RSVP Thanks

Lindsey Heatherington & Kameron Brown
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RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning. We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.New episodes drop every Wednesday. Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.

  1. 22H AGO

    #24: We Said What We Said: Wedding Hot Takes That Might Offend You

    In this episode, we’re sharing some of our biggest wedding hot takes from years of working in the wedding industry. Some of these might be controversial, but they’re all based on real experiences and things we see couples stress over during the planning process. We talk about the trends we love, traditions that might be worth rethinking, and a few wedding planning opinions that might ruffle some feathers. Whether you're newly engaged or deep in the planning process, this episode is a reminder that your wedding should reflect what matters most to you — not outdated expectations or internet opinions. In this episode we discuss: • The pros and cons of destination weddings  • Combined bachelor and bachelorette parties  • Requiring bridesmaids to pay for hair and makeup  • Skipping bridesmaids and simply getting ready together  • Why your wedding shouldn’t double as a family reunion  • Why B-lists can create unnecessary stress  • Whether champagne toasts are worth the cost  • Wedding party etiquette during the ceremony (including letting them sit!)  • Brides walking down the aisle alone vs. honoring family traditions  • Why a cash bar can negatively impact guest experience  • Why the groom should absolutely be part of the planning process  • The benefits of couples taking a private moment to eat during the reception  • Brides sharing and crediting their vendors on social media  • Why people outside the industry should stop telling couples what weddings “should” cost At the end of the day, wedding planning should feel exciting, intentional, and personal — not dictated by outdated rules or outside pressure. Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    54 min

  2. MAR 5

    #23: Wedding Officiant Secrets: Ceremony Tips & Stories with Custom Vows by Casey

    Wedding ceremonies may look simple, but there’s a lot that happens behind the scenes. In this episode, we’re joined by Casey from Custom Vows by Casey, a professional wedding officiant who has seen it all. From emotional aisle moments to chaotic ceremony mishaps, Casey shares real stories from weddings she’s officiated and gives couples insider advice on how to create a meaningful and smooth ceremony. We also talk about the biggest ceremony mistakes couples make, unique traditions couples are incorporating today, and what you should know before booking your officiant. If you're planning a wedding, this episode will help you understand how to make the most important part of your day feel personal, memorable, and stress-free. Instagram - Custom Vows by Casey Branch Flower shop 00:00 – Meet Casey, Wedding Officiant 01:15 – From Accounting to Weddings 02:30 – Moving to Charleston During COVID 03:40 – Importance of Wedding Ceremonies 04:40 – Starting Vendor Networking Events 05:50 – Launching Styled Shoot Showcases 07:10 – Managing Large Vendor Teams 08:20 – Why Vendor Networking Matters 09:30 – Referrals in Wedding Industry 10:45 – Social Media vs Networking 12:00 – Content Creators at Weddings 13:20 – Hiring Professional Officiants 15:00 – Wedding Ceremony Timing Tips 29:15 – Craziest Wedding Day Stories 30:40 – Charleston Heat & Outdoor Ceremonies 31:30 – Charleston Bugs & Wedding Challenges 32:10 – Ceremony Length Sweet Spot 33:10 – Guest Arrival Timing Mistakes 35:30 – Emotional Father Daughter Moments 37:40 – Unique Wedding Ceremony Traditions 39:10 – Ring Warming Ceremony Explained 40:50 – When to Book Officiant 42:10 – Most Weddings in One Day 43:45 – Charleston Marriage License Process  Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    54 min

  3. JAN 22

    #22: Why Wedding Planning Is Not for the Weak...

