The Honest Pause

Teryl Rothery & Maryam Taheri
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Life doesn’t come with a pause button, but sometimes we need one. The Honest Pause is your space to reflect, reconnect, and laugh a little as we navigate the beautiful mess of life. Hosted by Teryl Rothery—actress, intuitive coach, and hypnotherapist—and Maryam Taheri—entrepreneur, business strategist, and leadership expert—we tackle the real challenges of ambition, relationships, and finding yourself in the chaos.

  1. 9H AGO

    When the World Feels Heavy

    When the world feels heavy and hard, it’s not just emotional—it’s physiological. Our nervous systems are constantly taking in headlines, alerts, images, and urgency, even when nothing is happening directly to us. And over time, that nonstop exposure can leave us feeling tense, exhausted, numb, or on edge without fully knowing why. In this episode, Maryam and Teryl explore what living in a 24/7 news cycle does to the body, not just the mind. They break down how chronic stress keeps us stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn mode, why so many people feel “tired but wired,” and how cortisol and adrenal overload quietly shape our daily experience of anxiety, burnout, and disconnection. You’ll learn why your body can feel unsafe even when you logically know you’re okay, what Heart Rate Variability (HRV) reveals about your capacity to recover from stress, and why regulation—not more information or willpower—is the key to resilience. The conversation also offers simple, nervous-system-friendly tools to help you come back to your body, set healthier boundaries with news and media, and find moments of safety in a heavy world. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel overwhelmed, braced, or emotionally drained just by existing right now, this episode will help you understand what your body is responding to—and how to support it with more compassion, steadiness, and care. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    35 min

  2. 09/23/2025

    How to Create a Realistic Self Care Routine

    When you hear the phrase self-care, do you think spa days and bubble baths? You’re not alone. But real self-care isn’t about indulgence—it’s about the small, consistent habits that keep you grounded in everyday life. In this episode, Maryam and Teryl unpack why so many people struggle with self-care and redefine it as something realistic, sustainable, and essential. They’ll share research-backed insights (like why 67% of people say they “don’t have time” for it, and how lack of sleep affects 1 in 3 adults) while breaking down the building blocks of a routine that actually works: sleep hygiene, movement, hydration, mind care, connection, and boundaries. You’ll hear how to start with micro-habits—like three deep breaths before a meeting or stretching after brushing your teeth—and how to anchor self-care into the flow of your day. Plus, they’ll walk through an example of a simple, realistic self-care routine that anyone can try. If you’ve ever felt guilty for not doing “enough” for yourself, this conversation will remind you that balance begins with just one small habit, repeated with intention. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    22 min

  3. 09/16/2025

    How to Structure Your Day for Balance

    Have you ever reached the end of the day and thought, I was busy all day, but did I actually live it? In this episode, Maryam and Teryl explore how to move beyond the cycle of constant busyness and create days that feel balanced, energizing, and sustainable. Together, they break down why balance is so hard in today’s world of nonstop notifications and interruptions, then share simple “anchors” that can ground your day—from morning rituals and focused work blocks to intentional pauses, connection, and evening wind-downs. You’ll hear research-backed strategies (like why morning sunlight boosts your mood, or how a 5-minute break every hour sharpens focus) and see what a practical flow for a balanced day can actually look like. Most importantly, Maryam and Teryl emphasize that balance isn’t one-size-fits-all. They’ll guide you in identifying your own non-negotiables so you can design a daily rhythm that restores rather than drains you. Whether you’re feeling stretched thin or just want more intention in your day, this conversation will help you reclaim your time with small, doable shifts. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    21 min

  4. 08/26/2025

    Why Do I Overthink Everything?

    You send the text. Then you reread it 10 times. Then you wonder if it was too friendly… or not friendly enough. And by the time you’ve spiraled through every possible interpretation, the moment (and the conversation) has passed. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In this deeply relatable conversation, Maryam and Teryl explore the all-too-familiar trap of overthinking: why we do it, how it hijacks our peace, and what’s really going on in the brain when we can’t stop spinning. Spoiler: your brain isn’t broken—it’s trying to protect you. But that protection often comes at a cost. Together, they unpack: Why your brain confuses rumination with problem-solvingHow anxiety and trauma wire us to overanalyzeWhat neuroscience reveals about the Default Mode Network (aka, your inner overthinker)Practical tools to interrupt spirals and rebuild self-trustWhy “good enough” decisions are more powerful than perfect onesThis episode is your gentle, science-backed permission to step out of the mental maze—and remember that peace doesn’t come from overthinking everything… it comes from trusting that you can handle whatever happens next. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    25 min

  5. 08/19/2025

    Why Does Doing Nothing Make Me Anxious?

