The Grown-Up Girls Report Podcast

Alex Merton-McCann

On each episode of The Grown-Up Girls Report, Alex Merton-McCann will focus on issues relevant to busy, multi-tasking women who still very much have their girl energy! From health & well-being to parenting, careers and technology, Alex will ensure listeners are up to date with the latest trends and research. Alex's mission is to ensure grown-up girls have all the support they need to keep their multiple balls in the air.

  1. JAN 1

    The TV Shows That Carried Us Through 2025 - Our Top TV Picks of the Year

    In this episode, I’m joined by my fellow talented TV watcher buddy Mandy Newman and we share our top TV shows of 2025. But apart from sharing our top watches with you, we also get a little deep (and honest) and share why TV mattered for us in 2025.  We talk about why certain shows landed so deeply this year, what they say about the season of life we’re in, and how television can sometimes meet us exactly where we are. From stories of grief and reinvention to humour, relationships, faith, power, and identity, this conversation explores how good storytelling can help us make sense of our own lives.  In addition to sharing our Top 5 shows of the year, we also include quite a few honourable mentions, and reflect on themes that kept appearing — particularly women’s stories, emotional honesty, and the quiet reassurance that comes from feeling seen.  This episode is for anyone who’s found comfort in a familiar show at the end of a long day, who’s noticed how their viewing habits have shifted over time, or who is simply on the look out for something fab to watch!  So, settle in and join us — and as always, we’d love to hear what stayed with you this year.  Lots of love Alex x    Summary  In this episode, Alex and Mandy reflect on the role television played in their lives throughout 2025 — not just as entertainment, but as a source of comfort, connection, and insight. Through an honest, wide-ranging conversation, they explore how storytelling can mirror real life, help us process grief and change, and spark meaningful conversations about identity, relationships, faith, power, and personal growth.   The discussion highlights the growing representation of women’s stories on screen, the emotional impact of vulnerability in storytelling, and the quiet reassurance that comes from feeling seen. This episode celebrates television as a deeply human medium that can offer both escape and understanding.    Key Takeaways  Television can provide genuine comfort and a sense of connection.  What we’re drawn to on screen often reflects the season of life we’re in.  Women’s stories and perspectives are increasingly visible in modern media.  Grief, identity, and relationships are common themes in recent storytelling.  Representation in media influences how we see ourselves and others.  Humour can be a powerful way to explore serious themes.  Stories about women and power remain deeply relevant.  Television can spark meaningful conversations about society and culture.    Chapters  00:00 — The Therapeutic Power of Television  08:02 — Comfort Watching & Emotional Connection  12:20 — Motherhood, Work, and Identity  15:00 — Comfort TV vs Gripping TV  22:51 — Celebrating Age, Talent, and Visibility  24:04 — Faith, Relationships, and Belief  30:45 — Women, Power, and Representation  32:42 — The Healing Power of Humour  43:29 — Reflections on Aging and Storytelling  45:34 — Finish  Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    46 min
  2. 12/16/2025

    Reinventing Midlife, One Dress At A Time

    Midlife Reinvention, One Dress at a Time  A personal reflection on midlife reinvention, creativity, and building a fashion brand in your second chapter.  In this episode, I’m reflecting on midlife reinvention — and sharing my own story. This is a very honest catch-up, where I share where I’ve been, what the past season has held, and why it’s taken me a little while to return to the microphone.  I open up about launching Nancy The Label — a business born from legacy, creativity, and a deep desire to create something meaningful in this second chapter. I share the excitement, the fear, the self-doubt, and the moments of courage that came with starting again.  This episode is for anyone who’s felt the nudge to change direction, who’s wondered if it’s too late, or who’s standing on the edge of something new and slightly terrifying. Reinvention is rarely neat or linear — and that’s okay.  So, settle in and join me — I hope this conversation reminds you that you’re not behind, you’re not alone, and it’s never too late to begin again.  Lots of love  Alex x    Chapters  00:00 The Journey of Reinvention Begins  05:24 Launching Nancy the Label  12:00 The Challenges of Midlife Reinvention  16:05 Rediscovering Identity in Midlife  18:49 Embracing Change and New Beginnings  20:04 Finish      Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    18 min
  3. 08/13/2025

