Why is it So Hard?

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Think this is just another sex podcast? Think again. We’re Lizzie and Nash—and we’re here to strip away the filters and get real. The stories you’ll hear? Raw. The feedback? Unfiltered. This isn’t fantasy—it’s the truth about what turns us on, trips us up, and keeps us curious. We’re talking about everything: swinging, sexuality, toys, trauma, websites, trends, lube, kinks—you name it. Even the things you haven’t dared to bring up to your partner yet! This space is for the bold, the curious, the quiet cravers. Relax and enjoy the show!  Have a question or confession?  Email: lizzieandnash@gmail.com Call or Text: 814-900-4273 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash

  1. 2d ago

    Can You At Least Say Hello First?

    Click here to send us a message!!! Dating apps were supposed to make meeting people easier. Instead, somehow we ended up with six unanswered texts, unsolicited photos, forced sexual tension, and people acting like a match came with unlimited access to your time, attention, and body. This week, Lizzie and Nash dig into why dating apps make otherwise reasonable people lose their damn minds. They talk about the pressure guys feel to stand out, response-time anxiety, the difference between attraction and actual chemistry, and why moving fast isn’t the problem—moving faster than the other person is. Lizzie shares a dating experience with a woman that went from exciting to exhausting in less than two days, and they get into bisexuality, dating women as a woman, kink, sexual compatibility, consent, unsolicited pics, and the strange way constant messaging can manufacture intimacy before you’ve even met.  And because this is Why Is It So Hard?, they also bring it back to ENM: respecting existing relationships, handling boundaries without turning them into a crisis, and remembering that being sex-positive, kinky, bisexual, or non-monogamous does not make someone universally available. A match means curiosity. It does not mean access.  Maybe just say hello first. Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

    Can You At Least Say Hello First?

  2. Mar 29

    ENM Acceptance in Todays Society

    Click here to send us a message!!! Dealing with society if you are ENM can be a tough, especially when others have intention of listening or opening their mind.  Lizzie and Nash tackle some of the obstacles and "what if" situations on this episode! Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows.  Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod More than a product line, Tracy's Dog represents a new standard of intimacy: personal, private, and self-directed. It removes the spectacle and leaves space for comfort, confidence, and choice, allowing pleasure to exist as a quiet, normal part of daily wellbeing.  Tracy's Dog https://tracysdog.com?sca_ref=10975905.ejXwAEnUvG Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

  3. Feb 16

    That Kiss Hit Like a Freight Train…

    Click here to send us a message!!! One kiss that felt like lightning. Compersion on fire. Then the most respectful “hugs only” text the next morning. We unpack the whiplash, next-day panic, clean boundaries, and why a polite no doesn’t cancel the hot yes. Have a similar story? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows.  Visit https://fullswapradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

  4. Jan 11

    We’ve All Fumbled It: Sex Gone Wrong, Awkward As Hell, and Still Worth It

    Click here to send us a message!!! Stop pretending sex is always a cinematic masterpiece. This week, Lizzie and Nash are ditching the dignity to dive into the full-body, face-reddening mistakes nobody wants to admit. From the vault of listener-submitted chaos: • "Nacho T**s": Why you should always check the label on the "whipped cream" can. • The "Sex Intern": How to handle a threesome when you realize you're just the lighting technician. • Siri Cockblocks: When Apple’s fall detection ruins the roleplay. • The "Man Gravy" PSA: A list of words that should be banned from the bedroom forever. Whether you've headbutted a headboard or "sneeze-orgasmed," this episode is your reminder that awkward sex is still sex. Got a fumble? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST. If you're not familiar, Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for all things Adult Alternative Lifestyles and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

    We’ve All Fumbled It: Sex Gone Wrong, Awkward As Hell, and Still Worth It

  5. 12/30/2025

    Hot Flashes, Cold Shoulders: A Man’s Field Guide to Perimenopause & Menopause (Without Being an Idiot)

