A Broad Sex Education

Cin | Sex Education for Adults

Welcome to A Broad Sex Education, where we go beyond the birds and the bees and dive into everything you wish you'd learned about sex, pleasure, and relationships. Hosted by superstar sex educator Cin, this podcast unlearns outdated stigmas and replaces them with inclusive, comprehensive, and fun lessons about human sexuality. New episodes drop every Wednesday- think human sexuality meets your favorite subjects, all reimagined without the shame. Follow to learn more! Class is in session!

  1. 4d ago

    Hidden in Plain Sight: A History of Lesbianism | Lesson 016

    If women who loved women have always existed, why is their history so much harder to find? In this Pride Month special, we're exploring the stories of women who loved women across history and around the world. From Ancient Greece and the poetry of Sappho to the Golden Orchid Societies of Southern China, Anne Lister's coded diaries, Boston Marriages, and the literary salons of Paris, we'll uncover how women built relationships and communities long before the modern label "lesbian" existed. Then we'll turn to the United States to examine the women who helped shape LGBTQ+ history, including the Daughters of Bilitis, Stormé DeLarverie, the Lavender Menace, Audre Lorde, lesbian caregivers during the AIDS crisis, and activists Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon. Because lesbian history isn't just a history of love. It's a history of visibility, activism, community building, and showing up for one another. Topics discussed: Sappho and the origins of "lesbian" and "sapphic"Golden Orchid SocietiesAnne Lister and her coded diariesBoston MarriagesParisian lesbian cultureDaughters of BilitisStonewall and Stormé DeLarverieThe Lavender MenaceAudre LordeLesbians during the AIDS crisisDel Martin & Phyllis Lyon 🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride Month. Class is in session. 📚Resources & Next StepsSappho & History of the word Lesbian https://www.intomore.com/culture/the-fascinating-history-of-lesbian/https://thehistorianshut.com/2020/10/21/sappho-of-lesbos-and-the-husband-hoax/ Golden Orchid Society https://www.makingqueerhistory.com/articles/2016/12/20/the-golden-orchid Anne Lister https://www.annelister.co.uk/https://english.northwestern.edu/about/anne-lister-society/story.html Boston Marriages https://www.nps.gov/articles/000/boston-marriages.htm Natalie Clifford Barney https://thesalonhost.com/natalie-clifford-barney-the-forgotten-poet-hostess-of-the-most-free-spirited-salons-in-paris/https://guides.loc.gov/feminism-french-women-history/famous/natalie-clifford-barney Daughters of Bilitis https://guides.loc.gov/lgbtq-studies/before-stonewall/daughters-of-bilitis Lavendar Menace https://www.nyclgbtsites.org/site/lavender-menace-action-at-second-congress-to-unite-women/ Lesbian Support During AIDS Crisis https://www.youthco.org/lesbian_solidarity_during_the_aids_epidemic Audre Lorde https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poets/audre-lordehttps://www.britannica.com/biography/Audre-Lordehttps://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/audre-lorde Stormé DeLaverie https://www.storme-delarverie.com/https://www.nps.gov/people/storme-delarverie.htm Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    55 min
  2. May 13

    Lesson 015: Why Does Non-Consent Feel Normalized? Why Survivors Don’t Come Forward & How We Prevent Sexual Violence (Part 2)

    If sexual violence is so common, why are so many survivors afraid to come forward? In Part 2 of this series, Cin, Asa, and Brooklyn examine the systems, trauma responses, institutional failures, and social conditioning that make rape and sexual assault some of the most underreported and difficult crimes to prosecute. Through sociology, personal experience, legal frameworks, prevention strategies, and cultural analysis, this lesson explores what survivors are forced to navigate after assault and why prevention requires more than simply condemning rape. In this lesson, we discuss: Why survivors often don’t report sexual assaultTrauma, memory, shame, and fear of retaliationWhy rape and sexual assault cases are difficult to prosecuteRape kits, evidence collection, and institutional failuresThe Violence Against Women Act, Title IX, and California’s “Yes Means Yes” lawThe “Man vs Bear” discussion and women’s safety calculationsThe “Not All Men” conversation and male accountabilityThe mental load women carry to navigate safetyDrink spiking prevention and harm reductionPrevention, intervention, and what men can do to help stop sexual violenceThe social conditioning that sustains rape cultureStatistics surrounding sexual violence and reporting ⚠️ Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of rape, sexual assault, coercion, abuse, misogyny, violence against women, childhood sexual abuse, and trauma. Please take care while listening. 🛍️Affiliate Link: Nightcap Drink Spiking Prevention Product Discount code: NIGHTCAP10-ABROADSEXED 📚Resources & Next StepsWomen Wait to Report Sexual Assault (Blog)Daniel Sloss' X on MAX (Stand-up Comedy Special)Nightcap Drink Spiking Prevention Product (Website Affiliate Link; Discount code: NIGHTCAP10-ABROADSEXED )RAINN.org (U.S. Resource for Survivors)UN Women (Global Resource for Survivors)Futures Without Violence (Organization)MCSR.org (Organization, also known as Men Can Stop Rape)National Sexual Violence Resource Center (Organization)CDC’s National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS)Lifetime Economic Burden of Rape Among U.S. Adults (PubMed Article) Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    45 min
  3. May 6

    Lesson 015: Why Does Non-Consent Feel Normalized? The Impact of Rape Culture (Part 1)

