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Erik Berglund

Most people know the headline of a leader’s story. Few know the path it took to get there. This podcast goes beyond titles, book launches and business wins, to explore the lived journey behind the thought leader. Through deep, unhurried conversations, we uncover the moments that shaped them—the doubts, pivots, convictions, and quiet breakthroughs that built their body of work. Each episode features authors, coaches, executives, and bold thinkers who have forged their own path. Instead of rehearsed talking points, they’re invited into a space where thoughtful questions unlock something more human. The result is a layered conversation that reveals not just what they preach, but how they became the kind of person who can teach it.Because we believe the best stories aren’t always told—they’re revealed. And when brilliant people are given the right questions and the room to answer them fully, what emerges is insight you can feel, frameworks you can apply, and a deeper understanding of what it truly takes to lead, create, and contribute at a meaningful level. 

  1. 177: "Is Typing Becoming Old-Fashioned in the AI Age?" ft. Justin Coats

    1h ago

    177: "Is Typing Becoming Old-Fashioned in the AI Age?" ft. Justin Coats

    Erik and Justin take a practical tour through AI “tools that actually ship.” They start with Lovable to build a real landing page fast, then move to NotebookLM for source-grounded research and repackaging, and finish with Spinach AI for meeting intelligence that turns conversations into executable next steps. 🧭 Conversation Highlights Erik’s Lovable experience: a subsite built in minutes by feeding a prompt and letting the tool pull branding, structure the story, and generate interactive components like email capture and a databaseVoice vs typing in AI tools: speaking helps you move at the speed of thought, surfaces gaps in what you can articulate, and makes iteration easierLovable’s workflow options: Build mode for speed versus Plan mode for a more production-ready blueprint you can edit before publishingA “human first” approach to using tools: have the conversation with the interested person, then use AI to turn that learning into assets like websites, decks, and meeting summaries💡 Key Takeaways If you want results quickly, talk to the tool (dictate) instead of trying to perfectly write your thoughts first. It reduces breaks in your chain of thought and speeds iteration.Use conversation as your forcing function. Real questions from a real person help you figure out what you actually need before you ask AI to build it.When accuracy matters, ground AI output in your sources. NotebookLM’s citation behavior helps you verify without doing a ton of manual reading.Meeting intelligence tools can eliminate the “regurgitate the notes” overhead. The value is turning transcripts into tasks your team can execute.❓ Questions That Mattered How do you get past the awkwardness of speaking to AI so you can describe what you want faster?When should you choose Lovable’s Build mode versus Plan mode for production readiness?What kinds of research or content work should be source-grounded to avoid hallucinations?How can meeting transcripts be turned into actionable tasks without relying on scattered human memory?🗣️ Notable Quotes “Get comfortable talking to your computer.”        “Start with a conversation with somebody who’s interested in what you’re doing, and then go to the AI tool.”“Stop limiting yourself. Jump in, play around, have fun. You’re not gonna break it.”🔗 Links & Resources Listen To Other Episodes Co-Hosted With Justin

    54 min
  2. 176: "Is Talking to Your Boss the Same as Talking to a Brick Wall?" ft. Alli Murphy

    1d ago

    176: "Is Talking to Your Boss the Same as Talking to a Brick Wall?" ft. Alli Murphy

    Alli and Erik work through a familiar leadership bottleneck: a team is burning out, a senior leader brings data and requests support, and the boss keeps asking for more data or dismisses what’s already been presented. Erik frames the real problem as a reality and agency issue, then lays out several ways to break the stalemate without losing credibility or steam. 🧭 Conversation Highlights Erik reframes the situation: if you keep hitting the same wall, it’s time to do something different, starting with acknowledging whether change is possible above you.He offers three response paths: adapt because you won’t get support, confront your boss more directly so the responsibility shifts, or seek support by going around them when appropriate.Alli shares a practical tactic that reduced friction with her CEO: weekly “above the line / below the line” clarity, showing prioritization and what’s feasible when additional resources are not comingThey discuss negotiation and communication upgrades: agreeing on what data actually matters, using your boss’s narrative space (including having leadership’s words on slides) so the message lands even💡 Key Takeaways Clarity beats persistence: repeatedly re-presenting the same evidence to an unreceptive system will erode the leader and teach the wrong lesson to the team.You can negotiate the data request itself by aligning on what the decision-maker needs to see, rather than accepting “show me the data” as a blank check for endless reporting.If skip-level escalation is risky, you can still get the impact by positioning your case so the skip level and your CEO hear the substance without you necessarily being in the room.When support is unavailable, the work becomes: reshape the work deck, reduce pressure, and build a credible plan forward that respects the team’s reality while you keep moving.❓ Questions That Mattered What changes in your strategy when you accept “nothing is going to change above me”?If you bring your boss the information they asked for and nothing shifts, how would you like them to retain talent, retain customers, and deliver results given that reality?If “show me the data” is the instruction, what specific data set would actually change their mind, and what pieces are unnecessary?If the company or your boss truly can’t say yes, how do you deliver “bad news” to your team while still creating dignity, respect, and a forward plan?🗣️ Notable Quotes “I’d rather square with reality.”“If you keep slamming your forehead against the brick wall, it’s obviously time to do something different than you were doing before.”“How would you like me to dot dot dot.”“If I ever split the difference, I came home with half a human being. There was no such thing.”🔗 Links & Resources Listen To Other Episodes Co-Hosted With Alli

