The ARMC

Kylie & Gina
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Two anxiety ridden Moms and professionals taking on life and work. We've come together to talk about it all and formed The Anxiety Ridden Moms Club or ARMC for short. Welcome to our show, we look forward at what's to come. Thank you for joining us every week for a new episode. 

  1. 2d ago

    How Alcohol Addiction Creeps In: Relapse, Recovery & the Other Side of Addiction

    Send us Fan Mail One drink can look harmless from the outside, then quietly turn into the thing someone needs just to get through the day. We’re joined by Tyler, who reached out after hearing our story because he’s lived “the other side” of it and he wanted to speak to the hurt, the shame, and the reality of addiction head-on. He walks us through how early partying shifted into alcoholism, how identity can get stuck on being the fun one, and how that pressure to keep the persona alive can feed the cycle.  We get specific about the moments that change everything: rock bottom, going to rehab, trying to come back to real life, and then relapsing when old places and old routines are still in reach. Tyler shares what sobriety actually requires for him, why he chose to be fully sober, and why “California sober” didn’t hold up when life got hard. We also talk about the awkward part no one prepares you for, turning down drinks at work events, family parties, and anywhere you just want to fit in.  This conversation is packed with practical recovery tools and resources: daily routines like prayer, readings, journaling, and meetings, plus strategies like having an exit plan and giving yourself permission to leave. Tyler also shares a powerful piece of sober-community knowledge many people don’t know exists, asking for a “Friend of Bill W” in places like airports and stadiums to find immediate Alcoholics Anonymous support. We close with why Al-Anon and boundaries can help partners and families stop enabling while still loving well, and why therapy can be a game-changer for long-term mental health.  If you know someone struggling, or you’re quietly struggling yourself, listen and share this with the person you keep thinking about. Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, and if the show helps, leave a review and tell us what part hit home for you. Support the show

  2. Sep 9

    When Love Meets Rock Bottom: The Good Days & The Hard Days Collide

    Send us Fan Mail Your best summer memory can sit right next to your worst week, and sometimes you’re carrying both at once. We start with the lighter stuff we actually needed: a whirlwind mother-daughter birthday trip, a beach getaway, and that weird, quiet sadness when school starts and the house suddenly feels empty. Those moments of joy don’t erase anxiety, but they do remind us we’re still here, still trying, still making memories even when life feels loud. Then we pivot into something heavier and more honest: an update on relapse, alcohol addiction, and the fear that comes with watching someone detox and spiral. We talk about what it’s like when “I’m worried” turns into “I thought I was going to lose him,” how job loss and shame can pour gasoline on the fire, and why “rock bottom” isn’t a catchy phrase when it’s happening in real time. If you’ve ever loved an alcoholic, supported someone in recovery, or lived with the constant vigilance of “what happens next,” this conversation will feel painfully familiar. We also wrestle with the question so many families argue about in private: is addiction a disease or a choice? We unpack the shame loop, the urge to numb pain, and the heartbreak of realizing you can’t fix it by being more patient, more loving, or more understanding. Sometimes the boundary isn’t about giving up, it’s about staying alive emotionally and protecting your home. If you’ve been in our shoes, or you’re on the other side of addiction and living clean and sober, we want to hear from you and even have you on the show. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more moms find this space. Support the show

