Her Turn

Dani Hanlon
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Her Turn is the podcast for women navigating life after divorce, who know there's more to this chapter than simply healing, rebuilding and getting through. Hosted by life coach and mentor, Dani Hanlon, each episode explores the conversations that too often get overlooked after divorce: identity, confidence and mindset, recognising what fits in your life now – and what doesn’t, saying ‘yes’ to all the right things, and intentionally creating a future that feels exciting to wake up to. If your divorce is behind you, life is finally feeling stable again, and you've caught yourself wondering, ‘What do I want more of now?’ – you’re absolutely in the right place. Because moving on isn’t where your journey ends. It's where everything starts to get interesting again. New episodes each week. Connect with Dani Follow Dani on Instagram @coached.by.dani here: Explore more of Dani’s work here

  1. Oct 27

    How to stop getting in your own way - and finally get what you want

    You know what you want. You might even know what you need to do to get there.   So why do you keep finding yourself in the same place?   In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the habits, beliefs and patterns of behaviour that can keep you stuck, even when you're ambitious, capable and ready for more.   From procrastination and perfectionism to overthinking, people-pleasing and staying loyal to an outdated version of yourself, this conversation looks at the ways self-sabotage can show up in everyday life - often disguised as what feels as perfectly reasonable behaviour.   Because sometimes, the things you pride yourself on are also the things holding you back.   You'll learn how to recognise the patterns that might be getting in your way, understand what's driving them, and make different choices so you can start creating the results you actually want.    Plus, Dani shares five practical steps to help you move from awareness into action, build self-trust and stop waiting for the perfect time to make a change.   If you're ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start moving towards the life you've been saying you want, this episode is for you.   Ready to make your next chapter your best one yet? Work with Dani: If you're ready to challenge the patterns that have been keeping you stuck and take real action towards the things you want, applications are open for Dani's 12-week 1:1 coaching programme.    Work together to unpack the stories you've been telling yourself, develop new ways of thinking and behaviours that move you forward and help start creating the results you want in 2027.   Explore 1:1 coaching, join the waitlist or find out more here   Explore Dani's free resources to help you get started on your next chapter or download the Cord Cutting Meditation, designed to release the ties to people, places and experiences from your past and make space for what comes next here   Connect with Dani" Have a question about the episode or want to share what resonated with you? Find Dani on Instagram at @coached.by.dani and send her a DM.   If this episode spoke to you, share it with a woman who needs the reminder that she doesn't have to keep doing things the way she's always done them. And follow Her Turn for more conversations about mindset, personal growth and creating your next chapter.   Keywords: how to stop getting in your own way, self-sabotage, how to stop self-sabotaging, how to get what you want in life, overcoming limiting beliefs, personal development for women, divorce, marriage ending, starting over, mindset coaching, self-trust, building self-confidence, overcoming procrastination, perfectionism and overthinking, people-pleasing, changing negative thought patterns, personal growth and transformation, how to change your habits, creating lasting change, how to stop holding yourself back, women's life coaching, 1:1 life coaching, creating your next chapter, Her Turn podcast, Dani Hanlon

  2. Oct 18

    The plot twists nobody warned me about after divorce

    Life after divorce can look very different from how we first imagine it and some of the biggest surprises usually aren't the typical ones - they're the things you discover about yourself, your independence and what you actually want from life once you have the time and breathing space to plan what's next for your future.    Almost ten years after her marriage ended, Dani shares some of the unexpected plot twists that changed how she thinks about relationships and creating a life on her own terms, the realities of life after divorce, the unexpected freedoms that come with being on your own, and what happens when you start making decisions based on what you want.   Work with Dani Explore working with Dani, discover her free resources or get instant access to the guided Cord Cutting Meditation designed to help release the ties to people, places and experiences from your past and make space for what's coming next. Work with Dani by joining the waitlist here Explore free resources and Dani’s Cord Cutting Meditation here Connect with Dani on Instagram at@coached.by.dani .   If you loved this episode, share it with a woman who might need to hear it too, give Her Turn a rating and follow for more conversations about life after divorce, personal growth and creating your next chapter.   Keywords: life after divorce, things no one tells you about divorce, unexpected realities of divorce, life after marriage ends, rebuilding life after divorce, being single after divorce, divorce and personal growth, self-discovery after divorce, dating after divorce, independence after divorce, women’s life coaching, creating your next chapter, personal development for women, Her Turn podcast, Dani Hanlon

  3. Oct 11

    What if you don't need to know how it all works out?

