The Complexity of Toilet Paper

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This is a podcast about the search for simplicity and making life less complicated. A show that dives into both the everyday moments, as well as life's big stuff where we overthink, hesitate, or just get stuck. Through honest conversations, unexpected insights, and a whole lot of potty humor, puns, and hearty laughs - we are here to help you ROLL with it and make life a little less complicated, one conversation at a time. So, come join us in the Stall! Toilet Papewr not provided...yet!  Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment, growth, and informational purposes only. Any opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the views of any organizations we may be affiliated with. We’re not your therapists, lawyers, doctors, or plumbers, just a few folks talking it out with a roll of humor and a splash of real life. Please don’t make any major life decisions while on the toilet… or at least, don’t blame us if you do.  Show Credits: Show open music by RYYZNRoll Up music by AberrantRealitiesStall Bridge music by penguinmusic

  1. From Perfectionism To Play: Get Out of Your Own Way

    4D AGO

    From Perfectionism To Play: Get Out of Your Own Way

    When pressure to be perfect kills your spark, how do you get momentum back? We sit down with creativity catalyst and author Melissa Dinwiddie to explore a simpler, braver path: process over product, micro experiments over massive bets, and empathy over information dumps. Melissa opens up about the decade she spent creatively stuck while making a living as an artist—proof that tying every act to revenue can strangle the joy that started it all. Her breakthrough came from embracing intentional imperfectionism and a playful rigor summed up in her delightfully direct mantra: play hard, make crap, learn fast. We unpack a deceptively powerful idea: complex is not complicated. Complicated problems behave like recipes—optimize, control, and you get consistent outputs. Complex challenges are jazz—improvise, listen, and let something emergent take shape. That single shift explains why overcomplication is a fear response to ambiguity and why leaders need learning loops more than ironclad plans. Melissa shows how she builds psychological safety without the cringey “let’s play” framing, guiding teams through small, high-impact drills. The standout: her Time Traveler exercise, where you must explain a smartphone to someone from 1526 without getting condemned as a witch. It’s impossible by design, forcing empathy, analogy, and clarity—skills that turn buried insights into decisions people act on. Along the way we talk creative identity (“I’m not creative” is a common myth), outcome obsession, and the comparison trap. We trade stories about letting go of applause and finding peace in the work itself. Melissa shares her Golden Formula—self-awareness plus self-compassion equals the key to everything good—and how returning to process actually improves performance. We also preview her new book, Innovation at Work: 52 micro experiments leaders can run in minutes to spark ideas, unstick teams, and build what’s next without sidelining day-to-day work. If you’re ready to lead through uncertainty with curiosity and courage, this conversation is your roadmap. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs permission to make a small bet today, and leave a review with the one guidepost you’re claiming this week. Melissa's new book, Innovation at Work, is a practical field guide for leaders, teams, and changemakers who are told to “innovate faster” without being given tools that work under real constraints. Instead of big frameworks or performative brainstorming, the book offers 52 micro-experiments—small, low-risk actions that help people: Break perfectionism and fear loopsLearn faster from real conditionsMove forward even when certainty is impossibleThis is not a book about creativity as self-expression. It’s about creativity as a survival skill in complex systems. Learn more and download a free preview at https://melissadinwiddie.com/publications/. The official release date is March 10, 2026.

