I’m Not Slutty Enough!

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I’m Not Slutty Enough! is a podcast by Ray Jing Storm — professional oversharer, recovering people-pleaser, and reluctant role model. This autobiographical ride dives into the absurd, outrageous, and sometimes painfully real moments of being bullied, labeled, and misunderstood. Spoiler: It’s not about being slutty. It’s about surviving the storm of other people’s opinions… and throwing some lightning back. Where there’s a storm, there’s hidden rage — and probably great hair. New episodes weekly. Therapy not included, but highly recommended.

  1. 4D AGO

    Dressed Like an Apology

    At seventeen, I bought cargo pants from the men's department and convinced myself it was about sizing. It wasn't. It was about teenage body image issues, low self-esteem, and internalized body shaming. In this episode, I unpack the lie I was sold about my body - how weight gain, confidence struggles, and toxic beauty standards shaped the way I dressed and saw myself. I talk about hiding in oversized clothes, shrinking before anyone else could judge me, and only feeling "worthy" of style after weight loss. This is a raw conversation about self-worth, body insecurity, fat shaming, and healing from long-term conditioning. Turns out, I wasn't a tomboy. I was armored.

    2 min

  2. FEB 12

    The Slutty Factor

    Apparently, being “elite” just means letting other people pay your bills, steal wedding gifts, and calling it class. This episode is about privilege without principle—and why I’ll always prefer earning my lifestyle over leasing it.

    2 min

  3. FEB 5

    Borrowed Status

    A reflection on status, borrowed importance, and the exhausting performance of looking powerful. From wedding protocols to VIP seats, this episode is about choosing dignity over desperation — and why I refuse to audition for relevance.

    9 min

  4. JAN 29

    No Beauty Queen

    Apparently I was supposed to wake up one day knowing how to be pretty. No one told me when that was.

    4 min

  5. JAN 22

    Classy Until Further Notice

    This episode is about the moment I realized being nice wasn’t maturity—it was self-betrayal. And how easily “classy” turns into complicit when you keep extending courtesy to people who’ve already decided who you are.

    1 min

  6. JAN 15

    Part IV: Not Slutty Enough

    Explaining how and why I’m not slutty enough

    3 min

  7. 12/02/2025

    My Vibes

    Sometimes the real damage doesn’t come from bullying—it comes from the little rejections that feel “too small” to matter. In this episode, I unpack the tiny humiliations I dismissed as normal: being excluded from kindness, treated as optional, judged by looks and status.

    4 min

  8. 12/02/2025

    The Pattern

    I spent years being the tag-along, the easy one to exclude, the girl who was never “enough.” This is the story of how early betrayals became a lifelong pattern—and why I’m finally calling it out.

    10 min
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I’m Not Slutty Enough! is a podcast by Ray Jing Storm — professional oversharer, recovering people-pleaser, and reluctant role model. This autobiographical ride dives into the absurd, outrageous, and sometimes painfully real moments of being bullied, labeled, and misunderstood. Spoiler: It’s not about being slutty. It’s about surviving the storm of other people’s opinions… and throwing some lightning back. Where there’s a storm, there’s hidden rage — and probably great hair. New episodes weekly. Therapy not included, but highly recommended.

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  • Creator
    Ray.jing.storm
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Ray.jing.storm
  • Show Website
    I’m Not Slutty Enough!