    If consent seems so simple, then why does non-consent feel so normalized? In Part 1 of this two-part series, Cin, Asa, and Brooklyn examine rape culture through sociology, history, media, mythology, power, and social conditioning. From legal definitions and consent education to cultural messaging, misogyny, and modern online communities, this lesson explores how society normalizes harmful behavior and why conversations about consent are often more complicated than they seem. Throughout the episode, we also examines historical depictions of sexual violence in mythology and art to explore how power, pursuit, coercion, and entitlement have been romanticized across centuries. In this lesson, we cover: Consent, coercion, and boundariesLegal definitions of rapeImplied consent and communicationHow rape culture shows up in societyVictim blaming and harmful gender expectationsWhy rape is about power, control, and entitlementThe “myth of the monster” and acquaintance assaultHypermasculinity and misogynistic online spacesThe Gisèle Pelicot case and online rape forumsHistorical depictions of non-consent in mythology and art ⚠️ Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of rape, sexual assault, coercion, abuse, misogyny, violence against women, and childhood sexual abuse. Please take care while listening. 🎓 In Part 2, we continue the discussion by examining: why survivors often don’t come forwardhow difficult sexual assault cases can be to prosecuteprevention, accountability, and what men can do to help stop sexual violence Support for SurvivorsFor help in the US, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or chat 24/7 on RAINN.org. Internationally, a worldwide list of directories is provided by UN Women, with national agencies on The Pixel Project. 📚Resources & Next StepsTea and Consent YouTube (Video)Consent for Kids YouTube (Video)Sexual Assault is About Power by Lyn Yonack, MA, MSW, BCD-P (Blog)Exposing a Global 'Rape Academy' by Saskya Vandoorne, Kara Fox, Niamh Kennedy, Eleanor Stubbs and Marco Chacon, CNN (News Article)The Undetected Rapist by Dr. David Lisak (Research paper)Gisele Pelicot France Case by By Saskya Vandoorne, Niamh Kennedy, Caroline Baum, Kara Fox, Carlotta Dotto, Eleanor Stubbs, Yukari Schrickel and Byron Manley, CNN (News Article) Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here. 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    57 min
  4. Apr 29

    Spilling the Tea on Consent: What the Tea Analogy Leaves Out (An Extra Credit Lesson)

    The “Tea and Consent” video is one of the most widely shared explanations of consent. It is simple, clear, and easy to understand. So why doesn’t consent always feel that simple in real life? In this extra credit minisode, Cin and Asa break down the tea analogy and explore what it misses. From power dynamics and social pressure to communication gaps and real-world scenarios, this lesson expands the conversation beyond a simple yes or no. Because consent isn’t just about asking a question. It is about whether someone feels free to answer. In this episode, we discuss: Why the tea analogy works and where it falls shortHow power dynamics impact consentThe difference between clear communication and real-life ambiguityImplied consent, coercion, and social pressureDating culture, entitlement, and transactional expectationsWhy consent is more nuanced than we are often taught This episode includes discussions of consent, coercion, sexual assault, and rape culture. Please take care while listening. 🎓 This is just the beginning. Next lesson, we dive deeper into rape culture and how it shapes our understanding of consent. 📚Resources & Next StepsTea and Consent Video by Blue Seat StudiosConsent for Kids Video by Blue Seat Studios Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    33 min
  5. Apr 22

    How to Be Good at Sex | An Extracurricular Mini-Lesson

    What actually makes someone “good” at sex? It’s probably not what you think. In this mini-lesson, we break down the real skills that create better sex, deeper connection, and more confidence in the bedroom. This is not about performance or technique. It is about awareness, communication, and understanding your body and your partner. We cover: • Why being open-minded changes everything • How learning your own body improves your experiences • What it means to communicate what you actually want • How to stay present and read your partner’s responses • Why sex is a shared experience, not a performance • Letting go of the idea that there is one “right” way Plus a bonus tip on what to do after sex that most people skip but should not. If you have ever wondered whether you are “good” at sex, this episode will shift how you think about it. 📚Resources & Next StepsSex Talks: The Five Conversations that Will Help Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin, LMFT and Alexander Marin Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    18 min
  6. Apr 15

    Lesson 014: Wait...What is Sex? A Beginner's Guide to Understanding Sexual Intercourse

    Most people think they know what sex is. But if you had to define it, could you? In this lesson, we go back to the basics and break down what sex actually means. This episode explores how sex is defined, what happens in your brain during sex, and how the experience can change depending on context, connection, and physical dynamics. We cover the role of key brain regions involved in arousal and pleasure, the difference between dopamine and oxytocin, and how substances like caffeine, alcohol, and weed can impact your experience. We also look at how different positions affect control, stimulation, and connection, and why sex is not one-size-fits-all. This lesson is designed to give you a clearer, more inclusive understanding of sex so you can better understand your own experiences and communicate with others. Follow along with this lesson: View the full presentation here 💌 Have a question? Submit it anonymously (Your question might be featured in a future lesson 👀) 💭 Be part of the conversation: What’s something you’ve always wondered about human sexuality? Join the discussion on social ↓ 📲 Follow & connect: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/abroadsexeducation/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@abroadsexeducation YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abroadsexeducation 📝 Want more like this? Join the newsletter for extra resources, reflections, and exclusive content. 🌐 Explore everything: Visit the website → www.ABroadSexEducation.com

    36 min

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Welcome to A Broad Sex Education, where we go beyond the birds and the bees and dive into everything you wish you'd learned about sex, pleasure, and relationships. Hosted by superstar sex educator Cin, this podcast unlearns outdated stigmas and replaces them with inclusive, comprehensive, and fun lessons about human sexuality. New episodes drop every Wednesday- think human sexuality meets your favorite subjects, all reimagined without the shame. Follow to learn more! Class is in session!