The Marriage Altar

Michael & Shana Williams
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  • CHRISTIANITY

Welcome to The Marriage Altar—a sacred space for married couples who are holding on to hope when everything feels broken. We are Michael & Shana Williams, and we know what it feels like to struggle with a broken marriage, secrets, lies and addictions. But, we also know that God can restore anything. This podcast is for those walking through the fire: infidelity, betrayal, addiction, and the deep wounds no one sees. But more than that, it’s for those who believe—or are daring to believe—that God can still breathe life into what looks dead. Each episode offers honest conversations, Biblical truth, and practical encouragement for couples who are fighting for healing, restoration, and redemption in their marriage. Whether you're standing in the wreckage or walking the long road toward repair, this space was created to remind you that you're not alone—and that with God, healing is possible. At The Marriage Altar, we lay down pride, pain, and shame—and invite God to rebuild what only He can restore. Learn more about us by visiting www.shanastrange.net or email Shana@ShanaStrange.net Christian marriage help for veterans • PTSD and marriage problems • Combat veteran marriage issues • Military PTSD and relationships • Faith-based healing for PTSD • Marriage counseling for veterans • Trauma recovery in Christian marriage • Veterans struggling with marriage • Biblical healing from PTSD • Military couples and marriage crisis

  1. Vision Casting As a Couple: Where Are We Actually Going?

    JAN 14

    Vision Casting As a Couple: Where Are We Actually Going?

    Many marriages don't break - they drift. Not because of conflict, but because there was never a shared direction. In this episode of The Marriage Altar, we talk about vision casting as a couple and why clarity matters in marriage. We explore how drifting creates distance, why misalignment often shows up as frustration or silence, and how intentionally choosing a shared vision can bring connection, peace and purpose.  We walk through the five areas every couple needs vision in - marriage, family, faith, finances, and legacy - and offer practical, gentle ways to start these conversations without pressure or conflict.  If you love your spouse but feel like you're just managing life instead of building something together, this episode invites you to pause and ask an important question: Where are we actually going - and are we going there together?  Go to ShanaWilliams.com for more information about the Marriage Altar and links to the Grace and Grit Mindset Podcast.  Chapters (00:00:15) - 2026(00:02:05) - "A Purposeful Life"(00:03:37) - How Clarity Creates Distance in a Marriage(00:07:05) - Marriage Arterial Reboot(00:10:16) - A Couple's Attempt To Get Together(00:13:25) - Should We Talk About Money With Our Spouse?(00:17:00) - Jesus on the Israel debate(00:17:17) - Wonders of the World(00:21:58) - Work Remotely Can Lead To Infidelity!(00:26:13) - Married Couple: If You Get a New Job, Do(00:27:19) - A Shared Vision(00:28:17) - Another cost of Not Having A Shared Vision(00:30:48) - 5 Areas Every Couple Needs a Vision For Their Marriage(00:32:24) - Domestic Discipline: The Right Kind of Love(00:35:21) - 5 Rules For Talking About Problems In Your Marriage(00:36:38) - Ways of Loving Your Wife(00:40:48) - Should You Ask Your Wife to Choose a Church?(00:43:07) - 4 Questions For Marriage: Financial Peace(00:45:51) - Family, Faith, Money(00:49:32) - Shay Lawson on Leaving a Spiritual Legacy For Her Kids(00:53:52) - Marriage Goals For The Next Year(00:57:00) - Wonders of the World

    1 hr
  2. You're Not Fighting About What You're Fighting About!

    12/15/2025

    You're Not Fighting About What You're Fighting About!