  3. Sep 2

    Loving Someone With Addiction: When Love Isn't Enough

    Send us Fan Mail I didn’t sit down planning to make a big announcement, but life had other plans. After what felt like the kind of summer you want to bottle up forever, I woke up to a reality I can’t keep hiding: addiction is in my relationship, and a relapse has taken over my home. I share what it’s like to love someone sober and still feel terrified of who shows up when alcohol does, especially while trying to parent through anxiety, exhaustion, and overstimulation.  We get real about the thoughts you’re afraid to say out loud: Am I not enough? Am I abandoning my best friend? Why does choosing myself feel selfish? We talk about how relapse can flip your nervous system into constant vigilance, how mistrust can turn you into someone you don’t recognize, and why “waiting for the next relapse” isn’t a life. Gina brings steady support as we unpack boundaries, self-worth, and the hard truth that sobriety has to be chosen by the person struggling, not earned by the person loving them.  We also name the loneliness of change, the quiet house that makes your mind louder, and the need for community support instead of white-knuckling it alone. Al-Anon comes up as a practical resource for partners and families affected by drinking, plus we share a quick update on Gina’s new blended family book, More Than A Blended Family, now on Amazon.  If you’ve ever loved an addict, lived through alcohol relapse, or tried to protect your kids while managing motherhood anxiety, press play and stay with us. Subscribe, share this with a mom who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find this kind of honest support. Support the show

  4. Jun 29

    Meet One of My Favorite Humans & Get Her Honest Take On Toy Story 5

    Send us Fan Mail Toy Story 5 looks like a kids’ movie, then an 11-year-old sits down and explains why it’s actually a parenting mirror. With Gina out sick, I bring on my daughter Nora for her unfiltered take on the story, the characters, and the parts that hit a little too close to home for families trying to raise kids in a screen-saturated world. She rates the movie, calls out what felt predictable, and still names the thing it did right: it made her want to play again.  From there, we get real about the themes parents can’t ignore. We talk screen time limits, how cyberbullying can hide behind a “normal” device, and why kids often see warning signs long before adults do. Nora points out how easy it is for grown-ups to think everything is fine until it isn’t, and we dig into what “pay attention” can look like in everyday life without turning your home into a surveillance state.  Then we shift to safety and independence, including a Live360 moment that every anxious parent will recognize: “We’re going outside to play” turns into “Why are you a mile and a half away on a dangerous road?” We also talk tween friendships, gossip, being judged, and the quiet hurt of being left out. We wrap with rapid-fire questions, laughs, and a clear ask from Nora herself. Subscribe, share this with a mom who needs it, and leave us a review so we can keep making the show better. Support the show

  5. Jun 24

    The Mom 'This Or That' That Turned Into Therapy

    Send us Fan Mail Some episodes are therapy. Some are a deep breath. This one is a deep breath with opinions, confessions, and the kind of laughter that only makes sense if you’ve ever felt like an anxious, overstimulated mom trying to survive a normal Tuesday. We play a Mom This Or That game, but it quickly turns into the real stuff behind our preferences: why energy drinks can be a disaster for anxiety, why sleep feels like a negotiated settlement, and why grocery pickup can be the only thing standing between a plan and a cart full of “how did this happen.” We also get into the endless battle of dishes versus laundry, the magic and chaos of “closing the kitchen,” and how routines and boundaries can lower the mental load without turning you into a rigid robot. Then we pivot into parenting reality, from baby and toddler sweetness to teen attitude that can make even the calmest mom feel unhinged. We talk friendships and communication, the texting versus phone call divide, and what connection looks like when you’re tired and touched out. And because we can’t help ourselves, we end with would-you-rather questions and a rapid-fire lightning round that reveals way too much about how we live. If you need something relatable, funny, and grounding, hit play. Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, share this with a mom friend who gets it, and leave a review with your biggest “this or that” pick: grocery pickup or shopping in store? Support the show

