The Pursuit of MiSELF

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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

  1. 4D AGO

    How to Get Out of a Funk: What to Do When You Feel Flat, Stuck and Out of It

    Send a text You’re not in full crisis… but you’re not yourself either. You feel flat. Foggy. Disconnected. You know what you should be doing… but you’re not doing it. So you either push harder… or you avoid it completely. And the longer you stay there, the heavier it feels. In this episode, I’m speaking directly to the woman who feels stuck in that cycle — the one who’s quietly circling the same thoughts, the same decisions, the same patterns… and wondering why nothing is shifting. This is not about snapping yourself out of it. And it’s not about bypassing how you feel. This is about learning how to meet yourself where you’re at — so you can actually move through it. Inside this episode, I walk you through: How to recognise when you’re in a funk (without making it mean something about you)The two ways women abandon themselves: overriding vs avoidingHow to increase your capacity so you can actually move forwardThe shift from self-judgement to self-leadershipWhy clarity and motivation come after action — not beforeHow to start building self-trust again, one step at a timeBecause a funk is not a failure. It’s feedback. And the women who create results in their life and business… are not the ones who feel good all the time — they’re the ones who know how to move through the days they don’t. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed or “off”… this episode will bring you back to yourself. Ready to go deeper? This is the work we do inside the MiSELF Method & Academy — building self-trust, regulating your state, and learning how to move forward without burning out or checking out. 👉 Book a call with me HERE to explore what this could look like for you.

    23 min

  2. MAR 10

    The Room You Shrink In Is The Room You Need

    Send a text There comes a point where your discomfort stops being confusion. It’s no longer bad timing. It’s no longer “I just need to think about it.” It becomes evidence. Evidence that you’ve outgrown the version of yourself that got you here. In this episode, Rayne Bryant shares the deeper truth behind growth, expansion, and why the rooms that trigger you the most are often the exact rooms you need to step into. As Rayne celebrates the launch of The MiSELF Academy, she speaks directly to the woman who knows deep down that something inside her is ready for more. Not because life is bad.  Not because everything is falling apart. But because she knows she cannot stay where she is anymore. This episode explores why proximity to powerful women can feel confronting, why we often shrink when we step into bigger rooms, and how our loyalty to our own limitations keeps us circling the same level of life. The truth? The room you shrink in is often the room that will expand you the most. In This Episode Rayne talks about: • Why consuming knowledge isn’t the same as creating change  • The identity shifts required for real expansion  • Why bigger rooms can trigger comparison and self-doubt  • The hidden loyalty we have to our own limitations  • How powerful proximity accelerates growth  • Why the woman you’re becoming makes decisions differently  • The difference between circling your next level and stepping into it About The MiSELF Academy The MiSELF Academy is a space for women who are ready to expand their life, identity, leadership, and income. Inside the Academy we focus on: • Identity expansion and embodiment  • Emotional capacity and self-leadership  • Breaking patterns that keep you stuck  • Visibility, confidence and leadership  • Becoming the woman who can actually hold the life she says she wants This isn’t about more information. It’s about stepping into the room that changes you. Ready For Your Next Level? If you’ve been listening to this episode and feeling the pull… If you know you’ve outgrown where you are… Then this may be your moment to stop circling the room and actually step into it. The MiSELF Academy is now open (application only). Apply here:  👉 Academy Application Connect With Rayne Instagram  👉 https://www.instagram.com/rayne.bryant If you loved this episode, follow The Pursuit of MiSELF and share it with a woman who is ready for more.

    12 min

  3. MAR 3

    The Daily Habits Of An Entrepreneur. My New Committments As I Scale My Business

    Send a text This episode is very behind the scenes. I’ve been feeling that edge of capacity lately — that sense of “my bucket is full” — and instead of pushing harder, I’ve been tightening my habits. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what I’m doing in my week right now as I grow the Academy, expand my income and hold more space. Not theory.  Not strategy.  What I’m personally committing to. I share: How I’m adjusting my nervous system rituals as life shiftsThe exact structure of my week (money, content, clients, business building, podcasting)Why I’m getting serious about systems instead of winging itHow I’m protecting my standards online without oversharingThe habits that create capacity instead of burnoutIf you’ve been feeling at capacity but know you’re ready for more, this episode will give you something tangible to work with. Because scaling isn’t about hustle.  It’s about tightening the small things that support the bigger vision. Come inside my week.

