Kelly Oliver Dougall

Kelly Oliver Dougall

My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter. I’m especially interested in speaking with women who: Have been bullied, cancelled, or harassed online or in their communities, and want to share their story of resilience.Are “trans widows” – women whose male partners transitioned and who experienced loss, coercion, or abuse in that process.Have trans-identifying family members, and are navigating the grief, isolation, or pressure to self-censor that often comes with it.Want to shed light on the impact of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the broader culture of silencing women’s realities.This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly. If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.

  1. Gaslit by Professionals: Tracy Shannon’s Story of Marital Betrayal

    JAN 15

    Gaslit by Professionals: Tracy Shannon’s Story of Marital Betrayal

    "My husband's counsellor said I was a lesbian."When Tracy Shannon’s husband began to transition, she didn't just lose her marriage—she lost her right to her own reality. In this raw and unfiltered interview, Tracy discusses the "professional" gaslighting she faced and the erasure of her identity as a wife.Are you walking on eggshells at home? Most mainstream counsellors will tell you that you must 'affirm' your partner’s new identity, even if it feels like a betrayal of your truth. I do not work that way. I provide a safe, private, and non-affirming space for women to speak their truth and process their grief without being called a bigot.In this interview, we discuss:The shocking labels placed on wives of trans-identifying men.How "professionals" often prioritise ideology over the family unit.The reality of ambiguous loss and the search for solid ground.BOOK A PRIVATE SESSION: If you need a counsellor who understands the unique pain of the trans widow experience, visit my website: kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling#TransWidow #TracyShannon #CounsellingUK #WomenSilenced #genderideology Where to find Tracy Shannon (:X (Twitter): @MadMommaBear2 Website: MassResistance.org Substack: can be found by searching for Tracy Shannon or MadMommaBear.Get the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

    1h 22m
  2. The Reality of Detransition: Michael’s Story of Loss and Recovery

    12/23/2025

    The Reality of Detransition: Michael’s Story of Loss and Recovery

    Where you can find Michael - X https://x.com/Michaelwk20 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg Summary In this conversation, Michael, a detransitioner from Scotland, shares his journey through transition and the challenges he faced within the medical system. He discusses the mental health struggles, societal pressures, and the complexities of navigating gender identity. Michael emphasizes the need for better support systems for detransitioners and advocates for awareness and understanding of their experiences. He reflects on the impact of hormonal treatments and the importance of community in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Takeaways Michael is a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland. Transitioning can lead to significant mental health challenges. The medical system often lacks adequate support for detransitioners. Social pressures can heavily influence one's gender identity journey. Workplace dynamics can complicate the experience of transitioning individuals. Accessible spaces are crucial for those navigating gender identity. Hormonal treatments can have unexpected and distressing effects. Detransitioning is a complex decision that requires careful consideration. Legal and medical challenges persist for detransitioners seeking support. Advocacy for detransitioners is essential for raising awareness and improving support systems. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Detransitioning Perspectives 03:00 The Journey of Detransitioning 05:41 Navigating Mental Health and Support Systems 08:30 Experiences in the Workplace and Identity 11:07 The Impact of Social Influences on Gender Identity 13:58 Medical Experiences and Informed Consent 16:47 Long-term Effects of Hormonal Treatment 19:29 Accessible Spaces and Gender Identity 25:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy: A Personal Journey 31:56 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Transitioning 37:12 The Complex Path to Surgery 43:56 Confronting Addiction and Seeking Change 47:42 Reevaluating Identity and Activism 48:19 The Internal Conflicts of the Trans Community 50:34 Navigating Relationships and Personal Struggles 52:44 The Journey of Detransitioning 57:29 Medical Support and the Challenges of Detransitioning 01:03:08 The Need for Advocacy and Support for Detransitioners If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

    1h 19m

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My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter. I’m especially interested in speaking with women who: Have been bullied, cancelled, or harassed online or in their communities, and want to share their story of resilience.Are “trans widows” – women whose male partners transitioned and who experienced loss, coercion, or abuse in that process.Have trans-identifying family members, and are navigating the grief, isolation, or pressure to self-censor that often comes with it.Want to shed light on the impact of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the broader culture of silencing women’s realities.This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly. If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.

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