    The Divorce Chat Every Woman Needs To Hear

    Episode Description In this episode, I am joined by Cassandra Kalpaxis, a family lawyer, domestic violence educator, and author – and we talk about financial independence for women and the concept of a ‘Dignified Divorce’. Now, every woman needs to listen to this episode, even if things in the relationship arena are ‘tickety-boo’ because this episode is all about protecting yourself - just in case. Cassandra explains the importance of financial knowledge for women, the importance of understanding one’s rights and the concept of escape funds. She outlines how to have an amicable separation, how to achieve a ‘Dignified Divorce’ and how to successfully co-parent. She is also a big fan of ‘pre-nups’ – so listen in to hear why. In addition to being a lawyer, Cassandra is also a passionate Domestic Violence advocate. Her insights into the various forms of coercive control and the ‘generational lens’ on this is really compelling.  This is a really thought-provoking interview that I guarantee you’ll learn a lot from. Cassandra’s practical advice and empowering messages are all about women claiming their independence and make informed decisions about their lives and relationships. Cassandra’s book Dignified Divorce is available for sale here. As she says – it’s cheaper than a consultation! Alex xx Resources Dignified Divorce – available here. The Domestic Violence Legal Service – a specialist free legal service for women experiencing domestic and family violence in New South Wales. There are similar services available in every state in Australia. Connect with Cassandra Instagram: @cassandrakalpaxis  Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dignified Divorce 01:55 Cassandra's Journey: From Lawyer to Author 05:20 Navigating Economic Vulnerability in Relationships 08:46 Understanding Financial Infidelity and Abuse 10:40 The Importance of Escape Funds 14:23 Creating a Dignified Divorce 18:06 The Role of Communication in Separation 22:40 Navigating Conflict Resolution in Relationships 26:24 Understanding Prenuptial Agreements 31:20 Educating on Domestic Violence 39:33 Exiting Unhealthy Relationships 42:40 Empowerment and Financial Independence   PS - Want More? You can find more from The Grown-Up Girls Report here: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport PPS – a small commission will be made if you choose to purchase the book through the link above.   Connect with Cassandra Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassandrakalpaxis/  Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au   Resources Dignified Divorce – available here. The Domestic Violen Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    47 min
  4. 08/01/2025

    Health: The Shame Stops Here - Shelly Horton on Midlife, Mental Health & Menopause

    Episode Description In this episode, I’m chatting with Aussie journalist and health advocate Shelly Horton about her perimenopause journey and her new book ‘I’m Your Peri Godmother’. Shelly’s honest and candid recount of her challenges and struggles will confirm that you are absolutely not navigating this journey alone. And I guarantee it will make you both laugh and cry! Shelly details her unexpected health complications and her mental health struggles – struggles that I also experienced. She is passionate about the need for further awareness and education about women's health issues in the workplace and is a big advocate for a shift in how society views midlife women. Hear, hear!!! And while we discuss the challenges, we also celebrate the bonuses that the menopause journey can bring – zest!! So, tune in, join the conversation – I guarantee that it will fill your tank!! Shelly’s book is out now. You can buy it here.  Lots of love Alex x Keywords perimenopause, mental health, women's health, advocacy, workplace awareness, relationships, self-care, empowerment, menopause, health education Takeaways ·       Waking up in the ICU was a shocking experience for Shelly. ·       Perimenopause can lead to unexpected mental health challenges. ·       Women often minimise their health issues and apologize for their struggles. ·       Support from family and friends is crucial during health crises. ·       Advocacy for women's health is essential in the workplace. ·       Education about perimenopause can help women manage their symptoms better. ·       Menopausal zest is about embracing life and prioritizing self-care. ·       Women should not feel invisible during midlife; they have so much to offer. ·       It's important to seek help and not suffer in silence. ·       Finding the right support and resources can lead to empowerment.  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Shelley Horton 01:34 Shelley's ICU Experience and Health Journey 09:18 Women’s Apologies and Humor in Crisis 11:56 The Impact of Perimenopause on Confidence 15:43 Mental Health and Perimenopausal Depression 23:12 Conversations with Family about Mental Health 24:07 Bonding Through Shared Stories 26:59 Navigating Family Dynamics and Mental Health 28:41 The Role of Partners in Mental Health 31:45 Understanding Menopause Symptoms 36:48 Sleep and Its Impact on Well-being 40:38 Advocacy for Women in the Workforce 43:12 Raising Awareness in the Workplace 45:27 Menopause Education and Support 46:48 The Business Case for Supporting Women 49:09 Personal Health Journeys and Mindset 53:25 Embracing Menopausal Zest 53:38 Menopausal Zest 57:14 The Launch of 'I'm Your Peri Godmother' PS - Want More? You can find more from The Grown-Up Girls Report here:  https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/reels/?__d=1%2F https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport PP Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    59 min
  5. 07/02/2025

