Slightly Unsupervised | Female Friendship and Realtalk |Best Friends Podcast

Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder | Women of Power Podcast
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Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. Slightly Unsupervised is a friendship podcast about the kind of soulmates who don't come with a marriage license. Hosted by lifelong best friends Jennifer Hobbs and Jackie Schroeder, this best friends podcast explores female friendship, chosen family, emotional growth, and the relationships that witness our lives. Through honest conversations, laughter, and real-life stories, Jennifer and Jackie dive into friendship breakups, loyalty, boundaries, healing, motherhood, identity, reinvention, and the emotional support women provide each other through every season of life. As the creators of Bestiemony®—A Different Kind of Love Story—they believe some of the greatest loves of our lives are friendships. The women who stand beside us, help us survive life's challenges, and remind us who we are when we've forgotten. Whether you're celebrating your ride-or-die, healing from a friendship loss, navigating life's changes, or searching for deeper connection, Slightly Unsupervised offers real talk, bestie energy, and meaningful conversations about female friendship and platonic soulmates. Because friendship isn't just part of life. Sometimes it's the love story that helps define it. 🎧 New episodes every week. 💍 Learn more about Bestiemony®:rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony

  1. 1d ago

    Friendship & Mental Health | Why Your Best Friend Can Be Your Lifeline (Without Becoming Your Therapist)

    Send us Fan Mail What if the most powerful thing you could do for your best friend... wasn't to fix her, but simply to show up?  In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie have an honest conversation about the connection between female friendship and mental health. Growing up in Generation X, they reflect on a time when anxiety, depression, burnout, and emotional struggles were rarely talked about—and how many women still hide behind the words, "I'm just tired."  Through personal stories, laughter, and real-life experiences, they explore how best friends can become emotional lifelines by creating safe spaces to be heard, understood, and supported—while also recognizing when it's time to encourage professional help.  In this episode, they discuss:   Why women often hide their emotional struggles  The invisible weight of anxiety, burnout, and overwhelm  Why so many women say, "I'm just tired," instead of asking for help  The difference between listening and trying to fix someone's problems  How to recognize when a friend may need more support  Why showing up consistently matters more than having the perfect advice  How to support someone without carrying their emotional burden  Why friendship can be the bridge that helps someone take the first step toward healing  Jennifer and Jackie also share stories from their own lives, including growing up in a generation where mental health wasn't openly discussed, learning to support friends without judgment, and why sometimes the greatest gift you can give another woman is simply saying...   "You don't have to carry this alone."   Because friendship isn't about having all the answers.   It's about reminding someone they're never alone while they find them.     Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: What genuine friendship offers beyond advice  02:30 - The importance of understanding and respecting each other's strengths and weaknesses  05:20 - How celebrating wins and avoiding competition strengthen friendships  09:00 - Supporting mental health: showing up and recognizing warning signs  11:34 - Practical ways to help friends through emotional struggles  16:00 - The value of grace, forgiveness, and knowing when professional help is needed  20:00 - The role of environment and knowing who to turn to for help  24:30 - The essence of vulnerability, inside jokes, and laughter in friendship  28:00 - Final encouragement: You don’t have to carry emotional burdens alone.  Resources & Links  💖 Watch Real Bestiemonies  YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Bestiemony  Watch women from across the country share the stories of the friendships that changed their lives and experience their heartfelt Bestiemony ceremonies.   🌸 Celebrate Your Own Best Friendship  Official Bestiemony Website: https://www.bestiemony.com  Learn about the Bestiemony experience, explore ceremony options, and book a celebration for your own lifelong best friend.   💍 Hosted at Rhinestone Wedding Chapel  Bestiemonies are held at:  https://www.rhinestoneweddingchapel.com  Located in Nashville, Tennessee, the chapel is home to the original Bestiemony® ceremony, created to honor the extraordinary bond between best friends.   🎙️ Listen to More Episodes of Slightly Unsupervised  If you'd like to hear more conversations about female friendship, emotional resilience, and the women who help us survive life, subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised wherever you listen to podcasts.    Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  2. Aug 3

    What Healthy Female Friendship Really Looks Like | Best Friends, Bestie Energy & Lifelong Connection

