The Pursuit of MiSELF

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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

  1. 4D AGO

    The 5 Decisions I’m Making in 2026 to Double My Business Again

    Send us a text If you’ve been consuming, learning, preparing, and waiting to feel ready… this episode might be uncomfortable. Because growth doesn’t come from more information.  It comes from the moment you stop negotiating with your comfort. In this episode, I’m sharing the five identity-based decisions I’m making in 2026 — the exact decisions that will double my business again, not through hustle or burnout, but through becoming a different woman. This isn’t theory. It’s leadership. In this episode, we cover: Why comfort doesn’t create capacity (and how it keeps you capped)The difference between self-care and self-leadership (and why most women confuse them)Identity refinement vs reinvention — and why your next level requires less “new” and more truthHow your message weakens when you’re trying to please, perform, or speak to everyoneWhy you can’t expand in rooms that mirror your current identity — and how the right environment changes everythingThe “burn it all down” moment… and what it’s really revealing about your nervous system + growth edgeHow to shift from the short game (waiting, circling, consuming) to the long game (commitment, standards, embodiment)If 2026 is your year to stop hovering at the edge of your potential — this is your line in the sand. DM me on Instagram and tell me which of the five you’re committing to this year — and what you’re no longer available for.

    30 min

  2. JAN 27

    10 Truths at 43. How I Changed Everything in the Last 2 Years

    Send us a text Things can change fast, in business, love, and wealth, when you stop negotiating with your truth. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 recent lessons that changed how I lead myself, my nervous system, and my life at 43. Welcome back to The Pursuit of MiSELF — and welcome to 2026. 🎙️ After a month off, I realised how much I missed this: depth, honesty, and real conversations that actually change your life. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 truths I’ve learned in the last 1–2 years (not a lifetime), because I want you to know this: ⚡️ Things can change quickly — in your business, your love life, your wealth, and the way you show up. But it takes honest reflection… and a willingness to stop negotiating with what you already know. What we cover in this episode 👇 ✨ Why clarity doesn’t just bring opportunity — it brings responsibility ✨ The truth about manifestation: it’s not magic… it’s confrontation ✨ How investing in personal growth doubled my business (and why I don’t invest to be “fixed”) ✨ Why the work doesn’t stop when things get better — it becomes more precise ✨ Why it’s okay to want more money (and why avoiding it keeps you small) ✨ Nervous system leadership (including my 5am exercise commitment) ✨ Why saying no changed my life faster than any yes ever did ✨ Outsourcing + hiring a BDM — and why it challenged my identity, not just my workload ✨ Why your standards shape your reality more than mindset ever will ✨ What safety actually is: trusting yourself, not controlling everything The 10 Truths I Share 🔥  1️⃣ The clearer I got about what I wanted, the more life asked of me  2️⃣ Manifestation isn’t magic — it’s confrontation  3️⃣ Investing in my personal growth doubled my business  4️⃣ The work didn’t stop when things got better — it became more precise  5️⃣ Wanting more money didn’t make me less spiritual — avoiding it kept me small  6️⃣ My nervous system needed leadership, not motivation  7️⃣ Saying no changed my life faster than saying yes ever did  8️⃣ Outsourcing confronted my identity more than my workload  9️⃣ My standards shaped my reality more than my mindset ever did  🔟 Safety didn’t come from controlling my life — it came from trusting myself If this episode hit you… 📲 Share it to your stories and tag me — I’ll reshare it.  📩 DM me on Instagram and tell me what truth landed the hardest. And if you felt that response in your body while listening — that “Yep. This is my next level” — the shift I’m speaking about (survival → self-leadership) is the foundation of MiSELF Academy. Not to fix you. Not to give you more to do. But to help you become more honest, more embodied, and more anchored in who you actually are… so your business and life finally feel like yours. Details are below for when you feel ready. Links + Resources 🔗 📌 MiSELF Academy: HERE 📌 Instagram: HERE   identity work, manifestation, nervous system, self leadership, women in business, energetics, authenticity, wealth energetics, embodiment, standards, self trust, business coaching, personal growth.

