The After Wife Podcast

The After Wife Podcast

The After Wife is the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast for moms navigating life after divorce. Hosted by two women who traded in their wedding rings for self-worth and sanity, this show dives deep into the realities of co-parenting, identity shifts, dating (again?!), healing, and laughing through the chaos. No fluffy advice or toxic positivity here — just real talk, bold stories, and a whole lot of support. Because you’re not just an ex-wife — you’re the After Wife.

  1. Sep 22

    Lindsay Clancy Trial: Guilty, Not Criminally Responsible, or Did Patrick Do It?

    Guilty? Not Criminally Responsible? Or Did Patrick Do It? The Lindsay Clancy case has become one of the most debated trials in recent memory. Was Lindsay criminally responsible for killing her three children? Was she experiencing postpartum psychosis that prevented her from understanding the wrongfulness of her actions? And what do we make of the theories about Patrick that have exploded across social media? In this episode, Taylor and Kylie unpack the arguments surrounding the case, the competing psychiatric testimony, and the role social media and true-crime culture have played in shaping public opinion. We also discuss why an internet theory going viral isn't the same thing as evidence. But ultimately, this episode is about something bigger than deciding which “side” you're on. As mothers, we share our own postpartum experiences—the exhaustion, anxiety, hormonal changes, pressure to appear okay, and how little attention can sometimes remain on Mom once the baby arrives. Lindsay's experience was obviously far more severe, and ordinary postpartum struggles should never be equated with postpartum psychosis. But her case raises an uncomfortable question: What happens when a mother actually asks for help? We discuss gaps in postpartum mental-health care, fragmented treatment, educating partners about warning signs, the stigma that can keep mothers from admitting they're having frightening thoughts, and why screening means very little without an effective system waiting on the other side. Three children—Cora, Dawson and Callan—remain at the center of this tragedy. Whatever the legal verdict, this case leaves another question for all of us: What failed—and what are we willing to change?

  2. Aug 27

    Too Soon?

    Too Soon?Sex, Timing & Dating After Divorce First date? Third date? Three months? Who decided when it’s officially “okay” to sleep with someone anyway? 👀 This episode, Taylor and Kylie are talking about sex, timing, and one of dating’s oldest questions: Can sleeping with someone “too soon” actually ruin your chances of having a real relationship? We’re unpacking the infamous three-date rule, the double standards women still face, and why dating after divorce can completely change the way you think about intimacy. We also get into the side of dating in your 40s and beyond that nobody talks about enough—perimenopause, changing libido, sexual confidence, less anxiety about pregnancy, and realizing you may not want to spend months following arbitrary dating rules when your time feels more valuable than ever. Is waiting really what creates respect? Does moving quickly mean a relationship isn’t serious? Or does the outcome have a lot more to do with compatibility, communication, emotional safety, and the person you chose than the night you chose to sleep together? Maybe the question isn't “Was it too soon?” Maybe it's “Did it feel right for me?”

  3. Aug 15

    Swipe Right?

    🎧 EPISODE DESCRIPTIONSeason 2, Episode 6 — Swipe Right?What Your Dating Profile Really Says About You If you’ve spent any time on dating apps, you know the profiles start to feel… familiar. The fish pictures. 🎣The bathroom selfies.The sunglasses in EVERY photo. 😎The group shot where you have absolutely no idea which one he is.And, of course, the bio that simply says: “Just ask.” This episode of The After Wife is all about online dating profiles — the good, the bad, the confusing, and the ones that make us immediately swipe left. We’re talking about first impressions, profile photo red flags, bios that tell you absolutely nothing, what actually makes someone stand out, and whether dating apps have made all of us a little too picky. We also get into the bigger question: What does your dating profile actually say about you? Because after divorce, dating can feel like entering an entirely different world — and suddenly you’re expected to sum up your personality, lifestyle, interests, and relationship goals in six pictures and a few prompts. And maybe the goal isn’t creating a profile that makes everyone swipe right. Maybe it’s creating one that helps the right person recognize you.

  4. Aug 15

    Swipe Right?

    🎧 EPISODE DESCRIPTION Season 2, Episode 6 — Swipe Right? What Your Dating Profile Really Says About You If you’ve spent any time on dating apps, you know the profiles start to feel… familiar. The fish pictures. 🎣 The bathroom selfies. The sunglasses in EVERY photo. 😎 The group shot where you have absolutely no idea which one he is. And, of course, the bio that simply says: “Just ask.” This episode of The After Wife is all about online dating profiles — the good, the bad, the confusing, and the ones that make us immediately swipe left. We’re talking about first impressions, profile photo red flags, bios that tell you absolutely nothing, what actually makes someone stand out, and whether dating apps have made all of us a little too picky. We also get into the bigger question: What does your dating profile actually say about you? Because after divorce, dating can feel like entering an entirely different world — and suddenly you’re expected to sum up your personality, lifestyle, interests, and relationship goals in six pictures and a few prompts. And maybe the goal isn’t creating a profile that makes everyone swipe right. Maybe it’s creating one that helps the right person recognize you.