    17 min
  3. 4d ago

    174: "Ownership Builds Trust Faster than Success Does" (reflections on Zia Mohi)

    🧠 Erik’s Take Erik reflects on his conversation with Zia Mohi through a leadership lens that’s both practical and deeply personal. What stood out most wasn’t just tactical advice—it was the mindset shifts required to lead at a higher level. At the core: leadership isn’t about being the hero anymore. It’s about becoming the buffer. Taking the hit when things go wrong, and stepping aside when things go right. That shift is uncomfortable, unnatural, and absolutely necessary. He also leans into a bigger theme—confidence. Not surface-level confidence, but the kind that allows you to give away credit, absorb criticism, and still stand firm in your decisions. 🎯 Top Insights from the Interview Ownership builds trust faster than success does. When leaders publicly take responsibility for failure, it creates psychological safety—and that’s what unlocks risk-taking and innovation. Success must be redistributed. The fastest way to build a high-performing team is to make sure they feel like the reason for winning. Failure is contextual, not absolute. In early stages (like sales), failure is learning. At higher levels, the stakes rise—but the mindset shouldn’t disappear, just evolve. Self-confidence is the foundation of good leadership behavior. You can’t give away credit or absorb blame if your identity is tied to recognition. AI won’t just replace jobs—it will redefine value. The real risk isn’t displacement—it’s failing to evolve your skillset fast enough to stay relevant. 🧩 The Personal Layer Erik’s reflection reveals something deeper: most leaders know what they should do—but struggle to actually do it. Why? Because the transition from individual contributor to leader challenges your identity. You were rewarded for winning. Now you’re rewarded for how others win. You were promoted because of your success. Now your success depends on how you handle failure. That internal tension is where most leaders get stuck. He also highlights a subtle but powerful truth: the ability to lead this way is directly tied to self-confidence. If you still need validation, recognition, or control—you’ll default back to old habits. 🧰 From Insight to Action Start with one shift: take public ownership this week. The next time something goes wrong, say it plainly: “That’s on me.” Then handle accountability privately. Actively redirect praise. When something goes right, name the individuals responsible—specifically and publicly. Audit your confidence triggers. Notice when you want recognition or feel defensive. That’s where growth lives. Lean into AI, don’t resist it. Build literacy. Use tools. Increase your output. Make yourself more valuable—not less replaceable. Reframe failure in your team culture. Treat first attempts as learning. Only repeated mistakes without adjustment become real failures. 🗣️ Notable Quotes “There’s really no such thing as failure—it’s just learning.” “Your team needs to know that when things go wrong, the buck stops with you.” “If they win, it’s their success. If they lose, it’s your responsibility.” “You need a tremendous amount of self-confidence to give away credit.” “Your ability to demonstrate value is going to matter more than ever.”🔗 Links & Resources Listen to Zia Mohi's Episode

    10 min
  4. 4d ago

    175: "Are You Leading Conversations… or Just Waiting to Talk?" (reflections on Nicole O'Sullivan)

