Abundantly Loved Podcast

Gwendolyn Miller

Abundantly Loved Podcast is a discipleship movement for women ready to break free from low self-esteem, self-judgment, and the relationship wounds that keep us from truly seeing and seeking Jesus. Here, we believe that love—real, healing, Christ-centered love—is the most powerful force for transformation. Through His love, we discover freedom, identity, and deep, lasting healing.

  1. 2d ago

    Healing What Denial Has Covered

    Send us Fan Mail Denial may hide the wound, but it can never heal it. In this episode, we explore what it means to begin healing the places that denial has covered for far too long. Whether the damage is in our relationship with God, with others, or within ourselves, healing begins when we have the courage to acknowledge the truth. We'll talk about repairing broken relationships and why genuine healing requires us to take responsibility for the ways we've hurt others instead of focusing only on how we've been hurt. Jesus calls us to examine the "plank" in our own eye before pointing out the faults of someone else. As we recognize the mercy God has extended to us, we learn to extend that same forgiveness to others. We'll also discuss the important difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. While reconciliation isn't always possible—or even wise—for every relationship, forgiveness is always part of God's invitation to freedom. Forgiveness releases the burden of bitterness and creates space for God to heal what has been broken. Healing isn't about pretending the pain never happened. It's about allowing God to uncover what denial has hidden, restore what has been damaged, and transform our hearts through His love and grace. If you're carrying unresolved hurt, struggling to forgive, or longing for restored relationships, this episode will encourage you to step into the light, trust God's healing process, and discover that true healing begins when we stop hiding our wounds and place them in the hands of the Great Healer. Because what denial covers, God's love is able to heal. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  2. Jul 14

    The Courage to Face the Truth: Overcoming Denial

    Send us Fan Mail Freedom begins where denial ends. In this episode, we explore what it truly means to come out of denial and step into the life God has for us. While denial may temporarily shield us from pain, it also keeps us from experiencing the healing, freedom, and intimacy that God desires. Facing the truth takes courage—but it is also the beginning of transformation. Together, we'll discuss the biblical path of confession, repentance, and humility, and how these are not acts of shame but invitations into God's grace. As we bring our lives into the light, we discover that God doesn't meet us with condemnation—He meets us with mercy, forgiveness, and the power to change. We'll also examine what Scripture teaches about truth as the doorway to freedom through John 8:31–32, Psalm 32:3–5, 1 John 1:5–10, and James 1:13–18. These passages remind us that God calls us to walk in the light, to take responsibility for our choices, and to trust that His truth always leads to life. If you've found yourself hiding behind excuses, minimizing your struggles, or feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns, this episode will encourage you to take the courageous first step toward freedom. You don't have to keep pretending. God's invitation is simple: come into the light, receive His grace, and discover the freedom that only truth can bring. The truth may be difficult to face, but in Christ, it is never something to fear. It is the doorway to healing, restoration, and a deeper intimacy with the God who loves you completely. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  3. Jul 7

    When Denial Becomes a Lifestyle

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when denial is no longer a temporary defense but becomes the way we live? In this episode, we explore the subtle but dangerous ways denial can shape our hearts, relationships, and spiritual lives. Over time, we can begin to create an idealized version of reality—seeing what we wish were true instead of what actually is. While denial may protect us from pain for a season, it can also keep us spiritually stagnant, emotionally disconnected, and unable to experience the freedom God desires for us. Together, we'll examine chronic denial, the patterns we inherit through our families and culture, and the danger of appearing spiritually "fine" while quietly becoming numb on the inside. Most importantly, we'll talk about what it means to take off the clothes of denial and put on the truth—not as an act of shame, but as an invitation into healing, freedom, and deeper intimacy with God. God never calls us to pretend. He calls us to bring our whole selves before Him. When we have the courage to be honest about where we are, we make room for His grace to meet us there. The path to transformation begins with truth. If you've ever felt stuck, disconnected, or like you're simply going through the motions, this episode will encourage you to step out of denial, embrace God's truth, and begin walking in the freedom that comes from living authentically before Him. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  4. Jun 30

    Conviction vs. Condemnation Part 2: Running to Jesus

    Send us Fan Mail In this second part of our conversation on conviction versus condemnation, I walk through the powerful journey of the sinful woman and the Pharisee. I unpack how the sinful woman moved from the trap of self-condemnation—those lies like “I’m not good enough” or “no one loves me”—toward conviction, choosing to fight through those negative thoughts and, instead, press into Jesus' love. I contrast her journey with the Pharisee’s self-righteousness and speak about how we often fear others’ judgments. But through it all, nothing can separate us from God’s love. This episode is a reminder that His love is constant, and His grace invites us closer, no matter what our thoughts or others say. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  5. Jun 22

    Conviction vs. Condemnation: Drawing Near to God Instead of Running Away

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever made a mistake and found yourself overwhelmed by guilt, shame, or self-judgment? Have you ever felt like your failures disqualified you from God's love? In this episode, we explore the critical difference between conviction and condemnation and how each impacts our relationship with God. While condemnation leads us into shame, self-rejection, and distance from God, conviction from the Holy Spirit invites us into repentance, healing, and deeper intimacy with Him. Through the stories of Peter and Judas, we'll examine two very different responses to failure. Both men betrayed Jesus, yet one allowed shame to pull him away while the other experienced restoration through God's grace. What made the difference? Join me as we discuss how self-condemnation can become a roadblock to experiencing God's love and why God's heart is always to draw us closer, not push us away. If you've struggled with guilt, shame, perfectionism, or feeling unworthy of God's love, this episode will encourage you to embrace His compassion, receive His grace, and walk in the freedom that comes through true repentance. God is not waiting to condemn you—He is inviting you closer. Tune in and discover how conviction leads to transformation while condemnation keeps us trapped in shame. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  6. Jun 15

