wellness, nervous system regulation, creativity, and intentional living. She explains: What a life design coach actually doesHow our environments impact our nervous systemsWhy burnout often starts with ignoring the body’s warning signsThe connection between stress, self-worth, and physical symptoms She also shares: Growing up struggling with cystic acne and self-imageWorking in high-end workplace design in Australia and LondonDesigning Spotify’s London HQHow she rebuilt her health after losing her hair during burnout Plus, we get into: Creating a “framework for living”The five pillars of Interior SelfEmbodiment practices, dance, and nervous system healingWhy slowing down can completely change your lifeIf you’re interested in:Burnout recoveryHealth & wellness coachingPersonal developmentInterior design & wellbeingWomen’s healthNervous system regulationCareer pivots & reinvention This episode is a powerful conversation about self-worth, creativity, healing, and building a life that actually feels good to live. @interior.self 🎙 How To Become A... explores real-life journeys behind the careers of everyday people. Each episode dives into the path of someone who's built success outside of the spotlight — no fame, no fortune, just real stories. Discover how they started, the challenges they faced, and what drives them forward. 💼✨ 🔗 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more people find their own path 📩 Got your own story to share? Contact us at hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com 📱Follow us on socials: @howtobecomea__ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Become A... Life Design Coach
  4. Jul 7

    How To Become A... Artist

    What does it really take to build a career as an artist in today's world? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace speaks to digital artist Doddz, whose work blends physical art with cutting-edge technology to create immersive experiences that have captivated brands, galleries and audiences around the world. From painting street art anonymously to creating AI-powered installations and augmented reality experiences, Doddz shares how following curiosity, not a traditional career path, led him to one of the most unique creative careers we've featured. He explains: What a digital artist actually doesHow augmented reality and AI are changing artWhy finding your niche is more important than following trendsHow technology can create deeper human connection He also shares: Growing up inspired by his grandfather's imaginationFailing A Levels before discovering graphic designCreating anonymous street art that became a local phenomenonWorking alongside Steven Bartlett and Social Chain, and the lessons that shaped his business mindset Plus, we get into: Why artists need to think like brandsBuilding a creative business through social media and LinkedInThe importance of curiosity, experimentation and persistenceDesigning interactive art that reacts to conversations, emotions and even pollution If you're interested in: Digital artAI & creativityAugmented realityCreative careersPersonal brandingEntrepreneurship for artists This episode is a fascinating look at how creativity, technology and storytelling can come together to build a truly original career—and why your biggest strength might be creating something that has never existed before. 🎙 How To Become A... explores real-life journeys behind the careers of everyday people. Each episode dives into the path of someone who's built success outside of the spotlight — no fame, no fortune, just real stories. Discover how they started, the challenges they faced, and what drives them forward. 💼✨ 🔗 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more people find their own path 📩 Got your own story to share? Contact us at hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com 📱Follow us on socials: @howtobecomea__ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Become A... Artist
  5. Jun 30

    How To Become A... Wine Educator

    What does a wine educator actually do and how do you turn a passion for wine into a career? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace speaks to Abbie about her fascinating journey from archaeology and BBC journalism to becoming a respected wine educator, writer, and Chair of the Association of Wine Educators. From producing the BBC’s 6 O’Clock News and 10 O’Clock News to teaching people how to understand wine beyond “just a Sauvignon Blanc,” Abbie shares how she completely changed careers and found a world built around storytelling, travel, education, and taste. She explains: What a wine educator actually doesThe difference between casual wine tastings and formal wine qualificationsHow the Wine & Spirit Education Trust (WSET) worksWhy wine education is becoming more popular than ever She also shares: Her unusual university journey studying archaeology & ancient coinageWorking at the BBC during major world events including 9/11Leaving journalism at the peak of her careerHow COVID changed people’s relationship with wine Plus, we get into: Why wine is really about storytelling and cultureThe reality of working in the wine industryTraveling the world to visit wine regionsLaunching her podcast Vintage Politics, combining politics and wine If you’re interested in: Wine educationWSET qualificationsFood & drink careersCareer changesJournalism & broadcastingWine tasting and travel This episode is a brilliant reminder that careers don’t have to follow a straight line and that passion, curiosity, and reinvention can lead somewhere completely unexpected. @abvtastings@vintagepoliticspod https://www.wineeducators.com 🎙 How To Become A... explores real-life journeys behind the careers of everyday people. Each episode dives into the path of someone who's built success outside of the spotlight — no fame, no fortune, just real stories. Discover how they started, the challenges they faced, and what drives them forward. 💼✨ 🔗 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more people find their own path 📩 Got your own story to share? Contact us at hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com 📱Follow us on socials: @howtobecomea__ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Become A... Wine Educator
  6. Jun 23

