The Midlife GlowGetter

Jax Stys

You didn't come this far to play small. The Midlife GlowGetter with Jax is the podcast for women over 40 who are done waiting and ready to become. Every Monday, we go deep — real conversations about mindset, wellness, money, style, relationships, and purpose. Every Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday I share GlowGetter Daily Pep Talks  a short, straight-to-the-point pep talk to keep you moving throughout the day. Friday is GlowGetter Book Reviews where I review a book I recently read with key insights and my personal opinion. I'm Jax — certified coach, finance professional, Realtor, single mom of 27 years, recent empty nester and living proof that your best season isn't behind you. In the last four years I lost over 190 pounds naturally, paid off $35K in debt, rebuilt my mental health after depression and anxiety, and redesigned my life from the inside out. This isn't about perfection. It's about progress — one percent better, every single day. New episodes every Monday through Friday. Start wherever you are. Your next chapter is already waiting. Love, Jax PS: Everything I share on The Midlife GlowGetter is for information and inspiration only. I’m not your doctor, therapist, lawyer, or financial advisor. I’m a certified life & wellness coach sharing and a midlife woman growing everyday and this is what’s helped me.  Listening to this podcast doesn’t create a coaching relationship, business relationship, or any guarantees of results. You’re the one doing the work—and you’re absolutely capable. Just remember: your journey is your own, and you deserve support that fits your unique life, body, and circumstances. So take what serves you, leave what doesn’t, and glow forward, gorgeous—this is your time. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys 🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com

  1. 3d ago

    GlowGetter Daily - The Berry Habit For Midlife Health

    Send Jax a text! One small food can do a lot of heavy lifting after 40, and it’s probably already in your freezer. We make the case for berries as a daily non-negotiable for midlife women, not as a trend, but as a practical habit with real science behind it. If you’ve been trying to support energy, mood, skin, and long-term health without overhauling your whole diet, this is the simplest place to start. We walk through why berries matter at a cellular level, including oxidative stress and how antioxidants help protect your body over time. You’ll hear why anthocyanins, the compounds that give blueberries, raspberries, and blackberries their rich color, are linked to benefits that span brain health and cognitive function, inflammation support, cardiovascular health, and improved insulin sensitivity. We also connect the dots to the gut microbiome, because feeding beneficial bacteria can ripple out to digestion, immunity, mood, and even how your skin looks and feels. Then we bring it down to real life: fresh vs frozen berries, why frozen is still nutrient-dense and often more affordable, and easy ways to eat them without thinking twice. To round it out, we share three affirmations to repeat when you need steadiness: slowing down is not laziness, mistakes can be transformative teachers, and goals should feel exciting enough to make sacrifice worthwhile. If this gave you a nudge to take better care of yourself in a doable way, subscribe, share this with a friend who’s in her midlife glow-up, and leave a quick review so more women can find us. What’s your favorite way to eat berries each day? 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    6 min
  2. 4d ago

    GlowGetter Daily - Trust The Nudge

    Send Jax a text! That pull you keep feeling toward an idea, a conversation, or a new direction isn’t you being “dramatic” or “restless.” It might be information. When the mind jumps in with “too risky, too late, too much” or “who do you think you are,” it can sound like wisdom, but it often acts like a barricade. I’m digging into the quieter voice underneath the noise and why it keeps whispering the same message, even when you try to push it down.  We unpack the real job of the subconscious mind: collecting data from your whole life, tracking what lights you up, what drains you, what feels right, and what never quite fits. Those inner nudges are often the output of that constant processing, a form of intuition that your conscious mind hasn’t fully caught up to yet. If you’re navigating midlife transitions, personal growth, a career shift, or stronger boundaries in relationships, this short pep talk helps you trust your gut without “leaping off a cliff” with zero plan.  You’ll leave with one simple prompt to create clarity today plus three affirmations you can repeat to support your midlife journey, your evolving purpose, and healthier relationship boundaries. If this resonates, subscribe to the podcast, share it with a friend who needs a boost, and leave a quick review so more women can find the Midlife Glowgetter message. What’s the one nudge you’re finally ready to honor? 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    6 min
  3. 5d ago

