The Pursuit of MiSELF

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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

  1. 4h ago

    Break Up With This ONE Thing, Get Everything You Want

    Send us Fan Mail The good girl isn't loud. She's quiet. And she's running your life. She's the one who says "I just don't like conflict" when really she doesn't feel safe having an opinion. The one who asks "what do you think?" before every decision. The one who won't earn too much in case it offends someone, and won't buy the handbag she wants in case someone judges her. This episode isn't about the big good girl rules like get married, get the right career, do what your parents say. It's about the small, everyday ones running underneath your life right now, and what they're quietly costing you. We get into: Why "I just don't like conflict" and "I'll just do it myself" are masks, not personality traitsThe light and dark side of being nice, polite and selflessHow shrinking shows up in your friendships, your marriage, your money and your confidenceWhy your childhood stories explain the good girl but don't excuse living from her nowWhat confidence actually is, and why it doesn't just show up one dayWhy breaking up with the good girl doesn't mean blowing up your lifeThis is the start of the Hot, Worthy and Wealthy movement. Join me in person at The Ex-Good Girl LIVE: Friday 30 October, 10am–2pm, Perth. Four hours, $47, or $70 when you bring a friend.  The Ex-Good Girl LIVE Tickets HERE

  2. Sep 23

    Why You’re Still Broke When You’re Earning Good Money — Kim Kent on Wealth, Self-Worth & Identity

    Send us Fan Mail What if your money problems aren't actually about money? In this episode of The Pursuit of MiSELF, I’m joined by money coach Kim Kent for a conversation that goes way deeper than budgeting, saving and earning more. Kim shares the story of growing up in a home where money was a constant source of conflict, becoming the high achiever who believed success would finally make her feel enough, and then finding herself earning $100,000 a year in her twenties — with maxed-out credit cards and no savings. The turning point came when Kim realised that earning more wasn't going to solve the problem. She needed to change her relationship with money. We talk about the identity, self-worth and subconscious patterns that can keep you stuck in scarcity — even when you're earning good money. We explore why some women spend money as quickly as it comes in, why looking at your numbers can feel so uncomfortable, and why simply earning more doesn't necessarily create wealth. Kim also shares what happened when she invested $21,000 in herself, the wealth principles that changed everything for her, and how she learned to become the woman who could actually hold more money. We dive into: ✨ Why “it's never enough” can have nothing to do with how much you earn ✨ The connection between self-worth and your bank account ✨ Why your subconscious can keep recreating the same financial patterns ✨ The difference between earning money and actually building wealth ✨ Why investing in yourself can create a bigger shift than another course or strategy ✨ How to recognise the money leaks you don't even realise are happening ✨ What happens when you stop outsourcing your power and take responsibility for your financial life ✨ Why expansion can feel uncomfortable — and how to become more comfortable with being stretched ✨ The importance of becoming the woman who can actually hold the wealth you're asking for This is such a juicy conversation about money, identity, responsibility, expansion and becoming the next version of yourself. Because ultimately, it's not just about how much money you have. It's about who you believe you are with money. Connect with Kim Kent and explore her work via the links in the show notes. And if this episode hits a nerve, don't dismiss that feeling. It might be showing you exactly where your next level begins.

  3. Sep 8

    I Sobbed for 24 Hours (And Almost Didn't Post This)

    Send us Fan Mail I sobbed for 24 hours before I could sit down and record this. And I almost didn't post it at all. No five-step framework. No "how to manifest" episode. Just me, unscripted, after a moment that cracked something open I didn't know I was still carrying. I've built a life I'm genuinely proud of. And I still drove past a picture of the life I thought I'd have and couldn't stop crying — not for a minute, for a full day. Both of those things are true at once. That's the duality nobody warns you about. In this episode I talk about what was actually underneath the tears — the gap between saying I'm fine and what's really going on, and the masculine "let's go, what's next" pattern that takes over the second I stop feeling something. About what that's costing me in my relationship, my business and my nervous system. About why so many high-achieving women — the ones everyone relies on, the ones who've "done everything right" — are exhausted from managing an image instead of living a life. This isn't a polished lesson. It's what it actually looks like to sit in something instead of talking yourself out of it. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting more, or caught yourself saying "I should be grateful" when what you meant was something else entirely — this one's for you. I also talk about Academy, my six-month mastermind for women building identity, business and wealth without the performance. Doors are open now and close Sunday 13 September — details in the show notes, or come find me on Instagram. EXPLORE THE MiSELF ACADEMY

  4. Sep 1

    The 5 Blocks Keeping You "Almost" Ready

    Send us Fan Mail You know the behavior. You've named it a hundred times — I'm a people pleaser, I catastrophize everything, I'm just not ready yet. But naming the behavior isn't the work. The work is asking what it's protecting you from. In this episode I walk through the five blocks I see sitting in the gap between where you are and where you want to be — the gratitude trap, the catastrophe brain, the performing self, the permission loop, and the one that costs the most: the cost of almost. Not as flaws. As your nervous system protecting a capacity you haven't built yet. I also get into the identity work underneath all of it — why 85% of lottery winners lose their money fast, what it actually means to make decisions as the CEO of your life instead of the admin running it, and why capacity, not certainty, is the thing that moves the needle. If you've done the personal development work and you're still flat, still stuck, still waiting for permission — this is the gap we work in at She Evolves. Waitlist is open at miself.com.au.