    Send us Fan Mail What Healthy Female Friendship Really Looks Like | Best Friends, Bestie Energy & Lifelong Connection  What does a healthy female friendship actually look like?  In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie turn the microphone on themselves to explore why listeners connect so deeply with their conversations. It's not just because they talk about friendship—it's because listeners hear a real one.  After decades of friendship, 15 years apart, and finding their way back to each other, Jennifer and Jackie share the habits, mindset, and everyday moments that have made their friendship stronger than ever.  If you've ever wished for a lifelong best friend, this episode offers practical lessons and real-life examples of what healthy friendship looks like—not through theory, but through experience.  In this episode, you'll discover:   Why healthy female friendship is built on support, not competition  What bestie energy really means in everyday life  How lifelong best friends adapt to each other's strengths  Why celebrating your friend's success strengthens your own life  How forgiveness helps friendships survive difficult seasons  Why fighting for your friend matters more than fighting with them  The role of laughter, loyalty, grace, and unconditional acceptance in lasting friendships  Why some of life's greatest love stories don't come with a marriage license  Jennifer and Jackie also answer heartfelt Bestie Rapid Questions, sharing what makes them feel safe, supported, and deeply connected after decades of friendship. Whether you're searching for a best friends podcast, a female friendship podcast, or simply wondering how to build stronger, healthier relationships, this conversation will remind you that lifelong friendship isn't about finding the perfect friend—it's about becoming one. 🎥 Watch incredible Bestiemony friendship stories on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Bestiemonies If this episode made you think of your best friend, share it with her. One conversation can strengthen a friendship that lasts a lifetime. Slightly Unsupervised is the podcast where lifelong best friends Jennifer and Jackie explore female friendship, chosen family, platonic soulmates, and the real conversations that help women build stronger, healthier relationships—one story at a time.  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  3. Jul 27

    Can Social Media Make Us Feel Less Connected? Real Talk on Friendship & Tech

    Send us Fan Mail Can social media actually make us feel less connected?  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised | Best Friends Podcast | Real Talk on Female Friendship, Jennifer and Jackie tackle one of the biggest challenges facing friendships today: how social media is changing the way women connect.  From comparison culture and filtered perfection to texting instead of talking, they explore why likes, comments, and emojis can never replace real conversations, coffee dates, and the friends who truly show up when life gets hard.  Along the way, they share hilarious personal stories—including Jennifer's son reporting his internet provider after losing internet for a few hours, Jackie's unforgettable "LOL" misunderstanding, passive-aggressive Facebook posts, holiday decorating competitions, and why sometimes the best thing you can do is simply pick up the phone instead of sending another emoji.  If you've ever wondered how to protect lifelong friendships in a digital world, this episode is for you.  In this episode, we discuss:  💜 Female friendship in the age of social media  💜 Why comparison steals connection  💜 Bestie energy vs. online validation  💜 How chosen family stays connected across distance  💜 Friendship support beyond likes and comments  💜 Why authentic conversations matter more than perfect posts  💜 Raising the next generation to value real friendships  Whether you've known your best friend for forty years or you're still searching for your platonic soulmate, this conversation is a reminder that the strongest friendships aren't measured by followers—they're measured by who shows up.  🎧 New episodes every week.  If this episode made you think about your ride-or-die, send it to her.  Because the best love stories don't always come with a ring.  This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  4. Jul 20

    Bestie Energy and the Truth About Female Overwhelm and Emotional Labor

    Send us Fan Mail Everything’s Hunky Dory… Right? | The Exhaustion of Pretending You’re Fine  “I’m fine.”  Three simple words that women say every day... even when they're exhausted, overwhelmed, lonely, anxious, and barely holding it together.  In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie explore the hidden emotional burden so many women carry: the need to make everyone believe everything is "hunky dory" while quietly struggling behind the scenes.  They discuss how many women are conditioned from childhood to become caretakers, peacekeepers, problem-solvers, and emotional shock absorbers for everyone around them. Over time, being needed becomes an identity—and when that identity is challenged, whether through empty nesting, changing family dynamics, aging, menopause, marriage struggles, or burnout, many women find themselves feeling lost and alone.  In this episode, Jennifer and Jackie talk about:   Why women feel responsible for holding everything together  How childhood roles shape adult behavior  The emotional cost of always being "the strong one"  Why asking for help feels uncomfortable  Empty nest syndrome and identity loss  The loneliness that comes from pretending you're okay  Why women struggle with vulnerability  The difference between privacy and emotional isolation  How female friendships help us survive life's hardest seasons  They also share personal stories about childhood responsibility, motherhood, marriage, therapy, emotional burnout, and learning that strength isn't about carrying everything alone.   Because maybe real strength isn't pretending you're okay.   Maybe real strength is finally admitting you're not.   And allowing the people who love you to help carry the weight.   Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  5. Jul 13