    25 min

  4. FEB 26

    The Shifts No One Talks About When You Decide to Change

    Send a text You say you want to grow. More money. More leadership. More alignment. More life. But are you prepared for the shifts that growth actually requires? Because the woman you want to become is not built in quick wins. She is built in the boredom. The repetition. The consistency no one applauds. In this episode, I’m calling out the addiction to shortcuts — in business, in health, in relationships, in identity. From:  • 20k months in 90 days  • The next strategy  • The next rebrand  • The next injection  • The next rebound We are constantly sold the end result. But no one talks about the internal shifts required to hold it. Inside this episode, we explore: Why chasing faster keeps rebuilding the same ceilingThe emotional maturity required to scaleWhat happens when you build success without a North StarWhy boredom is often the sign you’re refining — not failingThe difference between hustle-driven money and grounded wealthThe discipline of staying when it’s not glamorousGrowth isn’t loud.  It’s repetitive.  It’s confronting.  It’s deeply refining. And the women who can hold wealth, love, visibility and leadership? They are the women who stayed when it wasn’t sexy. If you’re ready to stop circling the same income ceiling… If you’re done burning out and calling it ambition… If you want to go all in on yourself... This episode is for you. And if this resonates, this is the work we do inside The MiSELF Academy. No shortcuts. No bypassing. Just identity-level growth and long-term expansion. Book a connection call via the link below. Let’s build the woman who cannot be shaken. BOOK A CALL

    24 min

  5. FEB 17

    Joni, The Facelift Facialist: Regulation, Specialisation & Building a Beauty Empire

    Send a text The beauty industry has been built on fixing women. More machines. More trends. More promises. But what if the real edge isn’t technology — it’s regulation? In this episode, I sit down with Joni, The Facelift Facialist — Perth-based educator, founder and industry leader — who has built a booked-out beauty empire by specialising, mastering fascia-focused touch, and leading from a nervous system-first philosophy. With over two decades in the industry, Joni has watched beauty drift into insecurity marketing. Her response? Bring back ritual. Bring back embodiment. Pick a lane. Build authority. We unpack: Why anti-ageing is misunderstoodHow stress and fascia physically shape the faceWhy specialisation creates demandNervous system capacity vs strategyThe death of curated leadershipThe $20k lesson that sharpened her business discernmentWhat it really takes to scale without losing yourselfThis is a conversation about beauty.  But it’s also about business posture. Because you can’t build an empire your nervous system can’t hold. Find Joni: @joni_thefaceliftfacialist Book a FREE strategy call with Rayne HERE

    54 min

  6. FEB 10

    Why You Continue to Tolerate BS and How to Raise Your Standards

    Send a text If you’ve done the work, invested in yourself, and know you’re capable —  but your business still doesn’t feel free  and your relationships don’t feel as deep or aligned as you desire… this episode is for you. Because this isn’t a strategy problem.  It’s not a mindset issue.  And it’s not that you’re behind. Your results are shaped by what you tolerate —  and what you tolerate is always an identity decision. In this episode, I break down the concept of tolerance bandwidth — the invisible standards your nervous system has normalised, and how they quietly cap your income, your leadership, and the depth of connection you experience in your life. We talk about:  • Why you don’t rise to your goals — you rise to your standards  • How self-care can become avoidance instead of growth  • The identity gap between where you are and the freedom you want  • Why raising standards feels unsafe — and why it’s required  • The link between business freedom and relationship depth This isn’t about doing more.  It’s about becoming unavailable for the life you’ve been tolerating. If something in you knows it’s time to upgrade the identity you’re living from —  this conversation will land. If you’re ready to stop circling the same level and start leading from a higher standard, explore MiSELF Academy