    Click here to send us a message!!! Menopause and perimenopause don’t “ruin” relationships. They expose the ones built on autopilot, entitlement, and zero emotional skill. In this Nash-only solo, I’m talking straight to the guys: what’s actually changing, why you’re probably taking it personally, and how to stop turning your partner’s body into your crisis. We get into the real stuff: sleep getting wrecked, mood shifts, why pressure kills desire, why comfort matters more than your ego, and how resentment and the mental load can quietly torch intimacy. We also talk about practical, medically responsible options (yes, lube counts, stop being fragile), when it’s time to talk to a clinician, and how to keep sex hot without making it feel like homework. No soft-focus lectures. Just a blunt relationship reality check for men who want to stay connected and keep the heat alive through this chapter. Have a question or want to know more?  Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Text us at 814-900-4273 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

  6. 12/24/2025

    Deck the Halls…Then Wreck the Sheets

    Click here to send us a message!!! This isn’t your grandma’s holiday special. It’s December 23rd, the whipped cream’s already warm, the mistletoe’s hanging low, and Lizzie & Nash are going all in on why holiday sex hits harder, dirtier, and more necessary than ever. We’re talking: – Thighs trembling under Christmas lights – Tinsel in places that should not sparkle – Coffee-fueled couch rides, candy cane weaponry, and orgasmic exhale – Why sex in December isn’t just relief — it’s rebellion Plus: glitter in your ass, cleanup sex, listener emails from the edge, and the unholy power of “don’t move.” This is the gift that leaves bruises. Listen now. Have a question or want to know more?  Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Text us at 814-900-4273 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

    Deck the Halls…Then Wreck the Sheets

  7. 11/23/2025

    The Art of Initiating Sex with Your Partner

    Click here to send us a message!!! Initiating sex shouldn’t feel like defusing a bomb, but for most couples, it does. In this brutally honest, funny, and insanely hot episode, Lizzie & Nash rip apart the myths around “waiting for the right moment” and show you why the spark dies when nobody makes a move. They dig into rejection fear, gender-role nonsense, long-term desire, and how to initiate without sounding like an awkward Victorian ghost. Plus: real listener fantasies that prove boldness is a damn turn-on. Short version? Stop waiting for magic. Start creating heat. Have a question or want to know more? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com  or  Text us at 814-900-4273 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

  8. 11/10/2025

    Can You Really Be Happy When Your Partner’s with Someone Else?

    Click here to send us a message!!! In this brutally honest, hilarious deep dive, Lizzie and Nash unpack one of the most uncomfortable truths of modern love: what does happiness actually look like when your partner is dating someone else? Spoiler — it’s not hearts, rainbows, or BuzzFeed-level quizzes. It’s emotional cardio, messy self-awareness, and an ongoing practice in radical honesty (with a side of fries). From the first date jitters to jealousy spirals, from rebuilding trust after dumb rules to figuring out what “privacy” really means, they take you inside their ethically non-monogamous marriage with unfiltered humor and zero pretense. You’ll laugh, cringe, maybe cry, and definitely re-think everything you’ve been told about love, ownership, and emotional security. Featuring listener emails that hit way too close to home, this episode is for anyone who’s ever asked: Could I handle that?The answer? Maybe. But only if you’re willing to talk, laugh, and do the emotional squats. Grab your partner, your snack of choice, and your sense of humor — this is Why Is It So Hard at its raw, real, relationship-redefining best. Have a question or want to know more? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com  or  Text us at 814-900-4273 Have a story or a question? Email us at lizzieandnash@gmail.com or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST.  Full Swap Radio is your one stop Internet Radio Station for numerous Adult Alternative Lifestyle and Sex Positive shows. Visit https://fullswapradio.com/ for more! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyIsItSoHardPod

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Think this is just another sex podcast? Think again. We’re Lizzie and Nash—and we’re here to strip away the filters and get real. The stories you’ll hear? Raw. The feedback? Unfiltered. This isn’t fantasy—it’s the truth about what turns us on, trips us up, and keeps us curious. We’re talking about everything: swinging, sexuality, toys, trauma, websites, trends, lube, kinks—you name it. Even the things you haven’t dared to bring up to your partner yet! This space is for the bold, the curious, the quiet cravers. Relax and enjoy the show!  Have a question or confession?  Email: lizzieandnash@gmail.com Call or Text: 814-900-4273 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzieandnash

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  • Creator
    TbT Entertainment, LLC.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 TbT Entertainment, LLC
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    Why is it So Hard?