    Denial and Our Image of God

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we explore how denial can impact the way we see God and receive His love. Many of us unknowingly carry beliefs about God that were shaped by our experiences with earthly authority figures, especially our fathers. If our fathers were absent, critical, emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or difficult to trust, we may unconsciously project those same characteristics onto God. As a result, we can begin to see God through the lens of our wounds rather than through the truth of His Word. We may believe He is disappointed in us, angry with us, impossible to please, or waiting to punish us for our mistakes. These distorted beliefs can create distance in our relationship with Him and hinder our ability to experience true intimacy. In this episode, I also discuss how shame can cause us to misconstrue God’s love. When we are carrying guilt, shame, or feelings of unworthiness, we often assume that God sees us the same way we see ourselves. Instead of running toward His love, we run away from it. We hide, withdraw, and avoid His presence because we believe our failures have disqualified us from being fully loved by Him. But the truth is that God’s love does not diminish because of our struggles. His love is what draws us out of hiding. Just as God pursued Adam and Eve in the garden after they sinned, He continues to pursue us today. He is not looking for reasons to reject us; He is inviting us into healing, restoration, and deeper intimacy with Him. My prayer is that this episode helps you identify any distorted beliefs you may have about God, confront the shame that has kept you distant from Him, and discover the freedom that comes from being fully known and fully loved. True intimacy with God begins when we stop running from His love and allow ourselves to receive it. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  7. Jun 8

    How Our Behavior Affects Others

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we continue our discussion on denial by exploring one of its most damaging effects: how it blinds us to the impact our behavior has on others. When we live in denial, we can become so accustomed to our attitudes, habits, and ways of thinking that we simply dismiss them as, "That's just who I am." But what if the very behaviors we've accepted as normal are hurting the people around us and hindering our relationship with God? We also examine the role pride plays in keeping us from seeing the truth. Pride can convince us that we don't need to change, while denial keeps us from recognizing the consequences of our actions. Yet God calls us to a life of transformation, not stagnation. In this episode, I challenge listeners to ask an important question: Who am I following? The world offers one path, while God's Word offers another. Every day, our choices reveal whose voice we are listening to and whose example we are following. If our goal is to become more like Jesus, we must be willing to honestly examine our lives, acknowledge behaviors that do not reflect His character, and surrender them to Him. My prayer is that this episode awakens you to areas where denial may be keeping you from growth, encourages you to embrace humility over pride, and inspires you to pursue the transformation that leads to deeper intimacy with God. Becoming more like Jesus begins with being honest about where we are and allowing Him to change us. Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

  8. Jun 1

    Denial and Self-Deception Part 2

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, “Denial and Self-Deception,” I take a deeper look at the life of Saul and how denial and self-deception slowly hardened his heart before God. Saul started off humble, small in his own eyes, and chosen by God for leadership. But somewhere along the way, he lost sight of who he was and the responsibility that came with the position God entrusted to him. Instead of fully obeying God, Saul began compromising. He justified his actions, shifted blame, and refused to take ownership for what he allowed the people under his leadership to do. Even when confronted, Saul minimized his disobedience and became more concerned with appearances than true repentance. His denial blinded him to the condition of his heart and ultimately affected his relationship with God. In this episode, I specifically speak to leaders, pastors, preachers, ministers, and those entrusted with the care of others. What happens when we turn a blind eye to sin, compromise, and behaviors that go against God? What happens when we allow people under our leadership to continue in destructive patterns instead of lovingly leading them toward truth and repentance? Sometimes self-deception does not look like open rebellion—it looks like excuses, justification, partial obedience, people-pleasing, or protecting our image while ignoring what God is trying to confront in us. We can become so comfortable with compromise that we normalize what God has called us to address. God does not call leaders to simply maintain crowds; He calls us to shepherd hearts with truth, love, accountability, and integrity. Grace was never meant to make us comfortable in sin. Grace was meant to transform us, convict us, and draw us deeper into intimacy and obedience to God. Jesus died for sin, and when we excuse, ignore, or normalize what separates us from God, we have to honestly ask ourselves: What are we saying to Him through our disobedience? What are we modeling for the people entrusted to our care? This episode is a call to self-examination, humility, repentance, and awakening. My prayer is that it challenges every listener—especially those in leadership—to confront areas of denial, take responsibility before God, and return to a posture of wholehearted obedience and intimacy with Him. 💛 Support the show Please fill out this form to share your thoughts about the podcast: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScPbfYpBw2YqRrmkkWwfrIze0Lar-42kW9ucN8iW60fB0EeXA/viewform?usp=publish-editor Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @abundantlylovedpodcast Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm If you want to share your thoughts with Ms. Gwendolyn, you can email her at MsGwendolyn@abundantlylovedpodcast.com Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

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Abundantly Loved Podcast is a discipleship movement for women ready to break free from low self-esteem, self-judgment, and the relationship wounds that keep us from truly seeing and seeking Jesus. Here, we believe that love—real, healing, Christ-centered love—is the most powerful force for transformation. Through His love, we discover freedom, identity, and deep, lasting healing.