    Unlocking Bestie Energy: The Power of Female Friendship

    Send us Fan Mail What exactly is Bestie Energy—and why do some friendships feel like home? In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie explore the meaning behind the phrase "Bestie Energy" and why female friendship may be one of the most important relationships in our lives. From Oprah and Gayle to Lucy and Ethel, Monica and Rachel, and even Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez, they break down different friendship energy styles and what makes certain friendships stand the test of time. They also share stories from Bestiemony®, their friendship ceremony created to celebrate platonic soulmates and the women who help us survive life's biggest challenges. Along the way, they discuss friendship support, chosen family, emotional safety, loyalty, jealousy, competition, and the green flags that signal you've found your person. Plus, hear highlights from the inspiring friendship stories of Bonnie & Brenda and Mandi & Billie, two best friend pairs whose journeys remind us why friendship deserves recognition. If you've ever had a ride-or-die best friend, lost one, or are still looking for one, this episode is a reminder that some of the greatest love stories of our lives aren't romantic—they're friendships. In this episode: • What Bestie Energy really means • Friendship green flags and red flags • Why female friendship matters as we get older • Chosen family and platonic soulmates • Friendship support and emotional safety • Bestiemony friendship stories • The power of lifelong best friends 🎧 New episodes weekly. 💜 Share this episode with your best friend. 💍 Learn more about Bestiemony® at RhinestoneWeddingChapel.com/Bestiemony Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  6. Jul 6

    How Lifelong Female Friendship Survives Everything | Mandi & Billie's Bestiemony Story

    Send us Fan Mail How Lifelong Female Friendship Survives Everything | Mandi & Billie's Bestiemony Story  What makes a friendship last nearly 40 years?  In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Unsupervised | Best Friends Podcast | Real Talk on Female Friendship, Jennifer and Jackie sit down with Mandi and Billie, lifelong best friends whose remarkable friendship has become one of the most inspiring stories featured through Bestiemony®.  Rather than retelling their entire story, this conversation explores what happened after their Bestiemony ceremony, what they've learned about loyalty, forgiveness, raising children while modeling healthy friendships, and why women need friendships that can survive every season of life.  Together, they discuss what it means to truly know where you stand with someone, why lifelong friendships require grace instead of perfection, and how chosen family can become one of the greatest love stories of our lives.  If you've ever had a ride-or-die best friend, lost one, or hope to find one, this episode is a powerful reminder that female friendship deserves to be celebrated.  💜 Watch Mandi & Billie's full Bestiemony story on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Bestiemonies  In this episode we discuss:  ✨ Lifelong female friendship  ✨ Bestie energy and chosen family  ✨ Friendship support through life's hardest seasons  ✨ Raising children who value healthy friendships  ✨ Why platonic soulmates deserve celebration  ✨ How Bestiemony® is changing the conversation around friendship  If this episode reminds you of your person, share it with her. Some of life's greatest love stories don't come with a marriage license.  🎙️ New episodes every week.  This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  7. Jun 29