    Planning a wedding? This episode is a must listen. We kick things off talking about New Year’s intentions, vision boards, and long-term growth, then shift into the parts of wedding planning no one sees on Instagram. From plus-ones who turn into unexpected wedding participants, to family members who believe they own venues, dates, and entire wedding months, we break down the real-life situations planners and couples are constantly navigating behind the scenes. In this episode, we cover: Guest behavior that pushes boundaries (and tests everyone’s patience)Family dynamics that complicate timelines, layouts, and decisionsDress codes, accommodations, and expectations gone wrongAnd why some things should never be left to AIIf you’re newly engaged, curious about the wedding industry, or considering wedding planning as a career, this episode offers an honest look at what the job actually requires... beyond aesthetics and timelines. 00:00 - Do New Year’s resolutions actually work? 01:05 - Why vision boards feel less toxic 02:33 - Proof that manifestation actually works 03:38 - What we want for the podcast in 2026 04:28 - Being intentional with weddings & clients 05:13 - “Year of the Horse” energy explained 06:49 - Surprise second flower girl walks the aisle 08:36 - When a plus-one turns into a plus-two 09:58 - She tried to stay in the couple’s Airbnb 10:54 - And then she stole a wedding card 14:06 - Guests expecting the couple to pay 15:01 - Sister-in-law claims a wedding venue 21:32 - You don’t own an entire wedding month 28:31 - Guests & bridesmaids crossing the dress code 30:26 - Officiant uses ChatGPT (and gets the name wrong)  Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    39 min

  4. JAN 8

    #21: Wedding Magic with Camila Craft: Enchanting Brides & Vintage Finds

    Planning a wedding sounds fun… until you realize it can take 450+ hours to do it right. In this episode, we’re joined by Camila of Spellbound Events, a Charleston-based wedding planner with over a decade of experience designing and executing weddings across the country. From West Coast beginnings to Lowcountry celebrations, Camilla breaks down what wedding planners actually do, why hiring one early can save you time, money, and stress + the biggest mistakes a couple can make before they even book a venue. We also talk about Camilla’s newest venture, Ritual Bridal, a vintage and pre-owned bridal dress experience focused on couture, one-of-a-kind gowns and an intimate, boutique-style try-on process. She shares why vintage bridal is having a major moment and how Ritual Bridal gives brides a more personal, meaningful way to find “the dress.”  Let's dive into 2026 wedding trends, honest talk about planner pricing, destination weddings in Charleston, and why something always goes wrong (even when you never hear about it). If you’re newly engaged, planning a destination wedding, or wondering if a planner is really worth it... this episode is a must-listen. Spellbound Events Instagram Ritual Bridal Instagram 00:00:00 - Happy New Year & welcome  00:00:08 - Introducing Camilla (Spellbound Events)  00:00:29 - How Camilla got into weddings  00:01:11 - Winery weddings & early career  00:01:43 - West Coast vs. East Coast weddings  00:02:17 - Coastal climate differences  00:03:00 - Is a wedding planner worth it?  00:03:16 - The 450-hour planning reality  00:04:48 - Hosting vs. enjoying your wedding  00:05:40 - What planners really do on wedding days  00:06:13 - Why local planner knowledge matters  00:07:35 - Facebook wedding advice pitfalls  00:08:25 - Why consult calls matter  00:08:49 - The two vendors personality matters most  00:10:15 - Wedding planner pricing explained  00:12:22 - Budget transparency for couples  00:13:29 - Advice for newly engaged couples  00:14:15 - Budget mistakes couples make  00:14:39 - Why planners should be hired first  00:15:16 - Charleston weather & destination risks  00:16:05 - Hidden venue costs  00:17:13 - How planners save couples money  00:17:51 - Rapid Fire  00:24:41 - Final thoughts Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    54 min

  5. 12/23/2025

    #20: Wedding Hotline Chaos: Etiquette, Family Drama & Timeline Truths

    Wedding planning is stressful enough... then you add daylight savings, family drama, etiquette confusion, and unsolicited opinions. In this episode, we’re answering real listener-submitted hotline questions and giving our unfiltered take on wedding etiquette, timelines, and boundaries. We kick things off by breaking down why fall and winter wedding timelines matter more than you think, how daylight savings can ruin your photos, and why the sun is the one thing you can’t negotiate with. Then we dive into your questions, including: Is an engagement ring a Christmas gift or do you still need to buy presents?Can (or should) your future mother-in-law give a speech at the reception?Did you break etiquette by not sending save-the-dates to everyone?Family meltdowns, wedding-weekend boundaries, and when to put your foot downVenues wasting couples’ time during bookingMother-in-law tension, dress shopping pressure, and when to let it goThe very real post-wedding blues nobody talks aboutIf you’re planning a wedding, dealing with family opinions, or just want validation that you’re not crazy… this one’s for you.   Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    50 min