    1h 4m
  2. The Complexity of Comedy: Laughs, Pivots, & Vulnerability

    FEB 10

    The Complexity of Comedy: Laughs, Pivots, & Vulnerability

    Ever wondered why one person’s poker face can haunt a killer set? We bring in comedian Danny Johnson to peel back the curtain on how laughter actually gets made: the micro‑decisions, the ruthless editing, and the risk of trying untested lines in front of strangers who haven’t decided to like you yet. Danny calls his style clean with an edge—personal, observational, and sharp enough to surprise without leaning on politics or shock value—and he shows exactly how that works in real rooms. We explore the mechanics that casual fans never see: why opening with a grandmother bit warms up a 50‑plus crowd, how cadence and a single mispronounced syllable can reset attention, and when to abandon the low‑hanging punchline for a smarter angle. Danny shares honest stories of bombing in corporate ballrooms with open bars, the art of not fixating on the one frown in a sea of smiles, and the discipline it takes to keep writing when your first special bottled 15 years and the next one must deliver in 15 months. He also dives into the business reality most comics face now: followers first, talent second; why hubs like Nashville and Atlanta matter; and how to treat social metrics as doors, not definitions. Threaded through it all is a set of practical mindsets that travel beyond comedy. Assume positive intent and watch conflict soften. Focus on authenticity over trend‑hopping and your material will travel further than any regional reference. Collect ideas where your brain loosens—walking, showering, even in the bathroom—and capture them before sleep steals them. And remember: resilience is the real craft. You’ll leave with a new respect for what it takes to read a room, prove you’re funny to people who don’t know your name, and come back stronger when a set falls flat. If this conversation made you think, laugh, or breathe easier, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a spark, and leave a quick review to help more curious listeners find us. About Danny Danny Johnson’s hilarious, clean stand-up has entertained audiences in comedy clubs, corporate events, and churches nationwide for over 15 years. Danny's work as a stand-up comedian has been humbly compared to Jerry Seinfeld, Kevin James, and Jackie Gleason, blending his original material with his now renowned facial expressions. Danny’s show is relatable, entertaining, and always evolving. Danny has starred in numerous TV commercials, Comedy Central’s Laugh Riots, Florida’s Funniest Comedian Top 10 Finalist, Winner-Carnival Cruise line Comedy Challenge, Finalist in Search for the One Christian Comedy contest, has a wildly popular Dry Bar Comedy Special (now available on Apple TV, Amazon, & Peacock), and has had the pleasure of sharing the stage with Chris Rock, Damon Wayans, Bob Saget, Billy Gardell, Richard Lewis, Rickey Smiley, Norm McDonald, Howie Mandel,  and a variety of others. Danny had the privilege of filming NateLand Live at the famous Zanies Comedy Club in Nashville, TN.  NateLand Live is the brainchild of Nate Bargatze and features some of the best clean comedians touring today.  His latest comedy special, "Everything Bothers Me," has taken YouTube by storm with over 100k views in its first month and still climbing! Follow Danny Website, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, Facebook

    1h 10m
  3. Ai, Simplicity, And The Human Mess

    JAN 27

    Ai, Simplicity, And The Human Mess

    What if the tools that promise a simpler life end up making everything louder? We pull up a seat and tackle AI with honesty, humor, and a clear-eyed look at what gets better—and what we risk losing—when speed becomes the default. Phyllis opens up about her early, visceral reaction to AI’s “non-humanness,” naming the worry so many feel: dependence, the erosion of struggle, and a creeping numbness that comes when machines make the hard parts too easy. Mark leans into pragmatic optimism, showing where AI earns its keep: compressing research, shaping first drafts for unfamiliar audiences, and creating structure when time is tight. Al draws a firm line in his creative life—turning down voice gigs that train synthetic voices—while still using AI to synthesize information, prototyping ideas faster, and crafting meaningful keepsakes for friends. We don’t debate abstractions; we show the trade-offs inside real workflows. You’ll hear how better prompts act like a sharp chisel for thinking, why boundaries protect your voice and values, and where automation should never replace judgment. We unpack the emotional weight of “faster,” from frayed attention to the skills that atrophy when we offload too much, and we challenge the myth that everything new is automatically better. Along the way, we keep it grounded and a little ridiculous—yes, including a rapid-fire “AI in the bathroom” segment that turns into a lesson in designing tech that protects dignity, privacy, and health. If you’ve been curious about using AI without losing yourself, this conversation gives you a map: start small, set time limits, pick leverage points, and decide what parts of your craft are off-limits. We leave you with a simple posture: use AI to serve your values, not define them. If it helps you free up energy for the work only you can do, keep it. If it dulls your edge, cut it. Enjoy the ride, then tell us: what’s one task you’ll never hand to a machine? Subscribe, share with a friend who loves a good debate, and leave a review to help more curious minds find the show.