    Most arguments in marriage aren't really about the dishes, the budget, or the tone of voice. They're about something deeper. In this episode of the Marriage Altar Podcast, we unpack the truth behind recurring conflict and reveal what's actually happening beneath the surface of your arguments. If you find yourselves having the same fight on repeat, this conversation will help you slow down, identify the real issue, and begin responding from understanding instead of reaction.  We explore why surface disagreements are often symptoms of unmet emotional needs, how to recognize the hidden wounds driving conflict, and how couples can turn moments of tension into opportunities of connection and healing.  #christianmarriagepodcast #christiancounseling #christianlifestyle Chapters (00:00:15) - Good Morning, Vietnam(00:01:14) - How to Stop Fighting In Your Marriage(00:04:00) - When You're Having A Hard Time Financially, You Fight(00:08:24) - 3 Hidden Feuds In A Marriage(00:11:41) - Married Women Talk About Not Prioritizing Each Other(00:15:48) - Marriage Is About Emotional Safety(00:17:51) - How To Identify The Real Problem in a Marriage(00:21:39) - How To Get Back Together With Your Significant Other(00:24:48) - Brawlers: Between the Lines(00:25:44) - How to Heal an Argument With Your Partner(00:29:50) - Anointing the Accusations in Your Marriage(00:33:59) - The Real Truth About Marriage(00:36:04) - Marriage Covenant(00:38:36) - Talking About Relationships in the Army(00:40:36) - How to Get Back in the Marriage(00:44:55) - Closing Prayer for Marriage(00:45:34) - Happy Holidays!(00:46:14) - Bless y'all

    47 min
  3. The Top 3 Predictors of Infidelity and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them

    12/02/2025

    The Top 3 Predictors of Infidelity and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them

    In this episode, we break down the three most common predictors of infidelity-not to create fear, but to give couples wisdom, clarity and practical tools to protect their marriage before cracks start to form. Infidelity rarely begins with a dramatic moment; it almost always starts with the little foxes that go unnoticed. Join us as we break down these different areas and provide solutions to prevent infidelity in your marriage.  Chapters (00:00:15) - Winter Is Here(00:00:53) - The Top 3 Pre-Marital Predictions of Infidelity(00:02:20) - "Catching the Foxes That Ruin My Marriage"(00:05:27) - What Makes a Couple Infidelity?(00:08:09) - Married People Get Bored In Their Marriage(00:12:13) - How Anxiety Affects a Couple(00:13:51) - How to Protect Your Marriage(00:18:15) - "Men Have Emotional Needs"(00:22:29) - How To Win Your Wife's Love(00:23:54) - How to Talk About Old Arguments(00:27:23) - How To Deal With a Hurtful Spouse(00:30:52) - Marriage Counselor: Anticipating the Worst In Your Partner(00:34:22) - How to Prevent Infidelity in Your Marriage(00:38:10) - Setting Boundaries Outside Your Marriage(00:40:06) - 3 Predictable Paths to Infidelity(00:42:29) - Don't Open the Door To Social Media(00:46:08) - How To Prevent Infidelity In Your Marriage(00:50:55) - Predictions for Marriage Abuse(00:54:47) - A Marriage Reboot or Marriage Coaching?(00:57:50) - A Week in Review

    59 min
  4. Marriage Counseling or Coaching - Which One Do You Need?

    11/19/2025

    Marriage Counseling or Coaching - Which One Do You Need?

    Sometimes it's hard to know if you and your spouse can benefit more from marriage counseling vs. marriage coaching. It might be possible that you need both! And, what is the difference anyway? Join Michael & Shana as they chat about counseling / coaching and which one may better serve you and your spouse in the season you are in.  Please visit www.shanawilliams.com/the-marriage-altar for more information about Marriage Reboots or coaching that could potentially be a game changer for your marriage!  You can reach us at Shana@ShanaWilliams.com  Chapters (00:00:15) - Catch us the Little Foxes(00:03:56) - Couples counseling vs marriage coaching: Which is better?(00:08:51) - PTSD Counselor: Stay Away From Violent Memories(00:13:08) - Should Men Get Spiritual Counseling?(00:18:15) - Southern Voices on Toxic masculinity(00:19:05) - Bradley on Sexual Issues in the Church(00:22:44) - Marriage Counseling: The Stigma(00:26:13) - Marriage Reboot Experience(00:31:03) - Counseling for Addicts(00:35:02) - Janet on Coaching ptsd(00:39:12) - Marriage: One Play(00:41:35) - Married People Talk On Their Smartphones(00:44:23) - Reveal: The Marriage Reboot(00:46:53) - If You Need Marriage Coaching or Therapy(00:50:04) - Marriage Reboot: At the Altar(00:54:07) - All About It