    Health: Perimenopause & Menopause - What You Need To Know To Thrive with Dr Nindhi Ahilan

    Episode Description In this episode, we’re workshopping perimenopause and menopause with one of the best GPs in Sydney (my GP) Dr Nindhi Ahilan. Nindhi’s incredible guidance through my murky menopause journey is the reason why I have got my life back!  So, with Nindhi’s help, we delve into the science behind perimenopause and menopause, discuss HRT, alternative treatments and supplements that might be worth considering. Nindhi also share some great resources for us too! Now, if your bloke is struggling to understand what’s going on in your world, this would be the perfect listen for him! It will get him on board!! So, tune in and I promise you’ll come away with some great to-do list – I even added to mine after recording this! Lots of love Alex x   Keywords menopause, perimenopause, hormonal changes, HRT, symptoms, women's health, estrogen, progesterone, natural remedies, health tips   Takeaways ·       Menopause is defined as the absence of periods for 12 months. ·       Perimenopause can last between 2 to 10 years before menopause. ·       Estrogen and progesterone play crucial roles in women's health. ·       Common symptoms include hot flushes, sleep disturbances, and mood changes. ·       HRT can improve quality of life but has associated risks. ·       Healthy lifestyle choices can mitigate menopausal symptoms. ·       Alternative remedies include phytoestrogens and anti-inflammatory diets. ·       Menopause is a unique opportunity for personal reinvention. ·       Partners should educate themselves about menopause to provide support. ·       Women should trust their intuition and prioritize self-care during menopause.   Resources The Australasian Menopause Society Dr Louise Newson Dr Ginni Mansberg How To Thrive in Menopause by Dr Ginni Mansberg The Menopause Brain by Lisa Mosconi   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Menopause and Perimenopause 01:59 Understanding Menopause: Definitions and Differences 03:38 Is Perimenopause a New Concept? 04:27 The Role of Estrogen and Progesterone 07:22 Common Symptoms of Menopause 11:31 Identifying Menopause Symptoms vs. Other Conditions 13:37 Understanding HRT - the Risks & Benefits 17:13 HRT: Timing and Individual Considerations 20:23 Quality of Life and Preventative Health in Menopause 20:54 Alternatives Treatments to HRT 24:02 Understanding Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Options 24:47 Natural Supplements  for Menopausal Symptoms 26:00 Addressing Vaginal Health and Libido Issues 27:49 Managing Urinary Symptoms and Anxiety 29:43 Cognitive Health and Skin Care During Menopause 31:07 Hair Loss and Thinning: Causes and Solutions 32:17 Advice for Blokes To Help Support  Their Partners in Menopause 33:53 Reframing Menopause: A Time for Reinvention 37:10 Menopause Resources Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    39 min
  6. TV Talk: Ranson Canyon, Unforgotten, The Empress & The Kardashians

