Rich and Hydrated

Bara Queenbee

💸You perform under pressure then sabotage the good. I show you out. 🗣️ Stop/go/crash/urgency EXPERT 🔮from East-Europe, now off-grid in USA 🇺🇸

  1. Oct 23

    Ep. 79 - The Goal Isn't to Win the Fight (with Misti)

    Life is not Disney. And Misti doesn't teach the "if he grabs you like this, say STOP" version of self-defense. Misti is a journeyman instructor in Libre Knife Fighting, a youth Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu coach, and runs a mixed martial arts self-defense class in Pittsburgh. She's also training to become a hospice volunteer and, eventually, a death doula. Yes, the same woman. We contain multitudes. We get into: - The #1 self-defense myth: "I'll just run away" - Why the goal isn't to WIN the fight. It's to get OUT - The exit signs she put on the mat walls, and the student who walked right into the "basement" - Why you don't get taken to a second location - No ego: swallow your pride 10 million times if it means you go home - Hammer fists, a Sharpie, and why a flashlight might be the best tool you own - Training in the snow, in the dark, with the wrong gloves (and learning from it) - Her mother's death, the nurse who didn't notice, and why laughter heals grief - What a "good death" actually means - Memento mori: being prepared without living in your own prison "If you're not putting in physical reps, you're just playing pretend." LINKS Everything in one place: ⁠Meet Me At The Bank⁠ Get on the email list (early access to Redneck Rich with Red Ep. 2, Friday Oct 23): ⁠EMAIL LIST⁠ Watch ⁠Redneck Rich with Red, Episode. 1⁠ ⁠YouTube Bara Queenbee⁠ ⁠Plot Twis⁠t Execution Audit ($111): ⁠Memento Mor⁠i ($44): ⁠Private coaching⁠ (DM me): Instagram⁠ BaraQueenbee Follow Libre Knife Fighting Guild - Pittsburgh

  2. Oct 21

    Ep. 78 - Your "North Star" is a very spiritual way of saying you're scared.

    "I don't know what my North Star is." A client said this to me in group coaching, and I want to talk about it, because in the West, purpose has become the most socially acceptable excuse to not f*****g move. Where I'm from, purpose isn't bestowed on you by the gods, the fairies, the ancestors. Purpose happens AFTER you move. But most people are waiting for their higher calling to show up so they'll be absolved of the sting of rejection, the cringe of learning a new skill, the crickets after they put themselves out there. And as long as it feels hard, they tell themselves they're "not aligned." Wrong. In this episode: - Why waiting for your purpose is fear wearing a spiritual costume - Clarity comes from movement, even 10 million wrong moves - If you feel ready, clear, and confident, you're already late - Driver of your life vs. passenger in a bumper car - Why I don't do New Year's resolutions: how you END the year is how you start the next one I have a few private coaching spots left to close out 2026. If you need a sign, this is it. DM me on any platform. Rate the show 5 stars, share it with someone who needs a call-out, and I'll see you in the next episode. LINKS Everything in one place: ⁠Meet Me At The Bank⁠ Get on the email list (early access to Redneck Rich with Red Ep. 2, Friday Oct 23): ⁠EMAIL LIST⁠ Watch ⁠Redneck Rich with Red, Episode. 1⁠ ⁠YouTube Bara Queenbee⁠ ⁠Plot Twis⁠t Execution Audit ($111): ⁠Memento Mor⁠i ($44): ⁠Private coaching⁠ (DM me): Instagram⁠ BaraQueenbee⁠ Cowboy Cousin BJ: Follow ⁠Cowboy Cousin BJ on X:⁠

  3. Oct 20

    Ep. 77 - Horses Come First: Cowboy Code with Cousin BJ from Wyoming

    City internet calls him a cosplayer. Wyoming calls him a day-work cowboy. My cowboy cousin BJ, our relation from another nation, joins me live from the gun range (yes, those are gunshots, and yes, it's on brand) to break down what ranch life ACTUALLY looks like when there's no Yellowstone soundtrack. We get into: - Why "cowboy" is a job title, not an aesthetic - Running from a Mustang stud with nothing but a 9mm and a bullwhip - Calving season in February: 2 a.m., 10 below, pulling a calf by hand so it doesn't die - Dehorning, castrating, and why "brutal" and "barbaric" aren't the same thing - Herding six escaped buffalo across open reservation range (2 hours with cows, 8 with bison) - Cowboy code: never ride in front of the boss, ride for the brand, horses get fed before you do - Hat rules nobody tells you (don't spill the luck out of it) - Why a good cow dog is worth three cowboys, and someone stole one in five minutes - The math: how many cows it takes to actually make a ranch pay - Yellowstone, the trad wife fantasy, and why hobby farms go up for sale after one winter If you've ever wanted the land, the animals, the freedom, this is your reality check. It's not Disney. It's work. And the people who do it care a hell of a lot more than the comment section thinks. LINKS Everything in one place: Meet Me At The Bank Get on the email list (early access to Redneck Rich with Red Ep. 2, Friday Oct 23): EMAIL LIST Watch Redneck Rich with Red, Episode. 1 YouTube Bara Queenbee Plot Twist Execution Audit ($111): Memento Mori ($44): Private coaching (DM me): Instagram BaraQueenbee Cowboy Cousin BJ: Follow Cowboy Cousin BJ on X:

  4. Oct 17

    Ep. 76 - Road Rage Is a Business Problem

    Stuck 12 cars deep behind a semi doing 25 in a 55, on one of the windiest highways on the West Coast, I watched grown adults lose their minds. Passing on double lines. Zero visibility. Risking their lives (and everyone else's) because the road wasn't moving the way they wanted. And I felt nothing. Not because I'm "calm today." Because embodiment isn't a mood. It's not something you were "in" for one post. You either are it, or you're not. So where in your life are you making dumb f*****g moves because the results didn't show up fast enough? Where can't you hold the tension, hold the line, wait for the turnout? Taking a risk and jeopardizing everything you've built aren't the same thing. They're not even in the same library. In this episode: - Why "I was so embodied in that post" isn't a thing - Calculated risk vs. emotional jumps (the cat-in-a-corner move) - How impatience chokes out the momentum you already built - Where external circumstances are still driving your car Drop your call-out in the comments or in my DMs. I want to hear it. Redneck Rich with Red, Episode 2 drops Friday, October 23. Email list gets early access, bonus questions, and behind-the-scenes footage. LINKS Everything in one place: https://meetmeatthebank.com Get on the email list (early access to Ep. 2): https://baraqueenbee.myflodesk.com/email Watch Redneck Rich with Red, Ep. 1: https://youtu.be/f2MdI2NDVp0 YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BaraQueenbee Plot Twist Execution Audit ($111): https://bara-queenbee.mykajabi.com/offers/B2jTQzwy/checkout Memento Mori ($44): https://bara-queenbee.mykajabi.com/offers/qotFeHrb/checkout Private coaching (DM me): https://ig.me/m/baraqueenbee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baraqueenbee Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BaraQueenbee13/ Rich & Hydrated on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/76TvAw9OPtJi62uOCWROfW

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💸You perform under pressure then sabotage the good. I show you out. 🗣️ Stop/go/crash/urgency EXPERT 🔮from East-Europe, now off-grid in USA 🇺🇸