    How To Become A... Leader in Entertainment (Live Recording)

    Recorded live at Sony Music, this special episode of How To Become A… features entertainment industry leader Elliott Linger, whose career has taken him from advertising agencies to PlayStation, Universal Pictures, LEGO, and some of the biggest cultural brands in the world. In front of a live audience, Elliott shares how he built a career at the intersection of entertainment, strategy, audience insight, and storytelling—despite having no clear career plan when he was younger. We cover: How he went from an English Literature degree to the entertainment industryWorking on brands including PlayStation, Universal Pictures, LEGO, Capcom, Def Jam, and Island RecordsLaunching major entertainment franchises including The Last of Us, Jurassic World, Fast & Furious, and MinionsWhy understanding audiences is one of the most valuable skills in entertainmentThe importance of curiosity, adaptability, and resilience in a rapidly changing industry Elliot also shares: Growing up in a low-income household and breaking into a traditionally exclusive industryThe realities of networking and building meaningful relationshipsHow entertainment companies decide which projects get madeLessons learned from working with some of the biggest names in film, gaming, music, and culturePlus, we dive into: Audience development and consumer behaviourThe future of entertainment and AICareer pivots and transferable skillsBalancing leadership, family life, and giving back A huge thank you to Sony Music for hosting this live recording, Creative Mentor Network for partnering on the event, and El Rayo Tequila for sponsoring the evening. If you're interested in: Entertainment careersFilm, gaming, music, and mediaAudience strategy & marketingCreative industriesLeadership and career developmentBreaking into competitive industries This episode is packed with practical advice, fascinating behind-the-scenes stories, and insights from someone who has helped shape some of the world's biggest entertainment brands. 🎙 How To Become A... explores real-life journeys behind the careers of everyday people. Each episode dives into the path of someone who's built success outside of the spotlight — no fame, no fortune, just real stories. Discover how they started, the challenges they faced, and what drives them forward. 💼✨ 🔗 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more people find their own path 📩 Got your own story to share? Contact us at hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com 📱Follow us on socials: @howtobecomea__ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Become A... Leader in Entertainment (Live Recording)
  7. Jun 16

    How To Become A... Founder of a Design, Build and Facilities Management Company

    What does it take to build a successful design, build, and facilities management company from scratch? In this episode of How To Become A…, Grace speaks to Matt about creating MWA, a company that designs, builds, and maintains commercial spaces for major global brands including Nike, Converse, Jimmy Choo, Net-a-Porter, and more. Matt shares the reality of building a business over 24 years in one of the toughest industries out there, including surviving recessions, COVID, rising costs, and the constant pressure of winning work. He explains: What a design, build & facilities management company actually doesHow commercial office and retail fit-outs workWhy facilities management became a huge part of the businessWhat it’s really like working with global brands He also shares: Dropping out of university after 6 weeksFinding his career path almost by accidentStarting his business through redundancy negotiationsHow referrals and relationships built the company organically Plus, we get into: Winning huge projects for Net-a-Porter, Nike & Jimmy ChooWhy construction is such a high-risk industryHiring the right people and building strong teamsWriting his book Made With Ambition and opening up about personal struggles If you’re interested in: EntrepreneurshipConstruction and design careersCommercial interiorsStarting a businessFacilities managementBusiness growth and resilienceThis episode is an honest look at the highs, lows, risks, and ambition behind building a company that lasts. https://www.mwaprojects.com/ https://www.amazon.co.uk/Made-Ambition-Build-Legacy-Honesty/dp/B0G26N2WVW 🎙 How To Become A... explores real-life journeys behind the careers of everyday people. Each episode dives into the path of someone who's built success outside of the spotlight — no fame, no fortune, just real stories. Discover how they started, the challenges they faced, and what drives them forward. 💼✨ 🔗 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more people find their own path 📩 Got your own story to share? Contact us at hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com 📱Follow us on socials: @howtobecomea__ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Become A... Founder of a Design, Build and Facilities Management Company

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You don’t have to be rich or famous to be successful and we’re here to prove it. ‘How To Become A…’ gives insights into everyday success stories. Each episode, Grace Stevens chats to real people about how they actually got to where they are today. From their first steps and “what am I doing?” moments, to big decisions and what’s next. It’s honest, unfiltered, and (hopefully) makes figuring out your own path feel a little less overwhelming. Follow us on Instagram (@howtobecomea__) and TikTok (@howtobecomea__) for more stories 🎙️ Want to be on the show? Email hello.howtobecomea@gmail.com