Men Get Cheated On Too!

Adam Nisenson
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  • MENTAL HEALTH

Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

  1. 2D AGO

    Ep. 45: The Impact of Betrayal on Your Career

    Most men don’t realize how deeply betrayal can affect their professional lives. You try to stay focused, show up, and keep producing, but the emotional chaos doesn’t clock out just because you’ve walked into the office. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the hidden impact betrayal has on your career, identity, and ability to function in high-pressure environments. Adam breaks down how trauma bleeds into your work ethic, drive, and even your confidence. He explains why betrayed men often struggle with attention, short fuses, or emotional numbing at work, and how the pressure to keep performing can become its own burden. Whether you’re in a leadership role, working with clients, or trying to manage coworkers, the truth is your betrayal doesn’t stay at home, it follows you. Inside this episode: ·       Why betrayal trauma interrupts focus, memory, and motivation ·       How shame shows up in professional settings ·       What happens when you lose your confidence or drive ·       Why men hide their pain at work and how it isolates them ·       How to protect your career without pretending everything’s fine This episode gives you practical strategies to regulate before meetings, reclaim your sense of pride in what you do, and stop letting betrayal chip away at your professional self. You’ve worked too hard to lose yourself here. For more support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  2. APR 27

    Ep. 44: When You Can’t Stop Playing Detective

    After betrayal, your brain goes into overdrive trying to solve the puzzle. You dig through texts, check emails, replay timelines, and feel like if you can just find one more clue, it’ll all finally make sense. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the betrayed men who can’t stop searching for the truth and feel trapped by their own need to know more. This isn’t about obsession, it’s about trauma. Adam explains why the detective phase is common, why it’s not your fault, and how it can start to backfire when it becomes a full-time job. He talks about the difference between healthy truth-seeking and harmful compulsions and why chasing every detail won’t heal the wound your partner caused. Inside this episode: ·       Why digging for answers is a trauma response, not weakness ·       How detective-mode creates temporary control, but long-term exhaustion ·       The line between needing clarity and feeding compulsion ·       What to do when the search becomes self-betrayal ·       Tools to help you stop chasing their story and start writing your own If you’ve ever felt ashamed of your need to investigate or like you’re losing yourself in the process, this episode will give you the language, insight, and steps to shift back into your own power. For more support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    15 min

  3. APR 20

    Ep. 43: Formal Disclosure vs. Rolling Disclosure

    After partner betrayal, you want the truth, but how that truth is delivered can make or break your healing. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, explains the critical difference between a formal disclosure and a rolling disclosure. He breaks down why the way your partner shares the truth matters as much as the truth itself, and how ongoing trickle truth can retraumatize you over and over again. “When the truth keeps changing, safety stays out of reach.” This episode digs deep into the emotional cost of piecemeal confessions and surprise revelations. Adam helps you understand why a structured, therapist-guided disclosure process gives you the dignity and clarity you deserve, instead of letting your healing be held hostage by avoidance, shame, or delay. If you've ever felt like you're constantly chasing the next piece of the story, this episode will validate that exhaustion and show you what a real path to truth can look like. Inside this episode: ·       What formal disclosure really means and why it's so important ·       How rolling disclosure becomes its own form of manipulation ·       Why betrayed men often get stuck in limbo waiting for answers ·       What trauma-informed truth-telling should look like ·       How to protect your healing and stop the emotional whiplash You deserve the full truth in one place, not a story that keeps changing. This episode gives you the framework to ask for what you need and stop settling for half-answers that reopen the wound. For more support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  4. APR 13

    Ep. 42: When You Feel Betrayed by More Than Just Your Partner

    Partner betrayal can shatter you, but what breaks you even more is when the people you expected to show up, don't. Friends, family, your work. When they minimize what happened, dismiss your pain, or quietly pull away, it adds a second layer of betrayal that hits differently. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, walks you through what happens when betrayal isn't limited to your partner. It's the silence, the avoidance, the unsolicited advice, and the people who never ask how you're doing because they don't want to deal with the answer. “It’s not just the cheating that breaks you. It’s how alone you feel afterward.” This episode takes a deep look at betrayal after betrayal. Adam explains how men often lose their sense of safety, not just in the relationship but in the people around them. He breaks down what secondary betrayal looks like, why it cuts so deep, and how it reopens wounds that were already raw. If you've felt abandoned, judged, or unsupported after sharing what happened, you're not imagining it. You're not overreacting. You're experiencing a trauma response to emotional abandonment. Inside this episode: ·       What secondary betrayal is and why it’s so common for men ·       How others' discomfort becomes your isolation ·       Why even your closest people might get it wrong ·       What to do when trust breaks in multiple places ·       How to rebuild support when the old circle isn't safe You didn’t cause this betrayal, and you’re not responsible for other people’s inability to show up. This episode helps you separate your pain from their discomfort, reclaim your voice, and start building a support system that actually supports you. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore more at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    11 min

