Quit Porn | Restoration Soul Care

Restoration Soul Care, Michael Kamber PMAP, Nick Buda BCMHC
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Restoration Soul Care is a faith-based podcast for Christian men who want to quit porn and find lasting freedom — not quick fixes or willpower-based change.Hosted by Michael Kamber (PMAP-Pastoral Multiple Addiction Profession from IITAP - International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals) and Nick Buda (Board Certified Mental Health Coach), this show offers practical, faith-rooted conversations on porn addiction recovery, emotional health, and sexual integrity.If you're tired of shame cycles, white-knuckling, or feeling stuck despite prayer — you're in the right place.Get support right now 👉 rscky.comInstagram: @MikeKamber | @NickWBuda

  1. 18H AGO

    Why Are Celebrities Like Terry Crews and Billie Eilish Quitting Porn?

    Send us Fan Mail You've probably heard that quitting porn is a "Christian morality thing." But what if Terry Crews, Billie Eilish, Steve-O, and Pamela Anderson—people who don't all share a religious worldview—are all saying porn wrecked their relationships, escalated into something they didn't recognize, and left them more isolated than ever? In this episode, Michael and Nick unpack three things celebrities keep naming: porn turns people into objects, it escalates endlessly, and it cuts you off from real connection. If you thought you were alone in this, you're not. And if you've been trying to white-knuckle your way out, there's a deeper issue underneath. **Take the Pressure Assessor:** https://rscky.com/pressure-lp **Learn more:** https://rscky.com

    28 min

  2. 6D AGO

    Why Do I Keep Relapsing With Porn Even When I Say I'm Sorry?

    Send us Fan Mail You've said you're sorry. You've prayed. You've promised yourself you won't go back. And then you did. Again. If you keep relapsing even when you mean it when you say you're sorry, the problem isn't that you didn't try hard enough. The problem is that what you think repentance is might not actually be repentance at all. Michael and Nick walk through the difference between regret and remorse, rationalization and reliance—and what true repentance actually looks like for Christian men trying to quit porn. You'll learn why behavior change without relational repair is just another form of isolation, and why connection, not perfection, is the path forward. Take the Pressure Assessor - https://rscky.com/pressure-lp  Learn more - https://rscky.com

    36 min

  3. APR 28

    Porn Is a Trust Problem, Not a Lust Problem — What Sin Really Is (Part 1)

    Send us Fan Mail Most Christian men have been handed a definition of sin that sounds like this: sin is the bad things you do. A list. A rulebook. A scoreboard.  So the whole Christian life becomes a losing game of whack-a-mole — swinging at the behavior that popped up this week while something deeper keeps generating the next one.  In this episode, Michael and Nick unpack a definition of sin most men have never heard: sin is living in a state of reactive mistrust. Not a behavior problem. A trust problem. A soul quietly convinced that God isn't safe, isn't good, isn't enough.  Porn isn't the sin under the sin. Mistrust is. Porn is the fruit, not the root.  This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Part 2 unpacks what it looks like to walk forward in trust.   Take the free Pressure Assessor™ — rscky.com/pressure Book a free discovery call — rscky.com

    29 min

  4. APR 21

    The Mindset Shift That Gets Men Free From Porn for Good

    Send us Fan Mail Most men trying to quit porn don't have a willpower problem. They have it backwards.  In this episode, Michael shares the story of Rob — a lifelong Christian, serving in ministry, hiding a porn addiction for 10 years. Not because he didn't try hard enough. Because he was trying to earn something that had already been given to him.  This is the mindset shift that most men miss. And it's the one that actually makes recovery possible.  In this episode:  Why willpower-based recovery keeps failing youThe thing Rob got backwards — and how it kept him stuck for a decadePeter walking on water and the 3 positions every man finds himself in on the recovery journeyWhat porn is actually promising you (and why your soul knows the difference)The moment Rob's shoulders finally dropped — and what that means for youPerfection vs. participation: the trick question that changes everything If you've been white-knuckling this for years and going nowhere, this episode is for you.   Ready to stop carrying this alone? Book a free call at rscky.com/get-started

    24 min

  5. APR 14

    What Gandalf and the Ninja Turtles Taught Me About Quitting Porn with Matt Fisher