    06/10/2025

    TV Talk: Ranson Canyon, Unforgotten, The Empress & The Kardashians

    In this episode of The Grown Up Girls Report podcast, host Alex Merton-McCann is joined by fellow TV lover Mandy Newman in a lively discussion about various TV shows through the eyes of middle-aged women. These include Ransom Canyon, The Empress, Unforgotten, Sullivans Crossing & The Kardashians. They explore themes of female empowerment, character development and the nuances of popular entertainment. The conversation also touches on the cultural impact of shows like The Kardashians, highlighting the complexities of modern storytelling and audience engagement. Takeaways There's been a lot of television watched since the last episode. Ransom Canyon is a hidden gem that resonates with female viewers. The Empress offers a historical perspective on women's struggles and empowerment. Unforgotten is a sensitive British procedural that explores human dilemmas. The Kardashians, while often dismissed, provide insights into family dynamics and personal growth. B-grade Netflix films serve a purpose in modern entertainment. Character development is crucial in engaging storytelling. The portrayal of women in media is evolving and becoming more nuanced. Viewers appreciate shows that reflect their own messy lives. Chapters 00:00 Welcome - it's 3 1/2 years - far too long!! 01:41 Ransom Canyon 05:56 The Role of The B Grade Netflix Series 09:43 Character Development in Ransom Canyon 10:21 Sullivans Crossing 10:55 Minka Kelly & Ransom Canyon 14:37 Sullivans Crossing - again! 16:24 The Empress: A Historical Drama 18:12 Exploring the Life of Empress Elizabeth 22:40 Diving into British Procedural Drama: Unforgotten 29:11 What Not To Wear - Mandy's current watch 30:36 The Kardashians - Alex's current watch Keywords: TV shows, Ransom Canyon, The Empress, Unforgotten, Sullivans Crossing, What Not To Wear, streaming recommendations, female leads, Netflix, British drama, The Kardashians, character development Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    35 min
  7. Travel:Everything You Need To Know To Have The Best Holiday in Bali

    06/06/2025

    Travel:Everything You Need To Know To Have The Best Holiday in Bali

    In this conversation, Alex Merton-McCann shares insights and tips for travelling to Bali. She discusses the best times to visit, the best places to stay, highlights popular destinations, and offers advice on avoiding common travel issues like Bali Belly. The conversation emphasizes the importance of creating shared memories during family holidays and showcases the diverse experiences Bali has to offer. Key Takeaways Bali's dry season runs from April to October.Nusa Dua is ideal for a relaxing family holiday.Waterbom is a must-visit water park in Kuta.The wet season can still offer great weather.Family holidays provide opportunities for bonding.Ubud's monkey forest is a fun day trip.Accommodation options vary widely in Bali.Beach clubs offer a great alternative to hotels.Bali is affordable compared to other tropical destinations.Probiotics can help prevent Bali belly.Chapters 00:00 Why I Love Family Holidays 06:48 Why Bali? 09:28 Bali Has Something For Everybody 10:30 Bali Is So Affordable - Here Is What You Can Get for $70, $300 and $500 a night 12:29 The Warmth of the Balinese People  13:48 When Is The Best Time To Visit Bali? 15:42 Where Should You Stay When You Visit Bali? 18:36 Beachclubs in Seminyak and Canggu  21:00 Ubud 23:16 Nusa Dua 25:10 Sanur 26:27 Ulawatu 29:03 Let's Talk Food and Dining Out - Even With Allergies  31:36 The Best Activites in Bali 35:27 My Top Tips - After 15 Trips to Bali! 41:53 How To Minimise The Chances of Getting Bali Belly 45:48 Final Thoughts on Bali Travel  Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    37 min
  8. We're Back Baby! Hello Again!! The Grown-Up Girls Report Returns!!

    04/01/2025

    We're Back Baby! Hello Again!! The Grown-Up Girls Report Returns!!

    In this episode of The Grown Up Girls Report, host Alex Merton-McCann explains where she has been for the last three years! She shares her personal journey through menopause and the challenges she has faced over the past three years. She discusses the gradual onset of menopausal symptoms such as sleep disturbances, brain fog, and low mood, and how these affected her daily life and confidence.  Takeaways Menopause can be a gradual and challenging journey.Recognizing symptoms like sleep issues and mood changes is crucial.Support from friends and family can make a significant difference.It's common for women to feel overwhelmed during midlife.Seeking help and being proactive is essential for mental health.Hormone therapy can be a game changer for some women.The emotional toll of menopause can lead to feelings of isolation.Self-care strategies are important for navigating midlife challenges.Community and connection are vital during this stage of life.Sharing personal experiences can help others feel less alone. Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Journey of Perimenopause 06:08 The Impact of Family and Life Changes 08:47 Looking Ahead: The Future of the Podcast 09:51 New Chapter Want more from The Grown-Up Girls Report? Follow along and join the conversation: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegrownupgirlsreport/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegrownupgirlsreport 🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    10 min

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On each episode of The Grown-Up Girls Report, Alex Merton-McCann will focus on issues relevant to busy, multi-tasking women who still very much have their girl energy! From health & well-being to parenting, careers and technology, Alex will ensure listeners are up to date with the latest trends and research. Alex's mission is to ensure grown-up girls have all the support they need to keep their multiple balls in the air.