The Pursuit of MiSELF

Rayne
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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

  1. 3D AGO

    The Shifts No One Talks About When You Decide to Change

    Send a text You say you want to grow. More money. More leadership. More alignment. More life. But are you prepared for the shifts that growth actually requires? Because the woman you want to become is not built in quick wins. She is built in the boredom. The repetition. The consistency no one applauds. In this episode, I’m calling out the addiction to shortcuts — in business, in health, in relationships, in identity. From:  • 20k months in 90 days  • The next strategy  • The next rebrand  • The next injection  • The next rebound We are constantly sold the end result. But no one talks about the internal shifts required to hold it. Inside this episode, we explore: Why chasing faster keeps rebuilding the same ceilingThe emotional maturity required to scaleWhat happens when you build success without a North StarWhy boredom is often the sign you’re refining — not failingThe difference between hustle-driven money and grounded wealthThe discipline of staying when it’s not glamorousGrowth isn’t loud.  It’s repetitive.  It’s confronting.  It’s deeply refining. And the women who can hold wealth, love, visibility and leadership? They are the women who stayed when it wasn’t sexy. If you’re ready to stop circling the same income ceiling… If you’re done burning out and calling it ambition… If you want to go all in on yourself... This episode is for you. And if this resonates, this is the work we do inside The MiSELF Academy. No shortcuts. No bypassing. Just identity-level growth and long-term expansion. Book a connection call via the link below. Let’s build the woman who cannot be shaken. BOOK A CALL

    24 min

  2. FEB 17

    Joni, The Facelift Facialist: Regulation, Specialisation & Building a Beauty Empire

    Send a text The beauty industry has been built on fixing women. More machines. More trends. More promises. But what if the real edge isn’t technology — it’s regulation? In this episode, I sit down with Joni, The Facelift Facialist — Perth-based educator, founder and industry leader — who has built a booked-out beauty empire by specialising, mastering fascia-focused touch, and leading from a nervous system-first philosophy. With over two decades in the industry, Joni has watched beauty drift into insecurity marketing. Her response? Bring back ritual. Bring back embodiment. Pick a lane. Build authority. We unpack: Why anti-ageing is misunderstoodHow stress and fascia physically shape the faceWhy specialisation creates demandNervous system capacity vs strategyThe death of curated leadershipThe $20k lesson that sharpened her business discernmentWhat it really takes to scale without losing yourselfThis is a conversation about beauty.  But it’s also about business posture. Because you can’t build an empire your nervous system can’t hold. Find Joni: @joni_thefaceliftfacialist Book a FREE strategy call with Rayne HERE

    54 min

  3. FEB 10

    Why You Continue to Tolerate BS and How to Raise Your Standards

    Send a text If you’ve done the work, invested in yourself, and know you’re capable —  but your business still doesn’t feel free  and your relationships don’t feel as deep or aligned as you desire… this episode is for you. Because this isn’t a strategy problem.  It’s not a mindset issue.  And it’s not that you’re behind. Your results are shaped by what you tolerate —  and what you tolerate is always an identity decision. In this episode, I break down the concept of tolerance bandwidth — the invisible standards your nervous system has normalised, and how they quietly cap your income, your leadership, and the depth of connection you experience in your life. We talk about:  • Why you don’t rise to your goals — you rise to your standards  • How self-care can become avoidance instead of growth  • The identity gap between where you are and the freedom you want  • Why raising standards feels unsafe — and why it’s required  • The link between business freedom and relationship depth This isn’t about doing more.  It’s about becoming unavailable for the life you’ve been tolerating. If something in you knows it’s time to upgrade the identity you’re living from —  this conversation will land. If you’re ready to stop circling the same level and start leading from a higher standard, explore MiSELF Academy

    34 min

  4. FEB 3

    The 5 Decisions I’m Making in 2026 to Double My Business Again

    Send a text If you’ve been consuming, learning, preparing, and waiting to feel ready… this episode might be uncomfortable. Because growth doesn’t come from more information.  It comes from the moment you stop negotiating with your comfort. In this episode, I’m sharing the five identity-based decisions I’m making in 2026 — the exact decisions that will double my business again, not through hustle or burnout, but through becoming a different woman. This isn’t theory. It’s leadership. In this episode, we cover: Why comfort doesn’t create capacity (and how it keeps you capped)The difference between self-care and self-leadership (and why most women confuse them)Identity refinement vs reinvention — and why your next level requires less “new” and more truthHow your message weakens when you’re trying to please, perform, or speak to everyoneWhy you can’t expand in rooms that mirror your current identity — and how the right environment changes everythingThe “burn it all down” moment… and what it’s really revealing about your nervous system + growth edgeHow to shift from the short game (waiting, circling, consuming) to the long game (commitment, standards, embodiment)If 2026 is your year to stop hovering at the edge of your potential — this is your line in the sand. DM me on Instagram and tell me which of the five you’re committing to this year — and what you’re no longer available for.