    Best Friends & Soulmates: The Power of Female Friendship Beyond Romance

    Send us Fan Mail Can You Have More Than One Soulmate? What if one of the greatest love stories of your life isn't romantic at all? In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie explore a question that challenges everything we've been taught about love: Can you have more than one soulmate? Most people think of a soulmate as a romantic partner, but what if your best friend is also one of your soulmates? Jennifer and Jackie share their own journey through friendship, separation, reconnection, and the powerful realization that some relationships never truly leave us. Together they discuss the difference between romantic soulmates and platonic soulmates, why female friendship deserves more recognition, and how the women who witness our lives often become some of our greatest sources of friendship support. You'll also hear reflections on lifelong friendship, chosen family, ride-or-die bonds, and why friendship may be one of the most overlooked love stories in our culture. In This Episode: 💜 Can you have more than one soulmate? 💜 What makes a friendship soulmate different from a romantic soulmate? 💜 Why female friendship matters more as we get older 💜 Friendship support and emotional resilience 💜 Chosen family and lifelong connection 💜 Jennifer & Jackie's friendship story 💜 Why Bestiemony® was created If you've ever had a best friend who knew your history, reminded you who you are, and stood beside you through every season of life, this episode is for you. Because some of the greatest love stories don't come with a marriage license. 🎧 New episodes every week. 💍 Learn more about Bestiemony® at RhinestoneWeddingChapel.com/Bestiemony Chapter Markers 00:00 – Welcome to Slightly Unsupervised Jennifer and Jackie introduce the episode and ask: Can you have more than one soulmate? 01:12 – What Is a Soulmate, Really? Exploring the traditional definition of soulmates and why best friends deserve to be part of the conversation.  02:45 – Romantic Soulmates vs. Best Friend Soulmates Why friendship soulmates can reconnect after years apart while romantic relationships often require constant nurturing.  05:10 – Why Best Friend Soulmates Feel Like Coming Home Jennifer explains how a soulmate friendship becomes part of your identity and why true friendship never really disappears.  06:50 – Why Female Friendships Matter More Than We Acknowledge A conversation about society's focus on romantic love and why lifelong friendships deserve celebration too.  08:55 – When Relationships Pull Friends Apart Jennifer and Jackie reflect on losing touch for years and how unhealthy relationships can isolate women from their closest friends.  10:00 – Signs You've Found a Friendship Soulmate The qualities that define a soulmate friendship, from remembering your dreams to standing beside you through every version of yourself.  12:05 – Billie & Mandi: A Real-Life Friendship Soulmate Story Why Billie and Mandi's Bestiemony perfectly illustrates lifelong friendship, unconditional love, and choosing each other through every season of life.  13:15 – Bestie Rapid Fire! Who answers the phone at 2 a.m.? Who gives brutally honest advice? Who remembers everything from high school? Jennifer and Jackie compare notes.  15:35 – What Makes a Soulmate Friendship So Different? The two friends reflect on knowing each other so deeply that words often aren't necessary.  16:40 – What My Best Friend Understands That Nobody Else Does Jennifer and Jackie share what makes their friendship unique and why shared history creates an irreplaceable bond.  18:30 – What We Admire Most About Each Other An emotional exchange about loyalty, drive, unwavering support, and why they've remained each other's ride-or-die through every stage of life.  21:50 – Love Is Bigger Than Romance Jennifer closes with a heartfelt reminder that some of the greatest love stories in our lives are the friendships that stand beside us through everything.  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

  8. Jun 22

    When Your Best Friend's Marriage Breaks | A Friendship Podcast Guide

    Send us Fan Mail How to Help a Woman Through a Marital Crisis | Supporting Her Without Losing Yourself  One of the hardest things in the world is watching someone you love slowly break inside a relationship… while trying to pretend they’re okay.  In this deeply honest and emotional episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie talk about what it really means to support a woman through a marital crisis — without judging her, controlling her, or losing yourself in the process.  Drawing from their own experiences with divorce, heartbreak, emotional survival, and supporting friends through painful relationships, they unpack the complicated reality women face when marriages begin falling apart.  They discuss:   Why most women stay silent in the beginning  The emotional weight women carry during marital struggles  Why telling her what to do too quickly can backfire  The difference between support and enabling  Why women often stay longer than people understand  How to help a woman rebuild strength and confidence  Why peace becomes more important than happiness  The loneliness, fear, shame, and identity loss women experience during divorce  Jennifer and Jackie also share personal stories about divorce, emotional exhaustion, protecting children, learning to stay neutral, and the difficult balance between wanting to rescue someone and simply standing beside them while they find their own strength. When your best friend's marriage is crumbling, how do you show up without losing yourself?  Jennifer and Jackie explore what it really means to be a platonic soulmate during marital crisis—the emotional labor, the boundaries, and how to stay grounded while witnessing her fall apart.   Because sometimes the most powerful thing a woman can hear during a hard season is:   “You are not going through this alone.”  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at Bestiemonies@gmail.com

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Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. Slightly Unsupervised is a friendship podcast about the kind of soulmates who don't come with a marriage license. Hosted by lifelong best friends Jennifer Hobbs and Jackie Schroeder, this best friends podcast explores female friendship, chosen family, emotional growth, and the relationships that witness our lives. Through honest conversations, laughter, and real-life stories, Jennifer and Jackie dive into friendship breakups, loyalty, boundaries, healing, motherhood, identity, reinvention, and the emotional support women provide each other through every season of life. As the creators of Bestiemony®—A Different Kind of Love Story—they believe some of the greatest loves of our lives are friendships. The women who stand beside us, help us survive life's challenges, and remind us who we are when we've forgotten. Whether you're celebrating your ride-or-die, healing from a friendship loss, navigating life's changes, or searching for deeper connection, Slightly Unsupervised offers real talk, bestie energy, and meaningful conversations about female friendship and platonic soulmates. Because friendship isn't just part of life. Sometimes it's the love story that helps define it. 🎧 New episodes every week. 💍 Learn more about Bestiemony®:rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony

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