POMpod: The Peace of Mind Podcast

Travis Gasper, Gasper Law in Texas
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The Peace of Mind Podcast takes the confusion out of estate planning for everyone—LGBTQ+ individuals, blended families, and anyone who wants to protect what matters most. Travis Gasper, attorney and founder of Gasper Law in Texas, answers your real-life questions, busts myths, and offers practical tips in a clear, inclusive, and supportive way. Get empowered to plan your legacy, safeguard your loved ones, and find peace of mind for the future—one episode at a time.

  1. Will vs. Trust in Texas: How to Choose Without Overthinking

    3D AGO

    Will vs. Trust in Texas: How to Choose Without Overthinking

    Do you really need a trust, or is a will enough? In this episode of POMpod: The Peace of Mind Podcast, Travis Gasper breaks down the difference between wills and trusts in Texas—without the jargon, pressure, or overthinking. Learn what each option does, common misconceptions, and how to choose the right approach based on your life, not internet advice.

    7 min
  2. Beneficiaries 101: The Simple Mistakes That Cause Big Problems

    FEB 2

    Beneficiaries 101: The Simple Mistakes That Cause Big Problems

    Beneficiary designations are one of the most overlooked parts of estate planning—and one of the easiest ways for a plan to quietly fall apart. In this episode of POMpod—the Peace of Mind Podcast, Travis Gasper explains what beneficiary designations actually do, how they interact with (and often override) wills and trusts, and the common mistakes that can lead to confusion or unintended outcomes. We talk through why outdated beneficiaries are so common, why naming minors directly can create problems, and how reviewing beneficiary designations is a simple but powerful way to keep your estate plan working the way you intend.This episode is especially helpful if you have life insurance, retirement accounts, or financial accounts you set up years ago and haven’t looked at since. In this episode, you’ll learn: What a beneficiary designation is—and why it mattersWhy your will or trust may not override beneficiary formsCommon beneficiary mistakes after marriage, divorce, or having kidsWhy naming contingent (backup) beneficiaries is importantHow beneficiary designations fit into a coordinated estate planWhen and how often to review your beneficiariesIf this episode made you think, “I should probably review that,” you’re not alone. Small updates can make a big difference. Learn more about our planning process at www.gasperplan.com.

    6 min
  3. Who Will Raise Your Kids? A Calm, Clear Guide to Guardianship Planning

    JAN 28

    Who Will Raise Your Kids? A Calm, Clear Guide to Guardianship Planning

    Guardianship planning is one of the most loving things you can do for your children—and one of the easiest things to avoid because it feels heavy. In this episode, we walk through guardianship planning in a calm, supportive way—without fear-based messaging or legal jargon. You’ll learn what it means to name a guardian, what happens when parents don’t leave clear guidance, and how to think through this decision in a way that reflects your values and your child’s needs. We also talk about why guardianship planning can be especially important for LGBTQ+ families and modern family structures, and how you can separate “who raises your child” from “who manages finances” if that’s the best fit for your situation. In this episode, we cover: What guardianship planning actually is A common myth: “The court will just know what to do” How to choose a guardian based on values, stability, and emotional capacity Why naming backup guardians matters Guardianship planning considerations for LGBTQ+ families Separating physical care from financial management When to review and update your guardianship plan Gentle next step If this episode sparked questions, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Learn more about our planning process at www.gasperplan.com.

    8 min
  4. The Documents That Matter BEFORE You Die: Planning for Incapacity

    JAN 21

    The Documents That Matter BEFORE You Die: Planning for Incapacity

    Estate planning isn’t just about what happens after you’re gone—it’s also about protecting yourself while you’re alive. In this episode of POMpod—The Peace of Mind Podcast, Travis from Gasper Law breaks down the essential documents that matter before you die—especially if you’re temporarily or permanently unable to make decisions for yourself. We cover what incapacity really means under Texas law, why spouses don’t automatically have decision-making authority, and the four core documents every adult should have in place to avoid confusion, court involvement, and unnecessary stress for loved ones. This is a calm, practical conversation designed to help you understand your options—without fear or overwhelm. What You’ll Learn What “incapacity” actually means—and why it’s often temporaryWhy your spouse or partner may not be able to make decisions for you without legal documentsThe difference between a Medical Power of Attorney and a HIPAA AuthorizationHow an Advance Directive (Living Will) helps guide care during serious illnessWhy a Financial Power of Attorney is critical—even for married couplesHow these documents work together to protect your dignity and your loved onesWho This Episode Is For Adults 18+—single, partnered, married, or unmarriedLGBTQ+ individuals and families relying on chosen familyParents and non-parents alikeAnyone who wants clarity and control during medical or financial emergenciesNext Steps If this episode raised questions for you, you’re not behind—you’re just human. You can: 👉 Learn more at ⁠www.gasperplan.com⁠Listen to more episodes of POMpod—The Peace of Mind PodcastShare this episode with someone you trustBook a Peace of Mind Planning Session with Gasper Law when you’re ready