    38 min

  3. 12/24/2025

    Celebrating the Year That Changed Everything

    Send us a text This episode is a special one. Not just because it’s the final episode for 2025 — but because it’s a moment to pause, reflect, and actually celebrate how far you’ve come. In this episode, I’m sharing openly about what this year has meant to me — personally, professionally, and energetically — and I’m inviting you to do the same for yourself. Too often we rush into the next goal without acknowledging the growth, courage, and resilience it took to get here. Today is about slowing down, honouring your journey, and letting yourself feel proud — even if this year wasn’t easy. So grab a pen and paper, pour a cuppa or a glass of wine, and let’s reflect together. In this episode, we explore: Why celebrating yourself isn’t indulgent — it’s essentialHow to honour your wins, even if the year felt messy or challengingThe growth that often goes unseen when you’re in survival or “doing mode”Why acknowledging who you’ve become is just as important as what you’ve achievedHow reflection creates clarity, confidence, and momentum for what’s nextThis episode is an invitation to end the year with self-respect, honesty, and gratitude — not pressure, comparison, or rushing. What you’ll need: A pen and paperA quiet moment (or a walk)An open mind and a willingness to reflectA gentle reminder: You don’t need a “perfect” year to be proud of yourself.  You just need honesty and compassion. Thank you for being here, for listening, and for walking this journey with me.  Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a grounded, intentional close to the year.

    19 min

  4. 12/17/2025

    5 Identity Upgrades to Change Your Life, Business & Money

    Send us a text If you’re limping toward the end of the year, white-knuckling your way to a break, or telling yourself you’ll start “in January” — this episode is for you. Because that feeling isn’t burnout.  It’s misalignment. In this episode of The Pursuit of Myself, Rayne breaks down the five identity upgrades that actually change your life — not mindset hacks, not motivation, but nervous-system-level shifts that determine what you can hold, receive, and create. You’ll learn: Why “trying harder” is keeping you stuckHow people-pleasing impacts your money and self-worthWhy avoidance disguises itself as planningHow survival mode blocks expansionWhat your standards are really saying about your identityThis episode is an invitation to stop waiting for permission, timing, or January — and start choosing the woman you’re becoming now. Because nothing changes with time.  Everything changes with identity. 🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop surviving — and start leading your life. MiSELF Academy Application

    27 min

  5. 12/10/2025

    The Weight Was Never the Problem with Nicky Tangney

    Send us a text In this powerful episode, Rayne sits down with hypnotherapist and neurofeedback practitioner Nicky Tangney to unpack the truth behind lifelong weight struggles — and why it’s never about food, willpower or discipline. Nicky shares her raw story of battling weight since childhood, the subconscious belief that shaped her identity, and the moment everything changed. Together, we explore emotional weight vs physical weight, why diets fail 98% of the time, the role of cortisol and stress, and how perimenopause blindsides so many women. This conversation goes deeper than dieting:  It’s about identity.  It’s about emotional safety.  It’s about learning to trust your body again. If you’re exhausted from starting over every Monday, if you feel like you’re doing everything “right” and nothing is shifting, if you’re stuck in shame, overthinking, or self-punishment — this episode will change how you see yourself forever. Connect with Nicky: nickytangney.com.au | @nicky.tangney Want to go deeper? This is the foundation of the MiSELF Method — where we rebuild your identity, rewire your nervous system and help you finally feel safe in your own life. Doors are open. Book a call HERE

    51 min

  6. 12/02/2025

    Why ‘Just Enough’ Still Runs Your Life

    Send us a text In today’s episode, I’m sharing a breakthrough that hit me hard this morning — one I didn’t expect, even after years of doing “the work.” From the outside, my life looks incredible.  Business growth. Aligned clients. Massive expansion.  A year full of experiences I once wrote on a manifestation list and prayed for. And yet… underneath it all, I uncovered a pattern I didn’t realise was still running my life: I’ve been operating from “just enough.” Not overflow. Not safety. Not expansion. Just enough to survive. This episode walks you through the real moment I discovered this — and why so many high-functioning, ambitious women are living inside the same loop without realising it. We explore: ✨ How success can outgrow the identity holding it  ✨ Why your nervous system pulls you back into what feels familiar  ✨ The emotional tone that drives over-functioning, chasing, and pressure  ✨ What happens when your external reality expands faster than your internal capacity  ✨ The identity upgrade required to actually hold the life you’re building If your life looks “good” but still doesn’t feel like enough… if you’re constantly chasing more, minimising your achievements, or living under a subtle internal pressure — this episode will hit you right in the truth. And if this resonates deeply, you’re going to want to hear the announcement at the start: MiSELF Academy applications are officially open. This is my new six-month identity, emotional leadership and wealth-capacity mentorship for the woman who’s done living in survival and ready to step into overflow. DM me ENOUGH on Instagram or check the show notes for all the details. 3 DAY CHALLENGE  @raynebryantofficial

