Kelly Oliver Dougall

Kelly Oliver Dougall
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My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter. I’m especially interested in speaking with women who: Have been bullied, cancelled, or harassed online or in their communities, and want to share their story of resilience.Are “trans widows” – women whose male partners transitioned and who experienced loss, coercion, or abuse in that process.Have trans-identifying family members, and are navigating the grief, isolation, or pressure to self-censor that often comes with it.Want to shed light on the impact of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the broader culture of silencing women’s realities.This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly. If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.

  1. The Reality of Detransition: Michael’s Story of Loss and Recovery

    1D AGO

    The Reality of Detransition: Michael’s Story of Loss and Recovery

    Where you can find Michael - X https://x.com/Michaelwk20 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg Summary In this conversation, Michael, a detransitioner from Scotland, shares his journey through transition and the challenges he faced within the medical system. He discusses the mental health struggles, societal pressures, and the complexities of navigating gender identity. Michael emphasizes the need for better support systems for detransitioners and advocates for awareness and understanding of their experiences. He reflects on the impact of hormonal treatments and the importance of community in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Takeaways Michael is a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland. Transitioning can lead to significant mental health challenges. The medical system often lacks adequate support for detransitioners. Social pressures can heavily influence one's gender identity journey. Workplace dynamics can complicate the experience of transitioning individuals. Accessible spaces are crucial for those navigating gender identity. Hormonal treatments can have unexpected and distressing effects. Detransitioning is a complex decision that requires careful consideration. Legal and medical challenges persist for detransitioners seeking support. Advocacy for detransitioners is essential for raising awareness and improving support systems. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Detransitioning Perspectives 03:00 The Journey of Detransitioning 05:41 Navigating Mental Health and Support Systems 08:30 Experiences in the Workplace and Identity 11:07 The Impact of Social Influences on Gender Identity 13:58 Medical Experiences and Informed Consent 16:47 Long-term Effects of Hormonal Treatment 19:29 Accessible Spaces and Gender Identity 25:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy: A Personal Journey 31:56 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Transitioning 37:12 The Complex Path to Surgery 43:56 Confronting Addiction and Seeking Change 47:42 Reevaluating Identity and Activism 48:19 The Internal Conflicts of the Trans Community 50:34 Navigating Relationships and Personal Struggles 52:44 The Journey of Detransitioning 57:29 Medical Support and the Challenges of Detransitioning 01:03:08 The Need for Advocacy and Support for Detransitioners If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    1h 19m
  2. The Media Silences Trans Widows' Voices - Kelly talks to Una Jane Winfield

    DEC 17

    The Media Silences Trans Widows' Voices - Kelly talks to Una Jane Winfield

    Summary In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Una Jane Winfield discuss the ongoing struggles and advocacy efforts of trans widows, highlighting the challenges they face in society and the legal system. They explore the impact of media representation, personal experiences, and the psychological effects of gender identity issues. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community engagement, open dialogue, and continued activism to address these pressing concerns. Takeaways Trans widows feel their voices are often unheard. There is a need for more representation in media. Legal battles in the NHS highlight systemic issues. Personal experiences reveal the psychological impact of gender identity. Activism is crucial for advocating for justice. Community engagement can foster understanding and support. Public meetings often shut down important questions. The ideology surrounding gender identity affects societal norms. Youth are particularly vulnerable to these issues. Support networks are essential for those affected. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    1h 7m
  3. Heroism at Bondi Beach

    DEC 16

    Heroism at Bondi Beach

    Summary The conversation delves into the tragic events at Bondi Beach, focusing on the experiences of those affected, particularly women. It highlights stories of heroism amidst the chaos, the community's response to grief, and the need to address cultural clashes. The speaker also offers support to women who have faced trauma, emphasizing the importance of collective healing and dialogue. Takeaways The tragedy at Bondi Beach was a targeted attack. Heroic actions emerged from ordinary people during the attack. Community support is vital in times of grief. Cultural clashes can lead to violence and misunderstanding. Women affected by trauma need support and understanding. Collective grief can unite communities. It's important to talk about the issues affecting society. Positive responses can arise from tragic events. Support systems are crucial for healing. Counselling can help those in pain. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    11 min
  4. Sandie Peggie Vs NHS Fife Part 2 - the reactions, discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall

    DEC 12

    Sandie Peggie Vs NHS Fife Part 2 - the reactions, discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall

    Summary The conversation delves into the controversial case of Sandie Peggie, a nurse who faced discrimination for her gender critical beliefs in the context of a tribunal ruling regarding her employer, NHS Fife. The discussion highlights the complexities of gender identity, the implications of the tribunal's judgment, and the broader societal impact on women's rights. Legal experts weigh in on the compatibility of the ruling with existing laws, while reactions from unions and advocates underscore the ongoing debate surrounding gender and sex in public spaces. Takeaways Sandie Peggie's case highlights the tension between gender identity and women's rights. The tribunal's judgment has been criticized for its implications on women's safety. Legal experts argue that the ruling contradicts previous Supreme Court decisions. The concept of gender identity remains contentious and poorly defined in legal contexts. There is a growing concern about the impact of transgender ideology on women's rights. The ruling suggests new criteria for access to female-only spaces based on appearance and transition status. Many believe that the judgment places the burden of objection on women in compromising situations. The conversation reflects a broader societal debate about sex, gender, and rights. Support for Sandie Peggie is strong among various unions and advocates for women's rights. The discussion calls for more awareness and dialogue about the implications of transgender policies. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    19 min
  5. Sandie Peggie Outrageous Outcome Discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall

