Say It Anyway with Ryan and Jay

Ryan + Jay
  • 4.8 (17)
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Join Ryan Manno — a single dog dad and LA radio personality — and Jay — a married mother of two, entrepreneur and queen of sourdough — with a side of sarcasm and a whole lot of heart! Both in their 40s, they bring real-life stories, hilarious sidebars and unapologetic viewpoints to every episode. This isn’t your typical “agree-to-disagree” show; it’s a wild ride through life’s ups, downs and WTF moments. From the male and female perspectives, Ryan and Jay dive into everything from relationships and family to unexpected detours, always circling back to what matters most: making you laugh and leaving you a little bit lighter by the end of each episode. It’s real talk, real humor and real connection — because life’s too short to NOT say it anyway.

Episodes

  1. 08/15/2025

    Episode 12 | School Dazed

    Last week, we "gator done" with bizarre Florida Man headlines — cuz nothin' says "come visit" like locals chuckin' crocodiles thru drive-thru windows! This week, we’re trading palm trees for pencil shavings in a special Back to School episode where Ryan and Jay swap their own childhood stories from the hallways of hell. Awkward moments. Questionable fashion choices. And lunchroom lunacy that left us wondering if we were ever actually served REAL food? Seriously, what was that stuff? It’s also the grand finale of our very first season! We’ll be taking a short break (call it recess) ... but in the meantime, now’s the perfect chance to re-listen to your favorite episodes from the start — trust us, they’re even funnier the second time around! Thanks for the love, for real. Sending it right back. See ya soon, nerds! FOLLOW ON IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    53 min

  2. 08/08/2025

    Episode 11 | Florida, Man

    This week? We're goin' FULL Florida, man. Jay’s reporting live from the land of gators, unpredictable weather and stories that start with “Florida Man…” Meanwhile, Ryan’s back in the comfy Burbank studio trying to keep this show on the rails. We dive headfirst into the most outrageous Florida Man headlines we could find (and yes, they’re somehow all real) ... but we also give Florida its flowers with some actually cool and surprising facts. Life's all about balance, baby. Part chaos, part sunshine, part swamp-ass but 100% Say It Anyway! OH! And here's the link we mentioned toward the end. Vote for Yaamava. Seriously. We won't tolerate such cocky injustice. Nor should you. FOLLOW US ON IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 8m

  3. 08/01/2025

    Episode 10 | TENsions x TENzens

    Last week, in episode 9, we shared the sagest advice we’d give our younger selves — turns out, less-old (and current) US could’ve used some serious deeeeep breaths. This week? We're balancing the scales with a Top 10 double feature: the little things that drive us absolutely nuts (hello, loud chewers and group texts with no exit strategy) ... followed by the things that help us find our calm! Spoiler: Jay’s involve the beach while Ryan can't stand a speck of sand. And god forbid you send a thumbs up emoji. One of us will hunt you down. It's a ride through rage and relaxation — because for every trigger, there should be a chill. If you haven't subsrcibed, liked, followed, commented, shared, etc ... we're starting to question your commitment to what we're doing. Do the things. Seriously. FOLLOW ON IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 16m

  4. 07/25/2025

    Episode 9 | Rewind & Remind

    In episode 8, we had an absolute blast unraveling conspiracy theories and the Mandela Effect! The earth isn't flat, but, for real, we still don’t know if it’s Berenstain or Berenstein!? Yuck. This week, we’re turnin' the mirror on our younger selves and asking: what advice would we give if we could run it ALL back? From the tragedy of over-plucked eyebrows to the pressure of having your entire life figured out by 23, we get real about the things we wish we’d known. Super personal, reflective and, as always, a bit ridiculous. Whether you’re currently young and need a cheat code or just wanna yell "SAME" for an hour, this one’s for you!  Spoiler ladies: guys don’t care how long your eyelashes are! Say It Anyway — because hindsight has jokes! FOLLOW ON IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 11m

  5. 07/18/2025

    Episode 8 | Manno-lusions & Jay-jà Vu

    In episode 7, Ryan and Jay took us down memory lane with first concerts, throwback movies and Ryan’s suspiciously intense (adult) obsession with WWE. This week? They put on their tinfoil hats and go wayyyy off the grid. Jay brings the conspiracy theories and Ryan, of course, has thoughts. The two take hilarious detours through fake moon landings, Disney on ice (Walt; not the touring show) and advice for foolish Flat Earthers. Then, it’s quiz time! Jay puts Ryan to the test with a round of Mandela Effect trivia! Let’s just say: his confidence is high ...  but his memory? Gotta to listen to find out! It’s part comedy, part chaos and all Say It Anyway. Trust no one — except maybe your co-hosts. Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    53 min

  6. 07/11/2025

    Episode 7 | Boy Bands & Bodyslams

    Last week, we jumped in the wayback machine to the 90s — waxing poetic on everything from paychecks to pagers! This week, we're divin' headfirst into the glittery, sweaty world of first concerts, favorite movies and the sports teams we were born to love! From boy band mania to Blockbuster nights (be kind, rewind), it’s a full nostalgia trip… with a twist! Ryan really gets into his full-grown devotion to WWE (yes, still), and (spoiler) Jay couldn't CARE LESS. So naturally, she phones a friend — enter Kelly, who may or may not be forced into fandom by marriage, yet gladly enters the ring to weigh in! It’s pop culture, punchlines and plenty of tangents— so press play, throw up your foam finger and join the chaos! Don’t forget to like, rate, follow, share and comment - we LOVE your feedback! Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 6m