    27 min

  7. 11/25/2025

    Identity Over Approval: How to Stop Shrinking for Others

    Send us a text Most women don’t realise they spend 99% of their energy either trying to look good… or trying not to look bad. And that’s exactly why they feel disconnected, exhausted, and unseen. This episode is a wake-up call. You’ll discover why you’ve been wearing masks your whole life — not because you’re inauthentic, but because you’ve been conditioned to believe that approval equals safety.  You’ll hear the real reason you lie, minimise, soften your truth, or hide parts of yourself: fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of conflict. Fear of being judged. Fear that if people actually knew you… they wouldn’t choose you. And every one of those fears becomes the identity you live from. In this episode, Rayne dives deep into: ✨ Why authenticity feels so hard  ✨ How your identity forms around other people’s comfort  ✨ The subtle lies you tell to control how people see you  ✨ The cost of wearing a mask (depth, intimacy, connection, self-trust)  ✨ How to rebuild emotional freedom through courage, not evidence  ✨ The identity shift required to stop performing and start living You’ll walk away with practical ways to build courage, tell the truth in small moments, be direct without abandoning yourself, and finally show up as who you are — not who you think people want you to be. When you stop performing, your entire life expands. If you’re ready to step into the identity of the woman who is authentic, grounded, and unapologetically herself…  this episode will change everything. Work with Rayne: Inside the MiSELF Method, we rebuild your identity from the inside out so you can stop hiding and finally live as the woman you actually are. Book a call → CONNECTION CALL

    31 min

  8. 11/18/2025

    If You Want 2026 to Be Different, You Can’t Be the Same Woman You Are Right Now

    Send us a text How to Start Setting Up 2026: The Identity Shift That Changes Everything Most women sabotage their future before it even begins — not because they lack motivation, discipline or clarity, but because they ask their current identity to approve the next level they’re trying to step into. And your current identity is built on who you’ve had to be, what has felt safe, what you’ve been able to hold until now, the roles you’ve played, the patterns you’ve normalised, and the version of yourself your nervous system recognises as “familiar.” Of course she’s going to tell you your 2026 desires are too big.  Of course she’s going to whisper, Who do you think you are? Of course she’s going to convince you that you’ll burn out, or that people will judge you, or that it’s safer to stay where you are. But she is not the woman who can build the life you want next year.  And you cannot ask her for permission. In this episode, we’re walking through a powerful process to start setting up your 2026 now — not by forcing yourself into discipline, not by writing another list of goals, but by upgrading the identity, capacity and emotional foundation that your future self needs. Inside, we explore:  ✨ Why clarity is impossible when you’re asking the wrong version of you for direction  ✨ How to ask “What do I want more of next year?” without shrinking your desires  ✨ The capacity mismatch that keeps women stuck in the same cycles  ✨ How to identify the exact pattern where you collapse (and why it’s a roadmap)  ✨ The identity questions that instantly anchor you into your next level  ✨ Why ease often feels unsafe — and why that matters for 2026  ✨ How to start acting from your future identity now instead of waiting for motivation This isn’t about pushing harder or reinventing yourself overnight.  It’s about gently becoming the woman who can hold the life she wants — emotionally, mentally, energetically and practically. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same cycles, to stop shrinking your desires to match your current identity, and to set 2026 up from a place of alignment instead of urgency… this episode is your starting point. JOIN THE LIVE WORKSHOP – 5 DECEMBER If you want to walk through this process with me in real time, inside a powerful container designed to shift your identity, expand your capacity and set up your 2026 from the inside out — join my Breakthrough & Embodiment Live Workshop. Before you set goals.  Before you plan out next year.  Before you try to “be consistent” again…  We anchor you into the woman who can actually hold the life you want. 🗓 5 December 🎟 https://miself.com.au/reset2026-904199

    20 min
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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

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  • Creator
    Rayne
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Pursuit of MiSELF
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