    34 min

  7. FEB 3

    The 5 Decisions I’m Making in 2026 to Double My Business Again

    Send a text If you’ve been consuming, learning, preparing, and waiting to feel ready… this episode might be uncomfortable. Because growth doesn’t come from more information.  It comes from the moment you stop negotiating with your comfort. In this episode, I’m sharing the five identity-based decisions I’m making in 2026 — the exact decisions that will double my business again, not through hustle or burnout, but through becoming a different woman. This isn’t theory. It’s leadership. In this episode, we cover: Why comfort doesn’t create capacity (and how it keeps you capped)The difference between self-care and self-leadership (and why most women confuse them)Identity refinement vs reinvention — and why your next level requires less “new” and more truthHow your message weakens when you’re trying to please, perform, or speak to everyoneWhy you can’t expand in rooms that mirror your current identity — and how the right environment changes everythingThe “burn it all down” moment… and what it’s really revealing about your nervous system + growth edgeHow to shift from the short game (waiting, circling, consuming) to the long game (commitment, standards, embodiment)If 2026 is your year to stop hovering at the edge of your potential — this is your line in the sand. DM me on Instagram and tell me which of the five you’re committing to this year — and what you’re no longer available for.

    30 min

  8. JAN 27

    10 Truths at 43. How I Changed Everything in the Last 2 Years

    Send a text Things can change fast, in business, love, and wealth, when you stop negotiating with your truth. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 recent lessons that changed how I lead myself, my nervous system, and my life at 43. Welcome back to The Pursuit of MiSELF — and welcome to 2026. 🎙️ After a month off, I realised how much I missed this: depth, honesty, and real conversations that actually change your life. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 truths I’ve learned in the last 1–2 years (not a lifetime), because I want you to know this: ⚡️ Things can change quickly — in your business, your love life, your wealth, and the way you show up. But it takes honest reflection… and a willingness to stop negotiating with what you already know. What we cover in this episode 👇 ✨ Why clarity doesn’t just bring opportunity — it brings responsibility ✨ The truth about manifestation: it’s not magic… it’s confrontation ✨ How investing in personal growth doubled my business (and why I don’t invest to be “fixed”) ✨ Why the work doesn’t stop when things get better — it becomes more precise ✨ Why it’s okay to want more money (and why avoiding it keeps you small) ✨ Nervous system leadership (including my 5am exercise commitment) ✨ Why saying no changed my life faster than any yes ever did ✨ Outsourcing + hiring a BDM — and why it challenged my identity, not just my workload ✨ Why your standards shape your reality more than mindset ever will ✨ What safety actually is: trusting yourself, not controlling everything The 10 Truths I Share 🔥  1️⃣ The clearer I got about what I wanted, the more life asked of me  2️⃣ Manifestation isn’t magic — it’s confrontation  3️⃣ Investing in my personal growth doubled my business  4️⃣ The work didn’t stop when things got better — it became more precise  5️⃣ Wanting more money didn’t make me less spiritual — avoiding it kept me small  6️⃣ My nervous system needed leadership, not motivation  7️⃣ Saying no changed my life faster than saying yes ever did  8️⃣ Outsourcing confronted my identity more than my workload  9️⃣ My standards shaped my reality more than my mindset ever did  🔟 Safety didn’t come from controlling my life — it came from trusting myself If this episode hit you… 📲 Share it to your stories and tag me — I’ll reshare it.  📩 DM me on Instagram and tell me what truth landed the hardest. And if you felt that response in your body while listening — that “Yep. This is my next level” — the shift I’m speaking about (survival → self-leadership) is the foundation of MiSELF Academy. Not to fix you. Not to give you more to do. But to help you become more honest, more embodied, and more anchored in who you actually are… so your business and life finally feel like yours. Details are below for when you feel ready. Links + Resources 🔗 📌 MiSELF Academy: HERE 📌 Instagram: HERE   identity work, manifestation, nervous system, self leadership, women in business, energetics, authenticity, wealth energetics, embodiment, standards, self trust, business coaching, personal growth.

    38 min
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Here we take ownership of our healing, we rewrite the rules, we turn knowledge into wisdom and we lead our lives with intention. I’m your host, Rayne, I'm a mentor, mother, energetics expert and the creator of the company MiSELF.* My mission is to empower you to get back into the driver’s seat of your life.

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  • Creator
    Rayne
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Pursuit of MiSELF
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