  5. APR 6

    Ep. 41: When You’re Not Ready to Tell Anyone Yet

    There’s a moment after betrayal when the pain is real, but the words won’t come. You’re still trying to process what just happened, and the idea of saying it out loud feels like too much. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the man who hasn’t told a soul. Not a friend. Not family. Not even his therapist. The silence is loud, but it feels safer than the avalanche that might come with saying it out loud. “Not talking about it doesn’t make it go away. But you get to move at your own pace.” This episode is about the space between the betrayal and the decision to open up. Adam breaks down why many men stay quiet at first, how shock and shame distort the instinct to speak, and why waiting to share doesn’t make you weak. He offers real-world insight into how to hold your truth until you’re ready, how to avoid retraumatizing yourself with premature disclosure, and what to look for in a safe person when the time comes to speak. Inside this episode: ·       Why staying silent in the beginning is common and not a failure ·       How to sit with your truth without turning it into a secret ·       What to do when you feel like you’ll fall apart if you say the words ·       Why the wrong person’s reaction can do more harm than good ·       How to know when you’re ready and who is safe to tell You don’t owe anyone your story before you’re ready. This episode gives you permission to move at your own pace while still staying grounded in your reality. You don’t have to carry this forever in silence, but you don’t have to rush either. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore more at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  6. MAR 30

    Ep. 40: You’re Not Alone

    Betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it isolates you. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man sitting in silence, pretending everything’s fine, while his world has quietly fallen apart. If you’ve ever felt like no one gets it, like you’re the only man going through this, this episode is for you. Adam breaks the lie that men should suffer quietly or figure it out alone. He explains how silence fuels shame, how isolation feeds the pain, and why connection, even with one honest voice, is where healing begins. This episode is about brotherhood, about being seen, and about choosing honesty over image. Inside this episode: ·       Why betrayal makes you feel alone, even when you're surrounded by people ·       How shame convinces you to stay silent, and why that keeps you stuck ·       The truth behind the lone wolf myth and why real men need support ·       What connection really looks like for men in pain ·       How to take the first step out of isolation, even when it feels impossible This episode reminds you that strength isn’t about hiding. It’s about choosing to speak, choosing to reach, and choosing not to go through this alone. You are not the only man facing this. You are not broken. You still matter. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  7. MAR 23

    Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You

    Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’s being told that the betrayal was somehow his fault. You were distant. You worked too much. You weren’t emotionally available. Now you're not only holding the pain of infidelity, but you’re also carrying guilt that was never yours to begin with. “Their betrayal revealed who they were in that moment, not who you are.” Adam breaks down how blame-shifting works, why it’s a defense mechanism, and how it twists your sense of reality. This episode gives betrayed men a clear framework to recognize gaslighting, reclaim their truth, and stop internalizing the shame that was never theirs to carry. Inside this episode: ·       What it means when your partner blames you for their betrayal ·       Why blame is often a cover for their shame and denial ·       How to respond without becoming defensive or reactive ·       What it looks like to hold your ground and protect your truth ·       When to disengage and stop trying to get them to see what they refuse to own This episode is a reset for any man stuck in a cycle of blame, doubt, and emotional confusion. You don’t need their confession to validate your pain. You need your truth, your clarity, and a commitment to stop carrying what isn’t yours. “You can’t rewrite their script, but you can reclaim your own voice.” For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore more at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  8. MAR 16

    Ep. 38: The Lie of Closure

    Most men who’ve been betrayed find themselves chasing closure, thinking one last conversation or final answer will help them move on. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why closure is one of the most seductive and damaging myths in betrayal recovery, and how it keeps men emotionally tethered to someone who may never give them what they truly need. “Closure is not something they give you. It’s something you give yourself when you stop looking to them to fix what they broke.” Adam explores the truth behind the closure fantasy: ·       Why most betrayed men hope for validation, justice, or explanation from the betrayer ·       How the chase for closure becomes emotional quicksand ·       The difference between ego injury and real emotional threat ·       Why final conversations and “just one more question” often make the pain worse ·       What real, self-created closure looks like This episode helps you stop handing your peace over to someone who already hurt you and start reclaiming your own ending, on your own terms. If you’ve been waiting on their words to heal your pain, this episode will help you stop waiting and start healing. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore more at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min
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Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

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  • Creator
    Adam Nisenson
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    46
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Men Get Cheated On Too!
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