    57 min
  4. More Human Than Human: The Complexity of Change

    JAN 13

    More Human Than Human: The Complexity of Change

    Change rarely fails because of ideas; it fails because people feel unready, unheard, or unconvinced. We dig into the human side of change with clear stories, sharp questions, and a little bathroom-stall humor, exploring why data doesn’t drive decisions until we ask it the right questions. From nonprofit boards clinging to old playbooks to leaders navigating risk, we unpack how fear, fatigue, and control shape whether change takes root or fizzles. We get candid about personal transitions too: shifting roles at home, health updates that force new habits, and the uneasy gap between who we’ve been and who we’re becoming. The most grounding insight in the conversation is simple and powerful—your value as a human doesn’t change, even when your world does. With that constant as a horizon, we talk about choosing a North Star, designing small experiments, and turning anxiety into agency. Communication sits at the center: naming what will change, what will not, why it matters now, and how people can influence the outcome. That’s how “disagree and commit” becomes a principled choice rather than a silencing tool. Expect practical takeaways you can use today: reframing data questions to drive decisions, mapping readiness honestly, leading with context, and building buy-in without buzzwords. Along the way, we share a few hard-won lessons on humility, identity, and the mirror we all need to carry. If you’ve been stuck between “if it ain’t broke” and “we can’t wait,” this conversation will help you move. Subscribe, share with a friend who’s facing change, and leave a quick review to tell us your constant when everything shifts.

    57 min
  5. Year-End Aha Moments

    12/30/2025

    Year-End Aha Moments

    Our season finale pulls back the curtain on a year of recording together—late nights, missed takes, hard pivots—and reveals the simple truths we kept meeting in the stall: action breaks overthinking, grace sustains momentum, and authenticity beats polish every time. Along the way, our guests gave us golden nuggets of wisdom and our shared insights brought joy, laughter, harmony, and huge Aha's: • why authenticity beats polish • how action interrupts overthinking • managing fear so it doesn’t steal joy • energy transfer as a lens on rumination • trusting the conversation over the script • what we learned from each other’s growth • gratitude to listeners for time and presence • season two plans and new guest directions We swap a rigid show format for a living conversation and watch the dialogue deepen. Listeners tell us they walk, commute, and unwind with the pod, and their presence sharpens our purpose. We spotlight the insights that stuck and get personal about growth: learning to show up as ourselves instead of “performers,” trusting each other’s timing, and treating consistency like a marathon, not a sprint. Looking ahead, we’re doubling down on clarity and warmth. Expect conversations that make life’s sticky moments simpler to act on: how fear hides in smart habits, how to stop the energy bleed of analysis, and how community makes courage contagious. We’ll bring on voices across entrepreneurship, creativity, and everyday decision-making, while keeping the humor and heart you’ve come to expect. If this year’s aha moments sparked something for you, share the show with a friend, subscribe, and leave a review. Your presence keeps the conversation honest—and helps more people roll with it.

    1 hr
  6. The Farce And Farts Of Festive Perfection

    12/16/2025

    The Farce And Farts Of Festive Perfection

    Holiday magic gets real when we stop pretending it’s perfect. We open the stall door on festive stress—expectations, retail pressure, and those glossy social scenes—and swap them for quieter, kinder choices that actually feel good. With Phyllis, Mark, and Al at the mic, you’ll hear sharp insights, laugh-out-loud stories (including a grandmother with a right hook and an infamous acorn squash), and a blueprint for traditions that hold up when life doesn’t. We break down why the season boils over: performance pressure, commercial scripts, and the myth that one dinner heals old family rifts. Then we rebuild from the inside out. Think recycled gifts with stories attached. Donations in someone’s honor. A low-key meal that’s simply everyone’s favorite food on one table. Fewer obligations, more presence. And yes, a frank takedown of New Year’s resolutions in favor of small, durable habits you can start today. At the heart is gratitude—internal for resilience and growth, external for the people who stood beside us. We keep the humor close, because pressure pops faster when you laugh. If you’re tired of chasing picture-perfect holidays and ready for connection that fits your real life, this conversation meets you where you are and leaves you lighter. Hit play, share it with someone who needs a simpler season, and tell us the tradition you’re keeping or ditching this year. If this resonated, subscribe, leave a review, and help more listeners find a calmer, happier holiday.