    🧠 Erik’s Take This conversation with Nicole O’Sullivan went deeper than expected—and that’s exactly why it mattered. What stood out wasn’t just how to sell better, but how to think better about people. Erik reflects on a core shift: most communication breakdowns aren’t tactical—they’re patterned. We’re not bad at conversations because we lack scripts; we struggle because we’re running unconscious habits around listening, judging, and responding. The real unlock? Interrupting those patterns long enough to actually see the human in front of you. That’s where influence starts—not in persuasion, but in presence.  🎯 Top Insights from the Interview People don’t listen to understand—they listen to respond. Most conversations are pre-loaded with internal dialogue. Changing that pattern is the first step toward real connection. Everyone operates from a deeply ingrained communication pattern. These patterns were learned early and reinforced over time. Leaders who recognize them can actually develop better communicators. “Scratch the record” to break your brain’s pattern bias. Your brain wants shortcuts. Great leaders resist that instinct and stay curious instead of defaulting to assumptions. Every person is a fingerprint—not a category. Treating people like patterns kills connection. Treating them like individuals builds influence. The “Employee Bill of Rights” is a leadership baseline  People should always know: What they’re doing well What to improve What they’re aiming for How they’re held accountable 🧩 The Personal Layer This conversation didn’t just reinforce ideas—it challenged assumptions. Erik reflects on how easy it is to slip into pattern recognition when interacting with others. It’s efficient, but it’s also dangerous. It strips away nuance and replaces curiosity with certainty. He also acknowledges something harder: everyone has been on both sides of this. Being treated like a process instead of a person Treating someone else the same way That tension is where growth lives. There’s also a deeper realization here: Great communication isn’t about saying the right thing—it’s about earning the right to be heard by making the other person feel seen first. 🧰 From Insight to Action Audit your listening pattern. Ask yourself: Am I trying to respond… or trying to understand? Practice “scratching the record” in real time. When you feel yourself labeling someone—pause and get curious instead. Use the 4-question leadership framework in 1:1s. Make sure every team member can clearly answer: What am I doing well? What should I improve? What’s my goal? How am I measured? Slow down your responses. The pause between listening and speaking is where better leadership decisions happen. Replace judgment with a question. Instead of assuming, ask: “What might I be missing here?”🗣️ Notable Quotes “People don’t listen with the intent to engage—they listen with the intent to respond.” “Your brain wants patterns. Leadership requires you to interrupt them.” “Be curious, not judgmental.” “Everyone is a fingerprint.” “If people don’t feel seen, you don’t get influence.” 🔗 Links & Resources Listen to Nicole O'Sullivan's Episode

    11 min
  5. 173: Nicole O'Sullivan: "What If a Mindset Shift Could Add $56M to Your Sales?"

    5d ago

    173: Nicole O'Sullivan: "What If a Mindset Shift Could Add $56M to Your Sales?"

    Nicole O’Sullivan doesn’t teach sales tactics—she rewires how people think about selling. In this conversation, she and Erik explore why most sales conversations fail long before the pitch even begins. From the brain’s built-in shortcuts to the hidden beliefs that shape behavior, Nicole breaks down why even experienced salespeople miss what customers are clearly telling them—and how to fix it. This episode goes beyond sales. It’s about awareness, leadership, and the discipline required to interrupt your own patterns so you can actually connect with another human being. 👤 About the Guest Nicole O’Sullivan is a sales strategist and founder of Bird’s Eye View Consulting. With decades of experience across the global travel industry, she specializes in transforming sales performance by focusing on mindset, behavior, and emotional intelligence—not scripts or tactics. Her work centers on helping individuals and organizations become more effective by becoming more human. She does this through her mystery shopping and audits giving businesses she works with a full 360 Birds Eye View of their business and helps close the gaps to better sales results. 🧭 Conversation Highlights Why the biggest sales mistake isn’t what you say—it’s what you miss How the brain’s “shortcut system” (delete, distort, generalize) sabotages conversations The concept of “scratching the record” to interrupt unhelpful patterns Why curiosity beats judgment in every high-performing sales environment The hidden role of leadership in driving (or killing) sales performance A real-world case study: how a mindset shift led to $56M in growth Why most teams don’t have a sales problem—they have a thinking problem 💡 Key Takeaways Your brain is working against you. It filters information constantly, often causing you to miss what the customer is actually saying. Assumptions drive behavior—and results. What you think is happening shapes how you show up, which reinforces the outcome. Curiosity is a competitive advantage. The best salespeople slow down, ask better questions, and resist the urge to jump ahead. Sales is an inside-out game. Your effectiveness starts with self-awareness before it ever reaches the customer. Leadership amplifies everything. Sales performance is often a reflection of leadership clarity, coaching, and culture—not just individual skill. ❓ Questions That Mattered What’s actually happening in our brain when we stop listening? How do we interrupt automatic assumptions in real time? What evidence do we really have about the story we’re telling ourselves? What would change if we treated every customer as completely unique? Are we trying to fix the customer—or understand them? How do leaders create environments where real listening happens? 🗣️ Notable Quotes “There is a pattern that human beings have when it comes to listening and responding.”  “We either delete, distort, or generalize information.”  “No one wakes up in the morning and says, ‘I’m just going to waste someone’s time today.’”  “Get curious, not judgmental.” “If someone isn’t buying, you haven’t made them feel something.”  “You can’t change someone’s belief—but you can influence it.”  🔗 Links & Resources Follow Nicole O'Sullivan on LinkedIn

