Sex is Good Podcast

Shameless Care
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Sex is Good.And we’re done pretending otherwise.The Sex Is Good podcast exists to say the quiet part out loud: sex is fun, sex is normal, and sex is something adults get to enjoy without shame, fear, or bad information.Hosted by the founder of a sex-positive telehealth company and a medical provider who actually understands how bodies work in the real world, this podcast breaks down the science of sex, STIs, desire, performance, relationships, and pleasure — without pearl-clutching, scare tactics, or outdated sex-ed nonsense.We talk about the things you weren’t taught in school.We unlearn the myths you were taught.And we remind you that having a great sex life and taking care of your sexual health are not opposites — they’re partners.Yes, we talk about STIs.Yes, we talk about testing and prevention.And no, that doesn’t mean sex has to be boring, stressful, or wrapped in shame.You can absolutely have your cake and eat it too. You can have a wild, fulfilling, adventurous sex life and be informed, responsible, and confident about your health. In fact, we’d argue that’s the whole point.This isn’t a sex story podcast.It’s a sex science, sex truth, and sex freedom podcast.Smart, evidence-based, irreverent, and unapologetically pro-pleasure.Because sex is good. And we’re done pretending it’s not.

  1. 1D AGO

    Pickup Artists: Should You Learn From Them?

    Pickup artists are one of the most controversial subcultures in modern dating advice. Some people see them as manipulative. Others believe they uncovered real insights about confidence, attraction, and human psychology. In this episode of the Sex is Good Podcast, we break down the pickup artist playbook and ask a simple question: is there anything normal, sex positive people can actually learn from it? Topics we explore include: • Confidence and approach anxiety • Why initiating conversations is so hard for many  • What pickup artists actually teach about attraction • The difference between confidence and manipulation • What healthy, sex positive dating advice should look like Rather than mocking the community or blindly defending it, we take a thoughtful look at the pickup artist playbook and ask what lessons, if any, belong in the real world. Because understanding how attraction works does not have to come at the expense of honesty, respect, or good sex.

    49 min

  2. MAR 4

    Your Prescription Was Probably Made in China. Why That Matters

    Nearly 90% of all medications taken in the United States are generic drugs, and roughly 80% of those are manufactured overseas in countries like China, India, and Turkey. But it was not always this way. Before 1984, only about 10% of prescriptions were generic, and most medications were manufactured in the United States. So what changed? In this episode, we break down the history of generic drugs, the 1984 Hatch Waxman Act, and how global pharmaceutical manufacturing shifted from American factories to an international supply chain. Understanding where your medications come from, how generics are approved, and how the global drug supply works matters more than most people realize. Because whether you know it or not, almost everyone relies on this system.

    39 min

  3. FEB 25

    We Keep Getting Grabbed at Sex-Positive Events

    If you want a mature telehealth (no subscription scams, 100% of providers are physicians, transparent pricing), we are ready for you at www.shamelesscare.com Even when we are attending adult events professionally to discuss STI testing, sexual health, and public health policy, something surprising still happens. Anna gets grabbed. Butt slapped. Breasts touched. Boundaries crossed. Sometimes in subtle ways. Sometimes in ways that are not subtle at all. Why does this still happen in sex positive spaces where everyone claims to understand consent? Today we unpack explicit verbal consent and examine whether popular frameworks like the F.R.I.E.S. model are actually practical in real world social settings. FRIES stands for Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific. It is widely taught in college campuses, kink communities, and sex education programs. But is it simple enough for people who believe they are already “good at consent”? Here is the uncomfortable truth. Most people believe they are masters at reading body language. Most people believe they are respectful. Most people believe they would never cross a line. And yet lines keep getting crossed. In this episode we discuss: • Why consent violations still happen in sex positive communities • The limits of enthusiastic consent in fast moving social environments • The difference between explicit verbal consent and contextual consent • Why being “experienced” does not mean being careful • Whether frameworks like FRIES, RACK, and SSC actually translate to casual adult events • Why professional environments do not magically create safer spaces This is not an anti consent episode. It is a realistic discussion about human behavior, ego, overconfidence, and the gap between theory and practice. If you have ever thought, “I would never do that,” this episode is for you. Because here is the kicker. Everyone thinks they are good at consent. Including you.