    56 min
  5. One Year Later: The Most Important Lessons We've Learned

    10/27/2025

    One Year Later: The Most Important Lessons We've Learned

    What can God do in a year???? More than we can ask, think or imagine! In this episode we talk about what we have learned over the past year after infidelity and the suicide attempt that forever changed our world.  We also share about what God has done to restore us to better than new!  If you find yourself in a difficult marriage without hope, tune in with us as we share about the process God uses to restore individuals. There is no marriage that is too far gone for God to restore.  Email us at Shana@ShanaStrange.net #marriagerestoration #Godlymarriage #christianmarriagepodcast Chapters (00:00:15) - Catch us little foxes(00:00:30) - God Awakes!(00:01:35) - A Year Out: Truth about PTSD and Infidelity(00:06:48) - One Suicide Attempt Gets the Love He Deserves(00:09:34) - Married Couple on How They're Different Now(00:14:01) - Bradley on Controlling Demonic Influences(00:18:42) - God's Work in Relationships(00:22:36) - Wonders of the World: Forgiveness and Healing(00:27:50) - Personal Responsibility of the Betrayer(00:33:21) - How To Talk About An Affair in Your Marriage(00:36:46) - What is Your Purpose As A Married Couple?(00:37:56) - What Surprises You Most About The Healing Process(00:40:55) - Wonders of the World(00:45:22) - How to Get Out of Marriage Recession(00:50:51) - How to Love Your Wife Despite Differences(00:55:19) - How to Love a Unjustly Yoked Marriage(00:59:04) - A Year in the Life With God

    1h 4m
  6. Marriage & Money: Building Unity In Your Finances

    10/01/2025

    Marriage & Money: Building Unity In Your Finances

    Money doesn't just pay the bills- it reflects our values, priorities, and trust in each other. In this episode, we talk about how couples can manage money together in a way that builds unity instead of division. From aligning your financial vision to tackling practical budgeting as a team, you'll learn how to invite God into your finances and create peace in your home.    For more information about our marriage coaching, contact us at Shana@ShanaStrange.net   #managingmoneyinmarriage #christianmarriagepodcast #moneymatters #Biblicalprinciplesformoney   Chapters (00:00:15) - Back to the Marriage Ministries Podcast(00:03:10) - Money and marriage(00:04:10) - How to Stop Blaming Yourself Over Money in Your Marriage(00:09:01) - How to Get Out of Poverty(00:11:38) - How to Manage Money(00:16:31) - The Man's Role as the Provider(00:20:42) - How To Prioritize Your Relationships(00:22:34) - How to Manage Money in Your Marriage(00:26:28) - How to Budget for Your Family(00:27:12) - Tithing and Financial Security(00:31:06) - Secret Spending Is Not Financial Infidelity(00:34:49) - Married Couples Talk About Money(00:38:04) - Reasons We Didn't Go on a Cruise(00:41:43) - How to Prevent Friction in Your Marriage Over Money(00:45:53) - Separation of Money in the Marriage(00:49:59) - How to Support a Dual Parent Home During Hard Times(00:54:52) - Marriage Counselor on How to Grow Your Business(00:57:50) - God in Control of Your Marriage(01:00:27) - "She Should Love You More"