    8 min
  5. Estate Planning for LGBTQ+ Families in Texas: What You Need to Know

    JAN 12

    Estate Planning for LGBTQ+ Families in Texas: What You Need to Know

    Estate planning looks different for LGBTQ+ families—especially in Texas. While marriage equality has expanded legal protections, many default laws still rely on assumptions about family, biology, and decision-making that don’t reflect how LGBTQ+ families actually live and love. In this episode of POMpod: The Peace of Mind Podcast, Travis breaks down why estate planning requires extra intentionality for LGBTQ+ individuals and families in Texas, where gaps still exist, and how thoughtful planning creates clarity, protection, and peace of mind. This conversation is educational, affirming, and practical—focused on replacing uncertainty with clear instructions that honor your relationships and values. In this episode, we cover: Why estate planning for LGBTQ+ families is different in TexasThe risks of relying on default legal rulesHow biology and legal parentage affect decision-makingProtecting non-biological parents and co-parentsMedical decision-making and the role of chosen familyWhy powers of attorney matter—even for married couplesHow estate planning can be an act of affirmationWhat documents most LGBTQ+ families should considerKey takeaway: Estate planning isn’t about fear—it’s about clarity. It ensures the law follows your definition of family, not outdated assumptions. Next steps: 🎧 Listen to more episodes of POMpod for clear, human conversations about estate planning📅 Book a Peace of Mind Planning Session (POMPS) to talk through what protection looks like for your family in Texas🌐 Learn more at ⁠www.gasperplan.com⁠

    7 min
  6. Why Every Texas Adult Needs an Estate Plan (Even If You Think You Don’t)

    JAN 5

    Why Every Texas Adult Needs an Estate Plan (Even If You Think You Don’t)

    Estate planning isn’t just for retirees or wealthy families—and it’s not only about what happens when you die. In this episode of POMpod—The Peace of Mind Podcast, Travis from Gasper Law breaks down why every Texas adult needs an estate plan, even if you think you’re too young, don’t have enough assets, or assume your spouse can handle everything automatically. You’ll learn: The three biggest estate planning myths that leave families unprotected Why emergencies and incapacity—not age—are the real reason to plan What Texas law does and doesn’t assume about spouses and decision-making How estate planning protects people, relationships, and chosen family—not just money This episode is a calm, practical starting point for anyone who’s been putting off estate planning or feeling overwhelmed by it. 🎧 Listen now to get clarity—and peace of mind. 👉 Learn more or book a Peace of Mind Planning Session at www.gasperplan.com

    11 min
  7. Episode 31: Estate Planning Wins & Lessons from 2025

    12/28/2025

    Episode 31: Estate Planning Wins & Lessons from 2025

    As the year comes to a close, many of us reflect on what worked, what didn’t, and what we want to do differently moving forward. Estate planning rarely makes that list—but it should. In this episode of POMpod, we’re taking a behind-the-scenes look at real estate planning wins and lessons from 2025. From moments where the right documents made all the difference, to situations that became harder than they needed to be, this episode explores what planning actually looks like when life happens. This isn’t about fear or worst-case scenarios—it’s about clarity, care, and protecting the people you love. If you’ve been meaning to “get to it someday,” this episode is a gentle reminder that peace of mind starts with one decision. 🎧 Listen in—and consider this your invitation to start the new year with clarity and confidence.

    8 min
  8. Episode 30: Naughty or Nice: 5 Estate Planning Myths to Leave Off Your Wish List

    12/15/2025

    Episode 30: Naughty or Nice: 5 Estate Planning Myths to Leave Off Your Wish List

    Naughty or Nice: 5 Estate Planning Myths to Leave Off Your Wish List In this holiday myth-busting episode, Texas estate planning attorney Travis Gasper breaks down the five most common estate planning myths—why they’re tempting, why they’re dangerous, and what the “nice” fix looks like. If you’ve been telling yourself you’re too young, you don’t have enough assets, or “your family will figure it out”—this episode will help you trade wishful thinking for real peace of mind. 💡 Key Takeaways Estate planning isn’t just about death—it’s about incapacity and authority. Love is not legal authority—put your plan in writing. A will doesn’t automatically avoid probate. Templates can create false confidence if they’re wrong or executed incorrectly. One small step now can prevent major chaos later. ✨ About the Show POMpod: The Peace of Mind Podcast Hosted by Travis Gasper, estate planning attorney and founder of Gasper Law in Texas, where inclusivity meets clarity. Each episode unpacks the real-life stories, tools, and conversations that help you protect your people—and your peace of mind.

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The Peace of Mind Podcast takes the confusion out of estate planning for everyone—LGBTQ+ individuals, blended families, and anyone who wants to protect what matters most. Travis Gasper, attorney and founder of Gasper Law in Texas, answers your real-life questions, busts myths, and offers practical tips in a clear, inclusive, and supportive way. Get empowered to plan your legacy, safeguard your loved ones, and find peace of mind for the future—one episode at a time.

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  • Creator
    Travis Gasper, Gasper Law in Texas
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
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    Clean
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    © Travis Gasper, Gasper Law in Texas
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