    Send us Fan Mail Can your childhood heroes actually help you quit porn? The answer might surprise you.  Most porn addiction recovery plans focus on one thing: stop the behavior. But what if that's exactly why they fail?  In this episode of the Quit Porn Podcast, Michael Kamber sits down with Matt Fisher — Care Pastor at Hill City Church in Richmond, Virginia and soul care provider — to talk about the missing piece in almost every porn recovery plan: your imagination.  They unpack why pornography isn't just a habit problem — it's an imagination problem. Porn hijacks the same part of your brain that made you want to be Leonardo, Luke Skywalker, or Gandalf on the playground. And until you recover that imagination and build a vision for who you want to become, lasting freedom stays out of reach.  In this episode you'll learn:  Why willpower and shame will never help you quit porn for goodWhat "delayed sobriety" is and why it's keeping you stuckHow your childhood heroes point to the man you were always meant to beThe SEEDS framework for rebuilding healthy dopamine without pornWhy "of course you're struggling" is the most healing thing someone can say to youWhat soul care offers that therapy alone can't If you've tried to quit porn and keep ending up in the same place, this episode is for you. 🎙️ Guest: Matt Fisher — Care Pastor, Hill City Church, Richmond VA 📥 Download the free Quit Porn Quickstart Guide at rscky.com/quickstart #QuitPorn #PornAddictionRecovery #PornRecovery #SoulCare #FaithAndRecovery #ChristianMen #PornFree #MensMinistry #SpiritualDirection #BreakFree

    52 min

  6. APR 7

    We Asked A Certified Sexologist Stuff We Were Too Afraid to Google

    Send us Fan Mail What does porn actually do to your body? Can it cause erectile dysfunction? Why is "just stop" the worst advice anyone can give?  In this episode, Michael and Nick sit down with certified sexologist and licensed marriage and family therapist Jenny McCoy to ask the questions most men are too embarrassed to bring up — even with their doctor.  Jenny breaks down the neuroscience of early porn exposure, why your brain can treat it as trauma as young as age 8, how shame and pleasure get locked in a cycle that's hard to escape, and what real progress actually looks like for individuals and couples.  This isn't a scare tactic episode. It's an honest, grace-filled conversation that meets people where they are and points them toward real hope.  If you've ever wondered whether change is actually possible — it is. And it's never too late. Resources: 🔗 Book a free discovery call — rscky.com  🔗 Connect with Jenny — awakencounselingky.com

    38 min

  7. MAR 24

    The Church Hurt Me When I Confessed My Porn Addiction — Here's How I Healed Anyway

    Send us Fan Mail You finally said it out loud and the church made you wish you hadn't. Michael and Nick bring their own personal stories to the table as they unpack why the church has historically struggled to respond well to sexual brokenness — and more importantly, what you can do about it now.  In this episode you'll discover:  Why the church's moral framework alone isn't enough to address porn addictionHow your own shame might be shaping the way you receive helpWhy isolation is one of the enemy's greatest tools against your recoveryHow to find a safe person and re-engage with community — even after being hurtThe biblical framework from 1 John 1 that changes everything about healing in relationship This is not a shame session. This is an honest, compassionate, and deeply practical conversation rooted in faith, neuroscience, and real recovery experience.   You don't have to do this alone. 🔗 FREE RESOURCES: Free Quiporn Quick Start Guide → rsky.com/quickstart or text (502) 858-5859Connect with Michael & Nick → rsky.comJoin the Online Recovery Community → rsky.com/community   Struggling in silence? Reach out to Michael or Nick directly through rsky.com — all conversations are confidential and completely free. If this episode resonated with you, leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear it.

    49 min
  8. Female Porn Addiction: She Grew Up in Church and Nobody Saw It Coming

    MAR 3

    Female Porn Addiction: She Grew Up in Church and Nobody Saw It Coming

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when the church never talks about sex — and a girl has to figure it out alone? In this episode, Michael and Nick sit down with Lindsay, a registered nurse and six-year recovery veteran, to have the conversation most women's ministries won't. Because while everyone assumes pornography and sexual addiction are a men's issue, the data tells a different story: 40% of women struggle with porn, and they're four times less likely to ask for help. Lindsay shares how silence at home and shame in the church left her without a safe place to turn — and how that silence quietly shaped over a decade of her life. She talks about what it actually felt like to get free, what recovery has looked like six years in, and what she'd tell every woman who thinks she's the only one. If you've ever felt like your struggle is too shameful to say out loud — this one's for you. If this was your story too, you don't have to stay silent. Visit ⁠RSCKY.com⁠ and let's find you a safe place to start. Or connect with Lindsay directly - ⁠hopeandhealing.groups@gmail.com⁠ Topics covered:Women and pornography · Female sexual addiction · Shame and the church · Intimacy disorder · Sexual addiction recovery · Christian women and mental health · Healing through community · Faith and sexuality

    41 min
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Restoration Soul Care is a faith-based podcast for Christian men who want to quit porn and find lasting freedom — not quick fixes or willpower-based change.Hosted by Michael Kamber (PMAP-Pastoral Multiple Addiction Profession from IITAP - International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals) and Nick Buda (Board Certified Mental Health Coach), this show offers practical, faith-rooted conversations on porn addiction recovery, emotional health, and sexual integrity.If you're tired of shame cycles, white-knuckling, or feeling stuck despite prayer — you're in the right place.Get support right now 👉 rscky.comInstagram: @MikeKamber | @NickWBuda

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  • Creator
    Restoration Soul Care, Michael Kamber PMAP, Nick Buda BCMHC
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Quit Porn | Restoration Soul Care
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