She Leads Collective Podcast: stories, allyship and confidence tools for women

Mary Gregory

Bold conversations with women leaders & allies.   Real stories, leadership insights, and the “undiscussables” shaping how we work today.    Each season of the She Leads Collective Podcast features three powerful themes:     Real Models – conversations with inspiring women leaders and business owners who share the truth behind their success—the bias they’ve faced, the doubts they’ve overcome, and the wisdom they’ve gained.   Allies – honest insights from men and women who are actively championing gender equity, revealing what true allyship looks like in action.   The Undiscussables – the topics no one talks about, but everyone is impacted by—emotions at work, wholistic leadership, womens health needs, mental health, baby loss, domestic violence—and how they shape our workplaces and leadership.     I’m Mary Gregory—Executive Coach, Author and host of She Leads Collective. My mission is to enable women to step into their full leadership potential and create workplaces where everyone can thrive.   Let’s change the conversation—together.   And if you’re a woman leader who’s ever doubted your confidence, explore my programme “Exploding the Confidence Myth” → https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/exploding-the-confidence-myth-tickets-1617750698889?aff=oddtdtcreator

  1. S2 Ep2: Leading At The Top As A Woman with Penny De Valk

    EPISODE 2

    S2 Ep2: Leading At The Top As A Woman with Penny De Valk

    Send us a text Why are so many talented women still walking out of organisations — despite decades of investment in leadership development, diversity initiatives and good intent? In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Mary Gregory is joined by Penny De Valk — former MD, CEO and Board Director, and now a global leadership development expert working across the UK, New Zealand and the US. Penny shares her leadership journey and the lived reality of leading at the highest levels: the responsibility, the complexity, and the constant need to balance “taking care” with “taking charge”. Together, Mary and Penny explore how gender and power still show up in subtle but persistent ways — from assumptions about competence to the double binds women face when exercising authority. Penny also shares practical wisdom on learning leadership through experience, building self-awareness, and choosing courage over waiting for confidence. This episode ends by zooming out to the current global climate and the growing pushback on DEI — setting the scene for Part 2, where Mary and Penny dig into the trends behind women leaving workplaces and what leaders can do about it. Connect with Penny on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pennydevalk/ Or visit her website: https://pennydevalk.com/ 🔗 Connect with Mary: marygregory.com 📣 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/marygregory 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mary_gregory/ 📰 Newsletter: Subscribe on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7029410958645059584 🎙 Want to be a guest? Get in touch! ⭐ Subscribe, share & leave a review ✨ Produced by Mary Gregory Leadership Coaching

    42 min
  2. S2 Ep3: Why Women Are Still Leaving - the systems holding them back with Penny De Valk

    EPISODE 3

    S2 Ep3: Why Women Are Still Leaving - the systems holding them back with Penny De Valk

    Send us a text Part 2 of 2 episodes with Penny De Valk. Why are organisations still losing talented women — and why does this pattern persist, even when leaders genuinely want things to change? In this second episode of a two-part conversation, Mary Gregory and Penny De Valk move beyond individual leadership journeys to examine the systems shaping women’s experiences at work today. Drawing on Penny’s global work with senior leaders — alongside insights from the McKinsey Women in the Workplace research — this episode explores why the leadership pipeline continues to leak, why women are still promoted and sponsored differently, and how well-intended organisational decisions can quietly disadvantage women. Mary and Penny discuss the broken first rung, sponsorship versus mentorship, invisible and emotional labour, flexibility stigma, and the growing fatigue around gender equity efforts — as well as what actually helps organisations retain and develop female talent. This is a grounded, realistic conversation about why women leaving is not a lack of ambition, but a rational response to systems that still haven’t caught up — and what leaders can do differently if they want to stop losing great people. Free resource: If this conversation has raised questions for you, you can download the Gender Equity Temperature Check — a short, reflective tool designed for HR, DEI and senior leaders to assess the what's really happening beneath the surface for gender equity in your organisation.  Download your Gender Equity Temperature Check here: https://www.marygregory.com/gender-equity-temperature-check Connect with Penny on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pennydevalk/ Or visit her website: https://pennydevalk.com/ 🔗 Connect with Mary: marygregory.com 📣 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/marygregory 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mary_gregory/ 📰 Newsletter: Subscribe on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7029410958645059584 🎙 Want to be a guest? Get in touch! ⭐ Subscribe, share & leave a review ✨ Produced by Mary Gregory Leadership Coaching

    32 min

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Bold conversations with women leaders & allies.   Real stories, leadership insights, and the “undiscussables” shaping how we work today.    Each season of the She Leads Collective Podcast features three powerful themes:     Real Models – conversations with inspiring women leaders and business owners who share the truth behind their success—the bias they’ve faced, the doubts they’ve overcome, and the wisdom they’ve gained.   Allies – honest insights from men and women who are actively championing gender equity, revealing what true allyship looks like in action.   The Undiscussables – the topics no one talks about, but everyone is impacted by—emotions at work, wholistic leadership, womens health needs, mental health, baby loss, domestic violence—and how they shape our workplaces and leadership.     I’m Mary Gregory—Executive Coach, Author and host of She Leads Collective. My mission is to enable women to step into their full leadership potential and create workplaces where everyone can thrive.   Let’s change the conversation—together.   And if you’re a woman leader who’s ever doubted your confidence, explore my programme “Exploding the Confidence Myth” → https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/exploding-the-confidence-myth-tickets-1617750698889?aff=oddtdtcreator