    1h 16m
  6. 172: Zia Mohi: "Are You Leading… or Just Taking Credit?"

    6d ago

    172: Zia Mohi: "Are You Leading… or Just Taking Credit?"

    In this conversation, Erik sits down with Zia Mohi, COO of CTI Staffing, to unpack a journey that started in reluctant sales and evolved into high-level operational leadership. What unfolds is a raw, practical exploration of effort, accountability, ego, and what it really takes to build high-performing teams. Zia brings a no-nonsense perspective shaped by trial, failure, and a willingness to “finally try.” From the bullpen at Xerox to leading large teams, he breaks down the mindset shifts that separate average performers from elite leaders—and why leadership success often hinges less on intelligence and more on ownership, consistency, and emotional discipline. 👤 About the Guest Zia Mohi is the COO of CTI Staffing, where he helps companies scale through smarter hiring, operational strategy, and talent solutions. With a foundation in sales during the Great Recession, Zia built his career by mastering effort-driven performance and translating those lessons into leadership, team development, and operational excellence.  🧭 Conversation Highlights The Moment Everything Changed. Zia realized he wasn’t losing because of skill—he was losing because he wasn’t trying. That single decision flipped his trajectory. Effort Beats Everything. Education, charisma, talent—they all matter less than consistent, high-volume effort over time. From Sales to Leadership (The Hard Way). Transitioning into leadership meant letting go of personal wins and learning how to win through others. Failing Forward as a Leader. A major operational bet failed—but built trust, clarified strategy, and improved team morale. Everyone Is in Sales (Whether They Admit It or Not). From recruiters to bookkeepers, every role involves influencing outcomes—aka selling. 💡 Key Takeaways Effort is the ultimate differentiator. You can’t out-strategize a lack of action. Volume and consistency win. There are no mistakes—only repeated ones. Failure is part of the process. Repeating the same failure is the real problem. Leadership requires ego reduction. The shift from “look at me” to “build them” is what unlocks real influence. Trust is built when leaders own failure. Taking responsibility—especially publicly—creates psychological safety. Alignment beats compliance. People don’t care about quotas. They care about what those quotas unlock in their lives. ❓ Questions That Mattered  What changes when you actually decide to try?  How do you lead through failure without losing your team’s trust?  What does accountability look like when you’re the one who got it wrong?  How do you motivate people who don’t care about company goals?  What happens when you treat every role as a sales role? 🗣️ Notable Quotes  “The only difference between me and him… is that he tries.”  “There are no mistakes—only learning. Unless you do it twice.”  “Luck is just hard work and timing meeting up.”  “Pass the praise, absorb the blame.”  “If you’re not helping with sales, your value is diminished.” 🔗 Links & Resources Follow Zia Mohi on LinkedInCheck out CTI's Website: ctistaff.com

    1h 29m
  7. 171: "Can Companies with 5 Employees and 50 Digital Employees Thrive?" ft. Justin Coats

    Jun 9

    171: "Can Companies with 5 Employees and 50 Digital Employees Thrive?" ft. Justin Coats