    GlowGetter Daily - Your Cleanser Should Feel Like a Hug, Not a Punishment

    Send Jax a text! If your face feels tight or “squeaky clean” after you wash it, I want you to rethink what you’ve been taught. That feeling is often stripped skin, and for women in midlife it can be the fastest way to end up drier, more sensitive, and oddly oilier at the same time. I break down why harsh, foaming cleansers can work against mature skin, especially as we naturally produce less oil and need more barrier support. We talk about what’s really happening with your moisture barrier, your microbiome, and your skin’s pH, and why an overly stripping cleanser can leave you vulnerable and reactive. Then I share what to swap in: gentle hydrating cleansers that remove makeup, sunscreen, and the day’s buildup without stealing your comfort. Cream cleansers, melt or balm cleansers, and gentle gel cleansers become your go-to tools for a softer, calmer glow. We also get practical about double cleansing, a two-step method that helps you get genuinely clean without compromising your skin. The first pass dissolves SPF and makeup with an oil-based cleanser or micellar water, and the second pass uses a gentle water-based cleanser to finish the job. To close, I share three affirmations you can repeat to support your midlife journey, from nourishment to self-respect to financial freedom. If this helped, subscribe, share with a friend who still chases “squeaky clean,” and leave a review so more women can find the reset. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    5 min
  4. 6d ago

    Ten Practical Ways To Make New Friends After 40

    Send Jax a text! Your social life can shrink in midlife without any big fallout, just from life getting full. That quiet narrowing can feel uncomfortable to admit, especially when you’re capable, loving, and doing a lot for everyone else. I’m Jax, and I’m naming it out loud: loneliness after 40 is common, and deep female friendship is not a luxury. It’s part of wellness, tied to stress, mental health, and the kind of support that makes hard seasons lighter. I walk through 10 real, specific ways to make new friends after 40 that I’ve used in my own life. We talk about turning coworkers into actual friends by moving beyond transactional small talk, and why the best connection often happens after the meeting when you stay a little longer. I share how intentional group chats create consistent community without complicated planning, and why local women’s groups only work when you stop lurking and start showing up in person. We also get practical about what builds lasting midlife friendships: repeated contact through recurring classes and activities, volunteering for a cause you care about, and connecting through faith or spiritual communities if that fits your values. Then we land on the mindset that ties it all together: be the friend you want to have and go first, even when you fear rejection. If you’re ready to make one brave move this week, press play, then subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so more women can find this community. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    24 min
  5. Jun 12

    GlowGetter Book Review - Let Them

    Send Jax a text! You can be the most loving, responsible person in the room and still feel exhausted, anxious, and stretched thin. A big reason is simple: we spend an unbelievable amount of energy trying to control other people. Their moods. Their choices. Their opinions. Their texts. Their silence. And it never works. Friday’s Glowgetter Book Series starts with a book that genuinely stopped me in my tracks: Mel Robbins’ The Let Them Theory. I walk you through the three ideas I’m still thinking about days later, starting with the uncomfortable truth that so much of our stress comes from chasing control we never had. From there, we get into the part people miss: “let them” is only half the theory. The real power lives in “let me” choosing how I respond, how I protect my energy, and who I decide to be even when someone else is doing the most. We also talk about a practical tool Mel calls a “radical energy audit,” where you track how often you replay conversations, worry what someone thinks, or wish they’d act differently. It’s a simple stress management exercise that can change how you show up in your relationships, your work, and your midlife mindset, especially if you’ve been carrying other people’s drama on your back. If you’re ready for healthier boundaries, less anxiety, and more space for your goals and joy, hit play. Then subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find the Glowgetter Book Series. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    10 min
  6. Jun 11

    GlowGetter Daily - A Money Mindset Reset For Midlife Women

    Send Jax a text! Money stress doesn’t always come from a lack of dollars. Sometimes it comes from a lack of direction. Today’s Glowgetter Daily is a short, focused money mindset pep talk for midlife women who are tired of earning, spending, upgrading, and still feeling like “enough” is always one step away. We start with the question that changes everything: what is money actually for in your life? When you can’t answer that, it’s easy to chase “more” forever and call it a plan. We talk about why lifestyle inflation keeps the goalpost moving, and why money works best when you treat it like a tool with a clear job, not a scorecard you use to measure your worth. Before we talk numbers, we define “enough” as a life. What would your days look like? What freedom would you have? What would you stop worrying about? Once you name that vision, every spending choice gets a simple test: does this move me closer to or further from the life I’m trying to fund? We close with three repeatable affirmations to anchor consistency, self-kindness, and the confidence to ask to be paid what you’re worth. If you’re ready for more clarity, calmer decisions, and real financial freedom, press play, share this with a friend who needs it, and subscribe. After you listen, leave a review and tell me: what does “enough” look like for you? 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop  🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    6 min
  7. Jun 10