  5. Aug 25

    Ep - 51 (Part 1) Your Identity Doesn't Care About Your Goals

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to The Pursuit of Myself — Rayne's back after evolving the business through live events, three-day identity immersions, a business strategy event, a mastermind, and the Identity Wealth Challenge, with a new Academy cohort opening in September. In Part 1 of this two-part episode, Rayne breaks down why your identity — not your strategy — is what's actually building (or blocking) your business. Inside this episode: Why coaching identity creates expansion everywhere else in life — money, clients, creativity, relationships Rayne's own business story, from finance broking to hospitality to the identity rebuild after separation The six-layer map behind every stuck business: Soul → Emotional Injuries → Conditioning → Mask → Behaviour → Life Results The line worth sitting with: "Your identity doesn't give a crap about your goals." Why safety and expansion can't coexist — and how to recognise contraction instead of running from it Part 1 ends right where the real work begins. In Part 2, Rayne unpacks the five blocks that show up disguised as excuses when you're in contraction — and they're probably not what you think. Founder, MiSELF Academy — Rayne Bryant

  6. Jul 22

    The Lie of Perfect Timing and How I Use This As My Superpower

    Send us Fan Mail You're not stuck because you're lazy. You're stuck because staying stuck has a payoff — no risk, no failure, no having to try. In this episode I'm calling that out, and I'm calling out the "when I'm ready" story you've been telling yourself for months, maybe years. This one's personal. I walk you through the two moments in my own life — launching this podcast and building She Evolves into a 3-Day event — where I made the decision before I had a single piece of evidence it would work. No bank of episodes. No venue. No numbers. Just the decision, and then the building backward to make it true. In this episode: Why "be, do, have" is the order that actually works — not the other way aroundThe real difference between a deadline on a calendar and a deadline that's already in motionWhy fear showing up doesn't mean you're wrong — it means you're standing exactly where it mattersThe difference between capacity and certainty, and why only one of them actually moves you forwardA rebellious act of self-love: choosing before the proof existsIf you've been waiting for confidence, evidence, or permission before you take the next step — this is your sign that the waiting is the story, not the truth. 🎧 Ready to stop waiting and actually build the capacity to move? [Join the waitlist for the 3-Day Immersion / DM me on Instagram] @raynebryantofficial

  7. Jul 16

    Breaking Up With Your Good Girl. She's Costing You

    Send us Fan Mail This Masterclass Almost Didn't Make It to the Podcast I ran a live masterclass this week called The Ex-Good Girl, and about ten minutes in I knew I had to get it out to more of you than just the women who were on the call. So this episode is that masterclass, live and unfiltered. We get into the good girl pattern — where it actually comes from, why it's not a personality quirk but a survival strategy you built so young you've never lived without it, and what it's quietly costing you in your marriage, your friendships, your money, and your body. I also break down why just seeing the pattern never actually changes it. Awareness isn't the same as capacity, and I walk through exactly what capacity actually means and how you build it — because "just stop people pleasing" was never going to work for you. This one got raw. I went off script a few times because honestly, it was hitting me too. In this episode: Why your attachment to being "good" is what's actually keeping you stuckThe difference between awareness and capacity (and why awareness alone makes things feel worse before better)The three moves that actually build nervous system capacityWhy boundaries fail when they come from the same identity that created the problemWhat happens in your relationships, money, and purpose when you finally stop performingIf this episode moves something in you, come find me on Instagram and tell me — I read every message. And if you're ready to do this work in person, not just hear about it, my three-day immersion She Evolves is coming up July 29–31 in Perth. Link in bio.

  8. Jul 7

    How to Build a Personal Brand When You're Terrified of Being Seen with Kate Wright

    Send us Fan Mail She's a visibility coach who spent six years hiding behind a business name instead of her own. Kate Wright helps women become visible — in their brands, their businesses, their lives. In this episode, she tells me the truth about what it actually took to become visible herself. We talk about the blushing problem she took to a GP in her twenties, hoping for a pill. The fertility journey that cracked her open and forced her to listen to her body for the first time. The marriage that ended and taught her the word codependency — and how much of her life had been built around fixing, saving, and shrinking so other people would feel comfortable. We get into why she hid behind a business name instead of her own for six years. What she thought she'd lose if people found out she was "woo woo." Why playing small felt safer than being known — even while she was coaching other women to do the opposite. This is not a marketing episode. This is what's actually underneath visibility. If you've ever picked up your phone to post something true and put it back down, this one's for you. We can do hard things. Kate Wright - @katewrightloves

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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

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  • Creator
    Rayne
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
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    © 2026 The Pursuit of MiSELF
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