    Episode: Why Does Doing Nothing Make Me Anxious? Episode Description: You finally clear your schedule for a well-deserved break… and five minutes later, you’re reorganizing the pantry, answering emails, or deep-cleaning the bathroom “for fun.” Why does slowing down feel so uncomfortable—even when we want to rest? In this episode of The Honest Pause, Maryam and Teryl explore the quiet guilt that sneaks in when we try to rest in a world obsessed with productivity. They unpack why rest feels unsafe for so many of us, how cultural and generational conditioning wires us to equate worth with output, and how to gently rebuild your capacity to be still—without shame or justification. You’ll hear: Why your nervous system can resist rest, even when you’re exhaustedHow productivity culture distorts your sense of self-worthThe hidden emotions that surface when you stop “doing”Simple, no-pressure ways to practice “rest without rules”Why choosing stillness can be a bold act of self-respectIf you’ve ever felt anxious doing “nothing” or needed to earn your rest to enjoy it—this episode is your reminder that rest isn’t a reward. It’s a right. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    35 min

  6. 08/12/2025

    Why Is It So Hard to Say No to People?

    Episode  — “Why Is It So Hard to Say No to People?”  (aka: The Quiet Guilt, People-Pleasing, and the Courage to Choose Yourself) Episode Description: You said yes—again. Even though you didn’t want to. Even though you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or just not feeling it. So… why is it so hard to say no, especially to people we care about? In this episode of The Honest Pause, Maryam and Teryl dive deep into the emotional roots of people-pleasing, boundary guilt, and the invisible weight we carry when we overcommit. Together, they unpack the real reasons behind our “yes reflex”—from childhood conditioning to nervous system wiring—and share how learning to honor your “no” can be a radical act of self-respect. Expect honest stories, practical tools, and mindset shifts to help you: Understand why saying no feels risky (spoiler: it’s not just about the other person)Recognize how self-abandonment hides behind “being nice”Navigate the discomfort of setting boundaries—without dramaUse scripts and small practices to say no kindly, clearly, and confidentlyReframe boundaries as compassion, not rejectionIf you’ve ever RSVP’d “yes” to a thing you immediately regretted, or felt that sinking-stomach spiral of “why did I agree to this?”—this episode is your permission slip to pause, reflect, and choose yourself (without apology). Because your “no” isn’t selfish. It’s sacred. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy

    36 min

  7. 08/05/2025

    What Is Intuitive Coaching—And How Can It Actually Help?

    Episode — “What Is Intuitive Coaching—And How Can It Actually Help?”  (aka: It’s Not Woo. It’s You—Learning to Trust Your Inner Compass Again) Episode Description: Ever heard the term intuitive coaching and thought, “Cool… but what is that, actually?” You’re not alone. In this episode of The Honest Pause, Maryam gets curious and Teryl gets real about what intuitive coaching really is—and what it definitely isn’t. Together, they unpack: How intuitive coaching differs from therapy or traditional life coachingWhy we’re all craving inner alignment, not just outer accomplishmentsThe role of the body, emotion, and energy in making grounded decisionsWhat it feels like when your intuition speaks—and why we often ignore itReal stories of clarity, permission, and quiet breakthroughsTeryl brings clarity, candor, and zero fluff as she demystifies the often-misunderstood world of intuitive coaching. Whether you're a skeptic, a feeler, or somewhere in between, this episode is a gentle guide to reconnecting with the part of you that already knows—beneath the noise, the shoulds, and the second-guessing. Because sometimes, the most powerful shifts don’t come from advice—they come from finally hearing yourself. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy - Curious about your enneagram type? book a typing session and get 10% off with code HONEST.

    20 min

  8. 07/29/2025

    I Feel Lost—But Don’t Know Why

    Episode  — “I Feel Lost—But Don’t Know Why” (aka: The Quiet Kind of Lost & How to Find Your Way Back) Episode Description: You’ve checked the boxes—career, relationships, routines—and from the outside, it all should feel fine. But inside? Something’s off. In this episode of The Honest Pause, Maryam and Teryl dive into that subtle, often silent experience of feeling lost… without a clear reason why. Together, they explore: Why “feeling lost” isn’t a crisis—it’s a signalHow life transitions (even the good ones) can shake up your sense of selfWhat identity lag is—and why it leaves you feeling like a stranger in your own lifeThe difference between realignment and reinvention (hint: you don’t have to burn it all down)Gentle mindset shifts and micro-practices to start reconnecting with youThis episode offers real talk, neuroscience-backed insights, and vulnerable moments about what it’s like to outgrow parts of your life you never thought you would. Whether you’re floating in the fog or just wondering why “fine” feels so far from fulfilled—this one’s your soft place to land. And if you’ve ever typed “why do I feel off” into Google at 2AM or gotten teary during a random commercial, you’re in the right place. Stay Connected:  📸 Follow on Instagram: @TheHonestPause Connect with Teryl Rothery 🌐 Website: https://www.terylrothery.com 📸 Instagram: @terylrothery 🧠 Book a Discovery Call Connect with Maryam Taheri 🌐 LinkedIn 📸 Instagram 💼 Everground Advisory: Coaching & Business Strategy  Curious about your enneagram type? Book a typing session and get 10% off with code HONEST.

    42 min
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Life doesn’t come with a pause button, but sometimes we need one. The Honest Pause is your space to reflect, reconnect, and laugh a little as we navigate the beautiful mess of life. Hosted by Teryl Rothery—actress, intuitive coach, and hypnotherapist—and Maryam Taheri—entrepreneur, business strategist, and leadership expert—we tackle the real challenges of ambition, relationships, and finding yourself in the chaos.

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  • Creator
    Teryl Rothery & Maryam Taheri
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Honest Pause
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