    What if the thing holding you back from your next chapter isn't a lack of confidence, but the need to know exactly how it's all going to work out?   When you've spent years building a life, taking another chance on yourself can feel like a big ask. But what if you already have more evidence, experience and capability than you're giving yourself credit for?   This Her Turn conversation is about self-trust, navigating uncertainty and learning to move towards what you want without needing every answer first.   In the episode, Dani explores: Why the need for certainty might be keeping you playing safe. The difference between genuine warning signs and the discomfort of doing something unfamiliar. How your past experiences can help you navigate an uncertain future. A different way to think about taking risks, changing direction and trusting yourself. What it means to create a next chapter you're genuinely excited about.   Work with Dani Ready to stop settling for fine and start thinking about what you really want from your next chapter?   Explore coaching with Dani here   Find out more about Dani, free resources to get your started and how to connect on socials here   Follow Her Turn for more conversations about life after divorce, personal growth, mindset and creating a bigger, better next chapter.   Keywords: Life after divorce, rebuilding life after divorce, creating your next chapter after divorce, self-trust for women, overcoming fear of failure, dealing with uncertainty, confidence after divorce, personal growth for women over 40, life coaching for women, midlife reinvention, making life changes, investing in yourself, finding purpose after divorce, mindset coaching, women's empowerment, Her Turn podcast, Dani Hanlon.

  4. Oct 5

    How much of your life did you actually, consciously choose?

    What if some of the choices you've made throughout your life were never really choices at all?   Not because you made bad decisions or because there's anything wrong with the life you've built. But because you followed the next logical step without ever stopping to ask whether it was actually what you wanted.   Marriage. Career. Motherhood. Where you live. How you spend your money. What you prioritise. Even what you believe you're supposed to want at this stage of your life.   In this episode, Dani explores what happens when we stop living on autopilot and start looking at our lives through the lens of agency - the ability to consciously choose what stays, what changes and what comes next.   Dani shares her own reflections on the ‘linear life’ she followed when she was younger, what she understands differently now, and why getting older can give us something incredibly valuable: the perspective to question choices we once simply accepted.   We’ll talk about: The invisible life script many of us inherit without realising it Why a good life can still contain choices you never consciously made The difference between rejecting the conventional path and consciously choosing it How to recognise the subtle signs that you've started drifting The little words - should, ought to, at my age, people would think... - that can reveal inherited choices The question I think every woman should ask herself about the life she's living now   You don't need to blow up the life you've built and you don't need to decide everything you've ever done was wrong.   But you do get a say in what happens next.   Work with Dani  If you've rebuilt your life and you're ready to get really honest about what you want next, my 1:1 coaching is designed to help you work through the parts of your life that have question marks over them - and turn them into clearer decisions and intentional action.   Join my 1:1 waitlist here. Find out more about working with me, free resources and my downloadable meditations here.       Episode keywords: conscious life choices, consciously choosing your life, intentional living, designing your life, living by default, personal agency, changing your life after 40, life after 40, reinventing your life after 40, midlife reinvention, how to figure out what you really want in life, how to change your life in your 40s, changing your life when nothing is wrong, life coaching for women, life coach for women over 40, personal growth for women over 40, life after divorce, personal growth after divorce, inherited life script, creating your next chapter.

  5. Sep 27

    The reason you’re still waiting to change your life

    In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores why women can stay with people, in places and careers, routines and versions of their lives long after they know they want something different - particularly when life feels 'good'.   What if you didn’t have to be unhappy to want more and you didn’t need a crisis to make a change? And what if ‘I want something different’ is reason enough?   Drawing on her own experience of rebuilding after divorce and the choices she made once the crisis was firmly behind her, Dani looks at the difference between making a decision that is right for you and making one you can defend to everyone else.   You don’t have to prove your life is bad enough before you’re allowed to want something different. You don’t need a crisis, you don’t need everyone to agree, and you don’t need a perfectly defensible reason.   And once you trust yourself enough to take that desire seriously, you can start making decisions from a very different place.   Work with Dani Dani works 1:1 with women who have rebuilt after divorce, heartbreak and difficult life transitions - but know they’re nowhere near finished creating an amazing life.   Through private coaching and mentoring, the work is about getting honest about what you actually want, building deeper self-trust, making the decisions you’ve been circling around and turning those decisions into real action.   Work with Dani 1:1 here Explore Dani's story, her coaching, free resources and meditation downloads here   Search keywords: life after divorce, changing your life after 40, starting over after divorce, life coaching for women, life coach for women over 40,  midlife reinvention, rebuilding after divorce, personal growth after divorce, next chapter after divorce, reinventing yourself after 40, self-trust, making big life decisions, changing your life when nothing is wrong, creating your next chapter, intentional living, women's personal development, life transitions, midlife life coaching, finding yourself after divorce, creating a life you want.