  5. Jul 23

    Is Age Really Just A Number?

    Inspired by Netflix’s Age of Attraction Does age truly matter when it comes to love—or is compatibility about something much deeper? In this episode of The After Wife, Taylor and Kylie discuss Netflix’s Age of Attraction and the assumptions people make about age-gap relationships. After divorce, the qualities we look for in a partner often change. Chemistry may still matter, but so do emotional maturity, independence, stability, shared values, and being in compatible stages of life. We’re talking about: ❤️ Dating someone significantly older or younger❤️ The difference between age, maturity, and life stage❤️ How divorce can completely change your “type”❤️ Double standards surrounding age-gap relationships❤️ Family and friends having opinions about who you date❤️ Why red flags—and green flags—exist at every age❤️ What really matters when choosing a partner the second time around So, is age just a number? Maybe it is part of the story—but it is not the whole story. Because the healthiest relationships are not necessarily built on matching birthdays. They are built on matching values, emotional safety, respect, and peace.

  6. Jul 14

    Don't Become Naomi: Inspired by "The Divorce" By Frieda McFadden

    This episode isn't a book review. It's a conversation about the lessons we can learn from Naomi's story. In The Divorce, Freida McFadden introduces us to Naomi—a woman blindsided by divorce who struggles to accept that the man she married may not be the man she's divorcing. As we read, we kept thinking the same thing: Don't become Naomi. Not because she loved too deeply. Not because she struggled. But because she ignored her instincts, doubted her own reality, and let heartbreak cloud her judgment. In this episode, we're discussing: ❤️ Being blindsided by divorce ❤️ Gaslighting and learning to trust your intuition ❤️ The legal maneuvers that can turn divorce into a strategy instead of a conversation ❤️ The mistakes many of us make when we're hurting ❤️ Why boundaries matter more than explanations ❤️ Finding your "Cora"—the people who help you rebuild ❤️ Parenting through heartbreak ❤️ The pressure to keep up appearances while your world is falling apart Whether you've read The Divorce or not, this episode is about recognizing manipulation, protecting your peace, and remembering that divorce may change your life—but it doesn't have to define it. Because sometimes the most important lesson isn't about the marriage. It's about learning to trust yourself again.

  7. Jun 29

    The Crash: Parenting, Accountability & Resilience

    Last week we talked about heartbreak, attachment, and emotional dependency. This week, we're shifting the conversation to one of the biggest debates surrounding Netflix's The Crash: What can parents learn from this tragedy? As moms, we aren't here to debate the verdict—we're here to explore the conversations every parent should be having. In this episode, we're discussing: ❤️ Parenting versus being a friend ❤️ Teaching children how to survive heartbreak ❤️ Emotional regulation and resilience ❤️ Accountability versus excuses ❤️ The difference between supporting your child and rescuing them ❤️ What many people are saying about Natalie and Steve Shirilla ❤️ The lessons we can all take away as parents Because eventually every child will experience heartbreak... rejection... failure... and disappointment. Our job isn't to prevent those moments. It's to prepare our children to navigate them. Join us for an honest conversation about parenting, resilience, and raising emotionally healthy kids. Because sometimes the greatest lesson we can teach our children is that they are strong enough to survive life's hardest moments.

  8. Jun 17

    The Crash: Love, Attachment, and Heartbreak

    This episode of The After Wife, we're discussing Netflix's The Crash and the conversations that go far beyond the courtroom. At its core, this isn't just a story about a tragedy. It's a story about relationships, heartbreak, emotional dependency, attachment, and what happens when losing someone feels like losing yourself. We're talking about: 💔 The difference between love and attachment 💔 Why rejection can feel life-ending 💔 Emotional dependency and identity in relationships 💔 How divorce and heartbreak can create similar feelings of loss 💔 Emotional regulation and learning to survive difficult emotions 💔 Social media, perception, and the difference between the relationship people see and the relationship people actually live 💔 Recognizing red flags and unhealthy attachment Because whether you're 17 or 47, eventually all of us experience heartbreak, disappointment, and change. The goal isn't avoiding those things. The goal is learning that we can survive them. Because losing a relationship isn't the same as losing yourself. And heartbreak isn't the end of your story. #TheAfterWifePodcast #TheCrash #Netflix #Heartbreak #Attachment #DivorceRecovery #Healing #EmotionalDependency #StartingOver

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The After Wife is the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast for moms navigating life after divorce. Hosted by two women who traded in their wedding rings for self-worth and sanity, this show dives deep into the realities of co-parenting, identity shifts, dating (again?!), healing, and laughing through the chaos. No fluffy advice or toxic positivity here — just real talk, bold stories, and a whole lot of support. Because you’re not just an ex-wife — you’re the After Wife.

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  • Creator
    The After Wife Podcast
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    31
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    Explicit
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