    59 min
  7. The Complexity of The Pivot: Strategy & Survival in the Start-Up World

    12/02/2025

    The Complexity of The Pivot: Strategy & Survival in the Start-Up World

    A single email from the U.S. Navy changed everything. That’s where our conversation with founder Ron Ben Zev begins—at the exact moment a failing product became a viable company because he stopped pitching what he had and started solving what someone needed. Ron walks us through the unvarnished reality of the pivot: not a buzzword, but a survival move that separates stubbornness from strategy. We trace Ron’s route from early hustle in Europe to losing almost everything in the real estate crash, then rebuilding with World Housing Solutions by designing rapidly deployable, thermally efficient shelters. You’ll hear how he learned to outsource manufacturing to gain flexibility, why “when you carry a hammer, everything looks like a nail” will bankrupt your focus, and how teams—not ideas—earn investor trust when markets shift. His framework blends gut checks with living plans, turning fear into a compass rather than a cage. The emotional side gets equal airtime. Ron explains why the most powerful sentence in a founder’s toolkit is “I need your help,” and how asking early unlocks guidance, pressure tests assumptions, and saves precious runway. We close by looking forward: applying automation, AI, and modular design to the U.S. affordable housing gap, and what it actually takes to make innovation stick beyond the headline. If you’ve ever wondered when to hold, when to shift, and how to do both without losing your mind or your mission, this story gives you a practical set of tools and the courage to use them. If the episode resonates, share it with a friend who’s weighing a big change, subscribe for more thoughtful conversations on complexity, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—we read every one. Show Notes: Most recently, Ron and World Housing Solutions was featured on Trade Talks, a show produced by NASDAQ that features conversations with top industry thought leaders on trends, news and education. Hosted by Jill Malandrino, Ron was a featured guest in August 2025 for the episode, “How Legislative Priorities, Regulatory Frameworks, and Strategies Are Driving U.S. Competitiveness.” (LINK:) https://www.nasdaq.com/videos/how-legislative-priorities-regulatory-frameworks-and-strategies-are-driving-us Keep in touch with Ron: Email: Ron@worldhousingsolution.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronsbenzeev/ Twitter: https://x.com/Rbenzeev Website: https://worldhousingsolution.com/

    1 hr
  8. The Anatomy of Trust: How Broken Promises, Clear Expectations, And Consistency Shape Who We Let In

    11/17/2025

    The Anatomy of Trust: How Broken Promises, Clear Expectations, And Consistency Shape Who We Let In

    What really breaks trust—the big betrayals or the tiny misses that stack up? We dig into the moments that quietly erode confidence, from “I’ll be there at two” to the email that never lands, and unpack why respect and trust are inseparable. A hard-earned story about an on-time ultimatum becomes a clear rule: time is respect, and consistency is the only path to repair. Along the way, we laugh at ourselves, own a public apology, and map the real difference between a rupture of trust and a simple failure of expectations. We also explore how trust transfers through people. When a close friend vouches for someone, their credibility becomes yours—and the risk does too. That’s why setting expectations early matters more than charm. Remote teams will recognize the thread: you can build deep trust at a distance with predictable delivery, transparent capacity, and a habit of defending each other’s reputations. From theater and improv, we borrow living proof that real-time collaboration only works when partners show up and keep small promises. The toughest pivot comes back to self-trust. People-pleasers often turn breaches into self-blame; a better move is to name the promise, clarify the standard, and let repair be measured by kept commitments over time. We offer a simple personal framework: write your values, define non-negotiables, decide your response to breaches, and practice the small behaviors that make big trust possible. If you’ve ever wondered whether to trust first or make it earned, you’ll leave with language, stories, and tools to choose wisely—and to fix what’s worth keeping. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a nudge toward clarity, and leave a quick review with your biggest takeaway. Your words help others find conversations they can trust.

    54 min
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This is a podcast about the search for simplicity and making life less complicated. A show that dives into both the everyday moments, as well as life's big stuff where we overthink, hesitate, or just get stuck. Through honest conversations, unexpected insights, and a whole lot of potty humor, puns, and hearty laughs - we are here to help you ROLL with it and make life a little less complicated, one conversation at a time. So, come join us in the Stall! Toilet Papewr not provided...yet!  Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment, growth, and informational purposes only. Any opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the views of any organizations we may be affiliated with. We’re not your therapists, lawyers, doctors, or plumbers, just a few folks talking it out with a roll of humor and a splash of real life. Please don’t make any major life decisions while on the toilet… or at least, don’t blame us if you do.  Show Credits: Show open music by RYYZNRoll Up music by AberrantRealitiesStall Bridge music by penguinmusic

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  • Creator
    Complexity
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
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