  6. Sep 13

    Stop making your life make sense to everybody else

    In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores what happens when we stop needing our choices to be understood by everyone around us - and start backing ourselves to make them anyway.   It's a conversation about self-trust, people pleasing, the invisible ‘shoulds’ that shape women's lives, and the freedom that comes from no longer needing consensus before you make your move.   If you're a woman after divorce who knows your life is good but also knows there is more you're capable of experiencing, creating and enjoying, this episode is for you.   You don't need everyone to understand your next move. You need to be able to stand behind it.   Work with Dani If you're ready to deliberately create what's next after divorce, this is the work I do with women through private 1:1 coaching and mentorship.   Join the 1:1 waitlist here for places opening later in September 2026 and make 2027 the year you step into the life you want to live now.   Find out more about Dani's work here and come say hi on Instagram @Coached.By.Dani

  7. Sep 7

    Expanders: What are they, why you need one, and how to find them

    Have you ever looked at another woman and thought, 'If she can do that, maybe I can too'?   That's an expander.   In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the idea of expanders - people who expand your perception of what's possible simply by living it themselves. They don't necessarily teach you how to create the life you want; they give you evidence that it can be done.   For women who have rebuilt their lives after divorce and know they have more they want to experience, create and become, expanders can be incredibly powerful.   Sometimes you don't need more motivation or another strategy - you need to see what's possible for a woman like you.   Today’s conversation covers: What an expander actually is and why having them in your life matters. The difference between expansion and comparison - and how one very common emotion can surprisingly reveal something you may not have realised. Why your environment can influence the size of the life you believe is available to you. How to find your own expanders and get into the kind of rooms where you'll meet more people who expand your vision. Why your past relationship shouldn't become the evidence you use to decide what your future relationships can look like.   Finish the episode with a simple but transformational exercise to help you find more expanders in your own life, because chances are, they're closer than you think!   If you've rebuilt your life after divorce, you're doing well, and yet there's a part of you thinking there has to be more than this, this conversation is for you.   Because the goal isn't to find women who have a better life than yours. It's to find women who make your idea of what's possible, bigger.   Work with Dani If you've built a good life after divorce and you're ready to deliberately create what's next, this is the work I do with women through private 1:1 coaching and mentorship.   Make 2027 your best, most confident and exciting year yet, join the 1:1 waitlist here for places opening later in September 2026. Find out more about the work Dani does coaching and mentoring women after divorce here

  8. Aug 30

    No-one's coming to make your life more interesting

    What if one of the secrets to loving your life isn't waiting for something exciting to happen - but deliberately creating things to look forward to?   In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the role of anticipation and desire in creating a life you genuinely love after divorce and why waiting for the perfect circumstances - or the right person - to arrive is rarely ever the answer you might think it is.   For women who have rebuilt their lives after divorce and are ready to stop living on autopilot, this is a conversation about creating more experiences, adventure, pleasure and possibility in the life you've already built.   You'll also get a simple exercise to help you turn something you've been saying "one day" about into a first step you can actually take.   Work with Dani If you've built a good life after divorce and you're ready to deliberately create what's next, this is the work I do with women through private 1:1 coaching and mentorship.   Join the 1:1 waitlist here for places opening in September 2026. Find out more about Dani and the work she does here

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Her Turn is the podcast for women navigating life after divorce, who know there's more to this chapter than simply healing, rebuilding and getting through. Hosted by life coach and mentor, Dani Hanlon, each episode explores the conversations that too often get overlooked after divorce: identity, confidence and mindset, recognising what fits in your life now – and what doesn’t, saying ‘yes’ to all the right things, and intentionally creating a future that feels exciting to wake up to. If your divorce is behind you, life is finally feeling stable again, and you've caught yourself wondering, ‘What do I want more of now?’ – you’re absolutely in the right place. Because moving on isn’t where your journey ends. It's where everything starts to get interesting again. New episodes each week. Connect with Dani Follow Dani on Instagram @coached.by.dani here: Explore more of Dani’s work here

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  • Creator
    Dani Hanlon
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    Her Turn