  7. 07/04/2025

    Episode 6 | You've Got MALE

    In episode 5, we (mainly Jay) talked thru a day in our modern, adult lives. But what about the simpler times? When the ice cream man reigned supreme and a dollar from the tooth fairy felt f'n huuuge! This week, let's take a nostalgic stroll down memory lane — from first jobs that barely covered gas money ... to dial-up internet and actually calling someone’s house to talk!? Even though answering the landline would kick your family off AOL. Tough choice, man. Special cameos from Ryan’s brother Kevin AND sister-in-law Ali Fedotowsky! They go in on the going rate for a lost tooth in '25. Spoiler: not spare change! From fax machines to FaceTime, it’s a hilarious ride through how much times and tech have changed — even though we haven't. Or have we? Don’t forget to like, rate, follow, subscribe, share and comment. It takes 20 seconds. Don't act like you're too busy. Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 1m

  8. 06/27/2025

    Episode 5 | Days of our Lives

    In episode 4, we ran back our respective road trips to the City of Angels while also keeping track of Jay's far fewer F-bombs. Plus, a golden gardening guide from Ryan on the sex lives of squash. Hope ya loved it! In this one, we share a day in the life of US; Ryan's early morning radio routine and Jay's fancy coffee kick before the chaos of motherhood starts at sunrise! Also, one of us self-diagnoses a concerning condition. Can it be cured? Of course, keepin' true to the vibe, the pivots are plentiful! AND we even tackle a tough topic from a loyal listener to open the episode. If you're a first timer, welcome to the show! You're (clearly) making good choices. Keep doin' that, yeah? Don’t forget to do the stuff: like, rate, follow, share and comment - we LOVE your feedback!  Have a question or topic you'd like us to tackle? DM on socials (below) or leave it in the comments on whatever platform you love to listen!  Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    54 min

  9. 06/20/2025

    Episode 4 | Destination LOST Angeles

    Last week, we way overshared about our families and some major childhood missteps. Plus, as promised, Jay shared Luca's stellar story of crushin' cancer! We hope you laughed a lot, only cried a little and, ultimately, left lit up!  In this episode, we spill the stories of our individual journeys to LA; namely, the breakups that fueled our hearts (and gas tanks) ... motivating us to just go west.  By now, you know the deal: sidebars galore, but always bringin' it back to where every story starts and ends -- laughter and love. If you're a first time rider, welcome! We're hella happy to have you and hope ya stay for the duration of the endless roadtrip that is our pod.  If you have a second (and a conscience, you monster) -- like, rate, follow, share and comment! We LOVE your feedback! Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    52 min

  10. 06/13/2025

    Episode 3 | Laugh Lines & Family Ties

    In episode 2, you got to know a bit about our relationships, dating, marriage and divorce. We went a bit hard, but hope you loved it! In this episode, we laugh a LOT! Like big belly laughs with tears and all. We get into family and how different our childhoods were. Then, we finally get to hear Luca's story - a heartfelt one of hard times with hopeful endings. We hope you enjoy this one and find us as funny as we do! (Ryan's really sorry to the truck guy) More importantly, we hope this epsiode leaves you feeling hopeful -- knowing we're with you and here solely to bring you joy. Don’t forget to like, rate, follow, share and comment - we LOVE your feedback! Unless it's s****y, then don't say anything. Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 24m

  11. 06/06/2025

    Episode 2 | REALationships

    In episode 1, you got to know Ryan and Jay - how we met, why we decided to do this and a little of our respective histories. In this episode, we’ll take you through the journey of our relationships; past and present. We talk about all things from love and dating dealbreakers to marriage and divorce. Of course, we share some stories that are packed with laughs, heart and our natural ability to overshare.  We hope you enjoy this now that the intros are over and we’re fully in it!   Don’t forget to like, follow, share, comment - we LOVE your feedback! Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    1h 15m

  12. 05/29/2025

    Episode 1 | WTF Are We Doin'?!

    She’s a former stand-up comic turned sourdough mom. He’s a longtime radio host with a soft spot for rescue dogs and questionable choices. They met during a life-changing interview about her son’s battle with cancer - now they’re sharing everything: the chaos, the laughter, the parenting fails, the single-life stories and the real stuff no one talks about. Because the best stories are the ones we almost don’t tell ... let's just SAY IT ANYWAY! This is episode 1. And don't worry ... if you hate it, episode 2 is way better. Follow on IG: @jokesbyjay @ryanmanno

    53 min
  • 12 Episodes

4.8
out of 5
17 Ratings

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Join Ryan Manno — a single dog dad and LA radio personality — and Jay — a married mother of two, entrepreneur and queen of sourdough — with a side of sarcasm and a whole lot of heart! Both in their 40s, they bring real-life stories, hilarious sidebars and unapologetic viewpoints to every episode. This isn’t your typical “agree-to-disagree” show; it’s a wild ride through life’s ups, downs and WTF moments. From the male and female perspectives, Ryan and Jay dive into everything from relationships and family to unexpected detours, always circling back to what matters most: making you laugh and leaving you a little bit lighter by the end of each episode. It’s real talk, real humor and real connection — because life’s too short to NOT say it anyway.

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