  6. Jun 17

    Kylie's Random Thoughts & Gina's Rapid-Fire Answers

    Send us Fan Mail Your brain ever fire off a question so random you almost embarrass yourself in your own head? We get it. We’re kicking off season four of Anxiety Ridden Moms Club by letting the anxious mom inner monologue take the mic and turning it into a rapid-fire, laugh-out-loud reality check. The vibe is messy, honest, and weirdly comforting, because sometimes the fastest way back to yourself is admitting what’s actually going on upstairs.  We bounce from the silly to the serious in the exact way anxiety does: Do flies go to heaven? What’s your biggest ick? If your life had a smell, what would it be? Then we veer into modern overstimulation, like what an FBI agent would think of your search history, why ChatGPT feels like a best friend, and how hard it can be to find real adult friendship when you barely leave the house. If you’re an overstimulated mom carrying the mental load, you’ll recognize yourself in every turn.  And because anxiety doesn’t stop at jokes, we also talk about mortality fears, a terrifying emergency landing memory, and why “fast and painless” is basically the only acceptable answer. We end with would you rather games, relatable parenting irritations, laundry-as-adulting confessionals, and a story about accidentally inviting Meta AI on a date night. If you need a break from perfection and a dose of real mom mental health talk, press play, then subscribe, share with a mom friend, and leave a review so more anxious moms can find us. Support the show

  7. Jun 10

    A Viral Trisomy 21 Termination And The Internet’s Reaction

    Send us Fan Mail A family influencer posts their most personal news yet: they chose to terminate a pregnancy after learning their baby had Trisomy 21, also known as Down syndrome. Within hours, the story turns into a full-blown internet firestorm with grief, outrage, disability advocacy, faith-based arguments, and truly unacceptable harassment all colliding in one comment section. We slow the noise down and talk like real moms trying to make sense of what we’re seeing and why it feels so heavy. We get into the part people skip: how prenatal testing and genetic screening can create panic, confusion, and decision pressure, especially when accuracy, follow-up testing, and false positives are still part of the conversation. We also unpack why words matter, including the difference between miscarriage and termination language, and why a “we’re excited to try again” statement can land as dismissive to families who cherish their children with Down syndrome. Then we tackle the bigger cultural question: what happens when influencers film the anatomy scan, read results on camera, and turn a medical crisis into content. We can condemn death threats and still ask for dignity, care, and basic responsibility when discussing disability in public. If you’ve ever felt anxious, overstimulated, or torn between empathy and anger online, this one will sit with you. Subscribe for more honest motherhood conversations, share this with a friend who can handle nuance, and leave a review if the show helps you feel less alone. Where do you think the line is between private grief and public content? Support the show

  8. Jun 3

    98 MPH And A Murder Charge: The Crash That Shocked Everyone

    Send us Fan Mail A car rockets into a brick building at nearly 98 miles per hour, two young men die, and the only survivor becomes the center of a debate that won’t quit: accident, reckless impulse, or intentional murder? We talk through Netflix’s The Crash with full spoiler energy, because the details matter here. The black box data, the missing brake tap, the shifting into neutral and back into drive, the relationship history, and the way the story is edited all push you to form an opinion, then second-guess it five minutes later.  We also compare what Netflix shows versus what we learned by watching Hulu’s Mean Girl Murders and Killer Cases. That extra context raises big questions about intent, planning, and prior threats, but it also highlights a truth about true crime documentaries: the cut you watch can shape the “truth” you think you’re seeing. Along the way, we get into the messy parts people argue about online, including parenting choices, drug use, the POTS claim, and why the legal defense left us stunned.  Then we pivot to Hulu’s The Nightmare Upstairs: What Happened to Ty and Bryn, a custody nightmare where allegations, therapy influence, and social media attention collide. It’s heartbreaking, infuriating, and weirdly familiar in a world where TikTok can pour gasoline on family conflict. We’re not here to sensationalize pain; we’re here to process it like real moms with real anxiety, trying to make sense of how quickly life can go off the rails.  If you’ve watched either story, tell us where you land: psychiatric treatment or prison, and why? Subscribe, share this with a friend who loves a good deep dive, and leave a review so more overwhelmed moms can find us. Support the show

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Two anxiety ridden Moms and professionals taking on life and work. We've come together to talk about it all and formed The Anxiety Ridden Moms Club or ARMC for short. Welcome to our show, we look forward at what's to come. Thank you for joining us every week for a new episode. 

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  • Creator
    Kylie & Gina
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    59
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The ARMC
  • Show Website
    The ARMC

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