  6. 12/04/2025

    #19: Through the Groom’s Eyes: Before, During & After ‘I Do’

    This week, we are joined by the one and only Garrett Heatherington to help us flip the script and bringing you a groom's POV on wedding day. From planning roles to wedding day emotions, he shares what was fun, what was stressful, and the moments that hit him the hardest. We talk involvement, expectations, communication, and yes… the “happy wife, happy life” mindset that shows up more than most couples admit - even when choosing suits! Whether you’re a bride trying to decode your fiancé or a groom who needs to feel seen, this episode gives an honest, funny, and raw look at the wedding day from his side of the aisle. Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    43 min

  7. 11/13/2025

    #18: Inside the Industry: Running a Charleston Wedding Venue with Sasha Gregory

    We brought in venue owner Sasha Gregory of 108 West Main and Complete Weddings and Events Charleston to help us untangle some of the wildest wedding-day challenges we’ve seen. Together, we walk through the moments that venues catch before anyone notices, the situations that make a wedding fall apart, and the small details that matter more than couples realize. Sasha’s perspective brings a whole new layer to the vendor conversation. A view that is real, refreshing, and hilarious in some moments. 108 W Main Socials: Instagram Tik Tok Facebook Complete Weddings & Events: Instagram Facebook 00:00:09 – Intro & welcome  00:05:40 – Vendor challenges shared  00:08:12 – Favorite bride moments  00:11:09 – Planning mistakes laughed  00:13:55 – DIY wedding tips  00:17:21 – Guest experience notes  00:20:30 – Venue walkthrough stories  00:23:46 – Photography insights shared  00:26:11 – Videography tips given  00:29:08 – Social media planning  00:31:02 – Content capture challenges  00:32:18 – Timeline creation advice   00:33:21 – Feeding media team  00:34:04 – Catering challenges arise  00:35:16 – Planner coordinates meals  00:36:46 – Unprofessional caterer story  00:38:56 – Communicate vendor responsibilities  00:44:13 – Photographer timeline issues  00:45:57 – DJs bring equipment 00:49:55 – Florist pickup schedules  00:51:35 – Wedding safety caution  00:54:22 – Groom overconsumption incident  00:58:11 – Favorite wedding songs  Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    1h 2m

  8. 10/30/2025

    #17: Aunt Evelyn, Sit Down - We’re Not Babysitting at Your Wedding!

    Wedding season has us blessed and exhausted! We’re answering your questions about avoiding burnout, sharing the trends we’re loving, and pulling jaw-dropping stories from Reddit: last-minute guest additions, political-themed ceremonies,  “extra plate” invoices, videographers parked in the aisle, and the most chaotic date-change email you’ve ever heard. If you’re planning right now, this pep talk’s for you: remember the "why", protect your energy, and lean on pros who save you time (and money). Got a spicier story? Call the hotline - you could be featured on the next episode!  00:00 - Wedding season fatigue  00:57 - Listener Q&A kickoff  01:07 - Avoiding burnout basics  02:24 - Details fuel energy  04:44 - Trend: chrome accents  05:03 - Greens with purples  06:00 - Black-and-white weddings  07:13 - Underrated planner work  08:40 - Content creator grind  10:07 - Reddit chaos begins  11:04 - Seating chart PSA  13:08 - Adult meal drama  16:32 - Videographer aisle block  18:00 - Date change mayhem  24:04 - Babysitting invite shock  Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous! Follow us on our socials: Instagram - rsvp_thanks_pod Tik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod

    31 min
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RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning. We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.New episodes drop every Wednesday. Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.

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  • Creator
    Lindsey Heatherington & Kameron Brown
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 RSVP Thanks
  • Show Website
    RSVP Thanks

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