    Erik and Justin unpack what an “AI orchestration layer” actually means when agents move from experiments into day-to-day operations. They focus on the practical shift from building tools to managing systems: mirroring the org chart with digital agents, defining who maintains them, and creating an auditing layer so leaders can trust performance at scale. 🧭 Conversation Highlights Teams are quickly moving from a handful of agents to managing 5 to 10 agents per person, and that forces org design questions, not just tooling questions.Justin frames the orchestration layer as translating real job responsibilities into AI agents, then stacking the necessary “maintenance” role to keep them current and connected.An agent’s basic structure includes channels (where it can communicate), instructions/persona (its “job description”), skills (step-by-step processes written in plain language), plus memory and accessAuditing is still emerging: some systems show activity and conversational logs, but companies will need better frameworks to measure outcomes, effectiveness, and risk across many agents.💡 Key Takeaways The big change is managerial: leaders (and future roles) will oversee two mirrored systems, humans in the physical org chart and agents in the digital one.Maintenance becomes its own discipline because agents rely on specific workflows, skills, knowledge files, tool integrations, and ongoing updates.Agent development can be lower-friction than people expect because “skills” and “instructions” can be described in natural language rather than requiring traditional software engineering.Trust at scale will depend on auditing: what agents did, how well they did it, and whether changes (like tool updates or memory behavior) quietly degrade performance.❓ Questions That Mattered Who should own agent maintenance when one person might end up responsible for dozens of digital entities?What does an agent need in order to operate reliably (channels, instructions, skills, knowledge, memory) and how do those parts change over time?Where does visibility come from today: can you audit outcomes and correctness, not just view that the agent “worked”?How do you measure agent effectiveness in a way that’s actually accountable, like tracking nudges, accept rates, and task completion?🗣️ Notable Quotes “You need to start thinking about how you manage two mirrored org charts where you have for every position 5 to 10 different digital entities.”“What you're talking about is a new job, a new role. It lives sort of in IT, it lives sort of in HR.”“Agents are fairly new. Last year, 2025, the infrastructure for agents to work was being worked on. Now that infrastructure exists.”🔗 Links & Resources Listen To Other Episodes Co-Hosted With Justin

    43 min
  8. 170: "What Changes When You Start Leading Leaders?" ft. Alli Murphy

    Jun 8

    170: "What Changes When You Start Leading Leaders?" ft. Alli Murphy

    Erik and Alli compare notes on what goes wrong when high-performing leaders move from managing individual contributors to leading leaders. They highlight recurring gaps, including losing ground-level visibility, suddenly being expected to influence strategy at higher levels, and struggling to develop and communicate effectively with the leaders beneath you. 🧭 Conversation Highlights The IC to people-manager transition often isn’t taught, so the “leader of leaders” shift compounds the learning-by-trial-and-error problem.A common trap is staying in the weeds and trying to personally verify what’s happening below, rather than building systems to keep you connected without micromanaging.New leadership layers add boardroom dynamics: you’re expected to influence peers and strategy, not just execute plans handed to you.When people are promoted over peers, they can develop a “prove I earned this” posture and also face more incomplete-information and uncertainty.💡 Key Takeaways Leaders of leaders need leverage, not more hands-on work: the goal is to stay informed via systems and influence rather than re-owning problems.Strategy competence becomes an operational skill. You need time to understand what senior leadership cares about so you can connect that to execution.Communication and development channels often break when you lose direct visibility. You need a clearer framework for discussing performance and coaching needs with the leaders under you.Delegation and coaching are the foundational multiplier. If you get it right at the IC level, you can teach it downward through your leadership layer.❓ Questions That Mattered What common gaps show up when people move from leading ICs to leading leaders without being supported through the transition?How should new leaders adjust when they no longer have ground-level visibility but are still accountable for outcomes?What changes when you enter boardroom and peer-influence dynamics rather than only executing strategy?Which single competency would you bet on for someone preparing for the “uncharted water” of leading leaders?🗣️ Notable Quotes “their job is not therapist.”“Sometimes there isn't one.”“learn how to delegate well and actually coach people.”“that game of incomplete information is often new when you move into this lead leaders role”🔗 Links & Resources Listen To Other Episodes Co-Hosted With Alli

    19 min
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Most people know the headline of a leader’s story. Few know the path it took to get there. This podcast goes beyond titles, book launches and business wins, to explore the lived journey behind the thought leader. Through deep, unhurried conversations, we uncover the moments that shaped them—the doubts, pivots, convictions, and quiet breakthroughs that built their body of work. Each episode features authors, coaches, executives, and bold thinkers who have forged their own path. Instead of rehearsed talking points, they’re invited into a space where thoughtful questions unlock something more human. The result is a layered conversation that reveals not just what they preach, but how they became the kind of person who can teach it.Because we believe the best stories aren’t always told—they’re revealed. And when brilliant people are given the right questions and the room to answer them fully, what emerges is insight you can feel, frameworks you can apply, and a deeper understanding of what it truly takes to lead, create, and contribute at a meaningful level.