    DEC 12

    Sandie Peggie Outrageous Outcome Discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall

    Summary The conversation delves into the Peggy vs NHS case, exploring the tribunal's findings, public reactions, and the broader implications for women's rights and healthcare. It highlights the contentious nature of the case, the financial burden on NHS Fife, and the cultural impact of the ruling on women's rights Takeaways The tribunal upheld four of Peggy's claims against NHS. The ruling suggests a balance of rights between trans women and biological women. NHS Fife has spent significant public funds on the case. Public opinion is deeply divided on the issue. The case has broader implications for gender rights in the UK. Critics argue the ruling is muddled and unclear. The cultural impact of the case is significant and ongoing. There are calls for clearer guidance from Westminster. The case has become a focal point for discussions on women's rights. The conversation reflects a growing tension in society regarding gender identity.

    14 min
  6. Menopause Myths Doctors Won't Tell You - Kelly talks to Amita Sharma

    DEC 10

    Menopause Myths Doctors Won't Tell You - Kelly talks to Amita Sharma

    summary In this conversation, Amita Sharma discusses the often-overlooked topic of hormonal transitions in women, particularly focusing on menopause and perimenopause. She highlights the lack of understanding and resources available for women experiencing these changes and emphasizes the importance of diet and lifestyle in managing symptoms. Amita introduces her app, Nourish Talk, designed to provide holistic wellness support for women navigating these transitions, and advocates for better education and awareness around women's health issues. Takeaways Most women are unaware of the symptoms of menopause. Chronic conditions are prevalent among women over 60. Diet and lifestyle changes can mitigate menopause symptoms. Personal experiences with perimenopause are often shocking. Women need better resources for hormonal transitions. Menopause education is lacking in medical training. Women can still contribute significantly in their 40s and beyond. The stigma around menopause needs to be addressed. Holistic approaches to health are essential for women. Women should have access to credible health information. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    24 min
  7. Everyone is Lying about Sex - Kelly talks to Ute Heggen

    DEC 9

    Everyone is Lying about Sex - Kelly talks to Ute Heggen

    Featuring @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Originally posted on 6th August 2025 - this version is less edited as feedback was that the original was "jumpy". Takeaways Ute Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow. The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound. Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues. Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity. Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition. Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges. Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues. Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns. The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue. Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies. Physical activity can aid mental health. Healing requires addressing trauma. Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics. Self-protection is essential in changing times. Nature can provide solace and joy. Education plays a crucial role in development. Motherhood is a complex journey. Family dynamics can be complicated. Finding joy in community is vital. Summary In this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ute Heggen and Her Journey 02:06 The Impact of Cross-Dressing on Relationships 05:16 Exploring the Role of Therapists in Gender Identity 09:28 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects on Gender Ideation 13:34 Navigating Custody Battles and Parenting Challenges 18:08 The Development of PTSD and Healing Journey 24:59 The Role of Nature in Healing and Recovery 28:23 Challenges in Mental Health and Therapy Practices 35:49 Understanding Biological Sex and Gender Identity 38:04 Navigating Professional Challenges and Activism 41:13 Mental Health and the Impact of Detransitioning 45:40 The Role of Therapy and Support for Trans Widows 49:15 Finding Balance Through Nature and Wellness 54:14 The Burden of Lies and Family Dynamics 58:29 Physical Health and Mental Well-being 01:02:28 Coping with Trauma and Building Resilience 01:08:58 Navigating Family Dynamics in a Changing World 01:11:44 The Impact of Social Media and Online Trolls 01:14:58 Protecting Oneself: Legal and Emotional Strategies 01:17:43 Finding Community and Normalcy 01:18:33 Child Development and Gender Identity 01:23:59 Reflections on Parenting and Life Lessons 01:29:19 The Importance of Sharing Stories and Experiences 01:42:49 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4 Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

    1h 60m
  8. Feminism has got Massive Balls - Kelly talks to Nonika Nonika

    NOV 19

    Feminism has got Massive Balls - Kelly talks to Nonika Nonika

    Send us a text If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk Find Nonika here - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095728833512 Summary The conversation explores the true essence of feminism, challenging traditional perceptions that equate it with weakness. Nonika emphasizes the strength inherent in femininity, highlighting the resilience women display in their daily lives, particularly in the face of physical challenges like menstruation. The discussion aims to redefine feminism as a powerful force rather than a gentle one. Takeaways Feminism is often misunderstood as weakness. True femininity encompasses strength and resilience. Women endure significant challenges daily without recognition. The conversation challenges stereotypes about femininity. Feminism should be seen as a powerful force. Experiencing pain does not equate to weakness. Strength can be found in vulnerability. Redefining feminism can empower women. Acknowledging women's struggles is crucial for equality. Feminism is about embracing all aspects of womanhood. Support the show

    58 min
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My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter. I’m especially interested in speaking with women who: Have been bullied, cancelled, or harassed online or in their communities, and want to share their story of resilience.Are “trans widows” – women whose male partners transitioned and who experienced loss, coercion, or abuse in that process.Have trans-identifying family members, and are navigating the grief, isolation, or pressure to self-censor that often comes with it.Want to shed light on the impact of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the broader culture of silencing women’s realities.This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly. If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.

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    Kelly Oliver Dougall
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