Tales from a Wing Woman: Why We All Need Someone in Our Corner What happens when the job you thought was yours disappears—and instead of staying stuck, you build something entirely new? In this episode of Words of Wisdom from Kick-Ass Women, Liz Brohan talks with Jen Anderson, a self-described “wing woman” who has turned her natural talent for collaboration, strategy, networking and getting things done into a profession. Jen’s journey began with a painful career setback. After more than 20 years in fitness leadership, she was passed over for a promotion she expected to get. That rejection became the catalyst for a new chapter—and ultimately helped her discover that her greatest strength was helping other business owners succeed. So what exactly does a wing woman do? Jen describes herself as a collaborator, strategist, accountability partner, communications resource, business-development partner and sounding board. She helps clients identify gaps, create capacity, become more visible, make introductions, find opportunities and—most importantly—take action. The conversation also tackles the messy realities of entrepreneurship: recognizing when a client relationship isn’t working, trusting your gut, finding your people and accepting that you don’t have to be everyone’s cup of tea. Networking gets a major spotlight, too. Jen encourages women to get curious, ask questions, make introductions and step outside their usual circles. Visibility doesn’t require attending every event—it requires being intentional and consistent. And sometimes, the best networking move is simply bringing a wing woman with you. Perhaps the biggest takeaway? There is enough success to go around. Don’t gatekeep your connections, knowledge or opportunities. Share your gifts, lift other women up and give yourself grace along the way. Because none of us has to do it all alone. Sometimes we just need someone willing to say, “I’ve got you. Let’s do this together.” Resources & References Mentioned LinkedIn — Discussed as a powerful way to build relationships across geographic boundaries, while also recognizing the value of eventually meeting people in person. Star Trek — Referenced humorously as an early vision of communicating through screens—and a jumping-off point for discussing how digital connection can sometimes replace real-world interaction. Top Gun — The episode opens by clarifying that Jen's “wingwoman” concept has nothing to do with the traditional pop-culture meaning of “wingman,” referencing Goose from Top Gun. Networking groups & professional events — Jen recommends expanding beyond the same familiar networking circles and occasionally trying something new to meet different people. Fitness, walking & movement — Jen connects physical movement with mental clarity, creativity and business performance, recommending activities such as walking, running or yoga. Highlight Quotes “There is enough for everyone. When you share what your gifts are, you're elevating others. I’m not a fan of being a gatekeeper. Share what you’ve got—because it’s going to come back to you.” — Jen Anderson “Wing woman sounds like action. We’re doing it together. We come away with action items—and sometimes I’ll take a couple of those this week. Let me do those.” — Jen Anderson “You have to continue to stay visible because people can’t buy from you if they can’t find you. Start small, but be consistent.” — Jen Anderson You can find us wherever you listen to podcasts or watch us on YouTube.