    30 min

  5. JAN 27

    10 Truths at 43. How I Changed Everything in the Last 2 Years

    Send a text Things can change fast, in business, love, and wealth, when you stop negotiating with your truth. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 recent lessons that changed how I lead myself, my nervous system, and my life at 43. Welcome back to The Pursuit of MiSELF — and welcome to 2026. 🎙️ After a month off, I realised how much I missed this: depth, honesty, and real conversations that actually change your life. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 truths I’ve learned in the last 1–2 years (not a lifetime), because I want you to know this: ⚡️ Things can change quickly — in your business, your love life, your wealth, and the way you show up. But it takes honest reflection… and a willingness to stop negotiating with what you already know. What we cover in this episode 👇 ✨ Why clarity doesn’t just bring opportunity — it brings responsibility ✨ The truth about manifestation: it’s not magic… it’s confrontation ✨ How investing in personal growth doubled my business (and why I don’t invest to be “fixed”) ✨ Why the work doesn’t stop when things get better — it becomes more precise ✨ Why it’s okay to want more money (and why avoiding it keeps you small) ✨ Nervous system leadership (including my 5am exercise commitment) ✨ Why saying no changed my life faster than any yes ever did ✨ Outsourcing + hiring a BDM — and why it challenged my identity, not just my workload ✨ Why your standards shape your reality more than mindset ever will ✨ What safety actually is: trusting yourself, not controlling everything The 10 Truths I Share 🔥  1️⃣ The clearer I got about what I wanted, the more life asked of me  2️⃣ Manifestation isn’t magic — it’s confrontation  3️⃣ Investing in my personal growth doubled my business  4️⃣ The work didn’t stop when things got better — it became more precise  5️⃣ Wanting more money didn’t make me less spiritual — avoiding it kept me small  6️⃣ My nervous system needed leadership, not motivation  7️⃣ Saying no changed my life faster than saying yes ever did  8️⃣ Outsourcing confronted my identity more than my workload  9️⃣ My standards shaped my reality more than my mindset ever did  🔟 Safety didn’t come from controlling my life — it came from trusting myself If this episode hit you… 📲 Share it to your stories and tag me — I’ll reshare it.  📩 DM me on Instagram and tell me what truth landed the hardest. And if you felt that response in your body while listening — that “Yep. This is my next level” — the shift I’m speaking about (survival → self-leadership) is the foundation of MiSELF Academy. Not to fix you. Not to give you more to do. But to help you become more honest, more embodied, and more anchored in who you actually are… so your business and life finally feel like yours. Details are below for when you feel ready. Links + Resources 🔗 📌 MiSELF Academy: HERE 📌 Instagram: HERE   identity work, manifestation, nervous system, self leadership, women in business, energetics, authenticity, wealth energetics, embodiment, standards, self trust, business coaching, personal growth.

    38 min

  6. 12/24/2025

    Celebrating the Year That Changed Everything

    Send a text This episode is a special one. Not just because it’s the final episode for 2025 — but because it’s a moment to pause, reflect, and actually celebrate how far you’ve come. In this episode, I’m sharing openly about what this year has meant to me — personally, professionally, and energetically — and I’m inviting you to do the same for yourself. Too often we rush into the next goal without acknowledging the growth, courage, and resilience it took to get here. Today is about slowing down, honouring your journey, and letting yourself feel proud — even if this year wasn’t easy. So grab a pen and paper, pour a cuppa or a glass of wine, and let’s reflect together. In this episode, we explore: Why celebrating yourself isn’t indulgent — it’s essentialHow to honour your wins, even if the year felt messy or challengingThe growth that often goes unseen when you’re in survival or “doing mode”Why acknowledging who you’ve become is just as important as what you’ve achievedHow reflection creates clarity, confidence, and momentum for what’s nextThis episode is an invitation to end the year with self-respect, honesty, and gratitude — not pressure, comparison, or rushing. What you’ll need: A pen and paperA quiet moment (or a walk)An open mind and a willingness to reflectA gentle reminder: You don’t need a “perfect” year to be proud of yourself.  You just need honesty and compassion. Thank you for being here, for listening, and for walking this journey with me.  Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a grounded, intentional close to the year.

    19 min

  7. 12/17/2025

    5 Identity Upgrades to Change Your Life, Business & Money

    Send a text If you’re limping toward the end of the year, white-knuckling your way to a break, or telling yourself you’ll start “in January” — this episode is for you. Because that feeling isn’t burnout.  It’s misalignment. In this episode of The Pursuit of Myself, Rayne breaks down the five identity upgrades that actually change your life — not mindset hacks, not motivation, but nervous-system-level shifts that determine what you can hold, receive, and create. You’ll learn: Why “trying harder” is keeping you stuckHow people-pleasing impacts your money and self-worthWhy avoidance disguises itself as planningHow survival mode blocks expansionWhat your standards are really saying about your identityThis episode is an invitation to stop waiting for permission, timing, or January — and start choosing the woman you’re becoming now. Because nothing changes with time.  Everything changes with identity. 🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop surviving — and start leading your life. MiSELF Academy Application

    27 min

  8. 12/10/2025

    The Weight Was Never the Problem with Nicky Tangney

    Send a text In this powerful episode, Rayne sits down with hypnotherapist and neurofeedback practitioner Nicky Tangney to unpack the truth behind lifelong weight struggles — and why it’s never about food, willpower or discipline. Nicky shares her raw story of battling weight since childhood, the subconscious belief that shaped her identity, and the moment everything changed. Together, we explore emotional weight vs physical weight, why diets fail 98% of the time, the role of cortisol and stress, and how perimenopause blindsides so many women. This conversation goes deeper than dieting:  It’s about identity.  It’s about emotional safety.  It’s about learning to trust your body again. If you’re exhausted from starting over every Monday, if you feel like you’re doing everything “right” and nothing is shifting, if you’re stuck in shame, overthinking, or self-punishment — this episode will change how you see yourself forever. Connect with Nicky: nickytangney.com.au | @nicky.tangney Want to go deeper? This is the foundation of the MiSELF Method — where we rebuild your identity, rewire your nervous system and help you finally feel safe in your own life. Doors are open. Book a call HERE

    51 min
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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

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  • Creator
    Rayne
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    34
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Pursuit of MiSELF
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