    50 min

  4. FEB 18

    Your HIV Risk Is Probably Lower Than You Think

    Sex is good. Fear-based sex education is not. In this episode, we take an honest, evidence-based look at HIV transmission — what your real risk actually is, how it’s measured, and why it’s often dramatically misunderstood. We break down: • Per-act HIV transmission rates (vaginal, anal, oral) • Why receptive anal sex carries higher risk — and what that actually means numerically • What U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable) truly means • How viral load changes risk • How PrEP reduces transmission • Where DoxyPEP fits — and where it doesn’t • Why panic often spreads faster than the virus HIV is serious. It is also manageable, preventable, and in many contexts, far less transmissible than most people assume. Understanding risk doesn’t encourage recklessness. It reduces stigma. It reduces fear. And it allows adults to make informed decisions about their bodies and relationships. Sex is good. Let’s talk about it like adults.

    39 min

  5. FEB 10

    The Spicy and Naughty History of Valentine's Day

    The more things change, the more they stay the same — and Valentine’s Day has always been about sex. Long before heart-shaped chocolates and prix-fixe dinners, Valentine’s Day involved nearly naked young Roman men running through the streets and whipping women with goat skins to promote fertility. And yes — women lined up for it. In this episode, the Sex Is Good podcast team dives into the sexy, strange, and unapologetically spicy history of Valentine’s Day, separating romantic myth from biological reality and cultural truth. If you’re smart enough to listen to a science-based podcast about sex, you’re also smart enough to avoid subscription traps, poor customer service, and incomplete STI testing. Take care of your sexual health — without the nonsense — at www.shamelesscare.com.

    27 min

  6. FEB 3

    The ED Drug That Works in Your Brain, Not Your Penis

    Erections aren’t always a blood flow problem. In this episode, we break down apomorphine, an ED medication that works in the brain, not the penis. Unlike sildenafil or tadalafil, apomorphine targets dopamine pathways involved in sexual arousal, motivation, and performance anxiety. Rugiet has been advertised apomorphine a lot, but is it safe? Is it effective?  Wasn't it used to induce vomiting? Can it really be used for erectile dysfunction? We explain how and why apomorphine works, who it’s actually for, how it differs from traditional ED medications, and why combining central and peripheral treatments can make a real difference for some men.

    32 min

  7. JAN 30

    Your Brain on BDSM: The Psychology Behind Power, Trust, and Desire with Dr. Stephanie Sigler PhD

    BDSM is one of the most misunderstood areas of human sexuality. For many people, it’s assumed to be dangerous, pathological, or a sign that something is “wrong.” The psychology tells a very different story. In this episode, we’re joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Stephanie Sigler to unpack what actually happens in the brain during consensual power exchange, why trust and communication are central to BDSM, and how these dynamics can be psychologically healthy for many people.

    51 min

  8. JAN 27

    Bremelanotide (PT-141): The Desire Drug That Works on Your Brain, Not Your Blood Flow

    Bremelanotide, also known as PT-141, is one of the most misunderstood sexual health medications available today, and it has one of the strangest origin stories in modern medicine. It was originally studied as a tanning drug, but researchers noticed an unexpected side effect—spontaneous erections. That discovery led scientists to remove the skin-darkening component, resulting in bremelanotide as we know it today. In this episode, we explain how PT-141 works on the brain rather than blood flow, why it’s considered an option for psychogenic erectile dysfunction in men, and why the same medication is used to increase sexual arousal in women. We break down what it does, what it doesn’t do, common misconceptions, and how it fits into a more honest conversation about desire, arousal, and sexual health. That’s the short version. The full story is more nuanced, more interesting, and challenges a lot of what people think they know about ED meds and libido. To understand why bremelanotide works so differently—and who it may actually be appropriate for—you’ll have to listen to the episode.

    35 min
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Sex is Good.And we’re done pretending otherwise.The Sex Is Good podcast exists to say the quiet part out loud: sex is fun, sex is normal, and sex is something adults get to enjoy without shame, fear, or bad information.Hosted by the founder of a sex-positive telehealth company and a medical provider who actually understands how bodies work in the real world, this podcast breaks down the science of sex, STIs, desire, performance, relationships, and pleasure — without pearl-clutching, scare tactics, or outdated sex-ed nonsense.We talk about the things you weren’t taught in school.We unlearn the myths you were taught.And we remind you that having a great sex life and taking care of your sexual health are not opposites — they’re partners.Yes, we talk about STIs.Yes, we talk about testing and prevention.And no, that doesn’t mean sex has to be boring, stressful, or wrapped in shame.You can absolutely have your cake and eat it too. You can have a wild, fulfilling, adventurous sex life and be informed, responsible, and confident about your health. In fact, we’d argue that’s the whole point.This isn’t a sex story podcast.It’s a sex science, sex truth, and sex freedom podcast.Smart, evidence-based, irreverent, and unapologetically pro-pleasure.Because sex is good. And we’re done pretending it’s not.

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  • Creator
    Shameless Care
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    77
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Sex is Good Podcast
  • Show Website
    Sex is Good Podcast

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