    1h 4m
  7. The Attack On Marriage and Family

    09/22/2025

    The Attack On Marriage and Family

    Satan's tactics haven't changed since the beginning; but the way they are packaged has changed. We dive into some controversial topics here like abortion, homosexuality, and the transgender movement because these are the top 3 ways that our nation and world are being indoctrinated to believe lies that destroy the very fabric of family.  Join us as we explore these topics and expose lies in our culture.  Contact us at Shana@Shanastrange.net   Chapters (00:00:15) - The Attack on the Family(00:06:05) - Three Ways That Satan Is Destroys the Family(00:09:07) - Rethinking the Return of the Gods(00:10:39) - Pro-life advocate compares abortion to satanic worship(00:13:18) - Unplanned Abortion: A Christian Movie(00:15:28) - Pro-Abortion Voices(00:18:53) - Pro-life and Homosexuality(00:22:42) - Louis Farrakhan on Gay Marriage(00:27:04) - Pro-gay issues in America(00:31:45) - God's Atoning For Sin(00:32:47) - Matthew 6:3-4 On Transgenderism(00:34:16) - Transgenderism and the Violence(00:37:45) - Progressive Christians on Gender Issues(00:41:15) - Christian Pro-Abortion, Homosexuality and Transgenderism(00:43:42) - Jesus on Gay Issues(00:47:57) - God's Love for Israel(00:51:43) - September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month(00:56:57) - Suicide in the Gay and Transgender Community(00:59:41) - A Healthy Body For Our Marriage

    1h 1m
  8. Dealing With Triggers In Your Marriage

    08/31/2025

    Dealing With Triggers In Your Marriage

    Trauma in a marriage relationship often leads to triggers- those unwanted thoughts, places, things, and people that cause us to relapse into the traumatic world we left behind. If you and your spouse are struggling with moving beyond the pain of the past, you will need to work through the triggers that plague you both.  In this episode, Michael and Shana share their conversational approach to dealing with triggers In healthy ways and learning how to move beyond the trap of living in the past.  You can contact us as Shana@ShanaStrange.net  Chapters (00:00:15) - Aunt Shanna and Michael Are Back!(00:01:52) - How To Have A Healthy Marriage!(00:04:18) - What To Do When You're Triggered In Your Marriage(00:07:11) - The Holy Spirit's Words for Divorcees(00:09:40) - When You Can't Help But Get Very, Very Hurt(00:13:18) - How to Deal With a Narcissist(00:18:35) - How To Deal With PTSD in a Relationship(00:22:49) - Combat Veteran on Emotional Trigger(00:26:19) - How to Get Through a Trauma(00:30:24) - President Obama on his Christian beliefs(00:31:19) - He Said He Still Loves Me(00:34:38) - Married With ptsd on a Cruise(00:39:32) - How the Lord answered my prayer(00:40:28) - How To Deal With Emotional Trigrams(00:41:58) - How to Talk About Your Love Problems(00:46:32) - How to Cope During an Emotional Breakdown(00:47:55) - How To Talk About Your Sexual Problems With Your Partner(00:51:23) - How To Get Out Of Alcohol Addiction(00:54:50) - Admitting To The Adulterer(00:59:07) - How to Talk About the Sexual Abuse(01:03:59) - How to Talk to Yourself About Past Trauma(01:05:57) - How to fix a broken marriage with God(01:10:36) - Prayers for My Cousin's Wife and His Sister(01:11:45) - Praying For Love & Marriage

    1h 14m
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About

Welcome to The Marriage Altar—a sacred space for married couples who are holding on to hope when everything feels broken. We are Michael & Shana Williams, and we know what it feels like to struggle with a broken marriage, secrets, lies and addictions. But, we also know that God can restore anything. This podcast is for those walking through the fire: infidelity, betrayal, addiction, and the deep wounds no one sees. But more than that, it’s for those who believe—or are daring to believe—that God can still breathe life into what looks dead. Each episode offers honest conversations, Biblical truth, and practical encouragement for couples who are fighting for healing, restoration, and redemption in their marriage. Whether you're standing in the wreckage or walking the long road toward repair, this space was created to remind you that you're not alone—and that with God, healing is possible. At The Marriage Altar, we lay down pride, pain, and shame—and invite God to rebuild what only He can restore. Learn more about us by visiting www.shanastrange.net or email Shana@ShanaStrange.net Christian marriage help for veterans • PTSD and marriage problems • Combat veteran marriage issues • Military PTSD and relationships • Faith-based healing for PTSD • Marriage counseling for veterans • Trauma recovery in Christian marriage • Veterans struggling with marriage • Biblical healing from PTSD • Military couples and marriage crisis

Information

  • Creator
    Michael & Shana Williams
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    The Marriage Altar