    GlowGetter Daily - Midlife Awakening

    Send Jax a text! “Midlife crisis” is one of those phrases that sounds harmless until you notice what it does to women. It turns your restlessness into a malfunction, your questions into a joke, and your desire for more meaning into something you’re supposed to fix fast. Today, we’re flipping that script and calling it what it often is: a midlife awakening. We talk about what’s really happening when you hit midlife and start questioning everything. The hustle and noise of early adulthood finally quiet down enough for you to hear your own voice again, maybe after years of putting it on mute. That can feel disorienting, like standing at a crossroads with no GPS, but it isn’t proof you’re broken. It’s a sign your awareness is expanding and you’re becoming more yourself. We also dig into why so many people do their most meaningful work later in life, not because they “figure it all out,” but because they stop caring about the wrong things and get clear. To make it practical, we close with three affirmations you can put on repeat when the doubts creep in: trusting your timing, giving yourself permission to enjoy what you’ve built, and remembering that every challenge has expanded what you’re capable of. If you’re navigating a midlife transition, personal growth, or a confidence reset, this short pep talk is your reminder that the glow up can start right here. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs the reframe, and leave a review if it lands for you. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up  Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys Amazon Shop  LTK Shop 🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com Support the show

    5 min
  8. Jun 9

    GlowGetter Daily - Ten Minutes Of Morning Stretching

    Send Jax a text! Ten minutes. No equipment. No workout clothes. Just you, your breath, and a quiet reset before the world starts pulling on you. We walk through a simple morning stretching ritual that can completely change how you feel in your body each day, especially if you wake up stiff and assume it is “just midlife.” We get specific about what those 10 minutes actually do: they calm your nervous system so you start the day with intention instead of reaction, they bring blood flow and oxygen into muscles that have been still all night, and they release tension that builds up in the hips, back, and shoulders. We also talk about why connective tissue like fascia, tendons, and ligaments can feel less pliable as we age, and why that stiffness is not proof your body is declining. It is often your body asking you to show up with small, steady movement. You also get an easy, no-fuss menu of stretches you can do without overthinking it: hip circles, a gentle spinal twist, a forward fold to invite the hamstrings to open, and a chest stretch to undo the forward curve many of us develop from screens and desks. We wrap with three repeatable affirmations for midlife energy, guilt-free rest, financial security, and focused growth. Try the before-your-phone stretch challenge tomorrow, then subscribe, share this with a friend who wakes up achy, and leave a quick review so more women can find this daily support. FOLLOW JAX ON SOCIALS! IG: @JaxStys TikTok: @JaxStys Facebook: @JaxStys Threads: @JaxStys Pinterest: @JaxStys Website: www.JaxStys.com Support the show

    6 min

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About

You didn't come this far to play small. The Midlife GlowGetter with Jax is the podcast for women over 40 who are done waiting and ready to become. Every Monday, we go deep — real conversations about mindset, wellness, money, style, relationships, and purpose. Every Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday I share GlowGetter Daily Pep Talks  a short, straight-to-the-point pep talk to keep you moving throughout the day. Friday is GlowGetter Book Reviews where I review a book I recently read with key insights and my personal opinion. I'm Jax — certified coach, finance professional, Realtor, single mom of 27 years, recent empty nester and living proof that your best season isn't behind you. In the last four years I lost over 190 pounds naturally, paid off $35K in debt, rebuilt my mental health after depression and anxiety, and redesigned my life from the inside out. This isn't about perfection. It's about progress — one percent better, every single day. New episodes every Monday through Friday. Start wherever you are. Your next chapter is already waiting. Love, Jax PS: Everything I share on The Midlife GlowGetter is for information and inspiration only. I’m not your doctor, therapist, lawyer, or financial advisor. I’m a certified life & wellness coach sharing and a midlife woman growing everyday and this is what’s helped me.  Listening to this podcast doesn’t create a coaching relationship, business relationship, or any guarantees of results. You’re the one doing the work—and you’re absolutely capable. Just remember: your journey is your own, and you deserve support that fits your unique life, body, and circumstances. So take what serves you, leave what doesn’t, and glow forward, gorgeous—this is your time. 🌸 FIND JAX ONLINE! Website: www.JaxStys.com Free Newsletter Sign-Up Socials - IG, TikTok, Facebook, Threads, Pinterest: @JaxStys 🌸🌸🌸 Leave a REVIEW and Send my a Screen Shot - I will email you my 10 Must Have Guides + The Woo Woo & Not So Woo Woo Glow Up Guide for Women Over 40 FOR FREE! 🌸🌸🌸 hello@jaxstys.com

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